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The times they are a changin'! It's great to get on YouTube and see all the gay couples who are so open with their relationships. To hear some of these guys talk about dating in high school or in college makes me envy them, so much. I love listening to the coming out stories and I am encouraged to hear so many gay men are getting positive support from their friends and families. I didn't have these opportunities when I was growing up in the 60's and 70's. In fact, I was pretty naïve when it came to sex. Even though I knew I was attracted to muscular guys, I never thought about being gay. It was just something that wasn't discussed or thought about. Like I said, I was pretty naïve, and looking back maybe I should be thankful for that.

 

It would have been great to have been able to date guys I was attracted to or to have had a relationship with some special guy, yet, I'm thinking maybe I shouldn't have any regrets about the stuff I missed out on. I believe that during the time I was growing up if I would have been sexually active I probably wouldn't be alive today, because in my late 20's and 30's is when the AIDS epidemic began decimating the gay population. During that period I was finally figuring things out, but being in the closet in a small town, gave me few, okay NO options, but I was safe. I just have to be happy that today more and more young gay males are getting to be themselves and get to be with and even fall in love with someone of the same sex they are attracted to.

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I wish I could like this a billion times!!! You are so right! My experience parallels yours so closely. We missed being openly sexual in our most horny years, but we also missed the HIV plague. My heart goes out to you, my brother.

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The times they are a changin'! It's great to get on YouTube and see all the gay couples who are so open with their relationships. To hear some of these guys talk about dating in high school or in college makes me envy them, so much. I love listening to the coming out stories and I am encouraged to hear so many gay men are getting positive support from their friends and families. I didn't have these opportunities when I was growing up in the 60's and 70's. In fact, I was pretty naïve when it came to sex. Even though I knew I was attracted to muscular guys, I never thought about being gay. It was just something that wasn't discussed or thought about. Like I said, I was pretty naïve, and looking back maybe I should be thankful for that.

 

It would have been great to have been able to date guys I was attracted to or to have had a relationship with some special guy, yet, I'm thinking maybe I shouldn't have any regrets about the stuff I missed out on. I believe that during the time I was growing up if I would have been sexually active I probably wouldn't be alive today, because in my late 20's and 30's is when the AIDS epidemic began decimating the gay population. During that period I was finally figuring things out, but being in the closet in a small town, gave me few, okay NO options, but I was safe. I just have to be happy that today more and more young gay males are getting to be themselves and get to be with and even fall in love with someone of the same sex they are attracted to.

 

I said this in another thread recently-but in many ways I am again feeling all flushed with fever-embarrassed by the crowd. I feel you've found my letters and read each one out loud. I prayed that you would finish. But you just kept right ooonnn writing my pain in your Forum post, sending it over the 'Net. Killing me softly with your post, killing me softly-Ahhh.

 

You were writing my pain. Yeah, you were posting it over the 'Net. La La La, la la la ...

 

 

Gman

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Did you have to strap it to your leg during your horny years? I watched you in Palm Springs you horny, horny old goat!

 

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I wish I could like this a billion times!!! You are so right! My experience parallels yours so closely. We missed being openly sexual in our most horny years, but we also missed the HIV plague. My heart goes out to you, my brother.
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We missed being openly sexual in our most horny years

Same here, but.....well, I have really made up for all that lost time, have I ever! :p:oops:

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Same here, but.....well, I have really made up for all that lost time, have I ever! :p:oops:

Have you? Good for you. I'm still working double shifts to catch up, since my 20s.

Bah, ok I confess, I'm just a horny slut and you gave me an excuse to justify it. :)

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Oh, @latbear4blk, so you are a horny slut too? Then I am not alone in my plight, thank you! o_Oo_O:p And I still have quite some time to recover, but I am working hard on it, really hard (pun intended)

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Take your time child; I'll be over here waiting in the easy chair. I'll even take a nap if I need to.

But Daddy, I have sooooooooo many years to make up. I feel I should get to fuck any guy that moves! I've been DEPRIVED!
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But Daddy, I have sooooooooo many years to make up. I feel I should get to fuck any guy that moves! I've been DEPRIVED!

 

"Hey, I'm depraved on account I'm deprived."

 

- West Side Story

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Officer Krupke fills out the back of those pants pretty nicely....(for a mainstream early 60s flick)

 

Thus the line, "Officer Krupke we're down on our knees......"!

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Isn't it interesting that STDs were called social diseases then. It gives a whole new meaning to the term "church social". Although in light of revelations about some priests and preachers.......

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