Escorts who have gotten worse over time

[RenoSweeney]

I've seen this escort for over 5 years. We have had an incredible time over the years. But, the last 4 times we have met have been, well, dissapointing.

 

He has loss this ability to jump-in and completely devour me. In his hayday...He was the best kisser ever, can eat ass like nobody else and has a thick long cock and knows how to pound.

 

I wonder if anyone else has experienced this as well.

[MassageDrew]

I’ve seen a masseur a few times and while it started out great the last few times felt the same as your experience. He loves to talk and he talks nonstop. The massage is not the same as I remember. It’s like he got too comfortable to hangout instead of do what I hired him to do. And the interaction is less than before.

[craigville beach]

I've seen this escort for over 5 years. We have had an incredible time over the years. But, the last 4 times we have met have been, well, dissapointing.

 

He has loss this ability to jump-in and completely devour me. In his hayday...He was the best kisser ever, can eat ass like nobody else and has a thick long cock and knows how to pound.

 

I wonder if anyone else has experienced this as well.

 

sorry to report but it is a business service, and it is time that you seek another provider who you feel will provide what you are paying for.

[coriolis888]

 

I've seen this escort for over 5 years. We have had an incredible time over the years. But, the last 4 times we have met have been, well, dissapointing.

 

He has loss this ability to jump-in and completely devour me. In his hayday...He was the best kisser ever, can eat ass like nobody else and has a thick long cock and knows how to pound.

 

 

This is what happens after "the fire goes out" on a relationship, be it a paid relationship or not.

 

It is time to move on and find someone else.

[MPF_1966]

It is the nature of human relationships. I saw an escort on and off for three years. The sex was amazing and even got better until it stopped getting better. After a while, the chemistry was just not there anymore. Still I often recommend him highly when I see 411 requests on the forum because three years of fantastic sex is worth recommending.

[jawjateck]

It ended 3 meetings ago. Sorry, but it happens.

[Angel]

I’ve been having interesting experience with one guy when every second appointment with him was much better than every first one Lol

[Pepper Young]

I've seen this one guy for awhile now. Last couple of times all we did was cuddle and kiss and chat. And that was fine.

[Finbar]

As other, have had the same situation; however, would add, do enjoy the interviewing of candidates till finding my next regular.

[adventurous old guy]

I've seen this escort for over 5 years. We have had an incredible time over the years. But, the last 4 times we have met have been, well, dissapointing.

 

He has loss this ability to jump-in and completely devour me. In his hayday...He was the best kisser ever, can eat ass like nobody else and has a thick long cock and knows how to pound.

 

I wonder if anyone else has experienced this as well.

Perhaps you can shift this dynamic with a positively worded request/suggestion along these lines: I love seeing you, we've had some of the hottest sex I've ever experienced. Let's shake it up next time -- any new moves to share?

 

A message something like that puts the ball in his court to use what he knows about you to come up with something fresh. I just tried this when I felt a guy I'd seen four times hadn't brought his A game to our last interlude, again because we are becoming comfortable friends of a sort. it worked well.

[LaffingBear]

Let's see.

 

Paying for it, its losing its appeal, and being advised to work at it. To take on responsibility for the hire's disappointing performance.

 

Its supposed to be a pleasurable experience. Not work.

 

Disappointing, perhaps some nostalgia involved, but time to move on.

 

And yes, happened to me. Easy to sit here and opine... wasnt quite so easy to resist temptation to focus only on the good times, overlooking the more recent disappointments, when I was in the mood or saw an ad.

[gallahadesquire]

Twice. One was a guy who I saw over five years. The last visit was non-interactive. But I think he'd met his eventual Husband at that point.

 

The other: Alec Andrews. I asked for a two hour appointment, he offered one. No physical contact. A complete waste. This was like a month before he retired. I think it's best that he did.

[adventurous old guy]

I think another part of this dynamic is service providers who have no plan, and the malaise that happens when after a while one's life feels like its drifting. If you've got the right looks and personality, escorting is an easy field to enter, the big question is what will you do next. Although I miss one guy I saw regularly who has moved on -- Derrick from DC, I hope that it is because he's doing something better with his life. He was escorting to pay for school, that should be done now, and hopefully he's off to the races.

 

Don't mean to sound judgmental in using the term "better." For the right person, who's got other interests in his life, this could be a longer term gig that is the best fit. Rich Reynolds, for example, told me he escorts because he wants to travel and buy expensive toys like motorcycles, and he hates the idea of 9 to 5 structure. So escorting is an empowering means to an end, and that makes sense to me. Another guy I've seen a few times has a full fledged career as a nurse, but is clearly a thrill seeker. He's in his 30s, intelligent, and has brought new energy to each of our encounters, so I figure it must be working for him. In contrast I've met a couple other guys for whom escorting seems like treading water until they meet someone to take care of them. I always get a little sad when I feel that vibe.

