Escorts and overweight clients

[LaffingBear]

Threads wander. It's the nature of the beast and not a bad thing. Annoying if you are trying to get the 411 on a specific person, but still the nature of the beast.

 

I will admit I'm not the most sympathetic person on this topic. I have one of those annoying reformed addict kind of attitudes. I spent a decade of my life significantly overweight. I never hit 300 lbs but I did need a seat belt extension on an airplane. Maybe because I never yo-yo dieted I didn't mess up my metabolism. I was fat because I didn't care, when I started caring, I didn't go extreme. I made permanent changes to keep my diet under 2000 calories a day, started exercising again, and the weight came off.

Ya know, I AM fat.

 

And I am also not sympathetic. I try to be understanding. But I don't expect the world to make allowances for my size. I don't feel much sympathy for large people who choose to deny the issue, or who want accommodations. I have zero problem with an escort who politely declines, even if he says "ya know, just not for me."

 

Its the BS, the hypocrisy and the mean-spirited attitudes that get to me. Particularly the hypocrisy, in an age (until very recently) ruled by political correctness, that its ok to shame fat people.

[+ purplekow]

I am a fat, old, bald, hairy white guy. I tell each escort just that. I also am an imaginative, considerate, energetic and fun fuck. That they find out later.

[Mydavid]

I am a fat, old, bald, hairy white guy. I tell each escort just that. I also am an imaginative, considerate, energetic and fun fuck. That they find out later.

I like fat, old, bald, hairy white guys, to be honest.

[marylander1940]

I know every escort is different as is every client, but wondering if a few of you on here have the time and would mind sharing your views.

 

Say you have a client who is 25-75 pounds overweight but obviously comfortable with their body and themselves. Does the weight seem like not much of an issue? I guess the real question is, is it the weight of the client (within reason) or how the client feels about his body that affects how you see him?

 

Thanks

 

in this country (and I guess in others) overweight clients are part of the game. Some escorts like them and are able to perform with them, some don't.

 

Personally if I was an escort I would rather see clients who are in shape but the most important thing for me would be having clients who are in a good mood and aren't too demanding/hipper in shape or not.

[+ quoththeraven]

Threads wander. It's the nature of the beast and not a bad thing. Annoying if you are trying to get the 411 on a specific person, but still the nature of the beast.

 

I will admit I'm not the most sympathetic person on this topic. I have one of those annoying reformed addict kind of attitudes. I spent a decade of my life significantly overweight. I never hit 300 lbs but I did need a seat belt extension on an airplane. Maybe because I never yo-yo dieted I didn't mess up my metabolism. I was fat because I didn't care, when I started caring, I didn't go extreme. I made permanent changes to keep my diet under 2000 calories a day, started exercising again, and the weight came off.

That's great! And maybe you're at the lower end of your set point, which is sustainable. Or maybe you're in that 5% who keep the weight off despite going below your set point and it's automatic for you or your metabolism didn't slow down as much as average. At any rate, you only lost weight once rather than going back and forth, which will really do a number on metabolism.

 

There will always be exceptions and outliers, which is why the idea of One True Way is nearly always wrong.