Clients with ED

[AdamSmith]

You know, given the power of male sexual hormones, the whole body is that organ.

 

With full ability to generate orgasm!

[AndreFuture]

I'm mostly being silly. I'm one for two, now. Two surpassed one in a spectacular way. I could not believe I was having such a great experience.

I'm so happy for you!

[Mount N Do]

For the record I was scared shitless! Luckily this guy came highly recommended from someone on this site. I just wished I was filthy rich to afford him weekly. Like I told him if I was 20 years younger I was too a rather cute bear/type back then I would date him as a non escort cause he's 100% my type lol

Yeah well, you'd have to get past me. I saw him first bitch!

[Jose305]

Yeah well, you'd have to get past me. I saw him first bitch!

Let's set up a duel the winner takes all bitch hahahahaha

[Meo]

Up until my mid 50s, I would ejaculate spontaneously while TOTALLY FLACCID - NOT even a semi/chub! If the massage was good -- and with out any touch or stimulation near my groin -- it is all energy.

 

My first massage (I was in College) was totally draped - I ejaculated spontaneously as described above - the masseur saw the wet spot -- no swelling of penis so no tenting of drape - He started yelling at me and ended the massage

I'm so sorry this happened to you. These kind of stories make me a little crazy because for so many men in our tense culture, just going for a massage is stressful. Bad masseur.

 

Your former condition I think is one of the most common and least discussed, just a sudden energy release that takes that form. In the wrestling community this is far from uncommon, guys so turned on by wrestling that they release in gear, sometimes before an actual erection or without ever getting hard. I've been with numerous guys where this happens and the absolute last thing I want to do is make them feel at all uncomfortable about it.

 

@SuperJunior, back to ED, as you explore masseurs more you might ask for more anal and perineum play from those you come to like and trust. If you stay soft it will still feel good, and the stimulation may surprise you. I know a 48 year-old and a 50 year-old who both worried a lot about ED but who both ended up having a hands-free ejaculation (one a self-facial!) because the back door stimulation was so unexpectedly good!

[+ HornyRetiree]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. These kind of stories make me a little crazy because for so many men in our tense culture, just going for a massage is stressful. Bad masseur.

 

Your former condition I think is one of the most common and least discussed, just a sudden energy release that takes that form. In the wrestling community this is far from uncommon, guys so turned on by wrestling that they release in gear, sometimes before an actual erection or without ever getting hard. I've been with numerous guys where this happens and the absolute last thing I want to do is make them feel at all uncomfortable about it.

 

@SuperJunior, back to ED, as you explore masseurs more you might ask for more anal and perineum play from those you come to like and trust. If you stay soft it will still feel good, and the stimulation may surprise you. I know a 48 year-old and a 50 year-old who both worried a lot about ED but who both ended up having a hands-free ejaculation (one a self-facial!) because the back door stimulation was so unexpectedly good!

 

Thanks Meo for this information! I figured I couldn't be the only one! I did not know about wrestlers though I have seen pictures of them w/erections.

 

@SuperJunior ! I can verify advice to you - I have a local Massuer who is very skilled in this area!

[SuperJunior]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. These kind of stories make me a little crazy because for so many men in our tense culture, just going for a massage is stressful. Bad masseur.

 

Your former condition I think is one of the most common and least discussed, just a sudden energy release that takes that form. In the wrestling community this is far from uncommon, guys so turned on by wrestling that they release in gear, sometimes before an actual erection or without ever getting hard. I've been with numerous guys where this happens and the absolute last thing I want to do is make them feel at all uncomfortable about it.

 

@SuperJunior, back to ED, as you explore masseurs more you might ask for more anal and perineum play from those you come to like and trust. If you stay soft it will still feel good, and the stimulation may surprise you. I know a 48 year-old and a 50 year-old who both worried a lot about ED but who both ended up having a hands-free ejaculation (one a self-facial!) because the back door stimulation was so unexpectedly good!

 

Thanks. I did experience that with the masseur I just saw. I didn't get erect, but it felt amazing. I actually don't remember ever having that exact feeling before, but I was almost always top until this ED issue.

[scottspearsxxx]

No worries!

[Meo]

Thanks. I did experience that with the masseur I just saw. I didn't get erect, but it felt amazing. I actually don't remember ever having that exact feeling before, but I was almost always top until this ED issue.

Great to hear. I know guys in your situation who refer to it as "bliss"--they didn't get erect or ejaculate, but they felt like their prostate released and allowed them to enjoy it just about as much as a typical orgasm. In some Eastern massage and bodywork cultures this is considered a basic relaxation massage, and we have lost a lot of that mindset in the West.

[+ HornyRetiree]

Thanks. I did experience that with the masseur I just saw. I didn't get erect, but it felt amazing. I actually don't remember ever having that exact feeling before, but I was almost always top until this ED issue.

 

@SuperJunior -- see if this Masseur will go one step further and actually massage/milk your prostate -- The combination of everything could have you ejaculate w/o an erection. We do not have to be hard to ejaculate -- remember I was 100% flaccid back when I would ejaculate spontaneously during massages. Regardless it will feel terrific and clear the the prostate -- let the precum flow!

