Buff & beautiful "High End Escorts" in New York City: Non-existent?

[+ newguy]

Hey newguy, I probably should not have responded to your post with a joke, but it immediately reminded me of a thread from last year that went on and on (and on). The thread was started by an administrative assistant who was looking for an "ultra high-end" escort for his boss. Read through it sometime if you're ever bored.

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/need-help-finding-a-ultra-high-end-escort-for-my-boss.105126/

 

Thank you! This was an excellent thread. The "putz" remark reminded me of myself for expecting so much (and confessing this outright on this forum). NG

[nebula]

can anyone explain to me, what is a "high end escort"?

[+ Truereview]

I'm afraid your more unenthusiastic interpretation was more accurate (in my case). I really am that superficial.

I cannot get "into" the non-perfect physiques (I do not mean anal drilling) It's dreadful but true. I'm sure there are many more Daddy's Review users/readers who are in the same plight. I realize intellectually that this comes from years of social conditioning,

but does one get "cured" of this? It all started when I was seduced by my freshman college room-mate. He was an 18 year old blonde, broad-shouldered, buff, beautiful tightly muscled preppy. I'm serious. Ever since...

Bud, don't take it as seriously as a disease that has to be cured! It is a tough balance and no one has a perfect solution for it! This is the kind of stuff we just gotta struggle with and inch our way up to whatever makes us happier.

 

This reminds me about my dream house. I wanted a house with a pool, strong bones, character, a view, modern interior, Spanish colonial exterior, a nice yard for my dogs, top of the line kitchen, large master, 2 guest rooms. And of course, I wanted it within my budget, which was generous but a stretch for the L.A. market.

 

As I hunted for this home, I realized I had to stop focusing so much on what turned me on so much about that ideal house and instead how the house would make me feel. I realized after looking at dozens of houses that what I wanted as far as dream house (your high-end escort) was not a house, but a place that felt like home. The experience I wanted was a home experience. I needed the looks and the feeling. I still got the pool, the Spanish colonial, the yard, and the view. However, I didn't get the modern interior I had wanted. I actually added a brand new kitchen over time. Interestingly, the house came with something unexpected, something I didn't know I wanted and that made it a dream home. My realtor pushed my comfort zone to buy something a little pricier And out of my comfort zone. I bought a house with a garage apartment. I didn't want to be a landlord! No sir, no way! This apartment, which I had frowned upon as unnecessary & a chore, opened a new horizon for me. Today, in that space, lives my best buddy and dog sitter. She makes my life so much easier and creates a homey experience for me. The idea of something not on my list had suddenly become the best trait of my home.

 

Perhaps as you look for your high-end escort, you can also look to better define what is the high-end experience you'd like. I'm not suggesting you "cure" yourself from your wants. My point is don't lose sight of the experience beyond the looks. Hope that made some sense...I've had a few martinis

[+ Truereview]

can anyone explain to me, what is a "high end escort"?

To me a high end escort is someone who works with me on making our joint experience a lasting positive impression. I believe the definition will vary by individual client or escort. And that's all good.

[+ FreshFluff]

I'm all for preferences when hiring, but I'm not for supporting exclusive language. When you link the phrase "high end" to such a tightly physical definition of what that means to you, I think you are unconsciously not realizing that there are skinny, slender, full figured, overweight, hairy, cute (not handsome) men who are also high end by others' PoVs. I'm not trying to be PC with you, but I'm trying to point out your definition of high end may very well be more about physical preferences and unconsciouly (?) exclusive.

 

TR, I'm a little confused about why defining a high end escort exclusively is a problem. First, let's define high end clients as those willing and able to pay, say, $400+/hour regularly and HE escorts as those who can regularly charge such prices. Change that number if you want.

 

No doubt there are high end clients who are attracted to something other than the conventional "hot" look (strong jawline, muscular arms, etc). But because such preferences are idiosyncratic (one client digs broken noses because his teenage crush had one, etc) , it's hard for an unconventionally attractive escort to regularly find HE clients. Escorts with a conventional "hot" look, on the other hand, will always find a large group of HE clients. Performance matters, of course, but men will take a lot of crap from a hot partner.

 

To me a high end escort is someone who works with me on making our joint experience a lasting positive impression.

 

But is that related to price level?

[+ Truereview]

I've taken enough real estate on this thread and dinner is ready, so I will be brief.

TR, I'm a little confused about why defining a high end escort exclusively is a problem. First, let's define high end clients as those willing and able to pay, say, $400+/hour regularly and HE escorts as those who can regularly charge such prices. Change that number if you want.

No doubt there are high end clients who are attracted to something other than the conventional "hot" look (strong jawline, muscular arms, etc). But because such preferences are idiosyncratic (one client digs broken noses because his teenage crush had one, etc) , it's hard for an unconventionally attractive escort to regularly find HE clients. Escorts with a conventional "hot" look, on the other hand, will always find a large group of HE clients. Performance matters, of course, but men will take a lot of crap from a hot partner.

See post #28 for more context.

But is that related to price level?

it can be.

