Clients acting out...is it hate?

[Mocha]

Edit: the person who said was going to take me to court made amends and took care of half of the proposed rate in person last night. So he's been cleared. However, last night a different person thought it'd be cute to send me on an outcall out to a gated community....with no gate code, only to claim to have fell asleep upon arrival. I was just reimbursed for that this morning.

 

I always tell myself every year, that I wish I could take off and not have to advertise or work from mid December until after the 1st week in January. And this year, it couldn't be more in hindsight. Just when I was on a money train the past few weeks, ended up hitting a predictable funk as Christmas nears.

 

This whole week, it's been back to back dealing with unreliable, even abusive "clients". Some examples are:

 

a twice met client of mine booked me this week. He even left me a review couple months ago. Well this time, he cancelled once and then finally left off with a no show. No responses to my texts, no offer of a cancellation fee...just completely MIA. Just completely blown off.

 

Another client...booked me the night before for morning. He was asking me bunch of questions...but following thru for the most part. Then he cancels. I'm pissed because he caught me thru a different site and emailed instead of texted. When he texted me, it shows he had cancelled (in a rather condescending way) on 2 occasions. So when he cancelled again, I let it rip. Told him he would be reported on a warning board. He was already asking for a discount which I agreed to, moaning about my rate, then saying he doesn't know if it'll be as good as my full rate...just being a pest. I keep telling him stop making it harder than it needs to be. If I agree to something, I'm doing it out of good faith. But that if he can't get it together and show up, he's going to be blacklisted. He then says he's going to try and avoid me as much as possible.

 

Well guess what...he ends up texting to come back and shows up after all. I was not wanting to see him but he came thru. I didn't feel like cumming after all of that, even though I wanted to. But it's not fair for others to pay the full fee, yet someone asks to pay less and gets the whole service.

 

Another guy earlier this week, he gets mad and starts telling me there's cheaper guys out there way better than me, all because I didn't want to go to the Sheraton Grand downtown at 1 am for $140. Not just because the time, but because he hit me up earlier that day or even the day prior....only to wait until the last minute of the day to tell me he wanted me to do an outcall to him. I told him to Uber or Lyft to me because I'd already paid into my hotel and didn't want to be out all night when I have to wake up the next morning early for breakfast. Starts calling me names, putting me down, etc.

 

Another guy says he arrived at my hotel...but never texted to say so. I wasn't at the hotel and had no idea when he was coming. Insults, called me a flake, etc.

 

Another guy today...scheduled a session couple days ago. Supposed to been a long afternoon visit. Barrage of texts. Promises promises. Day comes, no show. Not responding to messages. I'm like you know what, you no show on me....I told him I will report you to nationalblacklist.com and my Twitter client warning list. He wants to come back saying someone died and hes going to sue me for libel and defamation and that he's going to "own my ass". I was like go ahead....I would LOVE to have my day in court with you. And show the judge every text and email he'd sent me.

 

I can't make this stuff up. I'm coming to the conclusion many of these guys hate us. Some of em include those on the forum right now, which I expect to come out the woodwork. But, to me....that's just them hating themselves. They feel they have to punish an escort by depriving them of business or the money they had expected or ask for. It's like one minute they're complimenting and crazy over you, the next minute they're saying all sort of foul shit.

 

And the reason why I tell clients I'm going to put them on such a list...is that's often the only way it seems it's going to get them to own up to their bullshit mindfuck games. They force my hand, push me to have to take drastic measures like this, in order for them to man up and just follow thru with their words.

 

That's why, I will be creating a Twitter account soon...which will specifically be dedicated to reporting these type of people. It's not funny, it's not cute...these are people who are determined to take away and break our spirit. I am trying to find the slightest bit of Christmas joy in me right now, because dealing with these clients have affected me to the core. It's like dealing with a multitude of dishonest boyfriends on a daily basis.

