Peculiar situation...

[oldhat]

I find myself in an interesting position and I hope to find some advice here.

 

I had lunch with my sister yesterday. Over the course of the meal, the topic of our conversation took a turn toward the bizarre. I had mentioned that my neighbor is a young man that appears to entertain a lot men and women in his rental home. What was gossip turned to my sister wondering out loud about seeking out male companionship. As you may imagine, an awkward silence ensued and we switched the topic of discussion.

 

This conversation got me wondering; should I point my sister to sites like RM and this board? I hesitate for two reasons: 1) this is family 2) I am unsure if men on RM will entertain women. I had considered that my sister was insincere in her statement about seeking out male companionship. However, we've known one another for our whole lives and it seems unlikely she was insincere. Our family dynamic is such that I am fairly certain she will not react negatively to my suggestion should I make it. Though I want to have some perspective before I attempt anything.

 

Thoughts and solid advice would be appreciated.

[MsGuy]

Maybe she was just trying to flush you out, oldhat. Leave you an opening to fess up to what she already suspects.

[TruHart1]

If you do decide to tell her about RM or M4RN, you might point her to this forum, where she may get more information from one or another of the female forum members, especially two that I know of who have actually hired some of the escorts who advertise as bisexual on those sites, and who have received great reviews on Daddy's from both men AND women. Although not a lot of the bisexual guys who advertise as such cater to both male and female clientele, there are a few.

 

TruHart1

[oldhat]

Maybe she was just trying to flush you out, oldhat. Leave you an opening to fess up to what she already suspects.

 

That is quite possible but I am not entirely convinced it is. She is not one to 'beat around the bush'. If she suspected I was seeing guys from RM or here, she would have asked straight out.

 

If you do decide to tell her about RM or M4RN, you might point her to this forum, where she may get more information from one or another of the female forum members, especially two that I know of who have actually hired some of the escorts who advertise as bisexual on those sites, and who have received great reviews on Daddy's from both men AND women. Although not a lot of the bisexual guys who advertise as such cater to both male and female clientele, there are a few.

 

TruHart1

 

Perhaps introducing her to the forum might be a good first step. I am more concerned that she is safe and the information here would go a long way to ensuring that.

[MiamiLooker]

Assuming she’s interested in possibly hiring, you don’t think your sister is savvy enough to Google “male escorts” to find resources such as Rentmen or M4RN?

[jjkrkwood]

It really all depends on how transparent you want to be with her, and what your comfort level is. Give it some thought...

[MikeBiDude]

Perhaps introducing her to the forum might be a good first step. I am more concerned that she is safe and the information here would go a long way to ensuring that.

Be prepared ahead of time for questions like "have you used that site", "have you hired from there", "how often do you hire", "how long have you been..."

 

All good, just be prepared. I was setting up some fun 3-ways, used escorts for the 3rd, and ultimately started getting some questions re: where was I finding these hot twenty-something studs, lol!

[+ honcho]

Assuming she’s interested in possibly hiring, you don’t think your sister is savvy enough to Google “male escorts” to find resources such as Rentmen or M4RN?

 

I'd like to quote a couple of things oldhat @oldhat said:

 

I had mentioned that my neighbor is a young man that appears to entertain a lot men and women in his rental home. What was gossip turned to my sister wondering out loud about seeking out male companionship. As you may imagine, an awkward silence ensued and we switched the topic of discussion.

 

She is not one to 'beat around the bush'. If she suspected I was seeing guys from RM or here, she would have asked straight out.

 

I've had relatively little interaction with women in my life, but it's been represented to me that statistically, they're more given than men to discussing emotional matters and wanting to think and respond collectively. Even given that she's not one to beat around the bush, she may have been looking for support, but had in mind that such a discussion might cross safe boundaries. She may well have already known about such resources, but that isn't the point in wanting to reflect on taking action.

[+ Charlie]

I am actually confused about what you are suggesting here. Do you think your sister is looking for sexual interaction with gay or bisexual males, or do you think she is curious about them and would like to engage in the kind of interaction we have here on the forum? Does she know you are gay? Does she know your gay friends or sexual companions (assuming that you have them)? Is it the sex for money angle that you think she is interested in?

 

If she became involved in this forum, how comfortable would you be participating in it?

[TruthBTold]

Oldhat, until she actually asks you I would not mention it. As people have mentioned there is the internet that she can go to first. If she then asks you directly whether you know of a place she can go to (including yourself) to get advice about male "companions" I would not assume that she wants that advice now. Remember you found your way here (unless you asked a friend about it).

[Guest]

Well, your silence communicated to her that you weren't comfortable talking about the subject. I would have probably said something along the lines of "Tell me more," but that's just me. I don't know whether gay escorts will accept hires from women, but I'm not sure as a woman that a gay man would be the right person to show her a good time. I don't hire men who advertise as straight because the two times that I did, they were lousy lays, and I can understand why. Now some escorts advertise as bisexual, and those might be a good fit. I would guess that there are different websites for women looking for straight gigolos.

https://cowboys4angels.com/company/#.WBY6uuArKUk

 

After looking at this list, I kinda wish I were a straight woman!

https://cowboys4angels.com/cowboys/?region=san-francisco#.WBY65OArKUk

 

https://www.malecompanionsforwomen.com/

[Rudynate]

I've never been one to offer advice/help/guidance in situations where it hasn't been asked for. I don't do this because I don't care. I do it out of an assumption that ordinary people are able to solve most of their own problems and I don't want to interfere unless asked. With the internet and its incredible wealth of information so readily available, this is true like never before. She knows how to use google. I would stay out of it.

[oldhat]

Thank you everyone for your insight. I sincerely appreciate the suggestions and advice. It appears caution is the best course of action. I will take a 'wait and see' approach. Should this topic come up again, I will be a little more intuitive as @Unicorn suggested and delve a little deeper.

 

Once again, thank you.

[Guest]

Thank you everyone for your insight. I sincerely appreciate the suggestions and advice. It appears caution is the best course of action. I will take a 'wait and see' approach. Should this topic come up again, I will be a little more intuitive as @Unicorn suggested and delve a little deeper.

 

Once again, thank you.

Well, you gave a clear signal that you were uncomfortable when she brought up the topic herself. If you want the topic to come up again, I suspect you're going to have to be the one to bring it up.