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I think it’s always good to start out the conversation with a “Hello”  and then tell the provider you’re interested in meeting, but have a few questions. As a provider I don’t think anyone should have a problem answering the questions you want to know. Just make sure you communicate and let them know exactly so it can be clear both ways.

If you’re paying for the time, you should stay for that time. Any provider that’s trying to rush you out the door, obviously shouldn’t be hired again. 

I'm noticing a trend. There's an eagerness to get to the end by many providers. It's most noticeable when the provider has a fair amount of reviews. Once there's a "release of tension", a shower is recommended. After the shower, the provider is wearing clothes to go out and expects me to leave. I usually comply but feel bad that we can't sit and chat for a bit. Maybe some more intimacy even. I can be quick to have my tension released. Sometimes 10 min or less and I feel like I'm not getting my fair time.
Is it just me? Is there something I should communicate or ask about before meeting? Or do providers typically want an hour session to take the minimal amount of time possible. #lookingforBFE #findingoutimaquickie

I would suggest you prolong the foreplay with you in control of how fast things go. Even if it takes ten minutes, perhaps letting you partner know that afterwards you would like to shower together and that would extend the session and perhaps get you more of the intimacy you are looking forward to having.  
 

I have run into this a few times as well.  Other times, I've had escorts that went well beyond the allotted time.  I just take the good with the bad, but I tip, review and rehire the great.  Reward that which you want repeated.

Since the escorts always claim that you are only paying for their "time," it really should be up to you how you spend that time. I think Jamie21 is correct that you should communicate ahead of the event that you like to relax a bit with him after you have "released your tension."

In all these years, I’ve been fortunate that I’ve never experienced that. A few times, I’ve been the one to suggest that it’s time to go.

If you book any you should get an hour. I don’t curtail the session unless the client is satisfied and happy to end it. Sounds like you’re seeing the type of provider who just wants a quick buck. Tell him what you want, release after 10 minutes then a longer slower session or a long build up, or cuddling afterwards. It’s up to you to ask and make sure they’re delivering but a good provider will be able to understand this after a brief chat with you. 

Start with “Hello I’m interested in booking and have some questions I’d like to ask” and take it from there. If they’re not willing to answer questions or point you to where they have pics / more info then are they the type of provider you’d be happy to hire anyway? Any decent guy will be happy to answer these type of questions. It’s when the discussion becomes salacious that I become reluctant to engage further because those types of client rarely follow through and book. 
 

Jamie's a 100% right.  15 years ago, you would have sent an email with all those questions, and the majority of "good" escorts would have answered each one.  Today, with text and messenger, anything more than something very simple, won't get a response. 
Additionally, very often, if you're not asking for right now or at least that day, you won't get much, if any, response.  It's the way communication goes now.  
So, go with Jamie's suggestion.

I'm noticing a trend. There's an eagerness to get to the end by many providers. It's most noticeable when the provider has a fair amount of reviews. Once there's a "release of tension", a shower is recommended. After the shower, the provider is wearing clothes to go out and expects me to leave. I usually comply but feel bad that we can't sit and chat for a bit. Maybe some more intimacy even. I can be quick to have my tension released. Sometimes 10 min or less and I feel like I'm not getting my fair time.
Is it just me? Is there something I should communicate or ask about before meeting? Or do providers typically want an hour session to take the minimal amount of time possible. #lookingforBFE #findingoutimaquickie

I'm noticing a trend. There's an eagerness to get to the end by many providers. It's most noticeable when the provider has a fair amount of reviews. Once there's a "release of tension", a shower is recommended. After the shower, the provider is wearing clothes to go out and expects me to leave. I usually comply but feel bad that we can't sit and chat for a bit. Maybe some more intimacy even. I can be quick to have my tension released. Sometimes 10 min or less and I feel like I'm not getting my fair time.
Is it just me? Is there something I should communicate or ask about before meeting? Or do providers typically want an hour session to take the minimal amount of time possible. #lookingforBFE #findingoutimaquickie

talk.men
 

talk.men
 

talk.men
 

Mind blown!  I'm in the Philly area and recently saw them both listed but assumed it was one guy with two profiles.  I'd chatted with Furry_Wolf before but never got a chance to meet up.  Looking at the reviews of both guys it is clear that exceptional service runs in the family!  

I have met @italianboyph a few times, 2 or 3 times, I think.  I can only say nice things about him.  He looks like his pictures and offers a very nice service.

Please forgive me for any rudeness. @italianboyph it's never my intention to offend you.

Yes it is. 

We’re related but I will say one of the things that we both cannot stand, is people acting weird and the constant sexual questions about us. At the end of the day were brothers, it’s the same as if anyone had a sibling, you don’t have sex with them correct ? I understand the whole twin fantasy, but that’s not happening in this department. They’re just boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed, and respected. 
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... Is it rude to ask them if they'd be into it? Assuming they're strangers or not. Kissing cousins?

@italianboyph can you confirm when you're around next? Do you two ever play together?

@italianboyph can you confirm when you're around next? Do you two ever play together?

https://rentmen.eu/LatinXLboy

I found one of them (the first guy, Furry_wolf, I think, who’s based in Atlanta, GA) on the Scruff app in the central NJ area this week.  Per the link to his Instagram page, he has a twin brother (apparently identical), who’s based in Ft Lauderdale, FL.  So, the mystery may have been solved. Fascinating that it looks like they’re gay twin brothers who are both sex workers.