Edited December 17, 2017 by Mocha

[Chuckball]

I think the title of the post is inaccurate. Clients don't hate escorts. It is just that some are assholes who do not treat a professional as he should be treated. My lawyer friends have the same complaint about price hagglers and no shows. Unfortunately there is a small percentage of the population that acts so rudely. Don't let a few bad apples spoil the fun you derive from your work and certainly don't let it cancel your holiday spirit.

[+ sync]

It takes intense resolve to maintain contentedness when dealing with the general public, just ask anyone who works/has worked in a customer service environment.

[Walker1]

That's why, I will be creating a Twitter account soon...which will specifically be dedicated to reporting these type of people

So you are going to create a twitter account posting personal details of clients? You think that is good for business?

[SweetBen]

If you want to avoid this just ask for a deposit via paypal or amazon voucher. If you’re well established and with reviews it shouldn’t be a problem and this way you make sure they come or they lose.

 

I escort in London (UK) and I receive deposits from US clients visiting town or when I was in the US as well to make sure they’re genuine especially when I had to travel by uber.

 

It works well. Just stand your ground and they crawl.

[Deadlift1]

I have learned in business that if a client is a dick prior to signing the papers he will be a dick to deal with after.

[desertguy1954]

I have learned in business that if a client is a dick prior to signing the papers he will be a dick to deal with after.

I have learned the same thing when I was working. When I worked for the airlines, one of the things that I would tell new hires, is that if the person is rude, that is how they are in all of their dealings and private life. Just sometimes a bigger asshole than other times

[samhexum]

dealing with these clients have affected me to the core. It's like dealing with a multitude of dishonest boyfriends on a daily basis.

 

DEAR ABBY: How do I treat someone with respect whom I do not respect and who does not respect me? I try to treat everyone courteously; however, it's tough to do when often the respect only flows one way. -- UNSURE IN CALIFORNIA

 

DEAR UNSURE: Here's how. First, keep your distance, if that's possible. And then refrain from showing your disdain by using basic good manners whenever you are forced to be in the person's presence.

Edited December 17, 2017 by samhexum

[MartyB]

I always tell myself every year, that I wish I could take off and not have to advertise or work from mid December until after the 1st week in January. And this year, it couldn't be more in hindsight. Sadly, I was on a roll the past few weeks, only to hit a predictable funk as Christmas comes.

 

This whole week, it's been back to back dealing with unreliable, even abusive "clients". Some examples are:

 

a twice met client of mine booked me this week. He even left me a review couple months ago. Well this time, he cancelled once and then finally left off with a no show. No responses to my texts, no offer of a cancellation fee...just completely MIA. Just completely blown off.

 

Another client...booked me the night before for morning. He was asking me bunch of questions...but following thru for the most part. Then he cancels. I'm pissed because he caught me thru a different site and emailed instead of texted. When he texted me, it shows he had cancelled (in a rather condescending way) on 2 occasions. So when he cancelled again, I let it rip. Told him he would be reported on a warning board. He was already asking for a discount which I agreed to, moaning about my rate, then saying he doesn't know if it'll be as good as my full rate...just being a pest. I keep telling him stop making it harder than it needs to be. If I agree to something, I'm doing it out of good faith. But that if he can't get it together and show up, he's going to be blacklisted. He then says he's going to try and avoid me as much as possible.

 

Well guess what...he ends up texting to come back and shows up after all. I was not wanting to see him but he came thru. I didn't feel like cumming after all of that, even though I wanted to. But it's not fair for others to pay the full fee, yet someone asks to pay less and gets the whole service.

 

Another guy earlier this week, he gets mad and starts telling me there's cheaper guys out there way better than me, all because I didn't want to go to the Sheraton Grand downtown at 1 am for $140. Not just because the time, but because he hit me up earlier that day or even the day prior....only to wait until the last minute of the day to tell me he wanted me to do an outcall to him. I told him to Uber or Lyft to me because I'd already paid into my hotel and didn't want to be out all night when I have to wake up the next morning early for breakfast. Starts calling me names, putting me down, etc.