[MassageDrew]

Frankly I prefer a good make out session with a masseur than a HE

[+ HornyRetiree]

Quote from another site that agrees with my statement it is all energy --

 

"Obviously none of you know anything about reiki and the energy and how it can move a male or females chakara and body into action... Obviously most of you still need to study up on spirit and what all energy can do both metaphysically and physically to the body mind and spirit...

 

Learn about reiki and energies mixing and such, and then you will begin to further understand why someone might ejaculate while getting a massage if energy is involved or used."

[Meo]

@SuperJunior -- see if this Masseur will go one step further and actually massage/milk your prostate -- The combination of everything could have you ejaculate w/o an erection. We do not have to be hard to ejaculate -- remember I was 100% flaccid back when I would ejaculate spontaneously during massages. Regardless it will feel terrific and clear the the prostate -- let the precum flow!

Excellent idea! This is what I was thinking and hoping good anal play could lead to. I'm a total top but I really enjoy milking guys' prostates. I get three general responses: 1) no ejaculation but a clear "bliss" experience, usually with at least flowing precum--this is sort of a slow massage BFE; 2) a true milking, a massive ejaculation while still flaccid--always a huge amount and often achieved by jerking the tucked cock downwards backwards along the taint; 3) an erection and massive ejaculation, sometimes achieved with a downward cock if it took awhile to get hard and the guy can stay hard in that position. I've never gotten a "stop, this hurts" reaction, and I used to regularly milk one well known video wrestler who could cum hands free and also shoot backwards over his own ass!

[Michael Paul]

Do you prefer to know up front if a client suffers from ED? Does it bother you if he does? Mine is sporadic but frequent. I've decided to see a few masseurs since I really love body-to-body contact and I hope for some frot, but I know eventually (Soon. Very soon. July, I think.) I'll want to explore an encounter that includes more and I don't want to come across as insulting to a perfectly fine man by my lack of wood/chub. I'm not all that hung up on having an orgasm, anyway, but I'm green as grass to this process. Thanks.

 

Being an Escort / Erotic Masseur Ed is not an issues for me ..it happens to all of us at one time or another. The point is to relax and enjoy what is a taking place. If your thinking the whole time

"I hope I get an erection or even have a climax"..you mind will take over at that point. Don't stress over. Have fun and relax. Enjoy the moment.

[Chuckball]

I recently had an experience with an incredibly sexy escort. He was grinding on top of me. I wasn't fully erect but the sensation was so overwhelming that I experienced what some posts here call "bliss". I was somewhat embarrassed but the escort took it in stride and even licked up my cum. So to @SuperJunior I would say that the experience is great whatever form it takes.

[LADoug1]

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah go ahead and be naked and undraped -- give him the opportunity to massage everything -- whether it happens or not!:)

 

Do massages give you erections?

 

Up until my mid 50s, I would ejaculate spontaneously while TOTALLY FLACCID - NOT even a semi/chub! If the massage was good -- and with out any touch or stimulation near my groin -- it is all energy.

 

My first massage (I was in College) was totally draped - I ejaculated spontaneously as described above - the masseur saw the wet spot -- no swelling of penis so no tenting of drape - He started yelling at me and ended the massage

 

FROM THAT day on I always told the masseur up front that with good massages I ejaculated spontaneously - soft and w/o help - I would be undraped and I preferred that they be nude as well - Now I only go to those who will massage nude -- and it takes some help for the ejaculation.

Communication is always king.

[myophile]

This resonates. I had prostate surgery a couple of years ago; it took a while, but once the man-bits started responding vigorously to, um, self-stimulation, I figured I was also good to go with a partner, so I hired a SRSLY hot bodybuilder to celebrate. Oops! Apparently there are several varieties of prostatectomy-related ED. Mine seems to be psychological, or mostly. It wasn't awful -- *I* had a fabulous time -- but I felt bad for the escort, who was willing and creative and as sweet as could be, but not a miracle-worker; and he was a little dismayed on my behalf. (I saw this guy again recently, and we both had a MUCH better and more productive time, so obviously I need to prescribe myself a regular therapeutic dose of his humongousness. But I digress.) Anyway, the incident has made me consider masseurs as way to ease myself back into one-on-one sessions. I'm hoping that massage-as-foreplay might help with the performance anxiety. Any thoughts?

[+ VictorPowers]

As always, clear communication is best. I have had encounters involving mild ED. We both still find many ways to have a great time.

[escortrod]

I don't know if little blue pills are near 100% effective, but I personally found it outrageous that I had a co-worker want to but balk at paying out of pocket for circumcising their new grandson because insurance denied it as a "luxury expense", yet she was able to get Cialis for her son-in-law which is considered "medically necessary"!

Well, unless it's medically indicated circumcision is not medically necessary. I know it's a contentious issue in the US, but that much at least is true.

[+ 7829V]

I don't know if little blue pills are near 100% effective, but I personally found it outrageous that I had a co-worker want to but balk at paying out of pocket for circumcising their new grandson because insurance denied it as a "luxury expense", yet she was able to get Cialis for her son-in-law which is considered "medically necessary"!

Cialis is used to treat a heart condition too. In Mexico is sold over the counter for that purpose.

[Jomo]

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