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You should know what you want to happen and check with the escort if he confirms he can provide. Apart from that, there is nothing to be anxious about, just bring your wallet and your clean ass with you.

 

You are starting with a well reviewed escort?

 

I have been checking out several on rentmen... and looking for verified pics and ID...

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1) Well-reviewed guys on Daddy's are professional and will be understanding of your intimidation and can cater to your vanilla needs. Just talk to them and discuss what you're looking for, and you will find most of them personable and agreeable.

 

2) Keep your expectations reasonable; elaborate fantasies or numerous demands aren't really conducive to a good session. Again, your provider is a professional - let him do what he knows how to do!

 

3) Trust your instincts - if it doesn't sound right or like a good fit, it probably isn't.

 

4) Above all: you are entitled to have fun - so have some!

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Tarte Gogo Grand Master

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I have been checking out several on rentmen... and looking for verified pics and ID...

I agree with @julius for my first, I wouldn’t want a very hot guy that has a chance of having a rubbish attitude. Once you found some guys that you like, check your choices for reviews on https://www.daddysreviews.com/

An independent review site is much better than rentmen reviews, because on rentmen, the escort is allowed to delete bad reviews. Not here, they only have a right to answer bad reviews.

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I posted this only 6 months after my first hire. As @Tarte Gogo mentioned, make sure he has good reviews, and follow your instincts. Being intimidated is natural.

 

My first experience was not a preplanned appointment. He was (then on Rentboy) "actively looking". I couldn't even send that first text until I knocked back a couple glasses of wine. I trembled hitting send. Once I did, I strangely felt relieved. But, when he responded quickly, I about jumped out of my skin. Though he put me at ease, he could no longer meet then, and asked about the next day. I got nervous and said that wouldn't work. Two days after, he again was "actively looking", so two glasses of wine later, I sent another text. This time he was available. He put me at ease so quickly, and it turned out to be a great experience. I've only met four different escorts (one for a 2nd time), so meeting someone new is still somewhat nerve racking, but on my 2nd appointment with the one, I was so much more relaxed. Follow all the good advice these guys have to offer.
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thinking of hiring my first. Will be in NYC next week.

 

What should I know?

 

Very intimidated.

 

I am pretty vanilla.

I was so nervous/hesitant/reluctant my first time, it took a month of texting with him before I finally gave him my address. So glad he hung in there with me, it was great.

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azdr0710 Grand Master

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I have been checking out several on rentmen... and looking for verified pics and ID...

 

your first mistake! :rolleyes: RM reviews, though sometimes sincere, are notoriously manipulated and suspect.....and that "verified pics and ID" promise?....ha!!!

 

#1 suggestion!.....choose a guy who appeals to you and has been reviewed and confirmed HERE in the forum and at daddysreviews......

 

then, contact him and be honest.....do NOT bombard him with giddy texts/emails every other day....keep your communication mature, polite, respectful, discreet, and to-the-point.....don't discuss money in the first contact, though he may reply with rates and that's ok....try to go for two hours instead of one.....tell him you'll be nervous, but do NOT let that sabotage the meet....if you drink, have half a can of beer before the meet.....be clean (mouth, skin, everywhere)......smile, firm handshake, look him in the eyes, talk slowly, ask him if he wants some water, sit and chat for a bit......then move things along ("hey, let's start with a back-and-forth body rub over on the bed").......make sure you don't run out of time before you get what you want......have money in an envelope laying out, but don't mention it (tell him ahead of time that you will pay at the end and you don't want to talk money during the meet)

 

don't take it too seriously.....

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/first-date-jitters.80335/

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/post-first-time-thoughts-questions.128326/

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/first-time-impending-a-jangle-of-nerves-with-a-jumble-of-questions-here.127135/

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