 

Another guy says he arrived at my hotel...but never texted to say so. I wasn't at the hotel and had no idea when he was coming. Insults, called me a flake, etc.

 

Another guy today...scheduled a session couple days ago. Supposed to been a long afternoon visit. Barrage of texts. Promises promises. Day comes, no show. Not responding to messages. I'm like you know what, you no show on me....I told him I will report you to nationalblacklist.com and my Twitter client warning list. He wants to come back saying someone died and hes going to sue me for libel and defamation and that he's going to "own my ass". I was like go ahead....I would LOVE to have my day in court with you. And show the judge every text and email he'd sent me.

 

I can't make this stuff up. I'm coming to the conclusion many of these guys hate us. Some of em include those on the forum right now, which I expect to come out the woodwork. But, to me....that's just them hating themselves. They feel they have to punish an escort by depriving them of business or the money they had expected or ask for. It's like one minute they're complimenting and crazy over you, the next minute they're saying all sort of foul shit.

 

And the reason why I tell clients I'm going to put them on such a list...is that's often the only way it seems it's going to get them to own up to their bullshit mindfuck games. They force my hand, push me to have to take drastic measures like this, in order for them to man up and just follow thru with their words.

 

That's why, I will be creating a Twitter account soon...which will specifically be dedicated to reporting these type of people. It's not funny, it's not cute...these are people who are determined to take away and break our spirit. I am trying to find the slightest bit of Christmas joy in me right now, because dealing with these clients have affected me to the core. It's like dealing with a multitude of dishonest boyfriends on a daily basis.

Missed you babe! Not sure if this is just about this time of year. I like to believe there is an unwritten contract between escort and client. I try the utmost to stick to my commitment. Escorts disappoint as well.

[Edward]

What I hate about escorts. 1). No shows. 2) they are always late. 3) they don't deliver services agreed on. 4). Always don't stay as long as you are paying for. 5) they don't match their advertised description.

[Mocha]

What I hate about escorts. 1). No shows. 2) they are always late. 3) they don't deliver services agreed on. 4). Always don't stay as long as you are paying for. 5) they don't match their advertised description.

 

Is that factual or experience based? I do believe the chicken and the egg theory with the relationships between escorts and clients. I honestly believe some clients start out "good", but then maybe having bad experiences causes the flakiness to rub off on them. That's why some cities are such a pain. Then again, even the small town Johns who've never encountered an escort before can be condescending upon initial setup. We've got to break this mythical cycle of escort=willing to put up with whatever because money is involved.

[Mocha]

Missed you babe! Not sure if this is just about this time of year. I like to believe there is an unwritten contract between escort and client. I try the utmost to stick to my commitment. Escorts disappoint as well.

 

I know, you're of the rare breed...how they used to be back in the mid and early 2000s.

 

I have learned the same thing when I was working. When I worked for the airlines, one of the things that I would tell new hires, is that if the person is rude, that is how they are in all of their dealings and private life. Just sometimes a bigger asshole than other times

 

That I imagine. I see how people treat employees, and I imagine them being one of the above listed dicks above. Especially the ones who cancel a big order if it doesn't go exactly as programmed.

 

If you want to avoid this just ask for a deposit via paypal or amazon voucher. If you’re well established and with reviews it shouldn’t be a problem and this way you make sure they come or they lose.

 

I escort in London (UK) and I receive deposits from US clients visiting town or when I was in the US as well to make sure they’re genuine especially when I had to travel by uber.

 

It works well. Just stand your ground and they crawl.

 

I do take deposits for travel at times. But, some of these are just passing same day or next day clients. I can only take deposits from so many people. Though, if you're referring to the deposit being the gateway to even speak to me, I have definitely been considering that. But that would be hard to enforce. I find cancellation fees a bit easier to understand, when combined with some leverage.

 

So you are going to create a twitter account posting personal details of clients? You think that is good for business?

