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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from msclwrsper in Tijuana Strip Clubs   
    Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from + azdr0710 in 411 on PlayBoyTapess in Los Angeles   
    I just realized it's a different link and name but he's still advertising: 
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from wallnut in Tijuana Strip Clubs   
    Bendito Cabron used to be men only but now it opens up on women because they have drag events but the clientele is still primarily 90% men.
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Tijuana Strip Clubs   
    Yes and it was extremely lame. I went to the first one and skipped the second because I just knew it wouldn't be worth it. The cover is $40 for US Citizens and the club got packed from wall to wall. It was impossible to get a drink or even walk around. The dancer to client ratio was 1:25 which made it extremely difficult to get a lap dance not to mention all of the seats and booths were either reserved in advance or in use so you had to settle for a "standing" lap dance. I went to one of the last Club Papis at Club Extasis back in 2018 and they were way better. I would just stick to their normal men-only nights, it's the same thing but less crowded and more fun.
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from wallnut in Tijuana Strip Clubs   
    Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from + tassojunior in Tijuana Strip Clubs   
    Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.
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    shadeheffashade reacted to delzyn03 in Tijuana Strip Clubs   
    Thanks for the heads up!
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from delzyn03 in Tijuana Strip Clubs   
    Yes and it was extremely lame. I went to the first one and skipped the second because I just knew it wouldn't be worth it. The cover is $40 for US Citizens and the club got packed from wall to wall. It was impossible to get a drink or even walk around. The dancer to client ratio was 1:25 which made it extremely difficult to get a lap dance not to mention all of the seats and booths were either reserved in advance or in use so you had to settle for a "standing" lap dance. I went to one of the last Club Papis at Club Extasis back in 2018 and they were way better. I would just stick to their normal men-only nights, it's the same thing but less crowded and more fun.
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Tijuana Strip Clubs   
    Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Tijuana Strip Clubs   
    Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from Luv2play in Adonis Lounge LA   
    Then I probably won't go. I mean, what's the point? Especially because some of the guys on that list are as you said "not-so-hot." I'd rather just hire an escort or two seems cheaper and more efficient tbh.
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    shadeheffashade reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in NYC Strip Clubs With Action   
    If there is one... Please DON'T share it.  As it will likely soon after lose its license and cease operation.
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    shadeheffashade reacted to NYXboy in Giving Christmas gift to providers   
    Maybe they say 'happy holidays' because they don't know if you are jewish, christian, muslim, atheist - and they just want to be kind and encompassing of everyone.  Your theory is weak- if you don't like people saying happy holidays XXX just say that! 
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    shadeheffashade reacted to Ali Gator in The Crown - Season 6   
    I watched the first four episodes and wonder if I watched the same four episodes as everyone else ? I  had a very different take from this...
     
    Dedicating all four episodes to the last few weeks of Diana's life being chased by paparazzi was excessive and unnecessary. The 'Ghost Diana' scenes were ghoulish - and if Morgan really felt he had to stoop to these hammy 'dead  conversations' - Ghost Diana never mentions her two sons ? Worse than 'Ghost Diana' was 'Ghost Dodi' talking to his daddy (and the demonizing of 'daddy' was really a bit too much).  More could have been said in two episodes, rather than stretch it over four. Of all four,  Episode 3 was a snoozefest - completely dull and lifeless. 
     
    Aside from the intro of 'The Royal Website', there is no indication of a rapidly changing world engulfing them: not a single mention of British politics, of crises, of Hong Kong soon being returned to China. Queen Elizabeth 2 is not portrayed as the head of state of (especially in the late 1990s) a world super-power, but sadly is reduced to ice-cold Granny. Not a mention of Princes  Andrew and Edward ? Just a glimpse or two of Anne ? And when did the once-fascinating, opinionated  Margaret become such a church-mouse ? 
     
    This series used to be interesting. It used to be about QE2, politics, a country in turmoil, etc. Now it's become little more than a daytime drama.  All the actors felt like 'extras' in the first four seasons (though Dominic West was the only strong character (kudos to the actor who was given so little to work with in these four episodes).  
     
    Rufus Kampa - the 17 year old actor playing teen William - comes across more as a stone-cold serial killer. Let's hope Eddie McVey, who will be portraying him as a young adult, does a better job. McVey is quite the sexy guy.
     
    Start the 'eyeroll' emoticons, on 3, 2, 1...
     
