Why do we rent?

[mike carey]

I've hired for varying lengths of time. When I started I booked for short times, typically an hour or 90 minutes. I came to see that as not being all that satisfying, 'Wham bam, thank you man', but on occasions it is the way to go. I read the advice here, and came to the view that 2-3 hours was the best way to go, then promptly ignored it. I've hired a couple of guys for overnights or multiple days without doing a trial run first, they worked but gave me food for thought about what I want out of a meeting and when I want, or indeed need, to have a companion with me, and when I want to pay for that companionship. I don't always need to have someone with me to enjoy experiences, although to be sure sometimes it is nice. Long story short, I hire because I want companionship or more for a specific time and to do specific things. It's not quite a fear of commitment, but it is borne of a desire for diverse experiences. A couple of hours with a guy who will hug me and cuddle me, an hour with someone who will pound me or a night of gentle conversation, touch and yes, having his way with me. All of these things.

[SROSFanboy]

I haven't hired in awhile, but when I do it has been usually for 2+ hours - I usually can't relax around someone unless I've at least talked with him over dinner or broken the ice in some other way first. When I hire, it's specifically to be with the type of guy that is my ideal, the occasion to hire has gotten more and more rare, especially as base rates for escorts has continued to rise. The few times I hired overnight, I found it a waste of money, because you're gonna be sleeping much of that time, so why pay for someone to sleep next to you? Especially in my case, where I have a hard time sleeping next to someone I don't know very well. My reason for hiring is to fulfill a fantasy or to experience affection from someone you truly makes your heart pound. On rare occasion (I think it's only happened twice), the escort may offer to be a companion for dinner or some other activity, at no charge, because he knows you're alone traveling in his area and enjoys your company.

[+ oldNbusted]

I'm in the 2+ hour club, it takes a while to get the motor running these days, so 1 hour leaves me feeling rushed and not satisfied, which kinda defeats the purpose...

[+ DrownedBoy]

I usually only hire for an hour, for some of the reasons others have mentioned. Particularly, I'd rather spend 1 hour with two different guys than 2 hours with a single guy. I just love "sampling" different escorts. Even with my regulars, I tend to switch after so many months.

 

The only time I'll do two hours is if the escort is really attractive to me.

 

As to why I hire - I do it to satisfy my fetishes, which are rather unusual. When I was younger, I'd tell my boyfriends about my fetish, but without exception, it creeped them out (one actually broke up with me because of it). Now that I'm older and more financially secure, I'm able to satisfy myself without scaring away my boyfriend(s).

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I do it to satisfy my fetishes, which are rather unusual.

 

Are you comfortable to share these with us?

 

(actually now I'm worried it has sth to do with your user name)

 

I'm so vanilla, I must be quite boring to my escorts, so I'm interested to know more.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Are you comfortable to share these with us?

 

(actually now I'm worried it has sth to do with your user name)

 

I'm so vanilla, I must be quite boring to my escorts, so I'm interested to know more.

 

Hehe...keep guessing.

[Jay DC]

I hire because I genuinely enjoy meeting these guys. I find most to actually have a healthy attitude about sex. I like that they are sexy and uninhibited. Looking at them naked is how I start my engine. I love their stories of where they live and why. I try not to probe into their personal lives, but I do like to know if they travel and what cities they like best or dislike. With one exception. most of my repeat business is spent on guys who are good conversationalists and hot in the sack. My one exception is so hot and sexy that I look past the fact he can barely string two words together.

 

For a first time meeting, I usually book an hour, but bring enough to cover a second hour. I connected with an escort once who I booked for an hour and it turned into an overnight. He's now a regular and I just love him, not love love, but really appreciate our time together.

 

I date some and use scruff and wonder what would happen if I dated someone who turned out to be a special someone, but didn't like escorts. Could I give up 20 years of experience with escorts? Many of whom are among my most favorite memories? Or would a partner have to also appreciate my fondness for meeting new friends? Time will tell.

[BoyBerlin]

And for how long?

 

I know we hire for the usual reasons – to get our rocks off, get it on our terms – when, where, and how we like it, no strings attached.

 

But . . . I’m curious. How do we hire? Is it for 1 hour, 2 hours, 3 or 5 hours, overnights, weekends, etc.

 

I always hire for at least 2 hours, occasionally 3 or 5 hours if it is a traveling guy who only rarely visits my area. My reason for hiring for these periods is the above, of course, and the intimacy a longer hire allows. Every escort I see is a real pro at the cuddling, the holding, the skin to skin relaxing, the bringing down from the high. I crave this – does anyone else?

 

Why do I hire?

There are a few reasons:

The control: I am human and know that escorts are people but I will admit for the time spent there is a feeling of being able to ask for what you want, order a guy around to do exactly what I want. Of course when I hire the limits are pre-discussed but I really get off on having a hot guy follow my instruction and just having to think about my own pleasure and after I am done putting my cloths on and walking away. I can fuck as hard as I want. and a real professional escort knows how to take it. Don't have to worry about "getting him off" for the hour its about me and it feels great! When its not an escort (just a hook up) its just not the same. Not many situations in life where you could have this type of control with it being legal (I live in Europe and prostitution is legal here).

The thrill: its the thrill of looking for the escort online, making the call, getting to the location, seeing a new face, ripping cloths off, slapping a hot ass and doing what I want. Sometimes this is more fun than the sex itself.

The sex: Unlike a lot of clients who write on here. I really don't care about passion when I hire. I actually prefer a transactional escort. My ideal escort would be a guy who is masculine and straight or at least straight acting and professional. I really don't like the concept of a guy who gives me his whole life story. I just want to meet, fuck, pay and leave. To me passion should be reserved for an alternative situation. Also, as a top a professional escort is prepared (most times) to be able to take it without the whole pain thing. I mean there must be some pain but they are use to it.

 

How long:

I never do more than an hour. I normally cum so quick that more than an hour would be a waste of money. I alway pre-negotiate cuming twice in the hour.

[LADoug1]

Why do I hire?

There are a few reasons:

The control: I am human and know that escorts are people but I will admit for the time spent there is a feeling of being able to ask for what you want, order a guy around to do exactly what I want. Of course when I hire the limits are pre-discussed but I really get off on having a hot guy follow my instruction and just having to think about my own pleasure and after I am done putting my cloths on and walking away. I can fuck as hard as I want. and a real professional escort knows how to take it. Don't have to worry about "getting him off" for the hour its about me and it feels great! When its not an escort (just a hook up) its just not the same. Not many situations in life where you could have this type of control with it being legal (I live in Europe and prostitution is legal here).

The thrill: its the thrill of looking for the escort online, making the call, getting to the location, seeing a new face, ripping cloths off, slapping a hot ass and doing what I want. Sometimes this is more fun than the sex itself.

The sex: Unlike a lot of clients who write on here. I really don't care about passion when I hire. I actually prefer a transactional escort. My ideal escort would be a guy who is masculine and straight or at least straight acting and professional. I really don't like the concept of a guy who gives me his whole life story. I just want to meet, fuck, pay and leave. To me passion should be reserved for an alternative situation. Also, as a top a professional escort is prepared (most times) to be able to take it without the whole pain thing. I mean there must be some pain but they are use to it.

 

How long:

I never do more than an hour. I normally cum so quick that more than an hour would be a waste of money. I alway pre-negotiate cuming twice in the hour.

 

Not my style at all. For the most part I prefer the opposite.