 

Yes. It is good for business. I mean, as far as I know I've been compensated when I call them out. It creates respect. Maybe other escorts flake and/or allow flaky behavior. I'm not one of em. There needs to be a system. In order to make a difference in the business, someone needs to stand up and speak up. Just letting clients cancel and flake and do whatever they want just reinforces inappropriate behavior and disrespect for the profession.

 

At the same time, not everyone can command such respect without it looking like extortion. It's not simply, "oh you cancelled, pay up". It's actually taking screenshots of our conversation, confirming and actually incurring expenses/loss. It's texting it back to them and reminding them: hey, you scheduled a session, you made these demands, and now you're trying to play Phantom of the Opera. You owe me.

Edited December 17, 2017 by Mocha

[LADoug1]

The clients who hate escorts are projecting their self-loathing for hiring. Sad but very common.

[playwrestler]

I mean this sincerely... I can't imagine a more potentially noble profession than escorting... but it is filled with psychological potholes because it can attract at times emotionally damaged individuals who've been scarred by the sexual mores of western civilization's bigotry and homophobia. Unfortunately it can lead to some pretty intense "acting out" on the part of these individuals... when they are actually crying out for healing. I'm not sure how escorts avoid burnout... but bless you for being on the front lines!

[Mocha]

I mean this sincerely... I can't imagine a more potentially noble profession than escorting... but it is filled with psychological potholes because it can attract at times emotionally damaged individuals who've been scarred by the sexual mores of western civilization's bigotry and homophobia. Unfortunately it can lead to some pretty intense "acting out" on the part of these individuals... when they are actually crying out for healing. I'm not sure how escorts avoid burnout... but bless you for being on the front lines!

 

It's hard. What's stopping me from burnout is that I still like the profession. If it wasn't for that, I'd of been long gone. I treat clients like (good) family and I expect the same. Meaning if we make plans, there's a responsibility to be had if a person stands someone up. And best believe, it's going to get around that Uncle so and so is a big flake.

 

Like I mentioned, the good thing is 3 people this week have made good on their word. Even though I got reimbursed, I don't like to take money if I didn't do a session. At the same time...When I get fucked over, that causes me to have issues meeting my demands. And believe me, when you're 2,000 miles from home, those demands put you under immense pressure.

 

But even when I'm at home it doesn't make a difference. Reminds me back in 2015, client started doing the same thing as another client I mentioned in this thread. He'd seen me 3 times, then came Christmas/December time he cancelled on 3 times each time he scheduled me.

 

That's why I'm so over this devil worshipping holidays. Just brings out the worse in people, and for some reason, "some" (not tarring everyone with the same brush here) clients seem to use us as punching bags.

[Bearofdistinction]

Edit: the person who said was going to take me to court made amends and took care of half of the proposed rate in person last night. So he's been cleared. However, last night a different person thought it'd be cute to send me on an outcall out to a gated community....with no gate code, only to claim to have fell asleep upon arrival. I was just reimbursed for that this morning.

 

I always tell myself every year, that I wish I could take off and not have to advertise or work from mid December until after the 1st week in January. And this year, it couldn't be more in hindsight. Just when I was on a money train the past few weeks, ended up hitting a predictable funk as Christmas nears.

 

This whole week, it's been back to back dealing with unreliable, even abusive "clients". Some examples are:

 

a twice met client of mine booked me this week. He even left me a review couple months ago. Well this time, he cancelled once and then finally left off with a no show. No responses to my texts, no offer of a cancellation fee...just completely MIA. Just completely blown off.

 

Another client...booked me the night before for morning. He was asking me bunch of questions...but following thru for the most part. Then he cancels. I'm pissed because he caught me thru a different site and emailed instead of texted. When he texted me, it shows he had cancelled (in a rather condescending way) on 2 occasions. So when he cancelled again, I let it rip. Told him he would be reported on a warning board. He was already asking for a discount which I agreed to, moaning about my rate, then saying he doesn't know if it'll be as good as my full rate...just being a pest. I keep telling him stop making it harder than it needs to be. If I agree to something, I'm doing it out of good faith. But that if he can't get it together and show up, he's going to be blacklisted. He then says he's going to try and avoid me as much as possible.

