Reputable reviews?

[rvwnsd]

Maybe he was playing Pokemon Go?

Maybe! As he continued down the sidewalk he almost walked in front of a bus when he wasn't paying attention to the traffic light. The bus horn did get his attention.

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Cautious.

 

So sorry to read that you had such a lacklustre experience. That sucks!

 

You are correct, the only thing that you may have done differently was to heed the read flags and chose someone else. Aside from that, maybe when you got there and he look different than his pictures, it would have been a good idea to say that, maybe give him 50 bucks and leave.

 

Nobody should be allowed to be working on false pretences.

 

I hope you write a detailed review on daddy's. Be honest. Nobody should have their time and money wasted.

 

Also... and I know you are cautious and it must have been nerve wracking, but waiting ten years to re-hire is not good for you. As many others have said, every hour that you spend playing out the session in your head, is an hour in which you are just setting yourself up for high expectations and disappointment. If you are spending more time worrying than having fun, you have to find a balance between those two.

 

Find someone else. Soon. Don't overthink it. Try communicating, and if no red flags fly, meet him. Soon. Forget your expectations, relax, be proactive and present, and chances are you will have a better experience.

 

Sincerely hope you will have a super fun experience you can share with us soon!

[coriolis888]

Cautious:

 

I think you're beyond cautious...

 

First of all I wish you had written a review about him 10 years ago, and I'm amazed you haven't hired since then and you still remember that bad experience well enough to post about it on here 10 years after it happened...

 

 

I believe there is something wrong with assertions made in your post.

 

I don't believe that he said that the current escort was the same escort of ten years ago.

 

He said it had been ten years since his last escort hire.

 

Therefore, he was not remiss in failing to write a review ten years ago. His thread mainly discusses the most recent escort; a different escort.

 

One of us is misreading the post.

[mike carey]

@coriolis888, I think you make some valid comments, I read this the same way but didn't comment, thinking it would all be worked out. That hasn't happened so far. Ten years ago was the previous time the OP had hired, but the meeting he commented on was 'this week', so a separate meeting. The OP could well post a review of his most recent experience, but that's up to him.

[Despardo]

Texting while working, or in a classroom, or a business meeting, or a.......? is becoming so ubiquitous that people have forgotten how rude it can be. Do people text while getting married, while talking to a judge, while fucking?

Well, actually yes, yes, and yes. They do.

[cautious]

I believe there is something wrong with assertions made in your post.

 

I don't believe that he said that the current escort was the same escort of ten years ago.

 

He said it had been ten years since his last escort hire.

 

Therefore, he was not remiss in failing to write a review ten years ago. His thread mainly discusses the most recent escort; a different escort.

 

One of us is misreading the post.

 

 

Coriolis888 - Yes, thank you for clarifying, and sorry if my post was unclear. My first experience was 10+ years ago. This second one was just last night and I submitted the review right away. Sorry for any confusion caused!

[cautious]

Hi Everyone,

 

I certainly didn't expect so many replies but I appreciate both the public responses and PMs. The messages have been received loud and clear - submit a formal review (which I have and I hope I was able to convey the positives as well as the disappointments). There's a part of me that worries about posting a less than glowing review of someone who has my phone number, but that's always a risk you take. And hopefully my review helps someone else.

 

It's interesting to see that no one vouches for CanadianMale.com - so that really makes me question the integrity of their process. Lesson learned - stick to this site and forum from now on. You are all obviously dependable - I appreciate it.

 

As some of you mentioned, without discussing too many intimate details, I was clear in my text communications with the escort of the experience I was looking for - and referenced that his reviews showed a history of this. I also described myself fully just in case he had any hang ups about age, race, etc. His reviews seemed to indicate he's good with a variety of clients.

 

Many asked why I paid up front. I agree, that (just like the leaving early) was my choice. Years ago I'd read that payment upfront helped the escort feel comfortable and used to be expected. For me, I liked the idea of getting the 'transaction' out of the way and then I'd done my part, and we could move on. Definitely a lesson learned that it's not expected. And a lesson learned to start with 60 mins instead of longer.

 

 

And many of you are right. Reading the reviews and looking at the photos for so long probably caused me to build it up in my mind to be an unattainably amazing experience. That being said, I think I would have felt better had there not been so many elements that were off. The lack luster making out, rushing, texting while I was servicing him, taste of smoke and inaccuracy of the photos just created a perfect storm of disappointment. Had a few of these been different, even while being rushed, it may have been a better experience.

 

 

I don't think I'll hire again in Canada. There just are too few choices where i live that are the 'look' I'm searching for, and even fewer who are extensively reviewed here. I think I'll focus on the US when travelling, and will always ALWAYS ask here first.

 

Thanks all. I really appreciate the warmth of the replies.

[mike carey]

Cautious, I wouldn't limit myself to Canadians or to any other narrow group. I don't know where you are, but (noting that I have not met him) in Toronto @JetBlack seems to be a great guy.

[+ glennnn]

Well, actually yes, yes, and yes. They do.

 

You make me laugh! I was trying to think of activities that no one could possibly participate in while on the phone, to make a point. But you got me!!! I guess there are no activities that preclude talking or texting on a cell! Ah well, the world keeps changing whether we want it to or not. Sigh!

[Despardo]

You make me laugh! I was trying to think of activities that no one could possibly participate in while on the phone, to make a point. But you got me!!! I guess there are no activities that preclude talking or texting on a cell! Ah well, the world keeps changing whether we want it to or not. Sigh!

[rvwnsd]

...It's interesting to see that no one vouches for CanadianMale.com - so that really makes me question the integrity of their process....

 

A lack of endorsement of CanadianMale.com is not necessarily a sign that they or their process lacks integrity. It is simply a sign that there is a lack of experience with that site.

 

...Lesson learned - stick to this site and forum from now on. You are all obviously dependable - I appreciate it....

 

Here's a slightly different approach for you to consider - use whichever site has ads in your area as a source for potential hires. Then, check the review site for a review and ask the guys here in the Forum if they have experience with the escort. When asking if they have experience with the escort be sure to include a link to his ad. If you checked the reviews, mention that too!

 

Also, keep in mind that we all have different tastes. What might be a perfect boyfriend experience for me might be a complete dud for someone else. Nonetheless, you can use the opinions of others to gauge whether an escort represents himself accurately, conducts himself honestly, and treats his clients as promised.

 

...Many asked why I paid up front. I agree, that (just like the leaving early) was my choice. Years ago I'd read that payment upfront helped the escort feel comfortable and used to be expected....

I read that, too. On an escort's website. I hired my first escort in 1995. He did not ask for his fee up front.

 

...For me, I liked the idea of getting the 'transaction' out of the way and then I'd done my part, and we could move on....

 

Dealing with the money is a task to be "dealt with" only when it is made out to be. Here's what I do. The fee goes into a small envelope that I keep in my pocket or in my bag. When we are wrapping up I hand him the envelope. Done. Just like presenting a gift!

[+ harey]

May try the envelope approach sometime. Normally I put the money on the table in plain sight, and he collects it when leaving. That has been perfect for regulars.

[+ Funguy]

I have never been asked to pay upfront.

At the end I simply ask how much I owe (I know in advance but a lot of my visits go overtime, some waaaay overtime - some charge, some don't. Not a single one of my gentlemen, incl. masseurs, has ever brought up the issue of payment.

 

Because of my experience (see above) I always wonder what is going thru the minds of both clients and escorts when payment is requested/required up front. I know this issue is/has been the subject of many threads but these simple questions have not been answered: Does the client go, "Hmmm" or just expect that that's how it is? What do escorts generally do if the client says he will pay at the end?

 

Always the

Funguy

[+ José Soplanucas]

I have never been asked to pay upfront.

At the end I simply ask how much I owe (I know in advance but a lot of my visits go overtime, some waaaay overtime - some charge, some don't. Not a single one of my gentlemen, incl. masseurs, has ever brought up the issue of payment.

 

Because of my experience (see above) I always wonder what is going thru the minds of both clients and escorts when payment is requested/required up front. I know this issue is/has been the subject of many threads but these simple questions have not been answered: Does the client go, "Hmmm" or just expect that that's how it is? What do escorts generally do if the client says he will pay at the end?

 

Always the

Funguy

 

I have been asked several times. When I am asked, it is just a red flag but not much to think about, funguy. I don't know about you, but when I am in that moment I'm not doing a lot of thinking, or I am but it is a very, extremely focused thinking, if you know what I am talking about.

Every single time I was asked, he was an escort I wouldn't hire again. Not because he asked for an upfront payment, but because he was just not that good.

[coriolis888]

I have been asked several times. When I am asked, it is just a red flag but not much to think about, funguy. I don't know about you, but when I am in that moment I'm not doing a lot of thinking, or I am but it is a very, extremely focused thinking, if you know what I am talking about.

Every single time I was asked, he was an escort I wouldn't hire again. Not because he asked for an upfront payment, but because he was just not that good.

 

 

I had and have a similar reaction to guys who ask for money in advance.

 

Is it a coincidence that guys who ask for money in advance just happen to be lousy lovers?

 

It could be that the escorts had problems in the past collecting because of their lousy performance. Who knows?

[Jock123]

As a Newbie(Sorta) this has always been so Frustrating to me on SO many levels. I dont live In NYC or LA etc where Visitors Frequent often. Thus when people do Hire I've found they normally go for the more Well Reviewed guys. There's a guy In my town who has 20 + RAVING Reviews. BUT what most people dont know is this guy not only screens his reviews(Usually by Offering Discounts for Raving reviews, Having it sent to him FIRST before published) but he has managed to have 3 Yes..THREE bad Reviews completely removed from his Profile(Not Daddys btw). I know this for a fact as over the Years I have watched His Ads...Bad Review pops up...next Day Its gone...And I've also met people who have met Him telling me of His Business Practices.

 

 

For the record I NEVER bring up his name to any client. Its usually a client who says "Oh yea I met _____ and he had me write a review for a Significant discount"

 

 

Not only that but on THIS forum I've noticed people mentiong his Pictures being Heavily outdated, From the Body to the Face.

[Despardo]

As a Newbie(Sorta) this has always been so Frustrating to me on SO many levels. I dont live In NYC or LA etc where Visitors Frequent often. Thus when people do Hire I've found they normally go for the more Well Reviewed guys. There's a guy In my town who has 20 + RAVING Reviews. BUT what most people dont know is this guy not only screens his reviews(Usually by Offering Discounts for Raving reviews, Having it sent to him FIRST before published) but he has managed to have 3 Yes..THREE bad Reviews completely removed from his Profile(Not Daddys btw). I know this for a fact as over the Years I have watched His Ads...Bad Review pops up...next Day Its gone...And I've also met people who have met Him telling me of His Business Practices.

 

 

For the record I NEVER bring up his name to any client. Its usually a client who says "Oh yea I met _____ and he had me write a review for a Significant discount"

 

 

Not only that but on THIS forum I've noticed people mentiong his Pictures being Heavily outdated, From the Body to the Face.

I suppose his MO would constitute a creative and profitable business plan.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Ok, to the detectives in the forum, our misterious friend @Jock123 is giving us here some clues to start narrowing the possibilities. He is not in NYC or LA. He is in the same city where there is another escort with 20+ reviews. This reviews are not here. This escort has been mentioned here as having outdated pics. Who wants the homework?

[Jock123]

Haha! Keep it up @latbear4blk

 

 

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[+ José Soplanucas]

Haha! Keep it up @latbear4blk

 

 

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Lmao!

[cmennow]

There's a part of me that worries about posting a less than glowing review of someone who has my phone number, but that's always a risk you take. And hopefully my review helps someone else.

 

 

You can get a number to use that just for communicating with folks that you don't want to have your real number. There's tons of apps out there where you can get a free number and make calls as well as text.