How to Pick up a Straight Guy

[+ imagooddog]

I like straight guys. I love nice looking in-shape masculine guys. I love to suck.

I have a fantasy of picking up a nice looking straight guy who just wants to be blown.

I can talk with people easily but am too shy to just ask, "do you want a blow job."

How do you do it? Can you relate some real experiences you may have had and how

did it work out? I have had a couple of chances in the past couple of years but just

could not ask the big question. I know it depends on the location and the situation.

In the French Quarter in New Orleans there are a lot of bike-taxis, usually driven by

college age guys and gals, probably working for minimum pay plus tips. I usually wait

for a nice looking guy to ride with but chicken out on asking if they would like to come

to my hotel room for a little while.

[+ azdr0710]

you'll get good advice here, I presume, but always be careful......we don't want to hear about a good dog like you being the next victim of some hate crime!....the days of "street trade" and "rough trade" are mostly over, I think.....

 

(but am looking forward to the posts in this thread!!)

 

here's a cool scene of a drunk "straight" Navy guy (Tim Barnett) getting propositioned by a dude in "An Officer And His Gentlemen"....

 

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1579765865

 

(unfortunately, very good-looking Tim Barnett later raped several women and committed suicide while in jail)

[topinla]

I find hotels to be one of the best places to pick up straight guys who don't mind being blown (and sometimes more) by another guy. Those who are in town for business are usually the horny types. A blowjob is a blowjob.

 

Hit the bar first. Most of them tend to have a drink or two to put the day behind them. Strike a conversation and follow from there.

[bigvalboy]

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1579765865

 

One of my all time favorite videos...Sad about Tim.

[+ Charlie]

If you can pull it off, sometimes blunt honesty will work. I had a friend who was not very attractive, but who had the balls to just walk up to the cutest young guy in a gay bar and say, "I've got a big cock. You wanna fuck?" I was amazed at how often the dazed young man would leave quickly with my friend. But you have to act completely confident about the proposal, and be prepared to walk away calmly if you are rejected.

[JayCeeKy]

I still subscribe to the theory that "The difference between a gay guy and a straight guy is six beers."

[+ WmClarke]

Hell, I'd like to know how to pick up a gay guy.

 

Without using the internet.

[Izaak]

I like straight guys. I love nice looking in-shape masculine guys. I love to suck.

I have a fantasy of picking up a nice looking straight guy who just wants to be blown.

I can talk with people easily but am too shy to just ask, "do you want a blow job."

How do you do it? Can you relate some real experiences you may have had and how

did it work out? I have had a couple of chances in the past couple of years but just

could not ask the big question. I know it depends on the location and the situation.

In the French Quarter in New Orleans there are a lot of bike-taxis, usually driven by

college age guys and gals, probably working for minimum pay plus tips. I usually wait

for a nice looking guy to ride with but chicken out on asking if they would like to come

to my hotel room for a little while.

 

 

I can relate to your fantasies and needs, I been on the same boat as you are.. you have to keep in mind of being rejected..

I just love sucking dick so much, I can do it all day

you can always ask the guy "hey want to head to my hotel for a drink ?"

Smile and flirt a lot with the guy, you'll most likely know if there's a chance or not by reading his body language..try to boost their ego and compliment them.. that has work for me a lot ...

 

I got to admit, it does take a lot of courage to ask or give hints of your "intentions" when dealing with straight men.. you just got to do it and get the confidence to do it.. From my experience, it gets easier asking.. at the same time it can get addicting wanting to be with so many straight men haha..

 

Or you can offer an incentive to them for blowing them.. I would sometimes offer them money in the beginning.. in the end, they were so blown away with my skills that they didn't take the money haha..

 

If you're too shy to ask.. would you be okay with asking by touching the guy (body language )?

What worries you more being rejected or getting smacked ?

[irfy]

if they're having sex with another man how straight are they? I've never understood this fascination some gay guys have for supposedly 'straight' guys.

[nycguy]

If you're slurping down on a cock in a glory hole do you know if it is "str8" or gay or is your mouth getting wetter and wetter as you work for your sperm reward?

[LivingnLA]

If you've read any of my posts about sexual orientation, romantic orientation, or sexual activity orientation, you'll gather I know something about these topics. As I said in a related thread, I grew up in a part of America where it wasn't a big deal to get your cock sucked by a guy. It was a buddy thing. That was further reinforced by my experiences in my frat in college.

 

My personal experiences and my relatively broad and deep research on these topics support the reality that many--not all--straight sexually oriented men can engage in homosexual sexuality activity under the right conditions.

 

One personal example:

 

Many years ago, I had a straight personal trainer who was naturally flirty. He was well built, attractive, and well hung. He intentionally used all of this to build his business and he enjoyed the attention, up to a point. Well, he and I became friends over the many months of 5-6 sessions a week. We'd meet sometimes after work for a drink and to watch some sports. We followed many of the same teams and enjoyed similar tastes. He'd complain sometimes about his girlfriend, who was and still in incredibly hot but is very high maintenance in that way some SoCal women do so well. One time, after a fair number of drinks, he admitted that she disliked sex with him. I understood because she's quite petite and I told him I bet it was painful for her if he's above average. He said he was and said she did say it hurt, but he'd thought it was all roleplay. We discussed anatomy and I told him to find a bigger woman or a guy as they'd comfortably be able to take him. He laughed and said he was happy. He then told me about the time an older guy offered him a grand to blow him and how he'd refused because it freaked him out. I said he should've gone for it. Best head ever and a grand! He laughed and asked how I knew. I admitted to enjoying guys more than women when getting blown and that I loved to suck too. He was surprised. Said I didn't seem gay. I joked that I only was when on my knees or back.

 

phew! Sorry. I'm writing too much. It's a very vivid memory. Any way, he was pretty drunk, I offered to drive him home, and he invited me up. His girl was still at work--which I honestly didn't know--and I ended up showing him how good it could be. First time he'd ever cum from head, or so he claimed. Given his size and how he liked to piston-fuck, I'm not surprised. We'd get together regularly for a while. It was fun.

 

That's one way to do it.

 

Another is the hotel idea. A coworker and I had quite a bit of unexpected fun during a business trip many years ago. That's another story.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

A classic:

[LivingnLA]

Here's a helpful guide if you go to the gym and like lifting:

 

https://pairedlife.com/dating/How-to-pick-up-a-straight-Man-at-the-Gym

 

And for those advocating the "direct approach," here's a fun "social experiment" by a YouTube crew where they had some success randomly picking up complete strangers.

 

http://cypheravenue.com/watch-guy-randomly-picking-up-straight-guys-what-would-you-do/