escort gossip

[Guest Tomcal_]

revised

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

> revised

 

Some revision!! Must have been SOME GOSSIP!!!

[Guest Tomcal_]

LOL, I decided to delete it and revise part of what I wrote and resubmit, but it was late and I just left it deleted. It was about a certain escort "gossiping" about various M4M's he had been with to another client and that client telling me at dinner, which I thought was inappropriate. Such as names/M4M Handle occupations/business accounts the checks to him were drawn on/etc.

I may repost it today.

[FourAces]

That is disturbing. Please post again or send me the escort's name. I do not want to risk hiring this guy

 

RT

[marc anthony]

It

>was about a certain escort "gossiping" about various M4M's he

>had been with to another client and that client telling me at

>dinner, which I thought was inappropriate. Such as names/M4M

>Handle occupations/business accounts the checks to him were

>drawn on/etc.

 

Well naturally, this is not a good thing. Some of us like to do much more than hourly appointments, and over the course of a 4 day vacation, lots of information can obviously be shared.

 

I am not ashamed of what I do, nor do I consider it an especially high priority to hide who I am (to either side of my lives)... but I would still prefer that personal info be personal info.

 

When I am made privy to private pics, names, and information about escorts, I keep it to myself. And I expect the same consideration in return.

[Fit In LA]

Gossip is gossip, whether it's coming from an escort or a poster on this thread.

Saying negative things about other people says everything about the person making the negative statements.

[HotdadENYC]

I believe that you should post the story, in as much detail as you deem appropriate, and let us judge from there.

 

Behavior such as you described makes me uncomfortable, but I'd like to see the story before I react.

 

Thanks.

 

hd NYC

[Cooper]

Tomcal_ I agree that it is inappropriate for an escort to be discussing clients and personal information about them with another client. If this was told to him in confidence, then it was also wrong for the client to tell you. In this story, everyone's trust was broken. Hopefully, some good will come from your posting the "revised" version.

[seaboy4hire]

This sounds like something that you should put in the persons review if you so choose to do one. I know that many people like to keep their private lives private and sharring information like you mentioned is just plain wrong! No if's and or but's about it. I think that it is only fair for those who hire to know who this person is and hopefully he will learn his lesson.

 

Hugs,

Greg

Greg Seattle Wa [email protected]

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/gregseattle.html http://briefcase.yahoo.com/seaboy4hire

[bigguyinpasadena]

I for one feel that revealing names or further passing around the gossip will do no good-and may harm a long time relationship.

Sometimes our little group can be rather insestious and confidences can be passed around.The person who STOPS the chain of gossip is the person who is showing good form.

I have been privvy to many bits of gossippy pillow talk,and I have to keep a lid on about 90% of it.

[Guest JustStarting]

I agree it's quite easy to lose discretion in this environment. When I was new to this site, and new to hiring, I corresponded with a well known escort--I had never yet been with a man nor hired an escort and was quite ambivalent about the whole business. Well, we both decided it might be nice for me to have lunch and a talk with the escort and a long time "satisfied customer" of his who was about my age and could assure me about the whole situation. We were just finalizing plans of where and when--the escort sent both of us an email. The problem was he used the business email address of his long time client which gave the client's name and business firm he worked for--a prominent law firm in town. Given the information available on the internet, I could, of course, find out all sorts of things about his long term client which I'm sure would be much better left private. Needless to say, we never had lunch and it made me redouble my efforts at discretion when I finally did hire someone.

[Guest Tomcal_]

BGP, I agree with you, what bothers me is about this in particular is that the escort in question told how a M4M paid him on a account that was "charity based", which, given what he charges, I assume would constitute a felony! Again, I don't think he really realizes what he is saying(then again, he seems from what I have read, to be pretty sharp) Again, I don't know this escort, before I heard all this had no inclination to hire him, so there is no personal motive on my part to harm his business, BUT...there are NOW a number of frequent posters on here of whom I know way too much info about! I didn't get the impression that he was swearing the M4M he told this to, keep all this secret, it all just came out in "general" conversation. Such as, Do you know that ------ on the board is such and such in his church, did you know that ----- ownes this and does that! Again, if he left the names out, no big deal. Someone suggested I just email the escort in question privately, but I feel more of a obligation to the other M4M's on here than him! Again, most of the M4M's I have met know what I do for living, who I work for and many other details, so it won't bother me, my pics are on a couple of dating websites! but for a lot guys, I am sure they won't want me or anyone else to know what they do, how big their dick is, their personal finaces.

Interestingly, I got a email from one M4M friend of mine today who said "who is the escort, it's not ------- is it? because he has told me some things about some of the guys! It wasn't, but this was another well known and "loved" escort on this site! maybe this telling everything you know about a client to other clients is commonplace??!! I just havent' decided yet whether to post this original or not.

[+ Lucky]

What a tease! Don't get me wrong, I love it! It is a rare escort who doesn't like to impress his clients with stories about his other clients, but they rarely name names, in my experience.

 

I know Rick Munroe has a strict policy about not gossiping since he sees so many of us. Maybe he could run training classes for younger escorts.

 

In the meantime, I will continue to tell my escorts how many bodyguards I have and that the shape of my office is oval, but I can't say more...

