Unreal Connection between escort and client...

[+ José Soplanucas]

Plot Twist.

 

Escort(Myself) think he's In Love with a Client. To be continued.....

 

Escorts who pretend to participate in this forum without sharing a link to their profile have no credibility, should be banned, and mercifully condemned to watch Trump's speeches for life.

[+ José Soplanucas]

What a wise advise given to us by @AdamSmith ! Keep your reality check up; but at the same time stay open to whatever may happen.

I do not agree with those simplifying the relationship escort/client to "it is just a money transaction". I do not agree with anyone explaining any human relationship by one single variable. Indeed, in our hobby the exchange of money is essential. Even if we accept that in 90% of situations it is just a financial deal, that leaves 10% open to extra developments.

It happened to me once, an escort relationship of 5 years turned into a 25 years and counting friendship with extras. I think it may be about to happen again.

[+ nycman]

Plot Twist.

 

Escort(Myself) think he's In Love with a Client. To be continued.....

 

Oh god I hate when this happens....

 

Dearest Jock123...I'm sooo sorry....but we're just not meant for each other.

 

Please stop calling and delete my email address.

 

I know this is hard for you...but it will be better for you in the long run.

 

You deserve a man who can love you back....unfortunately I'm not that man.

 

I'm trying to be nice....please don't make this awkward for both of us.

 

- nycman

 

Grin

[+ glennnn]

I love all of my escorts so far in the way one loves a good friend. I would do anything in my power to help them anytime. How not? They have been honest, loving and supportive of my journey, and I've had parts of their bodies in my body and visa versa. I've laid naked in their sweaty arms and poured my heart out.....and they listened. What's not to love? Am I in love? No! Would I grieve to never see any one of them again? Yes!

[jjkrkwood]

Things aren't always "what we imagine" them to be. Projecting your desires onto a situation that really may not exist can be an emotionally dangerous thing. Remember, these men are experienced in "drawing you in" physically AND emotionally. That's how they make their living and insure you are a repeat CLIENT..... Proceed with Caution always.

[Phil_musc]

Perhaps it's time to take a break here for some music. I strongly recommend a side-trip over to Youtube to listen to Frank Sinatra's wonderful recording of "I Fall in Love Too Easily." And just to back up JJ's words of wisdom, perhaps another listen to G & S's "Things Are Seldom What They Seem" from H.M.S. Pinafore. I love them both, but the romantic in me sides with the Sinatra recording. Sorry I don't know how to do links anymore here.

[Reluctant Daddy]

Remember, these men are experienced in "drawing you in" physically AND emotionally. That's how they make their living and insure you are a repeat CLIENT

 

Sorry to be so incredibly stupid and naive, but I'm relatively new to hiring and pretty inexperienced. Are the things said, compliments made and actions taken by escorts towards clients generally insincere and just a sales pitch?

[liubit]

No, you are neither stupid nor naive, [uSER=12070]@NYClocker[/uSER]. I remember there is a long thread somewhere in the board about compliments by escorts, where this very same point was discussed. Perhaps somebody with a better memory or more tech savy than me can direct you to it.

[jjkrkwood]

Sorry to be so incredibly stupid and naive, but I'm relatively new to hiring and pretty inexperienced. Are the things said, compliments made and actions taken by escorts towards clients generally insincere and just a sales pitch?

 

 

I honestly cant speak for the escort.... it would depend on the individual and his relationship to his client. But IMO, an escort needs to be a salesman, and "make you believe" so you keep cumming back.

[bimbosavant]

Yesterday, I had an incredibility wonderful experience with a gentlemen. Immediately when he arrived at my hotel room (neither one of us could host at the time), we kissed deeply and everything from there on was like we had done this before with each other many times. There was no indecision nor interruption as we moved through various positions. The eye contact was unbelievable. I DO NOT TOP; however I flipped him over and did. No rhyme nor reason. It was like we could read each others mind. I'm usually good at reading people and was able to read my other two hires fairly well. This caught us both off guard and we just stared into each others eyes for a while before we cleaned up and departed. I just started hiring at the beginning of October and he was my third gentlemen. So I was not expecting this to occur.Has any of you (escorts and clients) had this happen? How did things turn out?