[Guest]

I would say that until you have made some sort of contact, you can't dismiss someone as being unreliable. You can't know whether he has received your messages. If he has responded and then stopped talking, then by all means dismiss him as unreliable. But Zachary is a lovely guy.

I very respectfully disagree. There are certainly times when it is inappropriate to text or use one's cell phone, such as movie theaters, live performances, family dinners, etc., but these events last only a few hours. It's an escort's business to respond to messages, be it text, phone, or e-mail. There's rarely an excuse for not being able to respond to a text within 4 or 5 hours during waking hours, nor an e-mail for 24 hours. Yes, there are rare exceptions such as being in an area with no reception for extended periods of time. If one were on a backpacking trip in a remote part of a National Park, or maybe at Burning Man (not sure about that--maybe someone who's been there can tell us), I guess one would be unreachable. One could also be unconscious following a horrific medical event in an Intensive Care Unit. But these are rare events. If you've been trying to contact someone for over 48 hours, and he refuses to respond, I would say that this person is not serious about this job, and I would move on to someone else.

[+ newguy]

I very respectfully disagree. There are certainly times when it is inappropriate to text or use one's cell phone, such as movie theaters, live performances, family dinners, etc., but these events last only a few hours. It's an escort's business to respond to messages, be it text, phone, or e-mail. There's rarely an excuse for not being able to respond to a text within 4 or 5 hours during waking hours, nor an e-mail for 24 hours. Yes, there are rare exceptions such as being in an area with no reception for extended periods of time. If one were on a backpacking trip in a remote part of a National Park, or maybe at Burning Man (not sure about that--maybe someone who's been there can tell us), I guess one would be unreachable. One could also be unconscious following a horrific medical event in an Intensive Care Unit. But these are rare events. If you've been trying to contact someone for over 48 hours, and he refuses to respond, I would say that this person is not serious about this job, and I would move on to someone else.

A possible exception: if an escort is seriously "on the job." He might then not be available for texting replies to you. Some escorts seem to take regular breaks to answer their text queries

for other clients while they were with you in bed. Others don't. They scrupulously give you "your time." I've been with Zachery but don't remember if he took time off to answer his texts. I remember him as being very polite--so I don't think so, or at least no without asking if it was OK. It's an important (for us) to question. Perhaps this is covered in another thread. NG

[+ sniper]

Don't a bunch of Sean Cody models double as high end escorts for Republican Party bigwigs?

Seriously at the high end for men I think the line between escort and courtesan blurs. I suspect the very wealthy simply pick someone out of their entry level employee pool who they take a shine to and give them a job and then hit on them. There are plenty of guys who are ambitious enough that they simply view this as doing "whatever it takes to get ahead."

There's a reason very nearly ALL of the young guys on Wall Street are extremely good looking.

[+ Keith30309]

Don't a bunch of Sean Cody models double as high end escorts for Republican Party bigwigs?

Seriously at the high end for men I think the line between escort and courtesan blurs. I suspect the very wealthy simply pick someone out of their entry level employee pool who they take a shine to and give them a job and then hit on them. There are plenty of guys who are ambitious enough that they simply view this as doing "whatever it takes to get ahead."

There's a reason very nearly ALL of the young guys on Wall Street are extremely good looking.

 

Ouch. I'd never, ever, never, ever go within 10 feet of anything questionable with a subordinate, especially in the workplace. In the best possible scenario you have an awkward situation with rumors. Eventually all things come to an end and unwinding something like this with the employee, his attorney and the EEOC could be pretty ugly.

[+ FreshFluff]

There are plenty of guys who are ambitious enough that they simply view this as doing "whatever it takes to get ahead." There's a reason very nearly ALL of the young guys on Wall Street are extremely good looking.

 

Some guys will do what it takes. Others will file a complaint.

http://www.nytimes.com/2016/07/27/business/dealbook/bridgewater-associates-hedge-fund-culture-ray-dalio.html

[+ sniper]

Ouch. I'd never, ever, never, ever go within 10 feet of anything questionable with a subordinate, especially in the workplace. In the best possible scenario you have an awkward situation with rumors. Eventually all things come to an end and unwinding something like this with the employee, his attorney and the EEOC could be pretty ugly.

 

Yes, in regular companies. Wall Street operates under a different set of rules for the most part than mere mortals. I've heard enough stories from my friends about coke and strippers in the conference rooms to believe it goes on. It's an industry with a lot of sociopaths.

[+ sniper]

Some guys will do what it takes. Others will file a complaint.

http://www.nytimes.com/2016/07/27/business/dealbook/bridgewater-associates-hedge-fund-culture-ray-dalio.html

 

and how many DECADES did that shit go on before one person reported it? And even then, I'd bet an apology from the offender and a promotion and his victim probably would have gladly moved on.

[+ FreshFluff]

and how many DECADES did that shit go on before one person reported it? And even then, I'd bet an apology from the offender and a promotion and his victim probably would have gladly moved on.

 

In this case, it didn't even require a promotion. The boss got lucky, and this probably scared him enough to stop...briefly.

 

Things can go smoothly for years, and then one Gretchen Carlson can send the whole house of cards tumbling.