 

Well guess what...he ends up texting to come back and shows up after all. I was not wanting to see him but he came thru. I didn't feel like cumming after all of that, even though I wanted to. But it's not fair for others to pay the full fee, yet someone asks to pay less and gets the whole service.

 

Another guy earlier this week, he gets mad and starts telling me there's cheaper guys out there way better than me, all because I didn't want to go to the Sheraton Grand downtown at 1 am for $140. Not just because the time, but because he hit me up earlier that day or even the day prior....only to wait until the last minute of the day to tell me he wanted me to do an outcall to him. I told him to Uber or Lyft to me because I'd already paid into my hotel and didn't want to be out all night when I have to wake up the next morning early for breakfast. Starts calling me names, putting me down, etc.

 

Another guy says he arrived at my hotel...but never texted to say so. I wasn't at the hotel and had no idea when he was coming. Insults, called me a flake, etc.

 

Another guy today...scheduled a session couple days ago. Supposed to been a long afternoon visit. Barrage of texts. Promises promises. Day comes, no show. Not responding to messages. I'm like you know what, you no show on me....I told him I will report you to nationalblacklist.com and my Twitter client warning list. He wants to come back saying someone died and hes going to sue me for libel and defamation and that he's going to "own my ass". I was like go ahead....I would LOVE to have my day in court with you. And show the judge every text and email he'd sent me.

 

I can't make this stuff up. I'm coming to the conclusion many of these guys hate us. Some of em include those on the forum right now, which I expect to come out the woodwork. But, to me....that's just them hating themselves. They feel they have to punish an escort by depriving them of business or the money they had expected or ask for. It's like one minute they're complimenting and crazy over you, the next minute they're saying all sort of foul shit.

 

And the reason why I tell clients I'm going to put them on such a list...is that's often the only way it seems it's going to get them to own up to their bullshit mindfuck games. They force my hand, push me to have to take drastic measures like this, in order for them to man up and just follow thru with their words.

 

That's why, I will be creating a Twitter account soon...which will specifically be dedicated to reporting these type of people. It's not funny, it's not cute...these are people who are determined to take away and break our spirit. I am trying to find the slightest bit of Christmas joy in me right now, because dealing with these clients have affected me to the core. It's like dealing with a multitude of dishonest boyfriends on a daily basis.

 

Did you not take your whining miserable "Everybody Hates Me Cause I am a Person of Color Self" and retire from this Site? Saying like tricky Dick -- "You Will Never Have Mocha to Kick Around anymore"

 

And yet here you are whining about jock itch, toe jam, the price of lube, evil clients, rampant racism, the texture of whole wheat toast, the Kennedy Assassination, why sweat socks still sweat, how come doughnuts contain no dough $$$$, why clients cancel, why drinks cost so much, why having a boy friend doesn't work, why Futons weigh so much, the cost of postage, cholesterol in fried foods, why dildos taste like ass spam even when clean, and on and on ---

 

Lets talk about why you are not on court supervised medication and what are the statistical probabilities that your anger issues will end you up in jail or not - and Why you are a Trump Athletic Supporter>>>>>>>>>>>>>?????

[Mocha]

 

You've got that right!

[Mocha]

I would love to sit down with mocha one day and would just let him vent to me all day lol, seems like he has stories for days

 

i don't think clients hate us, a real client wouldn't put an escort through so much hell. They are good and bad clients

i would say screen your would be clients more, keep conversations to a minimum so that your not wasting too much time if they no show, ask for a phone number before meeting, don't meet someone for a lower price that u don't deserve, if your traveling far to meet someone always ask for full address including apt number.