 

I hope this makes sense cause my head is still a little in the clouds. LOL

 

It's happened both ways - I believe, under the assumption that the extraordinary attraction went both ways by one of the party members. None of it makes sense when you are in the heat of passion and unfortunately, not to negate real human emotion - that is a sign of good service.

 

Remaining professional is a slippery slope, especially when it is your job to make fantasies a reality. If you are new to the industry, it's like any other novelty and the excitement is unprecedented until you've had a certain amount of experiences.

 

There's been the non-sexual interactions which cause an abundant amount of dependence on intimacy, real or realized; I've been the victim of actually forgetting about the duty at hand. This is not to say that there aren't some escorts who do not delve into being as clinical about it as others.

 

There is always that "what if" factor when there is a mutual attraction (again, under the assumption unless discussed openly, but then again that could be a wise business decision to speak favorably of the other in either direction) and I think the best way to gauge what it really means is to experience it off the clock.

[+ glennnn]

I see no harm in "loving" my escorts. I know it is a fantasy that I will never act on beyond the two hours we share. I have no expectations other than to enjoy the physical release and psychological and emotional lift they provide. Without some connection, even though it is pretense, I might as well use my hand and a dildo. I'm over 70. I'm not dreaming of running away with any of these guys. They are lovable. I am loving. The end.

[Shiloh]

I realize it's all fantasy when I'm hiring, but for those few precious hours, I allow myself to dream. I'm very aware it's a business transaction; but at the same time if the escort is good at their job, they'll make you forget they're even at 'work.'

 

I actually tweeted something to the effect of "My carriage just turned back into a pumpkin, but that's ok b/c for one day I got to be Cinderfella #WorthIt" after Derek left. I realize it's not 'love' but I allow myself to feel "loved" when I'm with him. If that makes sense?

 

One of my friends asked me if I was secretly in love with Derek, and just in denial. I chuckled and simply said "If I loved him the way you're implying, WHY would I be trying to drive more business to him?" To which they stated "Fair enough."

[TruHart1]

It has always seemed to me, since I began this great hiring adventure, that although I may be paying a fee to experience sexual intimacy with an escort, it is completely the escort's professional ability to convince me of their sincerity or lack thereof in both our sexual and non-sexual interactions which drives not only our first appointment but every appointment following, and whether I even choose to rehire them. I have had doubts sometimes about the compliments I've received from a gorgeous, hot man I've hired who, if I had met him on the street before I ever hired him, would likely never have given me a glance.

 

Over the years, though, I've come to the conclusion that the best escorts I've hired are very talented at furnishing the fantasy I imagine and desire while I am in a session with them. These men are the ones I hire again and again. Most are guys who also are adept at keeping our sessions feeling as if we are boyfriends/lovers for the duration, but with the mutual understanding that once they leave, we stay professional escort and client, with the possibility of a future appointment if I want to hire them again at a later time.

 

There are quite a few levels of escort/client relationships I have experienced, too. One amazing hot body builder escort I continued to hire until he retired was genial in our text/email exchanges but kept everything very business oriented except during our appointments. In our sessions he was a wild man, a boyfriend, and a voracious lover, ready to play with me in any (safe) way I desired, including gently pushing me to try new things in bed. Afterword, we'd kiss goodbye and I'd have no doubt that I would not see that side of him again until the next time I hired him.

 

Another very exciting escort who continues to be someone I see whenever I can, slowly, over time, as I repeatedly hired him, began calling and asking if I'd like to hang out "off the clock" with him between our professional appointments whenever I was visiting his area. He too, is everything I want and need in a BFE in the bedroom, but our relationship outside of the bedroom has turned into something different, a real and sincere friendship. Are we in love? No, I still understand that there is a professional line I respectfully will not cross. I do, however, have a greater affection for him than my retired escort above.

