
Eric91
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Eric91 got a reaction from bichiguy in Mirko - Chicago
Yes, this was a few weeks ago, and I was also draped entire time.
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Eric91 got a reaction from bichiguy in Mirko - Chicago
There were no sensual/erotic elements in my session with him. But his therapeutic massage is excellent with great pressure at a reasonable price.
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Eric91 got a reaction from + m_writer in 411 FurryMuscles in Chicago
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Eric91 got a reaction from Penn7 in 411 AlexBiXL - Traveling (Currently Detroit)
I had a good time with him and would repeat.
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Eric91 reacted to Simon Suraci in Giving BJ
Whether we providers genuinely enjoy the experience is irrelevant. The question is: did YOU enjoy the experience?
If so, pay the guy and see him often. He’s providing a high level of value to you. Reciprocate that value to him.
A client hired me for an overnight recently. Given, this was not for massage although he does like some massage time, but that’s beside the point. We have a good long time rapports going and it works because we both understand the transactional nature of the relationship, respect the boundaries, and yet have a great time together anyway. It’s possible to be genuine and still provide a professional service.
For example, while he was fucking me, he hit just the right spot and we stayed in that position for a while me riding him, and it gave me a non-ejaculatory orgasm lasting for a solid few minutes. I didn’t hold back at all. My voice, breath, expression, and demeanor matched the intensity of my feelings. It was amazing! I usually am the one fucking him for most or all of the session, and it was refreshing to switch roles for a bit. I wasn’t acting at all while I enjoyed myself in that moment. He told me later that it’s important to him that I am genuinely enjoying myself too and that he appreciated me sharing moments like that with him. For some clients, an important element of value we provide is to actually enjoy the experience, which in turn gratifies the client.
You can’t buy that on a hookup app.
Acting is part of the job. Once in a while, I truly have to ‘act’ and I don’t like it, but I do it. I can’t genuinely be in ecstasy at every moment with every client. That’s unrealistic. I may not even enjoy the experience at all, but who’s to say? Fortunately I have very few clients where that is 100% true. I like to play up the moments I am enjoying and play down the moments I don’t enjoy as much. That way, it’s more an augmentation of reality rather than a false reality. With most clients I find something about them and/or what we are doing together that I like and I focus on that. It’s often multiple things. In that way, it’s not acting as much as it is focusing. It takes an experienced savvy provider to walk this line well.
A while ago a client gave me one of the best blowjobs. Top 10, easy. And you don’t want to know how many BJs I’ve had from how many different men over my life. It would make us both blush. It’s difficult to find men who give truly excellent head. Plenty of so-so, decently proficient, and lots of really bad head out there. So when I come across a rare encounter with a truly skilled man, I relish the experience. I thought to myself in the moment, “I should be paying him!” And then I snapped out of it and remembered that everything about the experience is on his terms, for his benefit. We meet when he wants, do the things he likes, the way he wants, for as long as he wants, and I am not dictating any of it for my own pleasure. I’m doing everything for his ultimate gratification. My reward is monetary. Any pleasure I get out of it is incidental.
So whether your provider enjoys the session or not - and whether you CARE if he enjoys the session or not - he is giving you what you want. Passive or active, he is delivering value to you on your terms. And at the end of the day, if he genuinely likes it, wouldn’t this be a nice bonus for you both? And if he’s acting, wouldn’t you rather not know? Pay your professional providers. Tip them. Hire them frequently.
And please ….clients…. stop overthinking his level of enjoyment or lack thereof. Focus on YOURS!
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Eric91 got a reaction from bichiguy in Albie in Chicago
I have had a massage by him. His technique is excellent - you can tell he is professionally trained. The massage table and draping is very similar to what you get at a hotel spa or high end spa. He checked in with me several times during the massage and was able to adjust the pressure perfectly to my liking. All in all, it was a superb therapeutic massage.
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Eric91 reacted to Simon Suraci in Making Money On The Road
@TAMPAMUSCLEDAD I’m a masseur (and escort) based in San Diego. I travel to other US cities about 1/3 of the year, over the course of a few trips lasting 3-6 weeks each, sometimes a week or a few days for nearby cities in the southwest and west coast.
You’re a masseur only. That means you need to travel with a table. No self respecting masseur will offer bed-only massages. It makes for a poor client experience and it’s tough on your body, not to mention it screams unprofessionalism.
So, that means air travel is out. Any standard table will not fit the dimension limitations for checking a bag, and if the airline will take it, it’s pricey to check. Nevermind any other equipment or supplies such as a towel warmer or large quantities of oil, or all the linens you need. Oh and by the way your regular travel bag with clothes, toiletries and essentials.