[+ newatthis]

This whole thread concerning indiscretions about clients and their personal business is making me paranoid. It reminds me of the time I was in a club with an escort and he excused himself for a minute to greet someone nearby and chat. When I asked if that was a friend of his, he replied "no, a client".

[+ glutes]

>This whole thread concerning indiscretions about clients and

>their personal business is making me paranoid.

 

So much for 'discretion'~

Paranoid you should be! This is why I had a small rant/post about "let's go take a shower", and catching said escort rooting around through my personal items.

[Rick Munroe]

>I know Rick Munroe has a strict policy about not gossiping

>since he sees so many of us.

 

I have no idea what you're talking about, Lucky. "So many of us"? Derek and I do not see many clients at all, by choice, which is why we do not heavily advertise and why we don't have a website. For us, it's more about quality versus quantity. And I don't have a "strict policy" about gossiping; I'm discreet and I don't gossip, that's all. It's not a policy; I'm just not interested in what other people do in bed, and I have no desire to kiss-and-tell, either.

 

>Maybe he could run training

>classes for younger escorts.

 

Hmmm...I didn't realize that 34 was the mandatory age for escorts to retire and teach. :o

[+ Lucky]

Oh...are you still 34? My mistake!

[Steven_Draker]

Speaking of class act

 

I think that an escort should NEVER discuss other clients and I don't even talk about personal information here. The same rule goes for a client who shouldn't discuss other escorts with an escort. I've had some bad experiences recently and in the past due to this kind of gossip coming from third party. I agree with BGP here that "the person who STOPS the chain of gossip is the person who is showing good form". Furthermore, it's common sense that personal information should remain private.

 

Steven Draker ~

[Pierce_NYC]

.... the escort in question told how a M4M paid him on a account that was "charity based", which, given what

>he charges, I assume would constitute a felony!... Do you know that

>------ on the board is such and such in his church....

 

Are you saying that the M4M client is a member of the clergy, perhaps a priest, who paid for his escort through church funds? Is that what the escort told another client? If so, all hell is going to break out with that news! This is better than news at 11.

 

Since you mentioned that the escort posts on this site and is "well known" and "loved", I bet he's pissing in his pants right now reading this. HOLY SHIT! that's awful.

[Rick Munroe]

>Oh...are you still 34?

 

Yes, for 6 more months. I have updated my age every year since I started escorting at 29...birthdays never change.

[+ deej]

>I know Rick Munroe has a strict policy about not gossiping

 

Munroe keeping his mouth SHUT?!?!?!?! Imagine that! :+

[Rick Munroe]

>Munroe keeping his mouth SHUT?!?!?!?! Imagine that! :+

 

LOL I have no problem keeping it shut...as long as there is no cock (hard or soft; I'm easy) being waved in front of it...or a nice, warm wet pair of lips moving in for a deep kiss. :9

[Guest Tomcal_]

Well guys, I have decided to not put the original post back in! Hopefully both escorts and Clients will learn to not discuss anything that they wouldn't want their co-workers or relatives to know and definitly not any illegal activities! I will say it was definitly not Rick Monroe or Steven Draker, both guys who I have only heard good things about in their professional demeanor }( I have never met Rick, but have met Steven once at one of the L.A. hooboy dinners and is definitly a class act!

If I hear this escort "sharing" anymore personal details about his clients, then I will definitly post the original message With his Name!

[Guest cardholder]

RE: escort and client gossip

 

>What a tease! Don't get me wrong, I love it! It is a rare

>escort who doesn't like to impress his clients with stories

>about his other clients, but they rarely name names, in my

>experience.

 

It is probably a two-way street. It is the rare client that does not want to know how he compares to other clients or other escorts. However, as clients we hate the idea that anything about us could be shared with another client or escort.

 

I think the line that should not be crossed is with financial or personal information to deal with residence, work or family. I think it is ok to say that a given client or escort was not clean, was arrogant, had a small dick, had a tight hole, had a loose hole, was hairy when advertised as smooth, looked older than advertised etc.

 

IMHO, the best escort listens, but does not spill the beans on a particular client or escort, but teases or draws composite portraits of clients or escorts. Nonetheless, one of my favorite escorts who has had a long-term regular client who he sees twice a month for weekends and travel tells me how much he hates having sex with the guy, and it kind of makes me wonder what he says about me!

 

I plead guilty to having erred in telling an escort that I hired his BF, and telling him that we did some things that they apparently had agreed that neither would do. That was a low moment of escort gossip on my part. I got it back in spades when another escort told me that he did not know why I hired a particular escort (my special favorite at that time) because anyone could have him for free at a particular NY club o any given night! On the other hand, I once hired an escort who idolized another escort, and learning of my "preferred client" status with his idol seemed to encourage him to up his game. That was a high point or escort gossip for me.

 

Bottom line: what goes around, comes around, I guess!

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I suppose saving the juicy details about the persons-in-question will further enable us to buy the book & watch the movie when it becomes a major-motion picture

 

I vote for casting Meredith Baxter in some role... She always reeled me into watching the WHOLE Lifetime Channel 'melodrama' movie-of-the-week, so she'd probably work her magic again here.

 

Warmest & Happy Holidays,

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas