DavidShaw

Just had a great massage with Adem. Highly recommend!

Zhuang Zhuang from Inner Mongolia, 27 years old, He has tall and  strong  body  medium build and comes across as honest and sincere. He works five days a week and has been in the massage profession for over two years. He has excellent equipment that responds instantly to touch and specializes in deep tissue massage. He knows how to help both the body and soul through massage.

If you've had desert or wilderness training, you will be well prepared for your search here.

Agree. I have gotten quite a bit of extras at a spa and tipping $100 was very warmly received. However $40 for the HE seems more reasonable imo. 

I think I came across these folks once upon a time. Maybe was dissuaded by the price. It's an option… I will have to check them out. 
 
thanks! 

That sounds very much like my experience when I go to the male spas in New York City

I’m looking for a good massage in DC. Love mutual release at the end, anyone know a younger masseuse who is into such?

I had my first massage recently (excluding a purely therapeutic one at my gym several years ago); the masseur had two options - sensual therapeutic and VIP full service for everything.   I chose the latter.  The masseur was nude which I could feel before I could see.  A couple of times he lay on top of me and I was able to hold his cock. I rolled over and he used his hands to give me a happy ending and at one point his cock was in my mouth.  
I don't have enough experience to know if it was a "good" massage, but I enjoyed it.  He would've topped me if I'd wanted.  I'm usually into kissing and this was just a few pecks and that was fine.  I would definitely repeat this experience and see this masseuse again (he travels and is in Seattle once a year). 
The question:  is that a typical experience for an erotic message?  I know that's a generalization and that YMMV. 
And, in looking at both Rent Masseur and Masseur Finder it feels to me that I'm more likely to find what I'm looking for on Rent Masseur. Is that a correct assumption?
I appreciate the group's input. 
Thanks!

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/142802-etiquette-for-initial-communication/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/130365-caveats-in-hiring-please-contribute/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/83821-advice-for-a-newbie-please/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/103088-newbie-question/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/13389-recommendations-for-newbie/

Not sure where to ask this. Any guides here to hiring someone? I have always gone to massages and paid for extras, but want to try a RM escort to come to my home. Not sure about etiquette, communication, tipping etc. 
any advice you can point me to? 

DC is a dry zone. No massage therapists, no strip clubs, it's a vacant lot for men.

That's true, there are many on the Rent a men sites. I just really enjoy the convenience of parlors. Grandee is my favorite in NYC and I take the train up there four times a year. Sometimes I spoil myself and do a circuit of the m4m parlors. I just wish DC had a m4m parlor.

DC is a dry zone. No massage therapists, no strip clubs, it's a vacant lot for men.

It seems many of the spas are now concentrating within 3 blocks of this spot in NYC.  See image below, each yellow star is a male massage spa. I wish they would spread out, some nearer grand central, some further up, or further south. 
 
They are stepping on each other’s toes, can’t be good

Oh wow. 40%-100% tip is the standard on the Asian massage storefronts? To me, that’s interesting mainly bc that can total an amount that might get you a real professional massage (possibly with a HE). 

I guess I'm an idiot every so often. 🤣 Or, I like twentysomethings and $200 is insignificant to some. 😉

The problem with the rate hikes is this: 
A large crop of masseurs really aren’t masseurs at all. 
They are hustlers who actually should be escorting, but have found  the easiest “money grab”, without the actual work of escorting…. here’s their method:
1.) hot, salacious pics
2.) exorbitant pricing
3.) provide mediocre massage without any massage tools (no table, no proper massage oil, and no skills) or having to provide any other service, because only massage it’s “what’s advertised.”
on sites such as RM, they are usually good looking, nice bodies, and look like instagram models, and are usually self-described as “Mediterranean” or “Latin”.
They rope suckers in by the hot pics and the “idea” and “innuendo” of what’s to happen, all for the customer to end up snookered, with an empty wallet, and a pair of blue balls. 
 

I'm not noticing a drop in prices.  I am seeing more guys advertise $200/60 min, or maybe $250, even though they have no reviews, a short bio, one pic, etc.  Some of these guys look like they just decided one day to advertise on Rentmasseur to make some $$$. I see it less often on masseurfinder.  If I pay $200 or more for a session where I have no previous experience, then I'm an idiot. 

You’re absolutely right. Unfortunately, the masses of victims who make the mistake in hiring these guys, aren’t aware of this site, which has saved many of us allot of wasted time and money. 

Looking for Erotic Massage in NYC by a provider who can deliver some hot kissing as well.
Any suggestions?
Thanks.

This is a strange place and I'm curious how other's feel. I knew that both of the guys at this place are straight, but I figured I would give it a try. Alvin gave a good massage but .. it was weird. He's very straight and so it was kind of a turn off. When he pulled on the rubber glove to jerk me off it just killed the vibe. 
How do you feel about getting extras from a straight male provider? 

Gay. hands down. I got a massage at a m4m place in New York City, and read in the reviews that one of the brothers was straight who ran the place. I end up getting him and.. the fake attitude was a total turn off. I don't want to be manipulated by a straight guy and that's what it felt like. If the provider was bi or gay, I would be more comfortable but.. how would anyone know?
 
 

Gay. hands down. I got a massage at a m4m place in New York City, and read in the reviews that one of the brothers was straight who ran the place. I end up getting him and.. the fake attitude was a total turn off. I don't want to be manipulated by a straight guy and that's what it felt like. If the provider was bi or gay, I would be more comfortable but.. how would anyone know?
 
 

Gay. hands down. I got a massage at a m4m place in New York City, and read in the reviews that one of the brothers was straight who ran the place. I end up getting him and.. the fake attitude was a total turn off. I don't want to be manipulated by a straight guy and that's what it felt like. If the provider was bi or gay, I would be more comfortable but.. how would anyone know?
 
 

Gay. hands down. I got a massage at a m4m place in New York City, and read in the reviews that one of the brothers was straight who ran the place. I end up getting him and.. the fake attitude was a total turn off. I don't want to be manipulated by a straight guy and that's what it felt like. If the provider was bi or gay, I would be more comfortable but.. how would anyone know?