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    Uncut tops NYC - BFE

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Bumping this again.  Trying to find a fun, uncut top - love latin guys - into BFE... - NYC.  Major foreskin fetish here lol.  Trying to find an easy going super nice guy.  Gym fit bottom here.  Not into a quick jackhammer and go.  Thanks guys.  The forum is the best.

    Recent Intel on BBar

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Hey gents... hate to be a pain but I have been searching the threads on this guy and a lot of the links have aged out.  Anyone with recent experience with this guy?  Gym fit bottom here - love foreskin - BFE - heading to NYC.  I don't get to hire as much as I'd like so I really rely on the forum in helping me find great providers.  You guys are the best.

     

    https://app.rent.men/BBasar

    Client Cancellation

    in The Deli

    Posted

    1 hour ago, Luv2play said:

    Why are you responding to my post of yesterday now when you already did so yesterday after I pointed out you had not stated in your original post how long the scheduled session was for? 

    Hmmm... as you can see there were quite a few responses to the post - and DM's as well - which is new territory for me.  I saw that you had taken the time to write - which I appreciated - and thought I was being rude by not answering your original question.  That is "why I am responding to your post now"... with the information you asked.  Does that answer your question?

    Client Cancellation

    in The Deli

    Posted

    On 9/8/2022 at 7:14 PM, azdr0710 said:

     

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    hmmm......the power of this forum in action!.......perfectly handled, NYCgymfitNEW, and I hope......everybody.......here on the forum has learned from this! 

    You are so right... the power of the forum in action!  Thanks buddy.

    Client Cancellation

    in The Deli

    Posted

    23 hours ago, Luv2play said:

    The op has not said how long the planned session was to be. In my case I have had the occasion to cancel within a day or two of the scheduled appointment. The last time it  happened was two months ago when I was in Toronto. It was for an overnight but not the date of my preference since I was going to have to stay an extra night.

    When I cancelled I let him know upfront I would send him a cancellation fee of $200. He was happy when he got it after I got home a day later. I would not have considered sending him half of an overnight fee but for a shorter session of 1 or 2 hours yes a half would be reasonable, especially if it didnt leave him much time to make alternative arrangements.

    Hey buddy... it was an hour session.  The provider wasn't making any special travel arrangements - it was pretty straightforward.  I actually have never been the one to cancel in the past - and his reaction made me wonder if I mishandled it.  And I was glad to see from most of the community here that it was a "him issue" - not a "me issue" lol. 

    411 on StudFR in NYC

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    Had a session with him recently.  Could not have been better from my perspective.

    Very professional - scheduling was easy.  He is a little shy at first - but warms up quickly.  He is clear about the variety of massage he offers and the price. His massage skills are incredible... even without the erotic part I would have loved the massage.

    That being said, the erotic part was mind blowing.   His body is insane.  Enjoy!  One of the best m4m massages I have ever had. 

     

    Client Cancellation

    in The Deli

    Posted

    30 minutes ago, Boink said:

    Curious if you'd be willing to book him again in the future, since he 'graciously' decided to accept your offer of half fee for cancellation.  (I wouldn't.)  Guys like this really shouldn't ignore the prospect of repeat business. But I think a lot of them do.

    Definitely would not book again.  I appreciated the apology... but - as the late great Maya Angelou said "When someone tells you who they are - believe them!"  So - now we know.

    Client Cancellation

    in The Deli

    Posted

    37 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

    I'm sorry - I think you were played.

    Most providers would be overjoyed to be given, without even asking, half the fee, especially given that you gave him 30 hours and had Covid. When you break an appointment for Covid, you're doing a favor to both sides - which is why I would only give a token cancellation fee for that.

    Unfortunately, your provider saw your generosity, took advantage of it, and tried to get away with more.

    However, your lack of response (or, if he's on this board, reading your post) made him wise up (along with the prospect of losing the entire cancellation fee). Plus, by "settling" for half the fee, he could act like he's doing you a favor. Adding those sob stories about being short of money was his attempt to keep you as a customer (which luckily failed).

    ****

    You can't be too cynical. I've seen it all before.

    Ugh.  I hate to think I was played.  At the end of the day, I guess I need to feel like I did my best and did not behave unethically. I did book an appointment.  He was relying on that income - and although it wasn't my fault - I did have to cancel.  That being said, I will not engage him ever again... And it's great to know from the boards that my actions were not out of line. 

    Client Cancellation

    in The Deli

    Posted

    2 hours ago, Luv2play said:

    The op has not said how long the planned session was to be. In my case I have had the occasion to cancel within a day or two of the scheduled appointment. The last time it  happened was two months ago when I was in Toronto. It was for an overnight but not the date of my preference since I was going to have to stay an extra night.

    When I cancelled I let him know upfront I would send him a cancellation fee of $200. He was happy when he got it after I got home a day later. I would not have considered sending him half of an overnight fee but for a shorter session of 1 or 2 hours yes a half would be reasonable, especially if it didnt leave him much time to make alternative arrangements.

    It was an an hour session.  Booked two weeks ago.  I have been traveling - was at a work event - and a few people tested positive for COVID.  I felt mostly fine - a little congested which I thought might be allergies... tested anyway - and was positive.  I felt terrible since I had engaged the provider and booked the session.  In my professional life, I hate people who waste my time - so I thought I would let him know the situation and offer half the fee, not knowing really what the protocol was.  He didn't make a special trip to my city... he was coming anyway... 

    His reaction was - aggressive and angry... which made me question what the protocol is when you cancel... but I am glad to hear on the boards that my offer was actually generous with a 30 hour cancellation notice.  I am actually glad he wrote back to apologize - and listen - it's been a tough couple of years for all of us - providers probably in particular.  Still - I will never engage him again.

    Client Cancellation

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Interesting update.  He reached out and apologized and said he would be happy to take half the fee LOL.  He said he has had a lot of cancellations lately with COVID and Monkeypox and he has been financially stressed.

    Still a really unpleasant experience - and I won't hire him again (obviously) - but - still - I was glad he apologized and I paid him the half fee.  

    Thanks for validating how I handled it - I honestly have never had this happen before and wasn't sure if I violated some provider/client etiquette!  

    Love the forum... 

    Client Cancellation

    in The Deli

    Posted

    5 minutes ago, Yukon21 said:

    Was the appointment with Jarrod_uncut?  

    Hey buddy... it was not him.  I would rather not say because he is on the message boards and the last thing I need is more anger.  He was so pissed that I wasn't sure if most people would have paid the whole fee... so I thought I would check here.  Good to know it seems to be him not me.

    Client Cancellation

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Hey guys... I have never had this happen before.  After a lot of back and forth, I scheduled a session with a provider.  I wound up testing positive for COVID and cancelled 30 hours before the scheduled time - I apologized and offered to pay half the fee.  The provider was really angry and felt I should pay the whole fee.  I generally try to be a fair guy - but - this didn't sit well with me.  I still said I would pay half - he basically said "F**ck you"... 

    Thoughts?  

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