Any advice/directions for deepthroating

[+ quoththeraven]

Raven-- ya darty thing! Nice to see you out of the political forum and contributing to general hotness!

 

Kipp

 

I have in the past. You just didn't notice.

[+ lookingforfunny]

Bump. Happy New Year reading!

[+ nycman]

My advice: pay attention. Learn your limits. Learn what he likes. Trust me, when you focus on what you're doing and his reactions, you'll notice a hitch in his breath when you lick a certain way. Or maybe he likes very light suction. Or maybe he enjoys alot of lube, a firm hand--but not too firm--on his shaft while you gently suck and lick the head of his cock in a motion that simulates penetration. Every guy is different. Some LOVE a finger rubbing behind their balls while you suck. Some love a finger rubbing over their anus or perhaps playing with their nipples. Some really get off on having their balls licked or gently sucked. Does he get off on holding your head and fucking your mouth? If he enjoys deepthroat and you're able to go there, does he enjoy holding your neck so he can feel as his cock penetrates your throat? Does he want lots of saliva?

 

Oh! I almost forgot, many guys like how gagging feels on their cock, plus it adds a psychological dimension that makes them feel very powerful (control over your life) and turned on that you'd submit yourself so completely. If your guy enjoys gagging, you can learn how to control it a bit so it doesn't actually lead to throwing up, but that's an advanced course.

 

Ask him what he likes and explore. Pay attention to his reactions. His breathing. Does his cock throb when you do a certain thing? The list goes on.

I know this is an old post....but god damn that’s hot!

 

It reads like a playbook for a game I can’t wait to play!

 

Send me in coach!

[+ lookingforfunny]

Just to note: men on average have a natural advantage over women when it comes to deepthoating: their mouths are larger and wider and their throats are deeper. They may also have a better idea of what works from personal experience.

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[jjkrkwood]

You dont need to Deepthroat..... "If you Suck it, they will Cum".....

[+ lookingforfunny]

You dont need to Deepthroat..... "If you Suck it, they will Cum".....

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[LADoug1]

Happened to me once too. When I was younger, and much more submissive, I stayed with a guy for a weekend as his 'puppy'. At one point he had me in a cage, with a head restraint hole in the end. He throat fucked me in that, and I was unable to warn him...

 

These days if I know I'm going to deepthroat a challenging cock I fast for at least a few hours.

 

I don’t let a guy face fuck me. I want to be in control.

[+ quoththeraven]

Can we have a definition of terms here? There's fast-paced thrusting in and out and then there's going deep and staying there. I think of the former as face-fucking and the latter as deep-throating.

 

I haven't really experienced the former; the latter is pretty much a no-go for me because I can't breathe. I have intermittent breathing problems already; adding to them isn't fun for me.

[Rudynate]

I really like deep-throating and getting face-fucked, and I don't like to ruin the mood. When I need some air, I press gently on his stomach or his torso with the flat of my hand. I've never yet encountered a guy who didn't back off after that signal.

[+ quoththeraven]

I really like deep-throating and getting face-fucked, and I don't like to ruin the mood. When I need some air, I press gently on his stomach or his torso with the flat of my hand. I've never yet encountered a guy who didn't back off after that signal.

I've done that, but I need air almost immediately, which defeats the purpose.

 

If that's the only kind of oral one's partner likes, then it's going to be off the menu entirely for me.

[Rudynate]

I've done that, but I need air almost immediately, which defeats the purpose.

 

If that's the only kind of oral one's partner likes, then it's going to be off the menu entirely for me.

 

 

If you're frantic for air, I can see that it wouldn't work for you.

[+ quoththeraven]

If you're frantic for air, I can see that it wouldn't work for you.

It's more a state of frozen internal panic, but yes.

[TruthBTold]

I have found that I can feel when a guy let's my cock go as far as he can let it go. Sort of to the back of his throat and lets it stay there for as long as he can. Not sure if that is deep throating but I can feel a definite difference than he regular (and very nice) blow job. I think you can face fuck without there necessarily being any deep throating at all.

[Trick]

I met an escort who was very good at coaching me how to deepthroat. I’ve always been able to do it with ease after that.

