Overnights

[+ freecahill1965]

Awesome feedback, thank you!

[+ VictorPowers]

Thank you, great advice. I am planning an overnight. My idea is to fool around first. Get food, go see a comedy show who does not like a good to laugh. Might play touchy feely if no one is looking. Go back to hotel fool around some more. Sleep, fool around some more offer breakfast out then leave. I figure if I cum 3x times and had an enjoyable time. I got my money's worth. Does that sounds reasonable?

You bet! Bedroom activities and non bedroom activities. Sounds like a nice blend of the two.

[MscleLovr]

I was just thinking of an awesome blowjob to end the festivities. I agree morning is probably not the best time for certain activities.

 

I feel you're being reasonable in your expectations. Please be direct and ensure you communicate them clearly to the lucky guy you'll be hiring. It's your money you're spending and the escort is no mind-reader.

 

I also would make a point of emphasising what is important to you (whatever it is: lots of kissing with tongue, seeing the other guy cum 2x, having him swallow your load etc)

[+ VictorPowers]

having him swallow your load etc)

Sounds like breakfast plans have been arranged.

[+ freecahill1965]

having him swallow your load etc)

 

Wow, very pervocative. What an awesome blow job that would be! Do escorts really swallow or you just being facetious?

[mike carey]

Wow, very pervocative.

'Pervocative'! I love it!

 

Fun fact: Facetious is one of the very few words with all five vowels in alphabetical order.

[+ VictorPowers]

'Pervocative'! I love it!

 

Fun fact: Facetious is one of the very few words with all five vowels in alphabetical order.

Facetious is literally my middle name. It's a favorite word of mine. I'm ever so facetious in the most delightful of ways... As my forum posts dictate exactly that.

 

I think ONs have their time and place. Not every client is cut out for an ON and sometimes it's a mutual decision not to want one. I'm a big fan of BFE, so ONs tend to be something I enjoy. Every provider and client is different and have there own needs. An ON might fulfill that or maybe it won't.

[mike carey]

Facetious is literally my middle name. It's a favorite word of mine.

You? I would never have guessed. You're always so serious and formal here! I am also serious and staid all the time.

 

I like the idea of ONs and have enjoyed them. The idea of lying there with arms and legs entwined is great. Constant pounding for the duration of a session is not the be-all and end all.

[big-n-tall]

Wow, very pervocative. What an awesome blow job that would be! Do escorts really swallow or you just being facetious?

 

Some do, some don't. Just ask them if they do or not.

[+ freecahill1965]

Some do, some don't. Just ask them if they do or not.

 

I am not sure I would ask but good to know. Worried it might be a turn off. It is the sucking pressure and the tongue moment during the cumming that can really highten the ecstasy of the moment though some can do it with out actually swallowing.

[MscleLovr]

Wow, very pervocative. What an awesome blow job that would be! Do escorts really swallow or you just being facetious?

 

Some do, some don't. Just ask them if they do or not.

 

Provocative? Maybe. But what's wrong with spelling out exactly what you like and want? A good escort may be very intuitive but you cannot expect the guy to be a mind-reader.

 

My experience mirrors that of @big-n-tall. For me, an escort experience was always a menu, not a checklist, so I'd ask what they enjoy doing. Also I would mention that I enjoy getting sucked off, that I like to unload in a guy's mouth and that I find it insanely hot if he swallows my load. Some guys truly enjoy swallowing loads. For me, it wasn't a deal-breaker if a hot guy didn't swallow; but if he wanted to suck me off using a condom, I politely moved onto another guy.

[+ freecahill1965]

Provocative? Maybe. But what's wrong with spelling out exactly what you like and want? A good escort may be very intuitive but you cannot expect the guy to be a mind-reader.

 

My experience mirrors that of @big-n-tall. For me, an escort experience was always a menu, not a checklist, so I'd ask what they enjoy doing. Also I would mention that I enjoy getting sucked off, that I like to unload in a guy's mouth and that I find it insanely hot if he swallows my load. Some guys truly enjoy swallowing loads. For me, it wasn't a deal-breaker if a hot guy didn't swallow; but if he wanted to suck me off using a condom, I politely moved onto another guy.

Awesome feedback!

[ncc1701d]

I have found that ON are not ideal for great sex and also time to just lie/sit there, enjoy food, and each other's company and to get to know the person, not the escort. With taking time to play, eat, sleep etc I find a typical ON of 12 hrs too short in the morning. So I usually either shorten to an evening or extend to a full day. Just works better in my mind for me

[+ freecahill1965]

I have found that ON are not ideal for great sex and also time to just lie/sit there, enjoy food, and each other's company and to get to know the person, not the escort. With taking time to play, eat, sleep etc I find a typical ON of 12 hrs too short in the morning. So I usually either shorten to an evening or extend to a full day. Just works better in my mind for me

 

Well, I can't argue with anyone with the call name ncc1701d. It would be sacrilegious.