JoeyCK in NYC

[+ WestGuy]

54 minutes ago, TJMS said:

I saw he was just reviewed. The reviewer said the 2016 photos are accurate. A miracle!

Ha! Would that my 2016 photos were equally miraculous!

[+ azdr0710]

1 hour ago, TJMS said:

 The reviewer said the 2016 photos are accurate.

was the reviewer damning with faint praise??!! 😉

[dan631]

(Reposting this from another thread about him because I thought it’d be helpful, and it’s relevant.)

I tried to meet him multiple times recently. I say tried because every time, but the last, he cancelled. The last time we agreed to meet at his place at a certain time. We didn’t end up meeting because he never came. He takes forever to answer his phone, if ever. Seems like he’s either mentally ill or on drugs or both. I’m not sure what happened because he has multiple five-star reviews. Unless he had the bad reviews removed? I’d steer clear of him if you don’t want to waste your time.

 

[dan631]

So I got to meet him after multiple occasions of him ghosting me or not showing up after making plans with me. I saw him a second time to sus him out. As I suspected, I think he’s mentally ill or unstable or unwell in some way. He gets easily distracted. We were supposed to have sex right away the first time we met, but he was busy torching and smoking his bong for 30 mins. He does smoke weed and meth, so maybe it’s that he was high when I saw him. He said a lot of things that don’t make much sense. Sometimes he’d ramble about his life then go totally silent. He’s very moody, volatile, and gets annoyed easily. He asked me multiple times to be quiet right after he asked me questions about myself. He says he values silence and then another time told me that he finds silence to be awkward. He just strikes me as really lost, confused, disturbed, and disgruntled. I felt bad for him.

His pics are at least 10 years old. His hair is receding, and brown not blond. I’d say he’s somewhere between average-looking and handsome/good-looking, so like above average maybe. He’s thin and a bit lean. He’s in his early 40s. In terms of the sex, he’s vers, but seems to prefer to top more. He’s long and thick. He’s not very passionate, doesn’t kiss, and is pretty mechanical. Only has sex doggie style and prefers rough sex. Likes to smoke while topping. The sex was actually pretty good. But the environment, his personality, and his attitude really turned me off both times I saw him.

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, dan631 said:

The sex was actually pretty good. But the environment, his personality, and his attitude really turned me off

Sounds nightmarish.

I'm impressed you managed to enjoy sex in the middle of this chaos.

I'd have been out the door already when I saw the dirty apartment.

Meth addiction is a very sad reality for a lot of gay men.

[dan631]

On 12/3/2023 at 8:14 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Sounds nightmarish.

I'm impressed you managed to enjoy sex in the middle of this chaos.

I'd have been out the door already when I saw the dirty apartment.

Meth addiction is a very sad reality for a lot of gay men.

Yeah, I think I just dissociated and tried to enjoy myself. Sucks that he’s so unwell. I’ve seen him twice like I said, and spent hours with him, so I got to see him both high and sober. The first time we met he was high most of the time, so it wasn’t an enjoyable time. But I thought he must’ve been having an off day. Second meeting he was sober then got high at the end. I hate to say this, but I think his drug use has made him so unwell that even sober he’s not all fully there. He did tell me he’s been partying since his 20s. He has said that he has no close friends and isn’t close to family. I think he gets high often because he lives a very lonely life. I don’t know. I’d like to say I wish him the best, but he was so unpleasant.

[MmM]

After long term meth use , you can get schizophrenic. I would be careful meeting with him. It's a aad story.