 

All this to say, every man you ever hire will be different. In my experience, some men I hire are phenomenal in the bedroom and I'd never fail to hire them whenever I can, just because of the physical nirvana they give me. I don't feel close to them, though, even though during our sessions they continue to fulfill sexual fantasies I never thought I'd achieve before I began hiring. Others generously let down personal walls and are so open and freely giving that I do the same and therefore not only achieve my deepest sexual satisfaction with them, but enjoy the closeness of a true personal friendship. These friendships are the exception, however, and I always allow these relationships to be driven solely by the escort's lead.

 

I am so glad I discovered this hobby. It enriches my life more than I could ever have known before I tentatively reached out and hired my first escort! Thank you, @AresEscortNYC!!!

 

TruHart1

[+ José Soplanucas]

Sorry to be so incredibly stupid and naive, but I'm relatively new to hiring and pretty inexperienced. Are the things said, compliments made and actions taken by escorts towards clients generally insincere and just a sales pitch?

 

For me it is really hard to make generalizations, we are talking about a VERY diverse field here. One thing is always true: the money exchange is essential to the relationship. Beyond that, you may have guys who would not even show any interest at all for you, to guys who will fake an attraction and interest they do not actually feel, to all kind of this theme variations. Of course the best escorts are those who have the talent to feel sexual attraction, real attraction, for their clients; and those who are naturally empathetic and connect with you at a deeper personal level. Escorting is just a profession, like any other, with professionals with a wide array of talents and personalities. Finding the right escorts is as easy or as hard as finding the right doctors or lawyers.

[+ glennnn]

It has always seemed to me, since I began this great hiring adventure, that although I may be paying a fee to experience sexual intimacy with an escort, it is completely the escort's professional ability to convince me of their sincerity or lack thereof in both our sexual and non-sexual interactions which drives not only our first appointment but every appointment following, and whether I even choose to rehire them. I have had doubts sometimes about the compliments I've received from a gorgeous, hot man I've hired who, if I had met him on the street before I ever hired him, would likely never have given me a glance.

 

Over the years, though, I've come to the conclusion that the best escorts I've hired are very talented at furnishing the fantasy I imagine and desire while I am in a session with them. These men are the ones I hire again and again. Most are guys who also are adept at keeping our sessions feeling as if we are boyfriends/lovers for the duration, but with the mutual understanding that once they leave, we stay professional escort and client, with the possibility of a future appointment if I want to hire them again at a later time.

 

There are quite a few levels of escort/client relationships I have experienced, too. One amazing hot body builder escort I continued to hire until he retired was genial in our text/email exchanges but kept everything very business oriented except during our appointments. In our sessions he was a wild man, a boyfriend, and a voracious lover, ready to play with me in any (safe) way I desired, including gently pushing me to try new things in bed. Afterword, we'd kiss goodbye and I'd have no doubt that I would not see that side of him again until the next time I hired him.

 

Another very exciting escort who continues to be someone I see whenever I can, slowly, over time, as I repeatedly hired him, began calling and asking if I'd like to hang out "off the clock" with him between our professional appointments whenever I was visiting his area. He too, is everything I want and need in a BFE in the bedroom, but our relationship outside of the bedroom has turned into something different, a real and sincere friendship. Are we in love? No, I still understand that there is a professional line I respectfully will not cross. I do, however, have a greater affection for him than my retired escort above.

 

All this to say, every man you ever hire will be different. In my experience, some men I hire are phenomenal in the bedroom and I'd never fail to hire them whenever I can, just because of the physical nirvana they give me. I don't feel close to them, though, even though during our sessions they continue to fulfill sexual fantasies I never thought I'd achieve before I began hiring. Others generously let down personal walls and are so open and freely giving that I do the same and therefore not only achieve my deepest sexual satisfaction with them, but enjoy the closeness of a true personal friendship. These friendships are the exception, however, and I always allow these relationships to be driven solely by the escort's lead.