Then there’s ground transportation. Rideshares, shuttles, and taxis are expensive. Public transportation is incredibly inconvenient, slow, and unpleasant in most places (if available at all).
Frankly, to do the traveling masseur correctly and profitably, air travel is simply impractical. You have to drive. Having a car saves you time, money, gives you space, convenience, flexibility, and reliability. Shop for groceries using your car whenever you need them rather than paying a premium to eat out. Spend money on cheap gas in many parts of the country. For me, almost anywhere is less expensive than my home city in CA. Airfare is not only more expensive, it takes loads of time getting to/from the airport, security, and buffer time, lines, waiting, and not to mention air traffic delays. At that point, you would have already made it to your destination just driving.
Select your travel cities wisely. Determine these on several factors like overall metro area population, amount of relative competition / market saturation, demand for your skills and looks, geography, distance from your home city and/or distance from other cities on your circuit, time of year, special events, holidays, etc. and last but not least, existing client base in those cities.
There is always some risk in visiting a new city. Even cities you’ve done well in before can be less profitable if you visit at the wrong time. For Austin, that’s roughly June-August but March-May is great. For Buffalo, the bad times are roughly October-April. Every city is different and it takes some trial and error. Canvassing cannot predict what you will make. It only frustrates clients and those who book ahead cancel and change plans last minute anyway. You can’t avoid the need to take educated, calculated risks. Boots on the ground, accommodations costs paid. Miles driven. There is no other way.
Space your city dates to give yourself enough time to make decent money, but not too much time to run out of work. Clients lose interest if you’re there for too long. When you’re slow, spend less time in that city or skip it next time. I find a week is a good sweet spot; it gives clients a variety of day/time options to fit with their availability. Give yourself a full day between cities for driving. It’s not uncommon to drive for 4-8 hrs between cities. I shoot for around 6 hours assuming a 9am checkout and a 3pm check in, disregarding any time zone changes. Don’t take clients on your travel day. You need the rest. It gives you an opportunity to get groceries after you arrive, and a good couple of hours to set up, unrushed. Then unwind and get to be early for a good night of sleep. Any traffic delays or road closures will not matter because you’re not trying to rush into town to make an unrealistic 4:00pm client appointment on your first night. Don’t do that to yourself or your clients. Take the rest so you will be ready to start fresh the next morning, no stress, no rushing, no overpromising, or under delivering.
Advertise travel prior to your arrival, but not too soon. A month is too much, in my experience. You spend way too much time fielding inquiries for times that you are not advertising for (because clients don’t read the ad or travel dates). Or they see you around for weeks and take you for granted or get bored and move on to the next new face. Or overthink booking you and never book. Or they can’t plan that far ahead. Or their plans change and they more frequently need to cancel or change their appointment with you. So many reasons why too much notice is a bad thing.
Advertising only a day ahead is too little. Few people will see and respond to your ad that quickly. By that point you don’t have your first couple days booked up yet and you don’t want to waste precious work time (for which you’re spending a lot of overhead) sitting around waiting for clients to text. 1-2 weeks is the sweet spot IMHO. It’s enough time for your clients to see you before you arrive and waffle about reaching out, and they have enough notice to plan around their lives. Then there are the people who will not reach out until after you are in town, no matter how open or flexible their schedules are. They are jaded by canvassing masseurs flaking on them because the masseur decided not to make the trip. Also some clients have good old fashioned poor planning skills, impulsivity, or only find a time pop up short notice that he couldn’t have planned for if he wanted to based on his family or jobs or whatever. This is why you have to actually GO to a city, not just attempt to gauge interest from afar.
Accommodations are tricky. You need to have the right combination of convenient location, [perceived] safe location, free/convenient parking, and level of quality to attract the clients you’re going for. Motel 6 on the outskirts of town won’t cut it. Neither will the Ritz in the center of downtown. That’s why I rent short term units, usually houses, sometimes other types. I can find the right balance of cost, convenience, and quality that way. Also: private dedicated laundry! Which you need if you’re soiling six clients worth of linens per day. Find what works for you. If it’s too expensive, skip that area or that city. Let the economics of the thing drive your decisions. At the end of the day, you need to make money. If you’re spending a dollar to make only a dollar back, that’s free labor you’re offering.
