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Client hires me while visiting DC. His an emergency room doctor who goes by xxxxxxx Moderator's note: no posting of real names. Check TOS.

 

He would stay for several hours, pay me for significantly less, then text me that he knew he underpaid but would see me again. We had a very nice connection so I let it slide and he did hire me three times, each time staying longer than what he paid for.

 

He says he wants to book me for a weekend in Fort Lauderdale. I tell him it's 2500 but I'll throw in a third night free.

 

I pick him up from the airport and day 1 he's fine. He asks a lot of personal questions and says that he's in love with me and wants to help me pay for my house renovation. Red flag! Too intense for only a few meetings.

 

Day 2 asks me over and over again to fuck him that night. I say not to worry I fucked him in DC so it will happen tonight. We lie in bed during the day and he literally asked me ten more times if I'm going to fuck him. A little irritated I say "Yes I don't know why you keep asking! I said I would!" He stands up and yells "you'll fuck a guy in the shower at the gym and I'm paying you 2500 dollars! You'll fuck me tonight if I ask for it!" I hunkered down in bed and just laid there. He rolls over, apologizes, so I say ok. I get on top and pond him. He kept trying to talk and feel reassured. He needed constant affirmation that I was head over heels for him.

 

Day 3. Wants to go to a sex party so he can watch me and join in. Sending how insecure he was I suggest dinner and a movie for our last night and alone time in the hotel. He inisysts on the sex party so we go. And of course he complained that I fucked others like I cared more about them and didn't do it to him the same way. He's 53. The guys there were 28 or so and new. It was his idea. So now he wants to go to a leather bar afterwards so we go. He asks a million questions. Are you sure it's ok if we go? Do you really want to be here? Then we get settled in at a corner in the bar and he says do you want to walk around the bar? I say no. He yells THEN LET'S GO!

I say what? I just said I didn't want to walk around that doesn't mean I want to go! He yells back you don't have to be such an asshole!!! I walk out of the bar.

 

He says let's go back in.

I say No I think we should go!

He says you're a child! You've got problems!

I say really!? Let's just go I knew there would be drama! You ask one question after another! It's ridiculous!

He arrogantly says in a fatherly tone yelling at me like I was a child, "Sit down on the ground with your knees in the dirt, wait for the uber, and when we get back you can drive back to Orlando tonight! (It's 12:30am and Orlando is a three hour drive away)

 

In the uber he acts all happy to the driver and says what a great time we are having! In the hotel he says he loves me and will take care of me even though I'm self centered. I quietly tell him I need to leave. I run out of there!

 

He cancels my check and in one email says how much he loves me the next email he calls me all kinds of names! Promises to wire me the money. 1500 up front and a thousand more if I respond showing him I care about him. I respond with saying we will have no further communication until he pays me first! Then a bunch of threats follow!

He's going to contact my parents and turn me in to the IRS!

 

Beware! In five years of escorting I have never experienced anyone this sick!

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Kippy Veteran

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Get some legal counsel kid--this guy sounds like a disturbed person and probably won't go away easily or quickly.

 

Peace,

 

Kipp

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Client hires me while visiting DC. His an emergency room doctor who goes by xxxxx.

 

He would stay for several hours, pay me for significantly less, then text me that he knew he underpaid but would see me again. We had a very nice connection so I let it slide and he did hire me three times, each time staying longer than what he paid for.

 

He says he wants to book me for a weekend in Fort Lauderdale. I tell him it's 2500 but I'll throw in a third night free.

 

I pick him up from the airport and day 1 he's fine. He asks a lot of personal questions and says that he's in love with me and wants to help me pay for my house renovation. Red flag! Too intense for only a few meetings.

