DavidShaw

Gay. hands down. I got a massage at a m4m place in New York City, and read in the reviews that one of the brothers was straight who ran the place. I end up getting him and.. the fake attitude was a total turn off. I don't want to be manipulated by a straight guy and that's what it felt like. If the provider was bi or gay, I would be more comfortable but.. how would anyone know?
 
 

Gay. hands down. I got a massage at a m4m place in New York City, and read in the reviews that one of the brothers was straight who ran the place. I end up getting him and.. the fake attitude was a total turn off. I don't want to be manipulated by a straight guy and that's what it felt like. If the provider was bi or gay, I would be more comfortable but.. how would anyone know?
 
 

Gay. hands down. I got a massage at a m4m place in New York City, and read in the reviews that one of the brothers was straight who ran the place. I end up getting him and.. the fake attitude was a total turn off. I don't want to be manipulated by a straight guy and that's what it felt like. If the provider was bi or gay, I would be more comfortable but.. how would anyone know?
 
 

Gay. hands down. I got a massage at a m4m place in New York City, and read in the reviews that one of the brothers was straight who ran the place. I end up getting him and.. the fake attitude was a total turn off. I don't want to be manipulated by a straight guy and that's what it felt like. If the provider was bi or gay, I would be more comfortable but.. how would anyone know?
 
 

1) checking your phone
2) disclosing info about clients who reviewed you
3) advertising you are manly but are effeminate in person (nothing against the latter, just truth in advertising)
4) unkempt place with prescription medications all over 
5) asking to be paid upfront (deposits included)
6) cameras ...
** have encountered specific masseurs and escorts for each of the scenarios above LOL

That would make me have two Happy Endings!

I only know of ONE male provider in NoVA at Chaan Massage, but all other massage parlors are female run. Does anyone know of a parlor or spa with male masseurs? 

The female run massage places seem to have the best. I've not gotten the same from a male except once in Atlanta. In the DC area, a table shower is this long massage table that is in a shower setting. You lay on it naked and someone literally bathes you. It's a wonderful feeling. Unfortunately the "showers" I've had at male spas in NYC tend to be a little splashing of water, no bathing. The problem with going to the female places is.. well. they're female.....

The female run massage places seem to have the best. I've not gotten the same from a male except once in Atlanta. In the DC area, a table shower is this long massage table that is in a shower setting. You lay on it naked and someone literally bathes you. It's a wonderful feeling. Unfortunately the "showers" I've had at male spas in NYC tend to be a little splashing of water, no bathing. The problem with going to the female places is.. well. they're female.....

I don't understand Grandee hate either. I've been there four time over the past two years and it's been fantastic each time. The shower is anemic and pointless, but the massages have always been good and I've had enormous fun.

The female run massage places seem to have the best. I've not gotten the same from a male except once in Atlanta. In the DC area, a table shower is this long massage table that is in a shower setting. You lay on it naked and someone literally bathes you. It's a wonderful feeling. Unfortunately the "showers" I've had at male spas in NYC tend to be a little splashing of water, no bathing. The problem with going to the female places is.. well. they're female.....

Any massage parlor in the DMV area with male therapist? I went yesterday to one and it's an asian milf who massaged me and kept instigating you know. And I was kind of traumatized.  

This is an Instagram photo of an individual who is currently in Guangzhou, China. 

It's evident that @ManhattanHotDude and @Thenobody are continuing to promote this spa and other spas in NYC.

DC, the Sahara of choices. 

I only know of ONE male provider in NoVA at Chaan Massage, but all other massage parlors are female run. Does anyone know of a parlor or spa with male masseurs? 

Honestly, it depends on the guy. It's really hard to find a male provider who is legit, let alone one who does extras. For the massage itself, $70 is about as much as I'm willing to pay because I can get a great female massage for less than that. Extras.. Like I said in my message about rates, more than $50 and I am better off waiting till I get home. It's really a shame that getting a massage from a man is still seen as homoerotic or somehow less masculine for straight men. There was a time when men were routinely giving other men massages. 

Depends on the location. In NYC a one hour massage is $50 and then a happy ending is an extra $40. The most I spent in NYC was $150 for a good massage and suck hot Asian twink dick. Washington DC is more expensive. The massage will cost at least $100 it seems. 

Definitely not my first massage. I don't remember which of the brothers it was but he was just a turn off. Maybe this Alven guy is better but the whole gay for pay fakery was just a turn off. If you want something less fake I suggest other places like Energy, or Grandee. Paying a straight guy to jerk you off seems sad but I guess it's all part of the fantasy. 

This is a strange place and I'm curious how other's feel. I knew that both of the guys at this place are straight, but I figured I would give it a try. Alvin gave a good massage but .. it was weird. He's very straight and so it was kind of a turn off. When he pulled on the rubber glove to jerk me off it just killed the vibe. 
How do you feel about getting extras from a straight male provider? 

If I know that they are straight, I steer clear.  I don't support gay for pay.  A true gay guy knows how to please a man.  What!?  Rubber gloves?  What was he getting ready for . . . A prostate exam?  If I scheduled with a knowingly straight masseur, I would go in knowing it will be a strictly theraputic massage.  Some of them won't even go near the glutes afraid to touch the jewels.  No, thank you.  So many others out there who aim to please.

This is a strange place and I'm curious how other's feel. I knew that both of the guys at this place are straight, but I figured I would give it a try. Alvin gave a good massage but .. it was weird. He's very straight and so it was kind of a turn off. When he pulled on the rubber glove to jerk me off it just killed the vibe. 
How do you feel about getting extras from a straight male provider? 

Any recent recommendations in the DC area?  In desperate need of a massage, and wouldn’t mind the extras .  Individual provider or spa recommendations are welcome. 

My previous comment has been removed because of violation of personal information being shared so I will go ahead and re-comment without breaking the rules. 
 
I meet NshaneZevon in 2019 on Grindr, Went to give him a blow job and then we actually hit it off as buddies I completely became obsessed and loved this human being he’s a few years older than me so he became my number one Role model. Narcissistic personality disorder is a severe psychological condition in which the person cannot empathize or care for others or anyone other than himself. When our friendship got to the devaluing stage my life became a literal nightmare, The abuse dishonesty was severe I asked and NshaneZevon from day one if he was an escort and he denied it turns out every other thing that came out of his mouth was a lie. Our friendship Consisted mostly of me waiting in the car for hours while he was either at a hook up or just hanging out with other buddies. It’s hard to forget the time he told me to drive him to a hotel with some hot dudes but that I would have to leave right before the fun started (sending an indirect message that I was ugly and not attractive enough)
it’s hard for anyone to be a good lover they are so self-absorbed especially if you are a hung top you need to be extra considerate of your bottom. The experience could either be thrilling or very uncomfortable and painful. NshaneZevon  even only cares about himself He can put on a good performance that he cares for others but it is just a mask. If you want an experience with a very good hung top try all the other ones because you waste your money with this one

On the rare occasions when this has been "suggested" to me I've always declined. I hate upsells with a passion.