 

Sorry, meandering as I think out loud. Back to our regularly scheduled programming...

[bigvalboy]

It has not happened to me...but then again, I like a lot of variety, and rarely hire the same escort more than a few times. Beyond that, the excitement and lust tend to wain. Even with the stripper boys, I tend to move around a lot. I do repeat, but it's easy to avoid a rut. Plenty of guys out there to experiment and have fun with.

[Traveler North]

I've seen this escort for over 5 years. We have had an incredible time over the years. But, the last 4 times we have met have been, well, dissapointing.

 

He has loss this ability to jump-in and completely devour me. In his hayday...He was the best kisser ever, can eat ass like nobody else and has a thick long cock and knows how to pound.

 

I wonder if anyone else has experienced this as well.

 

I have been a few escorts over a period of time and frankly they are hot as ever if not better as time goes on. Guess I must be lucky.

[Phil_musc]

I think what the OP described could be just another manifestation of the BFE. Or at least the ex-BFE.

[Becket]

Not to be Captain Obvious here......but......People change over time. So do you. So do I. Therefore the dynamic of the experience will change.

[Bearofdistinction]

I've seen this escort for over 5 years. We have had an incredible time over the years. But, the last 4 times we have met have been, well, dissapointing.

 

He has loss this ability to jump-in and completely devour me. In his hayday...He was the best kisser ever, can eat ass like nobody else and has a thick long cock and knows how to pound.

 

I wonder if anyone else has experienced this as well.

 

Familiarity - same things happened to married folk/str8 nd gay.

Talk to him about spicing things up == try something new -- bring in a third - Let the Cat watch

 

Send me his name and number please sounds like for fresh meat he would be great fun!

[marylander1940]

Not to be Captain Obvious here......but......People change over time. So do you. So do I. Therefore the dynamic of the experience will change.

 

Exactly we change physically and emotionally too. Besides folks age, put on a few pounds too, muscle sometimes...

[Epigonos]

Every regular on this site has heard me repeat over and over again “different stokes for different folks. The same is true here. Some clients thrive on the excitement of new hires while other revel in repeats. The two experiences are very different and probably appeal to very different clients.

 

Speaking for myself I greatly enjoy the experience of getting to know the guys I hire and developing a relationship/friendship with them. Everything evolves including sexual experiences and I derive great pleasure from that evolution. I have been seeing one escort for fifteen years (guess who) and our sex today is very different than it was when we first started seeing each other. It isn’t less exciting it is just different. In long term relationships whether social friendship or in hiring escorts I firmly believe it is as much my responsibility as the other persons to maintain the relationship. Over time we learn what turns the other partner on and for me that expands the sexual experience to another level.

 

Do I continue to hire new guys -- of course! Something a little different now and then is exciting. Do I enjoy the thrill of the unknown – of course! I am, for example, meeting a totally new guy tomorrow evening. Am I excited about meeting him – of course! Will I continue to get together with him – who knows? Yet even enjoying the above I know that I will continue to return to my two or three long established regulars – it is lots of fun knowing, in advance, which buttons rev our motors.

[Bearofdistinction]

I've seen this one guy for awhile now. Last couple of times all we did was cuddle and kiss and chat. And that was fine.

 

Sometimes that can be a really nice encounter -- That is also a great way to re-ignite that steamy sexual connection.

Edited December 11, 2017 by Bearofdistinction

[Gadfly22]

I've seen this escort for over 5 years. We have had an incredible time over the years. But, the last 4 times we have met have been, well, dissapointing.

 

He has loss this ability to jump-in and completely devour me. In his hayday...He was the best kisser ever, can eat ass like nobody else and has a thick long cock and knows how to pound.

 

I wonder if anyone else has experienced this as well.

 

Is he on RM or one of the other sites? If so can you tell us who he is?

If you like the guy and are worried that your post may diminish his reputation I wouldn't be.

It actually intrigued me. I'd like to see what he looks like. I'm always willing to take a chance on a good kisser.

[+ purplekow]

I’ve been having interesting experience with one guy when every second appointment with him was much better than every first one Lol

How odd, well more to point, how even.

[johnjohn]

I have had several guys that started out as hires, became friends over time. Now no sex , or money exchanged . Not sure how it happens, I think because i treat them nice, and as a Person , not just sex , really like to know their story . Actually one had became my best friend. And our parents have became friends.

on the other hand New hires are best for me for the relations

[marylander1940]

I've seen this escort for over 5 years. We have had an incredible time over the years. But, the last 4 times we have met have been, well, dissapointing.

 

He has loss this ability to jump-in and completely devour me. In his hayday...He was the best kisser ever, can eat ass like nobody else and has a thick long cock and knows how to pound.

 

I wonder if anyone else has experienced this as well.

 

Have you tried telling him kiss me more like you used to? Escorts cannot read your mind.

 

How long was his “hayday”?

 

The last four disappointing encounters have they been over a period of a month or a year?