     
     
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    shadeheffashade reacted to SouthOfTheBorder in The Crown - Season 6   
    It’s hard to say “mental illness” vs some other mild disorders affecting many people who lead normal lives with few problems.  In her case, it was anything but a normal existence.  So maybe relatively mild disorders were magnified by being in her situation.  There’s no doubt she was manipulated by almost everyone around her for their own agendas.  When the entire establishment was actively plotting against her, hacking her phones, spying on her personal life and trying to portray her as unstable/erratic/mentally unwell - then that has to have an effect at some point.  Did she learn how to play the game & retaliate ? - absolutely yes. 

    All you need to know about the circumstances around her death was that Camilla could never be Queen if Diana was still alive. Never, ever.  Draw your own conclusions about what happened next.  

    Is it a conspiracy theory to think she may have been intentionally murdered to eliminate her permanently as a threat to the Crown ?  Yes, because there’s no proof it happened.  Did the establishment remove Harry & Meghan’s security when they were most vulnerable and they knew there were credible threats on their lives ?  Yes, they absolutely did that and it’s never been in dispute.  They are capable of anything to preserve their position, privilege and the Crown - permanent elimination of enemies of the Crown has always been an option for them.  Naive to think it can’t happen in modern times. 
    The ghosts in this season aren’t necessary and detracts for the rest of it. 
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    shadeheffashade reacted to timj in Adonis Lounge LA   
    He actually stopped me and asked if I wanted a lap dance. I was actually trying to get another guy but I saw this tall handsome dude and said “Sure, but just one song.” Maybe six minutes passed and the song hadn’t changed and I was honestly bored so I piped up and said “Are we done with our song?” He immediately took a pointedly scolding and aggressive tone, stood up and said “Dude, that was four songs.” Objectively, it had not been. I was literally waiting for it to end so I could go find the dancer I had been looking for. He demanded I Cash-app him for the full four songs and got loud in that back area and was making a scene— right off the bat. I had the choice to fight back or just pony up and avoid this incredibly confrontational prick. So I ponied up. When I emailed Matt about it later he apologized and said some of the NYC guys do this and he’d talk to him, but I haven’t been to one of these events since then. It really soured the night for me.
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from + BlueSky in Tijuana Clubs?   
    They usually have a live sex show between some of the dancers or they have pornstars perform. The guys are also less inhibited because there aren't women around and after some time(usually around midnight) they turn down the lights and the guys will walk around the crowd with just a small piece of fabric around their waist with their erect penises and you can do *stuff* to them in front of people. 
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from HoseMaster in 411 on PlayBoyTapess in Los Angeles   
    I just realized it's a different link and name but he's still advertising: 
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    shadeheffashade got a reaction from Marc in Calif in 411 on PlayBoyTapess in Los Angeles   
    Any recent updates? Thinking about hiring him...has anything changed lol.
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    shadeheffashade reacted to blck37 in Mailing a letter to a providers residence   
    Oh yes thats why celeb or pop stars hire private securities.....my friend let me be very blunt you need therapy. This isnt some teen rom com movie/ novel. Wouldnt be funny if you end up with restraining order.
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    shadeheffashade reacted to RamPoundAss in Mailing a letter to a providers residence   
    There is a technical reason. It’s called he’s blocked yo ass. 
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    shadeheffashade reacted to Yukon21 in Mailing a letter to a providers residence   
    Bad idea.  Let it go.  There are many other providers out there. There are no technical issues.  Youve tried text and email.  No response is actually his response.   Move on. 
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    shadeheffashade reacted to Anthony in Mailing a letter to a providers residence   
    I am insane for him! The provider is meeting with other folks though. How would I know if there's a technical issue going on where he can't receive my emails and text messages? I wasn't going to ask him in the letter to hire him but just introduce myself and leave my contact info for further follow up 
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    shadeheffashade reacted to natmas02 in Mailing a letter to a providers residence   
    This is absolutely insane lol no, don't send letters to people asking to hire them for escorting. Leave strangers alone if they are not communicating with you. 
  25. Surprised
    shadeheffashade reacted to Anthony in Mailing a letter to a providers residence   
    There's a provider I'm interested in that doesn't respond to any emails or text messages or phone calls. I have the providers address and the only other way of communication is snail mail. Is it invasive to mail a letter to a provider? Should I mail the letter via USPS or drop it off at their mailbox myself? I'm highly considering it since I'm really interested in the guy and can't get in touch with him any of way. 
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