Do you have sex with both men and women?

[LivingnLA]

Yes and I greatly enjoy both. I am only now starting to explore bottoming, which is what started this search for me since I want someone who knows what they're doing.

[+ FreshFluff]

Well, I suppose I could say the same. The last time I had my dick in a woman's vagina was when I was being born. I haven't had any interest in having my dick in a woman's vagina ever since.

 

Even that hot female Army Ranger you posted about a while back?

 

In any case I can't even claim @Unicorn's familiarity with the location in question as I was born by scheduled C-section. The closest I came to the birth canal was having my progenitor sperm swim up it.

 

All of these are for you.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

@Lance_Navarro is @Unicorn correct? You talk about putting your tallywacker in the vagina. That's a bit different than @Unicorn's tallywacker being in a vagina. I was guessing you had something like a Fleshjack.

 

In any case I can't even claim @Unicorn's familiarity with the location in question as I was born by scheduled C-section. The closest I came to the birth canal was having my progenitor sperm swim up it.

 

 

 

Gman

 

The answer to the riddle is that I've had sex with a trans man. So, I have fucked a pussy, but it was a "man-pussy", literally.

[Guest]

...If there is a Kinsey scale, you'll find me in the middle. If one end is black and the other white, I'm gray!

....

I lost a great relationship with a great woman not being honest about my bi side.

Honestly, long term relationship-wise I seemed more wired to women. That said, someone who taught me so much about love was a guy...

 

I don't get it. If I were really equally attracted to both, I would think that a relationship with someone the same sex would be tons more satisfying. I mean, I certainly wonder what it would be like to be attracted to a woman. But as a gay man I feel completely connected to my partners. I feel as if we share feelings a straight couple could never share. My straight male friends often complain of not understanding women's emotions and so on. And, yes, I've thought of hiring a FTM escort, but all of the ones I know are too tatooed for me to find attractive. I'm thinking that FTM gay men are pretty close to me and other gay men on an emotional and physiological level. Only difference is that they don't have prostates and will never know the bliss of a full male orgasm....

[mike carey]

I don't get it. If I were really equally attracted to both, I would think that a relationship with someone the same sex would be tons more satisfying.

I've seen it posted here and also read elsewhere that there are quite a few people who differentiate between sexual attraction and romantic attraction and would put themselves in different places for the Kinsey scales for those two measures. Now, I'm not one of those people: I don't know if it's something influenced by the heteronormative view of partner-relationships or if it's something that could be reached regardless of that. I'm not in the middle of either spectrum, so I find it difficult to imagine which sort of romantic relationship I would prefer if I were, but that's just me.

[+ nycman]

Frankly nycman the details are not really all that exciting. ...... Really not terribly exciting.

 

Says you!

 

I already beat off 3 times reading your post.....grin

[LivingnLA]

So, without getting too technical, many researchers who study human neurobiology, psychology and sexuality tend to agree. The way sexual orientation is used in lay conversation doesn't adequately capture the variance many humans experience throughout their lives.

 

Generally speaking, most humans are physically capable of sexual stimulation in hetero and homo configurations. That's just basic biology, neural stimulation, blood flow, etc. Note that I say "most," because humans are complex and even this fundamental physicality has exceptions.

 

It does seem Kinsey has some functional applicability today, but it's important to recognize it's possible we have multiple orientations: romantic, sexual attraction, and sexual activity. Further, those orientations may adjust somewhat over time based on a variety of environmental factors.

 

Given some of the insightful comments I've seen on this forum, I'm sure y'all are familiar with much of this thinking. It's all a work-in-progress. Humans are very complicated and research in sexuality is somewhat limited for a wide variety of reasons. Wikipedia actually has some reasonable starting points for many of these topics.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bisexuality

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_identity

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_attraction

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sexual_activity

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Situational_sexual_behavior

[Rudynate]

I've seen it posted here and also read elsewhere that there are quite a few people who differentiate between sexual attraction and romantic attraction and would put themselves in different places for the Kinsey scales for those two measures. Now, I'm not one of those people: I don't know if it's something influenced by the heteronormative view of partner-relationships or if it's something that could be reached regardless of that. I'm not in the middle of either spectrum, so I find it difficult to imagine which sort of romantic relationship I would prefer if I were, but that's just me.

 

 

I know an escort who identifies as a "heterocentric bisexual," meaning he has a physical attraction to either sex and his romantic attractions are to the opposite sex.

[Guest]

I know an escort who identifies as a "heterocentric bisexual," meaning he has a physical attraction to either sex and his romantic attractions are to the opposite sex.

 

Well, that doesn't make a lot of sense from a rational perspective. Why would one not be able to form a romantic attraction or emotional bond with someone one found physically attractive? That strikes me as showing a certain degree of self-denial or rejection of one's feelings.

[Rudynate]

Well, that doesn't make a lot of sense from a rational perspective. Why would one not be able to form a romantic attraction or emotional bond with someone one found physically attractive? That strikes me as showing a certain degree of self-denial or rejection of one's feelings.

 

 

I don't overthink people's declarations of their sexual/emotional orientation. If they say they're their bi, as far as I'm concerned they're bi. If they say they are straight, then, to me, they are straight. The only time I question it is if their walk doesn't at all match their talk. I guess I don't care that much. If I were attracted to him, for example, I wouldn't care that an escort identified as "straight." I keep toying with hiring Tropyhusband. The only reason I haven't is that he's a little out of my budget.

[MrMattBig]

Life does not make a lot of sense

To others outside of this community, liking the same sex does not make sense, let alone hiring escorts of the same sex. As one who the above mentioned describes, it is not self denial. Let me explain. I am a scorpio, I am a freak, a sexual being, and in such, when I am expressing that side of me, I do not see gender. I see a person, similar to me, who is expressing their sexual self as well. Now, when it comes to romance, I gravitate to someone who is a boss, someone who can juggle 10 different things and get them all done with extraordinary mastery. Someone who takes charge, tells it how it is, and down to earth. Yet, that person has to be soothing, nurturing, compassionate, looking out for me when I forget to. Surprising, warm, kind, loving, giving, and selfless. A step on people's toes and Mother Theresa all in one. Just so happens that perfect combination for me is women 99 percent of the time.

[WolfRamNHard]

I came out as "gay" when I was 16 and have always chosen to use that label for myself. However, I often fantasize about having sex with women when I'm by myself masturbating (and that is often enough to make me cum). But I've never admitted this to my LGBTQ friends and lovers, and I also do not like the term "bi" for myself. While sex with women is hot, I don't think I could ever have a romantic relationship with one. Outside of sex, romantically speaking I strongly prefer the company of men and the term "Gay" feels right to me.

 

I'm also one of those who believe that people should call themselves whatever they want and we should just take them at face value. Who am I to create boxes and categories for other people?

 

Sexuality is incredibly complex and people evolve. I gave up trying to figure it all out a long time ago.

 

Sexuality feels more like a three-dimensional sphere rather than a one-dimensional linear scale with just two ends. Kinsey sorely lacked imagination in this regard.

[jjkrkwood]

I had sex with girls early on , but exclusively GAY for decades.... but I am willing to try THIS..... looks like a Fun time with No judgments. And I still have sex with huge cock Tranny on my bucket list.. Some of those "girls" have mighty fine tonsil ticklers....

 

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