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Yesterday, I had an incredibility wonderful experience with a gentlemen. Immediately when he arrived at my hotel room (neither one of us could host at the time), we kissed deeply and everything from there on was like we had done this before with each other many times. There was no indecision nor interruption as we moved through various positions. The eye contact was unbelievable. I DO NOT TOP; however I flipped him over and did. No rhyme nor reason. It was like we could read each others mind. I'm usually good at reading people and was able to read my other two hires fairly well. This caught us both off guard and we just stared into each others eyes for a while before we cleaned up and departed. I just started hiring at the beginning of October and he was my third gentlemen. So I was not expecting this to occur.Has any of you (escorts and clients) had this happen? How did things turn out?

 

I hope this makes sense cause my head is still a little in the clouds. LOL

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Yesterday, I had an incredibility wonderful experience with a gentlemen. Immediately when he arrived at my hotel room (neither one of us could host at the time), we kissed deeply and everything from there on was like we had done this before with each other many times. There was no indecision nor interruption as we moved through various positions. The eye contact was unbelievable. I DO NOT TOP; however I flipped him over and did. No rhyme nor reason. It was like we could read each others mind. I'm usually good at reading people and was able to read my other two hires fairly well. This caught us both off guard and we just stared into each others eyes for a while before we cleaned up and departed. I just started hiring at the beginning of October and he was my third gentlemen. So I was not expecting this to occur.Has any of you (escorts and clients) had this happen? How did things turn out?

 

I hope this makes sense cause my head is still a little in the clouds. LOL

Wow. Sounds like a nice fantasy. Either he's a total stud that gets off pleasing his partners or there's something about you that sets his motor running hot. Either way good for you.

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Yesterday, I had an incredibility wonderful experience with a gentlemen. Immediately when he arrived at my hotel room (neither one of us could host at the time), we kissed deeply and everything from there on was like we had done this before with each other many times. There was no indecision nor interruption as we moved through various positions. The eye contact was unbelievable. I DO NOT TOP; however I flipped him over and did. No rhyme nor reason. It was like we could read each others mind. I'm usually good at reading people and was able to read my other two hires fairly well. This caught us both off guard and we just stared into each others eyes for a while before we cleaned up and departed. I just started hiring at the beginning of October and he was my third gentlemen. So I was not expecting this to occur.Has any of you (escorts and clients) had this happen? How did things turn out?

 

I hope this makes sense cause my head is still a little in the clouds. LOL

 

will there be a review forthcoming?

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Yesterday, I had an incredibility wonderful experience with a gentlemen. Immediately when he arrived at my hotel room (neither one of us could host at the time), we kissed deeply and everything from there on was like we had done this before with each other many times. There was no indecision nor interruption as we moved through various positions. The eye contact was unbelievable. I DO NOT TOP; however I flipped him over and did. No rhyme nor reason. It was like we could read each others mind. I'm usually good at reading people and was able to read my other two hires fairly well. This caught us both off guard and we just stared into each others eyes for a while before we cleaned up and departed. I just started hiring at the beginning of October and he was my third gentlemen. So I was not expecting this to occur.Has any of you (escorts and clients) had this happen? How did things turn out?

 

I hope this makes sense cause my head is still a little in the clouds. LOL

This sounds like a wonderful experience - awesome!

 

To your question, it has happened once... with a wonder companion who is still around and I love seeing.

As to falling in love with someone I hired as an escort - once. We were very close for about 9 months. It felt wonderful even though I knew it was a mistake at the time. The balancing of paid escort versus lover is tough to navigate and takes allot of communication and respecting of boundaries.

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Yes... definitely!!!

 

There have been more than a few. :)

 

One guy in particular tells me constantly my dick was made for his ass. We can't seem to get enough of each other. He actually kind of pledged himself to me. LOL! He claims that no matter what happens that we have to be fb's. We get along very well in and out of the bedroom.

 

I've told him as long as he wanted me in his life (at whatever capacity), he had no need to worry. I have said this to various working guys whom I have become rather close with.

 

As for the love issue...

I have genuinely come to love some of the working guys I've met, as friends. However, there are 2 that if they wanted to date... I wouldn't hesitate. :D

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Cali, I think that may explain most of what happened. Both of us concentrate on our partner's pleasure (not in this environment). He does with his clients and even though I'm the client I still want him to have as much pleasure as he is giving me.

 

And all his real life partners have been at least 10 years older than him. He is a hot stud to me and he thinks I am handsome in my own way. I not what most would consider a hot daddy type. lol

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Thanks Keith and BnT.

