How much would you pay for no sure thing.

[biggerbilly]

We all see the section of the profile that says, money is for time spent. We all know nothing is guaranteed, and chemistry has a lot to do with how a session will go. At the end of the day, every hire is a risk.

 

I was reading a suggestion hire post where someone was suggested who has a somewhat restrictive profile. While his profile has limits, the suggestion was that more can be possible if the chemistry was right. Now this seems to be a big gamble to me. It’s one thing to hire someone to do what their profile says they’re comfortable with. It’s another to hire someone to hopefully do what they’re comfortable doing with a specific person they know.

 

Normally, I’d post something about the issue behind this; delve into whether or not these is right; and blah, blah, blah.

 

I then realized, I could post something fun!

 

Let’s say tomorrow you click on your hunting site of course. Suddenly, you see your dream guy. Someone who clicks of everything you like in the looks department! His price is a bit high, but he’s worth every penny! You go to contact him, but notice that he doesn’t match your sexual preferences at all. Everything you want to do, he clearly says he doesn’t do.

 

Now, you commit on your dismay here. Someone DM’s to let you know he actually did do everything you wanted to do with them, and was incredible! The chemistry was right at the time. But, he’s the money up front type.

 

How much would you pay to take the chance that you would also have great chemistry. Now, remember this is the perfect guy for you. What would you risk?

 

I think I’d risk $350.

[BabyBoomer]

he’s the money up front type.

 

That's a non-starter for me.

 

~Boomer~

[instudiocity]

We all see the section of the profile that says, money is for time spent. We all know nothing is guaranteed, and chemistry has a lot to do with how a session will go. At the end of the day, every hire is a risk.

 

I was reading a suggestion hire post where someone was suggested who has a somewhat restrictive profile. While his profile has limits, the suggestion was that more can be possible if the chemistry was right. Now this seems to be a big gamble to me. It’s one thing to hire someone to do what their profile says they’re comfortable with. It’s another to hire someone to hopefully do what they’re comfortable doing with a specific person they know.

 

Normally, I’d post something about the issue behind this; delve into whether or not these is right; and blah, blah, blah.

 

I then realized, I could post something fun!

 

Let’s say tomorrow you click on your hunting site of course. Suddenly, you see your dream guy. Someone who clicks of everything you like in the looks department! His price is a bit high, but he’s worth every penny! You go to contact him, but notice that he doesn’t match your sexual preferences at all. Everything you want to do, he clearly says he doesn’t do.

 

Now, you commit on your dismay here. Someone DM’s to let you know he actually did do everything you wanted to do with them, and was incredible! The chemistry was right at the time. But, he’s the money up front type.

 

How much would you pay to take the chance that you would also have great chemistry. Now, remember this is the perfect guy for you. What would you risk?

 

I think I’d risk $350.

Please click EDIT and clean up your grammar and your words to the correct spelling/usage.

 

And yes, I’ve cultivated a relationship with a Vers porn star now with multiple hires over 5 years. Only on our last two dates did he ever ask, “Do you wanna fuck me?” Which of course was my reason for contacting him in the first place.

 

It’s all about synergy and figuring out which foreplay moves would open his mind and his hole.

 

Sex is so much better because he wants my cock.

Edited April 21, 2018 by instudiocity

[TruthBTold]

Please click EDIT and clean up your grammar and your words to the correct spelling/usage.

And yes, I’ve cultivated a relationship with a Vers porn star now with multiple hires over 5 years. Only on our last two dates did he ever ask, “Do you wanna fuck me?” Which of course was my reason for contacting him in the first place.

It’s all about synergy and figuring out which foreplay moves would open his mind and his hole.

Sex is so much better because he wants my cock.

 

Long ago, I did contact someone that had written some very specific limitations in his profile. However, even at the outset I wanted to do something that was outlawed. And I knew that he did the thing in my fantasy because he had also made recent vids where he seemed more than happy to do it. Over time and several get-togethers I did as you suggest. We got closer on a lot of levels and I guess I learned exactly what made him more and more open to doing these things, at least with me. Eventually I suggested it and he went along. As you indicate, patience tends to be the key.

[rvwnsd]

There are several good reasons for spelling out exactly what I am looking for in a playdate and this is one of them. To use one example, a guy's natural scent is a huge turn-on. However, I prefer to be squeaky clean unless otherwise requested. There was a guy who advertised "proper hygiene is a must." He was very physically attractive so I described what I like, including the natural scent/me being clean. Turned out, he LOVED to have sex when he was unshowered/unshaved/non deodorized/non groomed and all sweaty/pumped from the gym. He didn't mention that in his ad because he thought it could turn off clients. We got together several times until he moved away.

[Chuckball]

My experence with escorts is that if I attend with a checklist of what is going to happen, I end up disappointed. I have one or two escorts I see regularly where what happens is unplanned. We do whatever makes the other comfortable and feels good. My experience earlier this week was a situation where neither of us came but the experience was absolutely delightful and I left wanting to return soon.

[MikeBiDude]

My experence with escorts is that if I attend with a checklist of what is going to happen, I end up disappointed

Well said!

[+ purplekow]

On a recent hire, I was lead to believe that a particular escort had limitations that he reserved for his husband. I enjoy all sorts of activity but with this escort I was particularly curious about the forbidden activity, even before I found out it was proscribed. I made the hire anyway, as he was hot in just about every way a man can be hot to me. Upon arriving at my place, he noted that I have some particular toys and immediately he said he loved that kind of play. We spent the entire session engaged in that activity and I hope to hire him again for another session.

Don't believe what you hear. Don't believe that limitations are fixed. Approach your partner with dignity and concern and see where the session takes you. I guess if you have a very narrow spectrum of activities you enjoy, you may need to know that the escort will meet those needs, but another option is to open yourself up to expanding your own limitations.