Masseur reaction

[+ Just966]

Pretty new to this forum as well as new to hiring male masseurs for sensual massage and have a qyuestion for the collective wisdom of the members. I am older,61, and have a body of probably the average 61 year old meaning not tight and muscular but not grossly overweight. My question is do you mention this upfront when hiring as I am thinking I will as do not wants someone expecting a hot muscular body and them reacting when they turn up.. Looking for my first experience in Las. Vegas in about 3 weeks and would like some words from experience of others..Feeling somewhat nervous over this and is holding me back but really want to enjoy a session with someone.

[+ 7829V]

Pretty new to this forum as well as new to hiring male masseurs for sensual massage and have a qyuestion for the collective wisdom of the members. I am older,61, and have a body of probably the average 61 year old meaning not tight and muscular but not grossly overweight. My question is do you mention this upfront when hiring as I am thinking I will as do not wants someone expecting a hot muscular body and them reacting when they turn up.. Looking for my first experience in Las. Vegas in about 3 weeks and would like some words from experience of others..Feeling somewhat nervous over this and is holding me back but really want to enjoy a session with someone.

Not necessary at all. If they ask for stats or pics is a no hire. Move to the next profile you like. You are paying them for their service. Is your money. Choose wisely and ask the forum whenever possible.

[rvwnsd]

Most masseurs do not expect a hot muscled bod. Those that do have unrealistic expectations.

[+ EVdude]

do you mention this upfront?

Similar age, similar everything. Absolutely NOT!

[+ sniper]

Some masseurs put in their ad specifically that they work on "all body types." I would think the ones that have a problem with bodies that are not hot wouldn't put that in there. Maybe check those guys out first.

[MikeBiDude]

No

[Dmitri]

They do not care about your looks or body. The only thing they care about is your money. You are answering a massage ad.....not a personals dating ad. Make your appointment and you will be fine.

Edited February 3, 2018 by Dmitri

[Spikeseven]

Absolutely. You are hiring them. Not the reverse. If they ask...move on!

[kenomora]

Don’t think too much about that stuff. Just enjoy yourself! Vegas is super fun, and there’s a lot of recommendations here in the forum if you do a search. I’m sure you’ll find someone you like among the well-reviewed guys.

[+ azdr0710]

be washed up and sober....smile and talk slowly.....be polite and respectful......some light small talk and a joke about the traffic or something!....then you may want to zone out and relax

 

in pre-meet communication, I often give a very quick rundown of my stats just so they know a little about me (age, weight, height).....but not at all required

 

if you haven't already, go over some of the other threads that are geared toward massage questions from "newbies".....

 

choose a guy who has good comments here and who has a lot of experience.....you might need to tread carefully with explicit talk during the pre-meet communication.....you'll probably be able to get a feel for what the guy will allow from his ad and from your polite inquiries before the meet.....your own body language during the meet, too, may move things along.......don't get too frisky yourself before he does - let him do his job

Edited February 3, 2018 by azdr0710

[+ Just966]

Thanks for the words of wisdom guys! This is a great forum for support and have a few masseurs from Vegas that have been recommended here that I will definitely try. Unfortunately one of the " chosens" ad - JohnDvegas has disappeared and so hope it comes back before I go.

[thunderclap]

JohnDvegas has an active ad here, if this is who you mean: https://rentmasseur.com/JohnDvegas

 

Don't worry about your age and appearance. Any masseur with some experience knows that most of the guys with the disposable income to afford regular massage tend to be middle aged or older. They also know that the majority of Americans are overweight. So they probably have reasonable expectations. If you're nervous, you could always ask the masseur.

[+ Just966]

Thanks! Just noticed that JohnDvegas had reposted so that is good.Have been some pretty positive comments on him so on my list to try.

[Hetgeen]

BTW @Just966, I find 61 year old bodies very hot and sexy! Enjoy.

[+ Just966]

Always nice to hear a vote of confidence for us seasoned guys!

[Batch79]

I am 52 and pretty fat, 6’2” and about 350 lbs. I tell my size and weight up front because I don’t want to break the table! In 15 yeas, I have only had 2 refuse to schedule a session (both said it was because of their tables’ capacity). I had one say no problem, and then when I showed up, refused to start the session because he “didn’t realize you were quite that fat.”

 

I’ve seen dozens of masseurs and escorts, and nearly all have had no problem with my size. One adorable young man just said “more of you to play with!”

[+ Just966]

Nice Batch79

[Guest InthePines]

Good post 966. The masseur is owed four things in my opinion....respect, cleanliness, promptness, (or readiness if it's an outcall), and a willingness to pay the masseur posted hourly rate. Any issues the masseur has with your age or body type are his and his alone.

[Dmitri]

Good post 966. The masseur is owed four things in my opinion....respect, cleanliness, promptness, (or readiness if it's an outcall), and a willingness to pay the masseur posted hourly rate. Any issues the masseur has with your age or body type are his and his alone.

 

And the client is owed 4 things in return.....respect, cleanliness, the masseur being ready for the client if an incall, or showing up on time if an outcall , and freedom from discrimination based on the client's race, age, or body type.

Edited February 5, 2018 by Dmitri