Kissing as bonding

[liubit]

Absolutely correct, @greatnorthernp. And, in my book, very few things are hotter than having your lover cum in your mouth and deep kissing him right afterwards.....You are then sharing all those intimate fluids.

[FatDaddy]

I love it! That's why I always look for a guy who kisses. I like to make out for a long time like a pair of horny middle school,kids hiding under the bleachers. Some of the best times and most intense orgasms I've had were just necking and frenching while he gently stroked me to paradise.

[TruHart1]

I love it! That's why I always look for a guy who kisses. I like to make out for a long time like a pair of horny middle school,kids hiding under the bleachers. Some of the best times and most intense orgasms I've had were just necking and frenching while he gently stroked me to paradise.

If you find a guy who knows how to take you with him on the slow and ecstatic climb to that mind blowing explosion most of us are constantly yearning for, by his ability to "make out with you for a long time like a pair of horny middle school kids" alone, never miss any opportunity to see him as often as you can, for you have found one of the best!

 

TruHart1

[+ Truereview]

I've been thinking about this thread and how special it is.

 

I wanted to add that, to me, kissing is not just about the act of kissing but the moment itself. Despite my sexual bravado, I'm a romantic at heart, and I always want our kiss to be a moment, an experience that stays with us.

 

Kinda like this⬇️ ...even the goofy feet at the end makes it ever so charming, and most importantly,a bonding experience.

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-REWW67nPcZI/U5BvryyxXlI/AAAAAAABzGs/diw6g2Pk9SY/s1600/Wet-beach-men-guys-in-gear-naked-ass-jocks-shower-bath-kissing-pool-muscle-speedo-+gym-gay-sex-peeing-water-sports-gif-locker-room-piss-43.gif

[beachboy]

I've been thinking about this thread and how special it is.

 

I wanted to add that, to me, kissing is not just about the act of kissing but the moment itself. Despite my sexual bravado, I'm a romantic at heart, and I always want our kiss to be a moment, an experience that stays with us.

 

Kinda like this⬇️ ...even the goofy feet at the end makes it ever so charming, and most importantly,a bonding experience.

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-REWW67nPcZI/U5BvryyxXlI/AAAAAAABzGs/diw6g2Pk9SY/s1600/Wet-beach-men-guys-in-gear-naked-ass-jocks-shower-bath-kissing-pool-muscle-speedo-+gym-gay-sex-peeing-water-sports-gif-locker-room-piss-43.gif

Sharing deep & romantic kissing is the most intimate act 2 people can share. It is the gateway to deep & meaningful connections that ignite every erotic portal in both the mind & body.

[philly cheese]

Sharing deep & romantic kissing is the most intimate act 2 people can share. It is the gateway to deep & meaningful connections that ignite every erotic portal in both the mind & body.

 

I love offering a kiss to my hire during the exact, right, perfect cocksucking moment, get him to a point (edging) and go for the kiss. Even the straight guys I hire will suck tongue then. (then ask for me to continue the suck )

[Becket]

Perhaps at one of the gatherings of this tribe there could be workshops. Get the leading escort in each particular field: (kissing, rubbing, sucking, massaging...whatever) and have him teach us the basics. I would love to improve on my techniques.

[gallahadesquire]

It's S-day minus 3 hours 26 minutes. I wish I had someone here to kiss.

[+ WmClarke]

It's S-day minus 3 hours 26 minutes. I wish I had someone here to kiss.

Virtual make out session!!

[+ Truereview]

It's S-day minus 3 hours 26 minutes. I wish I had someone here to kiss.

This kiss is waiting for you when you log back on, Tiger...

http://media.giphy.com/media/xqp8Jk7LQkmOc/giphy.gif

[thickornotatall]

Sharing deep & romantic kissing is the most intimate act 2 people can share. It is the gateway to deep & meaningful connections that ignite every erotic portal in both the mind & body.

When Charles and I were much younger we would deep kiss and breathe in and out for long periods of time...usually while holding each other tight and squeezing....almost to the point of passing out...our connection went so deep we couldn't be without each other....

[MasterMaxRR]

I'm not a fan of kissing as it can be TOO intimate and generate impressions of attachment that you would rather avoid. Trust me, when a client gets TOO bonded and says "I think I love you", it just makes me put my head in my hands and go "Oh SHIT"... However, having said that, I have no problem with kissing if the client is well aware that this is a service, not a romance and it really gets them going sexually, and in that case, an awesome lip lock can help a great deal in getting my dick hard. That's just how i view it all, but I also know that kissing releases a massive amount of Oxytocin in the brain which is the key for all mammals in bonding rituals. In fact, many cases of postpartum depression where the mother doesn't bond to her baby has been shown to be due to a lack of oxytocin in her system. The ability of a cute baby to melt our hearts is the same response as a good kiss from someone we're attracted to, it's just one has more of an effect on our sense of empathy and the other makes us randy. So, having a good kiss to facilitate bonding is scientifically the best way to produce that effect, but it can also be done via conversation and getting to know one another, it just takes a bit longer. Just because I find kissing to be a bit too intimate doesn't mean everyone else has to agree. Hope this helps even if it's a weird response. I know.. I know... I'm a NERD and I hope I haven't killed the mystery by explaining the underlying science, but the OP did ask!!

 

Love and Light,

Master Max

[TruthBTold]

I prefer a multi-area head kiss/lick. As explained, I like the beginning small and progressing to a full mouth kiss. However, then I find it nice to lick neck and ear and really take in the small of the guy. Then I go back to a full tongue kiss. Just a variation but one that I like.

[BasketBaller]

Early in my hiring I met up with an escort, now retired, who was very upfront about not kissing. I was still learning my own preferences with men so I went for it, and he was very good at what we'd agreed on. But I found I missed the kissing enough so that ever since I've only hired those who are up for smooching being an important part of the session.

[TruHart1]

Although I prefer a true BFE, which includes intimate kissing, I have cum across a few men who are hot enough for me to be willing to see them repeatedly even if they will not kiss. There was one particular bi guy who explained to me that he got into escorting to make enough money to get his back child support paid (before the family court judge sent him to prison!) for his two teen-aged children.

 

For some reason, in his case, his open and honest sharing about so much of his life (plus the fact that he was hot as hell!) turned me on so much that if his child support duties hadn't reached completion causing him to retire and move into a completely different career direction, I would have kept hiring him without fail each time he visited my area! All this to say that though I always look for the intimacy kissing brings, there have been a few exceptions for me!

 

TruHart1

[liubit]

All this to say that though I always look for the intimacy kissing brings, there have been a few exceptions for me!

I wish I could make exceptions, @TruHart1, I wish I could. My problem? Without passionate, intimate, deep kissing, I simply do NOt get hard, no matter how hot the guy is, or how well he sucks, or how much Cialis I swallow . Believe me, I have tried. I am just wired that way.

[FatDaddy]

The most amusing situation I encountered was an escort who would not kiss, but he would eat ass! I didn't complain.

[wisconsinguy]

Absolutely! I always find myself adjusting to the kissing technique of the man I'm with. I'm certain that's why some kissers really turn me on immediately while others get me warmed up more slowly. I feel like adjusting my technique to theirs ends up making our sensuous connection so much more intimate! I must admit though, when a man walks through my door, grabs me, and just goes to town with fully committed kisses immediately, my dick gets rock hard!!! :)

The best escorts (you know who you are! ) always do that!

 

TruHart1 [/quote I do believe I know an individual who can do both. Also, I find giving pleasure to be the most sensuous acts. I do like the thought of a man walking through, grabbing , teasing me. It's a fantasy that I don't have to live without.

[TruHart1]

I do believe I know an individual who can do both. Also, I find giving pleasure to be the most sensuous acts. I do like the thought of a man walking through, grabbing , teasing me. It's a fantasy that I don't have to live without.

I know of whom you speak, WG2! I am lucky enough to not only have enjoyed his company numerous times, but also to have found another escort who is much the same in his ability to mentally and physically "have me from hello!" :)

 

TruHart1

[liubit]

The most amusing situation I encountered was an escort who would not kiss, but he would eat ass! I didn't complain.

Yes, I have met rimmers-but-no-kissers. Once, after a particularly heavy rimming session --which was thoroughly enjoyable, the guy had talent-- I asked the escort:"why don't you kiss?". He replied: "because kissing is too intimate". His reply floored me. He had just had his tongue up my ass and licked my nether region, for God's sake!

 

Fortunately, I found a boy in Prague who is a fantastic kisser AND an amazing rimmer. Paradise!

[+ Avalon]

A person can have an orgasm alone (masturbation) but it takes two to kiss. Kissing is a must!

[+ Funguy]

I used to see a masseur who was into kissing, and boy was he good. He would have me on my back, near the end of the massage which was extremely erotic, when he was about to finish me orally, he would substitute his hand and come up to my mouth to give one deep, hell of a kiss which always put me over the top the instant his tongue began to tango with mine.. He would continue both the kiss and the hand until I just about passed out from pleasure.

 

(he is retired)

[+ oldNbusted]

He replied: "because kissing is too intimate".

 

I think kissing is more intimate than rimming, maybe that's a perspective that makes sense? Having said that, for me, that intimacy is not a product of how vigorous or deep one goes. It's possible to have meaningful kissing without getting the roto-rooter treatment and I believe not all guys understand that.

[gallahadesquire]

What's the difference between ass licking and brown nosing?

 

It's a matter of depth perception.

[+ Avalon]

What's the difference between ass licking and brown nosing?

 

It's a matter of depth perception.

 

LOL