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We just celebrated our 2-year anniversary. He tells me he loves me every day, and I believe him!

More hot pics on social. Reverse image search of the straight on face shot with the bare chest bring you to his Facebook and then links to his IG with 127k followers. New York based interior designer. 

I agree. The worst outcome to me is an overpriced crappy massage that doesn't actually have any therapeutic value and some half-assed handjob. I don't want to pay $200 for being jerked off basically. 

This is what I (and I think most clients) would anticipate based on the following Rentmasseur levels of massage:
Therapeutic: A great, therapeutic massage to relax the muscles probably with a clothed masseur, maybe in his underwear. If I got a hand job, great but I would not expect it.
Sensual: A great, therapeutic massage to relax the muscles done likely nude or in skimpy underwear. Almost for sure a hand job to climax, perhaps some mutual touching (his body and probably his dick), oral unlikely but possible.
Erotic: A great, therapeutic massage to relax the muscles almost for sure done nude. Definitely a hand job to climax, almost for sure some mutual touching (his dick/body) , probably including oral (maybe receptive and giving), probably not fucking or anything else, but possible, more likely for an "upcharge" to escort services.

To me, "happy ending" means at a minimum the massage therapist will provide a hand job.
But even with just that…there are hand jobs, and then there are HAND JOBS!
It’s extremely variable. I’ve had everything from full on "fuck me daddy’ passionate fucking to the masseur not touching me above my knees or below by waist the entire time. I don’t ask too many questions ahead of time. For me part of the fun is not really knowing how far things will or won’t go. But yeah, a hand job is the minimum. HAND JOB preferred. Crazy wild sex is great but far from expected. Less than a hand job? I chalk it up to experience and list the providers last name as "Loser" in my phone, so I do t make the same mistake again. 
I’m not really into servicing a guys cock that he just shoves into my face. It’s a turn off. But that’s me. 

I sometimes felt like I personally controlled the price of gas with whatever I happened to be driving.  I’d drive a pickup truck with a big V-8 that sucked gas and the price would go over $4/gallon or I’d buy an economy car that got 35+mpg and the price would drop to $0.99/gallon.

Could you come to Australia and buy the most fuel-efficient car you can, please?

My husband and I recently traveled to Bangkok and met with AlexDem while there.  He is among the best we have ever hired. He seems to love everything about sex and is fully vers.  His muscles are just incredible, as you would expect from someone who recently won a bodybuilding competition in Thailand.  He is incredibly good looking (if you're into dirty-blond muscle guys, and we definitely are) with a killer smile, and he has great stamina.  Alex responded to all of my messages quickly, he showed up to our hotel promptly (actually arrived early because he left plenty of time to get through Bangkok's notorious traffic, but waited patiently in the lobby until we were ready for him.  I don't know how this man has not yet become a favourite on this forum. He is Ukrainian, and his English is a little bit rocky, but with such a great positive attitude and such a jaw-dropping body and associated assets, it's very easy to deal with slight linguistic misunderstandings.  Also, he is a great kisser.  He is 42 years old, which in his case means he has learned a lot along the way and is happy to share those skills.
Highly, highly recommend AlexDem to anyone traveling through Bangkok (he actually is based in a beach town about 2 hours outside of Bangkok).  
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Won’t you be surprised to find that there are a significant number or men from Africa available in Thailand and some men travel specifically for that variety of companionship.  

Bangkok is full of escorts of all nationalities:  Asians, Europeans, Latin Americans, North Americans, Africans.  It's a smorgasbord!  Alex is indeed Ukrainian and tells me he has been living there for over 3 years. 

Especially Ukrainians and Russians fleeing the war. Vietnam also has a huge Russian/Ukrainian population at the moment. 

I was living a heterosexual lifestyle at the time. The prospect of AIDS terrified me, so I suppressed my emerging gay urges. I also worked for a company that pioneered in-home IV therapies, so I spent a lot of time around infectious disease docs, so I was well informed about the crisis. One of my clients succumbed to it in his early 30s. Even today, I generally prefer role play scenarios without penetration. I’m an odd duck with an apparently amazing immune system, for which I’m deeply grateful. For example, I’ve never had Covid, or at least a symptomatic case.

He who laughs last laughs best.

I could never imagine negotiating price with a provider. That’s embarrassing. If the price isn’t to your liking move on. 

As a client I have regulars I see aged from 25-33.  They have all told me they prefer older clients.  Reasons they have told me is more reliable, know what they want and more sexual experience.  
As an older client I have found the younger providers I see really appreciate an intimate experience more than I would have thought versus just a quick lay.  I tend to favor the younger age range and have been blessed to find several amazing guys who I thoroughly enjoy.

https://rent.men/AngeloZaen
Any info/thoughts on this hottie 🔥

Even those who proclaim “safe only” have been known to go bare with little prompting, a little birdie told me.

He who laughs last laughs best.

He who laughs last laughs best.

He who laughs last laughs best.

Yup. The "influencer" provider I had a bad session with needed more money and contacted me a year later to make "amends." After he walked out halfway through the session, where he spent the first half on Instagram and calling friends.
As much as I wanted to say "Like hell," I politely pretended I was someone else.

Previously https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/150606-411-on-xstud-nyc/

I wouldn’t consider three times a year to be sexually active either and I should have clarified in my post that I was referring to unprotected sex; that’s on me. That said, you might be a good candidate for on-demand or event-driven PrEP, especially if you bottom, since condoms can fail and you’ll end up with a full load inside you. Don’t ask me how I know. In any case, it’s best to have an open and honest conversation with your doctor and then decide what level of risk you’re comfortable with, keeping in mind that the only completely risk-free option is abstinence.

Luck, condoms, and probably natural resistance.
I came of age in the late 70s, and I was a busy little slut.  Baths, bookstores, bushes, back rooms, they all saw me several times a week. When what would become AIDS came on the scene in the early 80s, one of the first insights was that condoms helped prevent spread. As a top, I became consistently condom compliant, I simply did not fuck without a condom (and I did a LOT of fucking). I never used condoms for oral as recommended by some (who did?), and I am an avid cocksucker.
In the darkest days of the 80s, the mindset was "we're all gonna die, so why worry." I wasn't first tested for HIV until 1996, I just ASSUMED I had to have it, but at least using condoms helped prevent ME from giving it to someone else. Despite my activities, the only experience I had with STDs were Hep-B in college and a few mild cases of what was then called non-gonococcal urethritis (probably chlamydia), and intestinal parasites (my busy little tongue got around), both of which were easily treated. My PCP has commented that I must have a really healthy immune system, even at an advanced age I rarely get even a head cold, so I believe that natural protection came into play for me, too.
Now I take the little blue pill every day, not so much because my current sex life demands it, but because I CAN. What a different world we gay men would live in today if that pill had existed in 1982. I do it for fallen comrades (weird as that may sound).