 

I am so glad I discovered this hobby. It enriches my life more than I could ever have known before I tentatively reached out and hired my first escort! Thank you, @AresEscortNYC!!!

 

TruHart1

I love you my friend. You said it all, perfectly. Thank you!

[+ WilliamM]

For me it is really hard to make generalizations, we are talking about a VERY diverse field here. One thing is always true: the money exchange is essential to the relationship. Beyond that, you may have guys who would not even show any interest at all for you, to guys who will fake an attraction and interest they do not actually feel, to all kind of this theme variations. Of course the best escorts are those who have the talent to feel sexual attraction, real attraction, for their clients; and those who are naturally empathetic and connect with you at a deeper personal level. Escorting is just a profession, like any other, with professionals with a wide array of talents and personalities. Finding the right escorts is as easy or as hard as finding the right doctors or lawyers.

 

Now that I am near the end of my hiring, I enjoy hiring escorts who have been working at the profession for quire a while as opposed to relatively new guys. We can both talk about what it's been like, and they have little reason to hold much back.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Now that I am near the end of my hiring, I enjoy hiring escorts who have been working at the profession for quire a while as opposed to relatively new guys. We can both talk about what it's been like, and they have little reason to hold much back.

 

Nice. When I said I enjoy experimenting with newbies I did not mean to say I do not enjoy playing with the more experienced ones. I enjoy both. Do not ask me to choose.

[MikeyGMin]

Sorry to be so incredibly stupid and naive, but I'm relatively new to hiring and pretty inexperienced. Are the things said, compliments made and actions taken by escorts towards clients generally insincere and just a sales pitch?

 

With a little experience your bullshit meter will develop naturally. You'll recognize the difference between a sincere and insincere compliment. The question will be...do you really care? Personally, I only care if it's my regular. From him I want the most authentic relationship we can have within the bounds of the arrangement. From anyone else, it's in one ear and out the other.

[outofpractice]

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https://rent.men/SeanHunterXXX

 

Hope the link works.

[+ WilliamM]

Nice. When I said I enjoy experimenting with newbies I did not mean to say I do not enjoy playing with the more experienced ones. I enjoy both. Do not ask me to choose

 

My point, not very well made. was that hiring escort that are near retirement themselves leads to more honest conversations on both sides, especially if they unlikely to visit your part of the country again. One guy told me the names of famous people who hired him. I have never repeated what he said to anyone.

[+ José Soplanucas]

My point, not very well made. was that hiring escort that are near retirement themselves leads to more honest conversations on both sides, especially if they unlikely to visit your part of the country again. One guy told me the names of famous people who hired him. I have never repeated what he said to anyone.

Got it. That would be new for me. When I talk about veterans I am not talking about guys close to retiring, maybe I will hire those in the future. I do,not think I have ever hired anybody over his 20s. Out of my recent hires, I think the oldest one is Sean Xavier.

[Reluctant Daddy]

With a little experience your bullshit meter will develop naturally. You'll recognize the difference between a sincere and insincere compliment. The question will be...do you really care? Personally, I only care if it's my regular. From him I want the most authentic relationship we can have within the bounds of the arrangement. From anyone else, it's in one ear and out the other.

 

My bullshit meter is right up there with my nonexistent intuition when it comes to this stuff.

[AdamSmith]

My bullshit meter is right up there with my nonexistent intuition when it comes to this stuff.

Practice makes perfect!

[bimbosavant]

Well everyone has been wondering who the guy is that made me open this discussion. Here is the link. Added with his approval. The review will be coming soon.

 

 

https://rent.men/SeanHunterXXX

 

Hope the link works.

 

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Good luck with that!

 

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