 

I know, hate is a strong word. But when I say hate, I don't mean the exact definition of hate. I mean the overall vibe. The definition I'm using for hate is: Intense hostility and aversion usually deriving from fear, anger, or sense of injury. -Merriam Webster

So based on some of the above referenced texts, there's hostility in some of these interactions...which may be based on fear, anger or I'd say...a sense of INSECURITY. Fear that I may not live up to their expectations, anger at previous experiences, or an insecurity about the overall encounter. So what do they do? Get hostile. Haggle the rate. Flake. Send nasty texts. And basically...HATE

 

Everything you're suggesting, I'm doing it. I'm screening. I'm keeping it to a Minimum, I'm getting all the imperative information upfront. The reason why I'm able to collect when they flake, is because I've screened them to the point where they know, I'm to be taken seriously. This has been working great for the past couple months. It's just so happens, the season changes, people want to show their ass and act out. It's like school children, the closer to the holidays and summer break, the more they act out. 40, 50 and 60 year old men are still doing the same elementary school bullshit.

 

My first reply is to have them introduce themselves along with when and where the session takes place. Even though it seems like I'm making rookie mistakes, I don't really know until that agreed time comes.

 

Sometimes I can't help it. People act how they want to act. It's up to me to make sure I speak up when they do. And it's not just clients. I'm dealing with it across the entire gay life. I just feel the whole gay life has become one big lie. Too many people flake, too many lies, few are reliable. Unless you're providing drugs or have something someone can use you for long term, have a big apartment/house and throw parties year around, these gay guys want for nothing.

 

And forget @Bearofdistinction and all that jive he talking. I will add that I feel race plays a part. I feel in addition to the hate towards escorts, there's definitely a hate towards the gay black male in many areas. And guess what? It's coming from both sides. From both Black and White men. The disrespect is appalling. The gay black dudes come off disrespectful as fuck toward myself as a black gay men and they train these white guys to disrespect us as well. And the white guys are training Black guys that we aren't shit either. Until they meet ME.

Edited December 18, 2017 by Mocha

[Mocha]

Mocha, as a famous rapper once said, Life is...too short. If you went back and saw how often you're unhappy with this or unhappy with that, it would be a real wake up call to yourself why you're always not pleased with everything. I have a new job, and a co-worker who every single solitary week bitches about everything under the sun with no end in sight. I'm so fortunate compared to everyone else I work with that I only have to see her once a week. Some people in life simply suck, no question about it, but focus your attention on those people that don't, and I assure you when you choose to be happier, life will be better.

 

I see your point, but it's easier said than done. You're saying choose to be happy, but you're not seeing and dealing with the things I've dealt with. I am happy. It's not about not being happy. What is happiness anyway? Define it. I defined hate. You define happiness. You can't just tell someone to feel a certain way, without necessarily getting their definition of it. For example, I'm happy bitching about difficult clients once in awhile. That makes me happy. That may not make YOU happy, but it suits me just fine. Don't define my happiness by your measure of happiness. And until someone knows what someone else has been thru, is going thru, and is about to go thru...saying to just be happy is like telling a person who's not in shape to go lift 300 lbs and run 10 miles and get in shape.

 

Also, I don't know your coworker. I don't know your job. Her bitching about everything under the sun is irrelevant to what I'm discussing. I'm discussing one particular matter, that is certainly not everything under the sun. A client interaction may only last 1 to 2 hours. There's 22 hours that I'm doing other things that make me happy.

Edited December 18, 2017 by Mocha

[Pulgasari1991]

The reason why I'm able to collect when they flake, is because I've screened them to the point where they know, I'm to be taken seriously.

What do you mean exactly, how that works out?

[Mocha]

And since we're on this happy train: I might as well point out how I'm staying so delightful based on all the shit I've gone thru during this joyous holiday season:

 

1. My ad/client android phone had a sudden unrepairable malfunction. Almost paid it off. It won't stay on when it's removed from the charger. Fortunately I have my texts forwarded to my personal iPhone.

 

2. Someone decided to be an opportunist and steal some things from my car while it was (unknowingly) unlocked at a hotel. Fortunently it was a "nice" crook who only took stuff that's inexpensive to replace. But still had to place a fraud alert on my credit after they tried to ring up $900 in merchandise and have other documents (along with a book I was reading to get me thru all this bull)

 

3. That was the same night, where client who only wanted to pay me $140. I was beating myself up because had I took the appointment, I'd of noticed my door was unlocked sooner.