 

I hope he and I can work this out as long as he stays in Atlanta. I sensed that it would be harder for him to keep the business aspect and the friendship separate especially because there is an attraction there between us. But I may be fooling myself as well.

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Yesterday, I had an incredibility wonderful experience with a gentlemen. Immediately when he arrived at my hotel room (neither one of us could host at the time), we kissed deeply and everything from there on was like we had done this before with each other many times.

 

I hope this makes sense cause my head is still a little in the clouds. LOL

 

 

I hate to be the only one to comment negatively about your reaction to your meeting with the escort.

 

If I understand your post correctly, you met the escort for the first time, only yesterday.

 

Do you think it is possible you are having a reaction of infatuation because you and the escort got along so well?

 

On occasion, I have met escorts who I thought were wonderful. I could not wait until I met the escort again.

 

However, during the second meeting with the escort, I bounced back and realized the excellent and skilled escort was with me for a business transaction, and nothing more.

 

I can be wrong in your situation. However, one meeting is insufficient to accurately judge long-term compatibility.

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I've had a couple of five-day road trips with someone after I'd spent three hours with him, once. Could I fall in love? Absolutely. Is this just business? I'm not sure. I justify the cost by saying "well, he could be doing his job(1), but he spends the time with me, so I should pay him for his job(1). Plus airfare and hotel, which I'd have to pay for anyway." I've justified first-class flying by saying, "Well, I should have a wife and two kids, and this is cheaper ..."

 

It happens. And sometimes it doesn't. A fellow I hired, oh, five or six times, for an overnight, has lived with me for three years. And now he thinks he's transgendered. I can't afford him an allowance for Tiffany's. We're on our second cat (I don't want to think about what happened with the first).

 

... and I'm confused about what to do with his Transgendering. Mostly, I don't want to think about it. Any suggestions on that?

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I've had a couple of five-day road trips with someone after I'd spent three hours with him, once. Could I fall in love? Absolutely. Is this just business? I'm not sure. I justify the cost by saying "well, he could be doing his job(1), but he spends the time with me, so I should pay him for his job(1). Plus airfare and hotel, which I'd have to pay for anyway." I've justified first-class flying by saying, "Well, I should have a wife and two kids, and this is cheaper ..."

 

It happens. And sometimes it doesn't. A fellow I hired, oh, five or six times, for an overnight, has lived with me for three years. And now he thinks he's transgendered. I can't afford him an allowance for Tiffany's. We're on our second cat (I don't want to think about what happened with the first).

 

... and I'm confused about what to do with his Transgendering. Mostly, I don't want to think about it. Any suggestions on that?

Couple pragmatic questions:

 

What was his motive in living with you? (Be brutally honest with yourself.)

 

In his deciding he is trans, is he keeping his sexual orientation, which if he was gay would mean he now realizes he (she) likes women. This is the usual trajectory, from experience of my acquaintances who have transitioned.

 

If you cannot have this discussion directly with her, that in itself tells you something.

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I have a few escorts with whom I have truly become great friends. The difference between those men and all the other escorts I hire is their desire to spend "off the clock" time with me and to keep in touch by text or calls in which we catch each other up on how our respective lives are going when we're not in the same geographic location, i.e. when I am not hiring them. Because I feel the need to continue to give them their rightful due as escorts, I do always pay them if we have sex. I also have let them set the ground rules for all "off the clock" time we spend together. In addition, I am always respectful of the generosity of the gift of their time when they choose to spend non-sexual time with me!

 

Every escort who gives me a wonderful BFE always causes me to fall in love with him just a little bit, but only while I am with him. The ones who are special and become real friends, though, are in a completely different category and remain unique and special among my relationships. I have no doubt that these special men and I will remain friends even after they choose to retire or I decide to stop hiring escorts in the future.

 

TruHart1 :cool:

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It happens. And sometimes it doesn't.

I think this is the best, most succinct way of summarizing the situation. Yes, it happens, believe me. You just have to tread very carefully, try not to misinterpret feelings that might or might not be there, and avoid falling in love.

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When I'm naked in the arms of a beautiful nude man, I allow myself to feel love, because this is the only completely open, affectionate, physical love I'm ever going to get with another man. The after- climax touching of his body and face are more important to me than cumming. BUT, I know it is a business transaction in the back of my mine. I've had five escorts, plus a couple of non commercial hook ups, and I "love" all of them. I don't allow myself to overly focus on just one. Too dangerous.

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