 

Day 2 asks me over and over again to fuck him that night. I say not to worry I fucked him in DC so it will happen tonight. We lie in bed during the day and he literally asked me ten more times if I'm going to fuck him. A little irritated I say "Yes I don't know why you keep asking! I said I would!" He stands up and yells "you'll fuck a guy in the shower at the gym and I'm paying you 2500 dollars! You'll fuck me tonight if I ask for it!" I hunkered down in bed and just laid there. He rolls over, apologizes, so I say ok. I get on top and pond him. He kept trying to talk and feel reassured. He needed constant affirmation that I was head over heels for him.

 

Day 3. Wants to go to a sex party so he can watch me and join in. Sending how insecure he was I suggest dinner and a movie for our last night and alone time in the hotel. He inisysts on the sex party so we go. And of course he complained that I fucked others like I cared more about them and didn't do it to him the same way. He's 53. The guys there were 28 or so and new. It was his idea. So now he wants to go to a leather bar afterwards so we go. He asks a million questions. Are you sure it's ok if we go? Do you really want to be here? Then we get settled in at a corner in the bar and he says do you want to walk around the bar? I say no. He yells THEN LET'S GO!

I say what? I just said I didn't want to walk around that doesn't mean I want to go! He yells back you don't have to be such an asshole!!! I walk out of the bar.

 

He says let's go back in.

I say No I think we should go!

He says you're a child! You've got problems!

I say really!? Let's just go I knew there would be drama! You ask one question after another! It's ridiculous!

He arrogantly says in a fatherly tone yelling at me like I was a child, "Sit down on the ground with your knees in the dirt, wait for the uber, and when we get back you can drive back to Orlando tonight! (It's 12:30am and Orlando is a three hour drive away)

 

In the uber he acts all happy to the driver and says what a great time we are having! In the hotel he says he loves me and will take care of me even though I'm self centered. I quietly tell him I need to leave. I run out of there!

 

He cancels my check and in one email says how much he loves me the next email he calls me all kinds of names! Promises to wire me the money. 1500 up front and a thousand more if I respond showing him I care about him. I respond with saying we will have no further communication until he pays me first! Then a bunch of threats follow!

He's going to contact my parents and turn me in to the IRS!

 

Beware! In five years of escorting I have never experienced anyone this sick!

 

First of all he's very unstable and that's a huge red flag, he also cheated you not once but 3 times, another red flag... now he cancelled a check, I wouldn't take anything but cash or PayPal up front specially from someone like him. I'm aware that on a trip guys usually pay at the end, but never take a check.

 

Blacklist him, warn others about him and move on, you were cheaper than the psychologist he truly needs.

 

one more thing: Sex party in Orlando? Elaborate...

 

Get some legal counsel kid--this guy sounds like a disturbed person and probably won't go away easily or quickly.

 

Peace,

 

Kipp

 

I understand your advice and your good intentions but how would the OP explain their relationship and specially how they've met? I would make sure to post his information online to warn others about him.

AdamAdonis Newbie

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We usually discuss clients getting hooked in a self destructive relationship with an escort.

Why did you continue seeing the guy despite several red flags? Why? WHYYYYYYY.????

The red flags came from the weekend trip. The DC visits were longer than what he paid but he honestly seemed nice and was rebooking me often so I let it slide. I guess looking back I see now he was getting way too attached but it was money coming in and business for a weekend. He didn't seem disturbed enough to turn it down. Once the weekend came I saw it and ran out the last night but by then it was too late.

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The red flags came from the weekend trip. The DC visits were longer than what he paid but he honestly seemed nice and was rebooking me often so I let it slide. I guess looking back I see now he was getting way too attached but it was money coming in and business for a weekend. He didn't seem disturbed enough to turn it down. Once the weekend came I saw it and ran out the last night but by then it was too late.

 

 

Sorry to hear that boo == the other thing is - Hey Baby Lets go to any bank and you can get an advance on your CC.

Gosh Honey for a weekend I need you to give me at least half when we meet . . .

harey Mentor

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Get some legal counsel kid--this guy sounds like a disturbed person and probably won't go away easily or quickly.