You’re right. Overhead is high. It’s difficult to make a profit traveling. I make a profit by doing high volume, often 5-6 clients a day. I escort too, so that boosts my income and makes it more realistic. I might do 0-2 escort appointments per day, and 4-6 massages a day. That’s a LOT of work, typically spanning over 13-16 hrs a day. You can’t make this model work taking only a couple massage clients per day. Volume is where it’s at. Select the right cities, the right times, the right accommodations, and your clients will line up to see you. Trial and error. See what sticks.
Do your research. Ask around. Book. Then hit the road!
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Eric91 got a reaction from Saabster in 411 AlexBiXL - Traveling (Currently Detroit)
I had a good time with him and would repeat.
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Eric91 got a reaction from lbnkhi in 411 on Thiago (HAIRY_Carioca) in Las Vegas
I've met with him and highly recommend and would repeat. He has a nice personality and looks just like his pictures. He gives a great massage as well. PM for details.
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Eric91 got a reaction from Mydavid in Douche problem
I feel like elevating your legs help relax that area and the water comes out easier. Try putting some foot stools in front of the toilet and placing your feet on those.
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Eric91 got a reaction from CloudJay in 411 on Thiago (HAIRY_Carioca) in Las Vegas
I've met with him and highly recommend and would repeat. He has a nice personality and looks just like his pictures. He gives a great massage as well. PM for details.
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Eric91 reacted to Xavitv in What does HE (happy ending) really entail when hiring a Masseur?
I guess you can pass a bj as oral lingam then
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Eric91 reacted to deegeebos in KenAsianHot in SF
I just saw him and let me tell you, if those photos are fake, they’re certainly extremely close. I’d say the photos show someone more thick (or thicc) and he is more like 5’5” than the advertised 5’7”, but he is amazingly ripped with a prominent chest. I’ve never been with someone so sculpted (and I’ve gone to body builders on RM) and with his perfectly smooth tan body he’s like a bronze god statue come to life. He’s incredibly nice (English is limited) and gives a pretty good massage. Not as hard/deep pressure as I hoped but he is small and I’m a big guy. Some good extras, goes the full hour, and allows use of shower.
PS Surprisingly thick downstairs and apparently a natural top…
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Eric91 reacted to JSchorr in KenAsianHot in SF
I had a massage from Ken last week. He has a small but dedicated massage room in his apartment. The area is a bit sketchy but that's nothing against him, it's the state of things in San Francisco these days. He is very attractive, cute, smooth body and well endowed. The massage is on the lighter side but felt great and is thorough. With me he started out in shorts and at some point I heard them hit the floor. Very sensual using his hands and body. When he was standing next to the table working on my thighs I reached out and stroked his very firm butt then lightly took hold of his penis....it was quite a handful and erect. He responded positively. I told him I didn't care about an HE this time but as the end was approaching he was so sweet and eager to please I let him go ahead and it was very satisfying. He allowed the use of his shower afterwards which I declined so in lieu he wiped me down with warm towels. Very nice touch. Sweet guy. I'll definitely return.
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Eric91 reacted to ChubbleButt in Has anyone been with LatinhairyD in Dallas?
I have a couple times---I strongly recommend
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Eric91 reacted to kevininsa in Has anyone been with LatinhairyD in Dallas?
I've met him twice. Highly recommend!
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Eric91 reacted to mlee789 in 2 new hotties with no reviews -- NYC..
I met Adam today. Although on the pricey side, I still had a great time and would recommend. Very passionate and a total beauty!
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Eric91 reacted to shadowcatzxxx in 2 new hotties with no reviews -- NYC..
I met Adam & Nicolati yesterday. Both are stunningly handsome and hot ... better than their pics if that's even possible. They are both from Medellin ... based in Miami during their stay. Hired them from rentmen, but started with a brief massage, which was pretty good. When the action started, it was over the top. (Or, rather, I was under the top.) I hope to see them again soon. PM for more details if you like.
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Eric91 got a reaction from rapscallion in 411 on Thiago (HAIRY_Carioca) in Las Vegas
I've met with him and highly recommend and would repeat. He has a nice personality and looks just like his pictures. He gives a great massage as well. PM for details.
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Eric91 got a reaction from Ricammale in 411 on Thiago (HAIRY_Carioca) in Las Vegas
I've met with him and highly recommend and would repeat. He has a nice personality and looks just like his pictures. He gives a great massage as well. PM for details.
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Eric91 reacted to bichiguy in 411 on Yefri in Chicago
Anyone have info. Wonder if there was a name change, info in ad is minimal, and when they don't list therapeutic as well massage is usually crappy BUT DAMN but those pics!
https://rentmasseur.com/Yefri