 

4. Regular client in the area has stopped communicating with me for no reason

 

5. Got stood up by a guy on a Sunday which is supposed to be Funday.

 

6. Got stood up by another guy on Sunday Funday. Just like some appointments, he claims he never stood me up, despite our conversation Saturday night where he cancelled and then said lets meet tomorrow.

 

7. I have been staying in hotels just about every night since November 29th. The area I'm in, I have no reliable friends with a place to stay as they're either in relationships or staying with roommates. Handling non-escort business in another state so I'm forced to stay in the area until it's finished...hopefully by end of this week.

 

8. Have lost a few friends this year.

 

9. Going thru a lot of nonsense trying to find new friends

 

10. People contacting my ads getting on my nerves.

 

11. Family back home driving me crazy

 

12. Had to threaten 2 different people just to get my cancellation fee

 

13. I'm feeling my throat is getting scratchy from the quick change of weather

 

14. I'm feeling discouraged due to all the shit I'm going thru

 

So yeah..I'm just bursting with joy. But sarcasm aside, I'm not going to let those things steal my joy. At the same time, I'm not going to boast about being so happy as to pretend things don't need to be better than this. I'm just over it. And some of these people are fucking with me, not realizing what I'm going thru and I'm not being lenient to the bullshit and crap.

Edited December 18, 2017 by Mocha

[Mocha]

What do you mean exactly, how that works out?

 

I can't explain all my security measures ;-)

[jjkrkwood]

And since we're on this happy train: I might as well point out how I'm staying so delightful based on all the shit I've gone thru during this joyous holiday season:

 

1. My ad/client android phone had a sudden unrepairable malfunction. Almost paid it off. It won't stay on when it's removed from the charger. Fortunately I have my texts forwarded to my personal iPhone.

 

2. Someone decided to be an opportunist and steal some things from my car while it was (unknowingly) unlocked at a hotel. Fortunently it was a "nice" crook who only took stuff that's inexpensive to replace. But still had to place a fraud alert on my credit after they tried to ring up $900 in merchandise and have other documents (along with a book I was reading to get me thru all this bull)

 

3. That was the same night, where client who only wanted to pay me $140. I was beating myself up because had I took the appointment, I'd of noticed my door was unlocked sooner.

 

4. Regular client in the area has stopped communicating with me for no reason

 

5. Got stood up by a guy on a Sunday which is supposed to be Funday.

 

6. Got stood up by another guy on Sunday Funday. Just like some appointments, he claims he never stood me up, despite our conversation Saturday night where he cancelled and then said lets meet tomorrow.

 

7. I have been staying in hotels just about every night since November 29th. The area I'm in, I have no reliable friends with a place to stay as they're either in relationships or staying with roommates. Handling non-escort business in another state so I'm forced to stay in the area until it's finished...hopefully by end of this week.

 

8. Have lost a few friends this year.

 

9. Going thru a lot of nonsense trying to find new friends

 

10. People contacting my ads getting on my nerves.

 

11. Family back home driving me crazy

 

12. Had to threaten 2 different people just to get my cancellation fee

 

13. I'm feeling my throat is getting scratchy from the quick change of weather

 

14. I'm feeling discouraged due to all the shit I'm going thru

 

So yeah..I'm just bursting with joy. But sarcasm aside, I'm not going to let those things steal my joy. At the same time, I'm not going to boast about being so happy as to pretend things don't need to be better than this. I'm just over it. And some of these people are fucking with me, not realizing what I'm going thru and I'm not being lenient to the bullshit and crap.

 

 

Wow, you really know how to "suck the life out of a room", Omarosa !

[topinla]

Wow, you really know how to "suck the life out of a room", Omarosa !

 

@jjkrkwood you are pretty much spot on!

 

Enough of this drama. Shit happens. Get over it and move on. Quickly!

[Walker1]