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I can understand that some people don't have the option of doing an hour or two with someone before a trip, but it can help in terms of figuring out if you're compatible. You may have to make a non-glamorous destination interesting to them. Having time off while you do whatever may have some attraction, but you'll need to pay for the time and provide some reason why it's good for him esp. if you don't want him to see clients---interests help and how you match them. Will you be saying at a hotel with a good gym? Is there some attraction worth exploring nearby?
Some guys just aren't a good fit and the range of interests someone has may vary depending on the destination and what you knew about it. I have done time with someone (long gone from the biz) in a non-glam place (Cleveland--I needed to be there for family and business reasons) but I knew numerous places of potential interest to this particular provider.
 

he's very clear about what he wants. The fin-dom thing makes me think he's absorbed something that's very common in Atlanta---being a grifter looking for suckers. The grifters often are suckers themselves, but that shouldn't distract us from the grift. he probably thinks he's being "honest" about wanting to screw with people and come out ahead, but it's just a grift and there's no reason to treat it as anything else.

And ATL has a long and deserved reputation for being "land of the grifters".

Saw him several years ago when he lived in the DC area. Had a good time. He's an Interesting guy--into the arts. At that time, he was planning to join a commune in Maine. He occasionally turns up in DC and has been based in a couple different Maine locations. Not your typical provider.

Saw him several years ago when he lived in the DC area. Had a good time. He's an Interesting guy--into the arts. At that time, he was planning to join a commune in Maine. He occasionally turns up in DC and has been based in a couple different Maine locations. Not your typical provider.

Repeated changes in appt. time, esp. if it’s more than an hour.

Was curious about him last year, so looked at his Onlyfans. He seemed pretty unengaged in his videos, so I assumed he wouldn’t be much better in person. The good thing about OF, et al. Is that a modest investment can keep you from making a potentially expensive mistake.

Was curious about him last year, so looked at his Onlyfans. He seemed pretty unengaged in his videos, so I assumed he wouldn’t be much better in person. The good thing about OF, et al. Is that a modest investment can keep you from making a potentially expensive mistake.

Nate_sf---Thanks for letting us know. I am local so it is not an inconvenience for me. I've enjoyed past events, but it makes perfect sense.
 

When I'm interested in hiring someone, I look to see if they have social media, OF, etc. Nate is clearly into some very specific kinks that have no interest for me. If he's being explicit about who he wants, he's probably trying to screen out people who can't spend 15 minutes on line researching what he's about.

When I'm interested in hiring someone, I look to see if they have social media, OF, etc. Nate is clearly into some very specific kinks that have no interest for me. If he's being explicit about who he wants, he's probably trying to screen out people who can't spend 15 minutes on line researching what he's about.

OP, You're noticing this now? The number of ads plummeted a year and half ago. They've gradually come back, but they went down a bit during the Delta outbreak and they've declined a bit recently. This is a slow time of year in most places and travel usually decreases by mid-December. This also is not a time of year when new guys appear.
 
 

Nate Stetson https://rentmen.eu/natestetsonx

Saw him earlier this year. It may have been a matter of chemistry, but it seemed a bit perfunctory.

Repeated changes in appt. time, esp. if it’s more than an hour.

Repeated changes in appt. time, esp. if it’s more than an hour.

MV was a frequent visitor to DC although I met up with him only once. He was fond of the chain of small hotels owned by the Doyle family (the Dupont is one) Never met anyone who was so ready to go (in a good way) from the get-go. He was a vegetarian and Let him know about the Adams Morgan farmers market.

MV was a frequent visitor to DC although I met up with him only once. He was fond of the chain of small hotels owned by the Doyle family (the Dupont is one) Never met anyone who was so ready to go (in a good way) from the get-go. He was a vegetarian and Let him know about the Adams Morgan farmers market.

I am looking for recommendations on currently active guys, preferably those who travel (although NY-DC corridor would be ok), who have one or more oral talents. Not expecting a tongue bath, but a tongue buffet would be ok, or talents in specific areas: kissing, oral sex, nipple play, rimming, or surprise me with something unusual.

I am looking for recommendations on currently active guys, preferably those who travel (although NY-DC corridor would be ok), who have one or more oral talents. Not expecting a tongue bath, but a tongue buffet would be ok, or talents in specific areas: kissing, oral sex, nipple play, rimming, or surprise me with something unusual.

Four days is a little long. Let us know how things unfold. If there’s a non-ghosted way forward. Maybe it will generate some new interest in him.
Also, are you seeing him in DC and B’more. He seems to be going back and forth. 

You might like Natestetsonx: https://rentmen.eu/natestetsonx

You might like Natestetsonx: https://rentmen.eu/natestetsonx

He looks familiar, as in he's been around before probably under other names.

Back on task, what is up with JJ's hair. It's always lacquered into some 'do that looks like a cheap wig. Too distracting to consider him at any price.