 

Peace,

 

Kipp

I agree about getting some legal advice. One of my old boyfriends acted like that right before I moved out. It scared the hell out of me and the only solution was to stop all communication. It sounds like you can't help this guy and more contact may only add fuel to the fire.

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Proceed very carefully and keep us up to date and get advice before you do anything regarding this guy! You aren't helpless or without resources. Is he openly gay? Can he really afford to pursue this socially and professionally? Do you have photos of him? Dont threaten back, but perhaps he hasn't thought of the damage this could do to his life.

Share this whole thing with a close friend Keep the check for evidence and put a copy away some where. I wouldn't see him again under any circumstances.

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I, among many here, would be glad to listen and suggest scenarios, but we really need help from another escort. Somebody pm this guy and reach out to him.

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Adam,

 

Welcome to this forum. I wish your joining were due to better circumstances. The client appears to have serious mental and emotional issues. It is very likely you are not the only escort who has been victimized by this asshole. That's little comfort I know but try not to sink to his level. Life eventually catches up with people like him. Karma is a bitch.

 

Take reasonable steps to protect yourself self from a legal standing if necessary. Don't do anything that could be considered threatening or illegal to get back at this guy.

 

Take the time to review the errors you made in taking this guy on as a client. Learn from the experience and don't repeat the same mistakes with someone else. Discuss this in confidence with a fellow escort you know and trust. Or perhaps the escorts here on this board can offer some private advice via private message.

 

This forum can be a wealth of information. It can also be a bit intense at times but that's the case with any forum. I look forward to your future participation.

purplekow Grand Master

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If you still have the check, some banks put a time limit on a check stop. Usually it is six months. Check with his bank what their policy is. If there is a time limit, the day that limit is done, get your firm ass to that bank and cash that sucker.

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If you still have the check, some banks put a time limit on a check stop. Usually it is six months. Check with his bank what their policy is. If there is a time limit, the day that limit is done, get your firm ass to that bank and cash that sucker.

I cashed it already. I deposited it in the ATM on Sunday morning and he called Sunday and cancelled it.

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If you still have the check, some banks put a time limit on a check stop. Usually it is six months. Check with his bank what their policy is. If there is a time limit, the day that limit is done, get your firm ass to that bank and cash that sucker.

 

If Adam still had the check in his possession and attempted to cash it at the bank after six months they would likely refuse to do so because it would be a stale-dated check. If Adam deposited it to his bank account it would likely go through, as the item processing department typically does not look at dates on inclearing checks.

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If Adam still had the check in his possession and attempted to cash it at the bank after six months they would likely refuse to do so because it would be a stale-dated check. If Adam deposited it to his bank account it would likely go through, as the item processing department typically does not look at dates on inclearing checks.

Like I said I deposited the check in the ATM Sunday morning, and the client emailed me saying he cancelled it that day.

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This is an interesting thread and I'm sorry the escort is having to endure such a paralyzing situation. Your opening sentence indicates that this client is an emergency room doctor. If this is really the case I doubt he's going to out you to the IRS or take similar action. First of all, this is small potatoes to the IRS and I seriously doubt they would do anything about it. Even if he did the IRS is going to be looking at him as well. Keep in mind he hired an escort which is not considered legal. Secondly, bringing this to light and going public with it would do more harm to him professionally than it would to you. Do you really think a hospital is going to keep on staff a doctor that admits to hiring escorts and going public with it? The PR damage to the hospital would be substantial. Of course, I've been known to be wrong about these things in the past. The one certainty in this situation is that the client appears to be unstable and needs to be avoided. Be prepared to seek legal counsel though if the client indeed carries through on his threats. People like this enjoy instilling fear into others as a way of controlling their actions and orgasming on a power trip. Typical bully behavior. I wish you the best of luck.

 

On a much lighter note....if you ever get to Dallas look me up. You're pretty friggin' hot. Cash and carry customer here. And I'd never stiff you unless you requested it.

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