[phraughy]

I find that I can deepthroat much better when 69'ing (depending on the shape and curve) - something about the angle allows me to slurp down quite a mouthful.

Yes, I have found the same for me as well. I am amazed what I can take at that position.

[Rudynate]

It's more a state of frozen internal panic, but yes.

 

 

Is it overwhelm?

[Pulgasari1991]

Here's a tutorial: http://www.hugedildohomepage.com/19793.html

[+ quoththeraven]

Is it overwhelm?

No, that's not the right term, either. More like I'm expecting imminent unconsciousness, which would at least have the benefit of relieving my discomfort and panic and enable my partner to get a clue.

[+ peterhung85]

Once I saw a client with an escort friend of mine. His request before we met him was that he wanted to get deepthroated by one of us and top the other. I chose to deepthroat him and my buddy decided to bottom. When he opened the door, it was this 19 years old, 6'7, solid muscle, handsome Greek guy. Turned out he was 14" and thick (when I say thick, I mean T-H-I-C-K)! My buddy told him to forget about topping him but I went for it (I like challenges anyway ). I managed to get in about 11" then it was just physically impossible. At the end, he said that he wasn't "that big" and I told him that he was right... IMO among horses, he was downright average!

 

My point is: Everybody has a physical limit and you are already predisposed as to how much you can actually take.

 

My suggestion is to try different angles... you will see, some positions can make a world of difference!

[Studman69]

I find that I can deepthroat much better when 69'ing (depending on the shape and curve) - something about the angle allows me to slurp down quite a mouthful.

[+ freecahill1965]

I find that I can deepthroat much better when 69'ing (depending on the shape and curve) - something about the angle allows me to slurp down quite a mouthful.

Sounds good to me, when you coming to Boston.

[matt842]

I know many will disagree, but I think the ability to deep throat is more biological than an acquired behavior. I am not saying that one cannot acquire the ability, but I think it's easier for some than others. I was a late bloomer and didn't start sucking until I was over 40, but I was able to deep throat pretty quickly. For me, it's all about relaxing and finding the correct angle, and that all depends on the guy I am sucking. I have had guys tell me that I am one of the few men who was ever able to take them completely, and I attribute that to a few factors. First, I probably have a wider than average throat. Second, I don't have much of a gag reflex. It is good to gag some, because that makes me salivate profusely, and that makes deep throating a lot easier. Third, I don't force it. I find the best angle and then go down all the way.

 

There's a lot of good advice here, but it really depends on you. For example, lubing a cock might make it easier for one person to deep throat it, but it would make me gag (and not in a good way) to try to deep throat a lubed cock. The most important advice is to relax. Relaxed throat muscles are the key to deep throating, and it might be easier for some to do that than others.

[Rudynate]

I know many will disagree, but I think the ability to deep throat is more biological than an acquired behavior. I am not saying that one cannot acquire the ability, but I think it's easier for some than others. I was a late bloomer and didn't start sucking until I was over 40, but I was able to deep throat pretty quickly. For me, it's all about relaxing and finding the correct angle, and that all depends on the guy I am sucking. I have had guys tell me that I am one of the few men who was ever able to take them completely, and I attribute that to a few factors. First, I probably have a wider than average throat. Second, I don't have much of a gag reflex. It is good to gag some, because that makes me salivate profusely, and that makes deep throating a lot easier. Third, I don't force it. I find the best angle and then go down all the way.

 

There's a lot of good advice here, but it really depends on you. For example, lubing a cock might make it easier for one person to deep throat it, but it would make me gag (and not in a good way) to try to deep throat a lubed cock. The most important advice is to relax. Relaxed throat muscles are the key to deep throating, and it might be easier for some to do that than others.

 

Agree, somewhat. Curvature determines your angle of approach. A straight dick is very easy to deep throat, it slides right down. A dick with a downward curve needs to be approached from below. A dick with an upward curve needs to be approached from above. I only recently discovered the practice of using a bit of lube. It makes deep-throating and face fucking much much easier.

[LivingnLA]

I refer to my earlier post for my advice. It depends on your physical anatomy, who you're with, and how you feel.

[+ Avalon]

The Belami models do a good job of deep throating but they have alot of practice.