Great sex without orgasm?

[Guest]

A couple of weeks ago, I hired an escort. The sex was fantastic, but, for reasons I'll never understand, I wasn't able to orgasm. In the past, I would always have considered sex without an orgasm to be a failure. This time, though, I enjoyed it so much, I'd hire him again, and not care if I ever reached orgasm. This experience completely changed my mind-set about what constitutes good sex. How about you guys? Have you ever had great sex, but didn't orgasm? Would you ever re-hire an escort with whom you didn't reach orgasm?

Edited December 17, 2017 by Unicorn

[+ OliverSaks]

Orgasms are great, but LOTS of fun can be still be had without them.

 

Porn builds into our mindsets that sex must end in orgasm, but I’ll take an hour of passionate kissing without orgasm over a cum and go any day!

[jjkrkwood]

I've always said, my orgasms are usually in my brain, as I've gotten older and my body is unpredicktable. I dont need the cream to be sexually satisfied, although cumming does make me take a nice Nap.....

[MikeyGMin]

Have you ever had great sex, but didn't orgasm? Would you ever re-hire an escort with who you didn't reach orgasm?

Absolutely. I can get myself off in minutes, but it's very very difficult for someone else to get me off. Too many years of having just the right porn and just the right pressure at just the right moment have conditioned me in a way that is not conducive to getting off with a partner. For me, it's all about the oral activity. That's what I crave and where I get my satisfaction. I re-hire guys who are comfortable with that -- especially if they are able to get off. (It's nice to have someone gets off so there is an exclamation point and a natural end to the session.)

[MartyB]

Sorry guys I need to "cum". I may not hit the ceiling anymore but when I'm seeing an escort I limit my jerking off so I'm primed. How I reach orgasm doesn't matter. Now if the escort "cums" as well that is just the icing on the cake.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Without hesitation, I can say that the majority of my memorable, satisfying and exciting sex experiences have not included cuming. An hour of passionate kissing can be far more satisfying than a ten second orgasm.

Edited December 17, 2017 by sf westcoaster

[LaffingBear]

I hired 2 times in 2017.

 

Second was a disaster

 

First was a shockingly great experience.... he orgasmed, I didnt. Incredibly satisfying for me, and didnt even realize I hadnt cum til walking back inside after seeing him off at his car.

[+ Charlie]

Before I was old enough to actually cum, the conclusion to my sexual arousal was usually a sudden relaxation of all tension in my abdomen. On a few occasions in the 60-some years since then, I have experienced the same resolution without ejaculation.

[+ Gar1eth]

I love to kiss. The two best dates of my limited dating life both involved long sessions of kissing and stroking without any actual sex.

 

But if I am having sex I prefer to cum.

 

I did read a letter-possibly a Penthouse letter years ago. The guy said he had found out that if he was a little bit buzzed from alcohol, he could stay hard forever and not cum. He said he liked to cum. But he described cumming as dessert. And that sometimes he was satisfied with a meal without dessert.

 

Gman

[rustyrex]

I love to cum, there is only one way to make me scream without making me cum. I never tell a guy what that is, but if he finds out on his own it ain't difficult to make me happy. If he's exceptional....he can do almost anything to me.

[Bearofdistinction]

I love to cum, there is only one way to make me scream without making me cum. I never tell a guy what that is, but if he finds out on his own it ain't difficult to make me happy. If he's exceptional....he can do almost anything to me.

 

Does this involve a Stock Prod a bottle of 7up and 3 Alka-Seltzer Tabs?

[LADoug1]

I love to cum, there is only one way to make me scream without making me cum. I never tell a guy what that is, but if he finds out on his own it ain't difficult to make me happy. If he's exceptional....he can do almost anything to me.

 

Why not tell them? Might make the experience more mind blowing.

[rocky]

Yes I like to cum but at my age and medications sometimes doesn't happen. I love sex with butt play, oral, and to have my partner cum on me.

[+ SundayZip]

Orgasms are great, but LOTS of fun can be still be had without them.

 

Porn builds into our mindsets that sex must end in orgasm, but I’ll take an hour of passionate kissing without orgasm over a cum and go any day!

 

+1

 

The problem with an orgasm is that it tends to bring great sex to an end. You're all revved up and kissing and licking and doing hot and sexy stuff and there's lots of slippery friction and engorged members and then the orgasm comes and suddenly your done. Then it's like... Hey, thanks. That was nice. (then he sneaks a look at the clock)

[+ BlueSky]

I've been on medications that kill or at least limit my ability to have an orgasm. (It just becomes so much work it's not even worth it). Even so I was still able to have great times with escorts. I was upfront about what was going on the with the equipment. We basically did all the things we usually do. There just wasn't the big release at the end. Still totally worth it.

 

It's been many years since I've used those prescriptions and everything is back to normal now. And I always finish up by coming.

[thickornotatall]

It's all great until it isn't...Maybe I'm orgasm centric....I LOVE the feeling of a really big orgasm....without it?...just 2 blue balls....I will however please my partner to have him come...no recip needed....

[Rudynate]

A couple of weeks ago, I hired an escort. The sex was fantastic, but, for reasons I'll never understand, I wasn't able to orgasm. In the past, I would always have considered sex without an orgasm to be a failure. This time, though, I enjoyed it so much, I'd hire him again, and not care if I ever reached orgasm. This experience completely changed my mind-set about what constitutes good sex. How about you guys? Have you ever had great sex, but didn't orgasm? Would you ever re-hire an escort with whom you didn't reach orgasm?

 

 

I don't need to come in order to enjoy sex. It takes me a long time to cum and I get bored with the effort. A few weeks ago though, I spent an afternoon with a guy and he starred stroking my nips gently. It felt great, so he kept it up. I got rock hard and eventually shot a huge load.