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Yes Rex Parker Solves the NYT Crossword is a nice blog and it does give the answers the same day. so if there are one or two letters which you would like to check, you can. If you just need a hint, you can ask someone else to look at the finished puzzle and then ask them for a clue. That is a way to move further into the week. I almost always finish the puzzle, but sometimes it is not until days later. I leave the unfinished ones in the BR and take a look at them when I go in.

I have been doing NYT Crosswords for years. I only have a weekend subscription to the paper so I only do the Friday Saturday Sunday puzzles and if I run across a paper, I will do another day. While in Palm Springs, I did a Monday puzzle and though I found it easy, it was still fun. Gar1eth, keep plugging away and if you need a hint, I suggest putting the puzzle down and coming back to it a few hours later. It is amazing what a fresh set of eyes does to the puzzle.

The length of the vacation, the extent of my budget and the number of tempting escorts alters that number. A long weekend may include a long encounter if there is a long list of long dicked men for whom I long,

I understand that even when your brain is dead, you can still be president of the United States.

Let me be the first to Thank Oliver for planning for next year. i am sure that planning began before the last devil egg was eaten and the last sausage swallowed. Oliver, I thank you again for this year and thank you in anticipation of next year. Epigonos, this is the first time I got to sample a deviled egg as every other year they were gone before I arrived. They were delicious, I thank you but the people on flight 415 to Newark curse your name.

Once again, we cannot offer enough thanks to Oliver for offering his hospitality and good food and excellent little niches for scratching itches. He is truly a force of nature and one of the horniest men around.

I did put in a tentative reservation at Canyon Club. For me, my catchphrase for this particular weekend is "it is easy to be Sleazy" and for me nothing says Easy Sleazy On Your Kneezies than Canyon Club. So for me, I forget about the accommodations and go for those who will accommodate. I do not know if any of the other hotels can match Canyon Club in that category.

Arriana Grande and Weezer are not U2 and Springsteen, for me anyway.

Just got home and I made temporary reservation for next year just to be sure to have a place. If you have the credit card room, book now as long as the cancellation policy is liberal

I screwed up my travel plans and so had to buy two tickets, one for tomorrow and of course the one I bought which I thought was for tomorrow but actually turned out to be for today. Found that out about 1/2 hour after the plane was in the air and I was not. My cousin, my dog sitter had a mild cerebrovascular event leaving him hospitalized but fully recovered and me without a dog sitter. One of my dogs, the new one, ran away and after a 45 minute chase, when I got him to a kennel he took a nip at the handler and ripped her sweatshirt. So now they are charging me extra for a "problem dog". So when I arrive, I expect at least one of you fuckers to buy me a drink, that is all I am saying.

So Ace is at the place with helpful hardon man

Todd, I know this may be shocking to hear, but many men do not sleep in their own room on this weekend. Bunking up with someone is usually pretty easy. If you need a room to store your stuff, I have a room. I do have a guest planned for Saturday night so that night will be unavailable. If you do not mind a mattress on the floor, Friday night and Thursday night there is a spot there. I know it sounds like a college sleep over, but any port in a storm.

It really depends on what you consider fun. Dinner with like minded men, some of whom are amazingly hot and some of whom are amazingly not and yet everyone seems to interact with everyone. Pool party with deviled eggs, barbecue and some hot sausage. Getting to meet men with whom you have much in common and who, by and large, are successful, well adjusted, fun loving and gregarious. Getting to meet men for whom you might want to break the bank or at least break off a fast one. The men are fun. If you do not have fun you are trying not to have fun. Sorry I could not help you out with the spare room.

I guess Stewart was able to cut short the argument but in the end, he had to give a tip of the head to his wife.

Planes land in Palm Springs every day. Get on one. I know life sometimes interferes with out desires. It is up to us to minimize that.

I did watch the finale as I enjoy Matt Bomer in anything and especially in nothing. It was interesting as a lead in to next year with Jack married and will proposing to Mr. Bomer. It is not nearly as ground breaking as it once was and in fact at time it plays like a gay minstrel show with all the negative connotations of that. Still, there are throwaway laughs and interesting slapstick variations.

You are correct that I should have done that initially, fortunately Oliver has given a thumbs up to the posting, though I will double up with that.

Victor I know you will make the right decision for your friend, no matter how difficult. My sympathies go out to you in having to make this decision.

I have been a member of this forum for about 13 years and have had hours of enjoyment and aggravation as a result. I hate to think that this place in space may cease to exist. I have not been asked to do so but at the dinner at Trio, I will be asking for donations to help this site keep going. Some people may be hesitant to donate to Daddy fearing a loss of confidentiality. I know many people here have contributed to Daddy directly and there is a link to do so should you want to do that. I am hoping that the feeling of conviviality and the rush of a few drinks will get some of the stickier wallets unstuck and also allow the most circumspect among us to donate in a way that is untraceable. . So if you wish to make a non traceable donation to Daddy, bring some extra cash and hand it over. I will forward it to Daddy. For those who think this is tacky, I hate your shoes.

When I was younger I felt like a criminal but my body was only wanted in one state The State of Undress.

I have gotten stopped in 7 states and I have gotten tickets in 7 states, all of them original colonies in the NE. I have been stopped numerous other times and gotten off with a warning. I do a lot of travelling at 1 to 5 AM and with little traffic and bored cops, tickets are an eventuality. Have not gotten one in several years however.

Since you asked Victor Powers, I assume you are not really familiar with the concept, So, having lived that life, I feel exceedingly capable of explaining thjs to you. Thank you for recognizing that this may be an area in which I might have some expertise. It is a blessing and curse. Having a fit and attractive body usually is associated with good health and a sense of well being mentally. As a result, many people are attracted to those aspects of your being. However, soon enough, if that is all there is to you, no depth, no gravitas, no humor, no humanity, you will find yourself alone or with people who just care about the superficial you. It is the difference between love and lust. It is the difference between fucking and making love. It is the difference between a cherished lover and a post coital sweaty piece of meat that people are anxiously trying to get out of their bed and to the street. . So it is a big deal. Most men are horny as fuck and there are times when all they want is to get their rocks off and so having a body that can pretty much guarantee a good hard sweaty fuck is a blessing and you are the one wanting to exit the sheets and the scene, smilingly fucked out. The negative aspect, comes when trying to judge why someone you care for is with you. It is not knowing whether you are just wanted for your body. Similarly being exceedingly rich tends to put in your mind that perhaps it is the money and not you to whom you partner is attracted. Poor and ugly men do not have this particular problem set. Also a negative, looks fade and so Victor, if you are in doubt about your attractiveness other than your mortal flesh, I suggest you work on your personality, your kindness and your humor. And, perhaps your sexual techniques and imagination.

I know where my mouth is without looking and the same with my face. After a shave, a rub over the face lets me know whether or not there is any residual stubble. Not to compare myself to others without a choice, but blind people manage to shave and brush their teeth and comb their hair. It is all a matter of how you learn to do things,

I have not intentionally looked in the mirror in 40 years. There are lot more interesting things to see looking into the real world instead of a reflected world. When I do catch a brief glimpse of myself in a reflecting surface, I am always surprised,

I though you already had it all...and to return to the nineties for a moment...and a bag of chips.