[+ sniper]

Yes, and that house of cards didn't tumble down because of Gretchen Carlson. It tumbled down because Roger Ailes was fucking stupid about it. So the well-heeled exec who wants a little something at work can, with some precautions, manage to get it.

[+ Keith30309]

I can only speak to what I know from personal experience. Today it would be virtual career suicide for an employee of a publicly-traded, highly-regulated firm to engage in a sexual relationship with someone who was their subordinate.

"Wolf of Wall Street" was a fun flick but I do not observe anything remotely resembling that. Maybe I'm just the last guy to figure it out.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Bud, don't take it as seriously as a disease that has to be cured! It is a tough balance and no one has a perfect solution for it! This is the kind of stuff we just gotta struggle with and inch our way up to whatever makes us happier.

 

This reminds me about my dream house. I wanted a house with a pool, strong bones, character, a view, modern interior, Spanish colonial exterior, a nice yard for my dogs, top of the line kitchen, large master, 2 guest rooms. And of course, I wanted it within my budget, which was generous but a stretch for the L.A. market.

 

As I hunted for this home, I realized I had to stop focusing so much on what turned me on so much about that ideal house and instead how the house would make me feel. I realized after looking at dozens of houses that what I wanted as far as dream house (your high-end escort) was not a house, but a place that felt like home. The experience I wanted was a home experience. I needed the looks and the feeling. I still got the pool, the Spanish colonial, the yard, and the view. However, I didn't get the modern interior I had wanted. I actually added a brand new kitchen over time. Interestingly, the house came with something unexpected, something I didn't know I wanted and that made it a dream home. My realtor pushed my comfort zone to buy something a little pricier And out of my comfort zone. I bought a house with a garage apartment. I didn't want to be a landlord! No sir, no way! This apartment, which I had frowned upon as unnecessary & a chore, opened a new horizon for me. Today, in that space, lives my best buddy and dog sitter. She makes my life so much easier and creates a homey experience for me. The idea of something not on my list had suddenly become the best trait of my home.

 

Perhaps as you look for your high-end escort, you can also look to better define what is the high-end experience you'd like. I'm not suggesting you "cure" yourself from your wants. My point is don't lose sight of the experience beyond the looks. Hope that made some sense...I've had a few martinis

 

I love what you have said here and the comparison you make to finding a home. I work hard to stay fit, but will never have the 6-pack and "perfect" body that some are looking for. What makes me successful and what I enjoy most is how I make others feel, it's less about the superficial and more the emotional and mental.

 

I think an equal comparison would be the guy who lusts over owning a Lamborghini until he finally realizes he actually just wants a bigger dick . In all fairness though, I did have a client for a while with a gorgeous Ferrari and still a very nice cock.

[+ Truereview]

In all fairness though, I did have a client for a while with a gorgeous Ferrari and still a very nice cock.

Hey, don't be stingy, pass me that client's number!!!

 

Btw, a little bird told me the six pack thing is a non-issue when there is a high-end cock blocking my view.

(Can't wait for my trip to SF!)

 

Forum, how about we derail this thread and start discussing what is a high-end cock instead?

[beachboy]

Why don't you start the ball( s) rolling on that subject!

[+ Truereview]

H ow I crave

I nside me

G argantuan cock for

H ole be filled

 

E nvy of all I would be

N ailing everywhere I need

D ick AM, PM ...please do me

 

C an't you see? No muscle, no stud, no 6 pack

O h, there is nothing better

C alming or deliciously exhausting than

K ing of cocks, high-end cock

[beachboy]

H ow I crave

I nside me

G argantuan cock for

H ole be filled

 

E nvy of all I would be

N ailing everywhere I need

D ick AM, PM ...please do me

 

C an't you see? No muscle, no stud, no 6 pack

O h, there is nothing better

C alming or deliciously exhausting than

K ing of cocks, high-end cock

Beautiful. Not quite Browning but very authentic & downright naughty! I would expect nothing less of you!!

[+ Truereview]

Beautiful. Not quite Browning but very authentic & downright naughty! I would expect nothing less of you!!

Now, if I could just have someone to dedicate my illustrious poetry to...

I'm taking applications in the back room if any escorts are interested

[beachboy]

Now, if I could just have someone to dedicate my illustrious poetry to...

I'm taking applications in the back room if any escorts are interested

Only escorts? True you disappoint me. What about the queue of us non escorts waiting to become acquainted with your glorious nether regions?!!

[marylander1940]

Not to be rude, but if you truly cant find any "high end escorts" in NYC through this forum I'm amazed. I find many " buff, handsome, muscular types" who I would race to hire in NYC if I didn't live 2500 mles away. Killian James, Tommy DeLuca, Eric Hassan, and Mike Gaite are just four currently in NYC that I pray every day will somehow become available near Palm Springs. If I hired my way through the fabuous men in the Manhattan catalog, I would be dead broke and dead physically before I got past the "C's". Look again.

 

Exactly!

 

Plenty of muscular guys in NYC, I think the OP just want to start another endless thread: affordable young Jewish escort, or escort for my boss, etc.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

In the words of Maya Angelou "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel" when your dick was inside them.