Clients Want More Upfront Info

[+ Letmeworshipit]

As a client, especially one with specific requests, it would make things so much easier if guys would be a little more specific about their favorite act. Many "tops" don't like just getting head, for example. Niche clients like me who look for true oral tops have been disappointed by guys who will tell you anything to get my money. Guys who state their preference are more apt to get hired by a good match and maybe generate repeat business. Plus, I've made friends with escorts who are open about what turns them on. When they can say how much they love to get blown, I will contact them first before calling those tops, many of whom vastly prefer to fuck ass.

[MrMattBig]

As a client, especially one with specific requests, it would make things so much easier if guys would be a little more specific about their favorite act. Many "tops" don't like just getting head, for example. Niche clients like me who look for true oral tops have been disappointed by guys who will tell you anything to get my money. Guys who state their preference are more apt to get hired by a good match and maybe generate repeat business. Plus, I've made friends with escorts who are open about what turns them on. When they can say how much they love to get blown, I will contact them first before calling those tops, many of whom vastly prefer to fuck ass.

 

I agree with you. It is always nice to know what the other is into. As an escort however, how would we go about saying those things without potentially incriminating ourselfs to law enforcement?

[Samfoslom]

I agree with you. It is always nice to know what the other is into. As an escort however, how would we go about saying those things without potentially incriminating ourselfs to law enforcement?

Right--same goes for the client. I don't talk specifics or making specific requests for this reason. If you don't know the person on the other end, you can be incriminating yourself. especially via text. I had an app for free texting, but the company has gone out of business, and i haven't found a good replacement.

[+ Letmeworshipit]

I agree with you. It is always nice to know what the other is into. As an escort however, how would we go about saying those things without potentially incriminating ourselves to law enforcement?

I think many guys already do this by saying things like "top of the game" or "I welcome mutual touch". In some sites online they're even more specific. I don't look for Versatile guys, as I much that rare breed of guy who self-identifies as a true oral top feeder. It's all about taking on roles in sex play. Some guys try to play their role but it just doesn't work. Hence the need to try to establish the preferred act beforehand if possible. Plus, there are just too many guys who say they're do anything to take your money and really don't care what happens, particularly if they think you're just passing through town.

[+ Truereview]

I get a sense that you want a variety of oral top escorts, not just one or two regulars? Nothing wrong with that. You are the client, you should get whatever the hell you want. How about asking for a referral? Ask your regulars to introduce you and recommend you to other oral tops. You could even offer your regular a sensible finder's fee. I would think that recommendation will provide you a chance for a more open conversation with the new guy about preferences, etc. with the finder's fee, the referral will also carry more weight bc your regular will probably want to ensure that you have a good time bc his rep is on the line...his buddy will probably go the extra mile as well. Everybody walks away winning including, and most importantly, you.

[+ Letmeworshipit]

I get a sense that you want a variety of oral top escorts, not just one or two regulars? Nothing wrong with that. You are the client, you should get whatever the hell you want. How about asking for a referral? Ask your regulars to introduce you and recommend you to other oral tops. You could even offer your regular a sensible finder's fee. I would think that recommendation will provide you a chance for a more open conversation with the new guy about preferences, etc. with the finder's fee, the referral will also carry more weight bc your regular will probably want to ensure that you have a good time bc his rep is on the line...his buddy will probably go the extra mile as well. Everybody walks away winning including, and most importantly, you.

I agree that referrals are often a great way to go. I have a couple of cocksucker buddies around the U.S. who share info on guys they meet, either escorts or just hook-ups. Interestingly, we seem to identify the same group of guys as they are somewhat unique. I've managed to refer guys all over the U.S. to guys I've met and vice-versa. What's fun is to compare experiences. The escort "Eric" in L.A. was #1 for many of us as he was totally into in and had a true trophy cock. Plus he was the nicest guy. He would come over to my hotel and have a glass or two of wine before we'd go at it. He never failed to deliver and could have had a career in porn but he had other ambitions. He's no longer working and I bet he's doing quite well now and being taken care of in the Hollywood Hills...He was someone who specified exactly what he liked in his ad, "If you like to get on your knees and do your thing, give this big veiny cock a try". Those were magic words to those of us who crave those kind of guys. It was a perfect match made in cocksucking heaven....

[MikeyGMin]

As a client, especially one with specific requests, it would make things so much easier if guys would be a little more specific about their favorite act. Many "tops" don't like just getting head, for example. Niche clients like me who look for true oral tops have been disappointed by guys who will tell you anything to get my money. Guys who state their preference are more apt to get hired by a good match and maybe generate repeat business. Plus, I've made friends with escorts who are open about what turns them on. When they can say how much they love to get blown, I will contact them first before calling those tops, many of whom vastly prefer to fuck ass.

 

I think you answered your question in your own post. You are a niche and a good businessman needs to appeal to a wide variety of people. If they get too specific, they will drive more people away then they will attract. I'm sure many escorts can provide various types of kink, but as soon as they list it on their ad, someone like me -- who is very vanilla -- we'll move on.

 

Servicing a hot guy is not that unique. I like it myself from time to time and have never had a problem getting it from any of the tops I have engaged. I guess there is something more extreme about what you need as far as dominance or role play that is making it difficult for you to be satisfied. I haven't quite figured ut out.

[MrMattBig]

I think many guys already do this by saying things like "top of the game" or "I welcome mutual touch". In some sites online they're even more specific. I don't look for Versatile guys, as I much that rare breed of guy who self-identifies as a true oral top feeder. It's all about taking on roles in sex play. Some guys try to play their role but it just doesn't work. Hence the need to try to establish the preferred act beforehand if possible. Plus, there are just too many guys who say they're do anything to take your money and really don't care what happens, particularly if they think you're just passing through town.

 

With the roles part being said, I think its more about portraying a top mentality coupled with the desire to please the client. I wouldn't say I like "insert cock sucking related phrase here" I get my pleasure by watching my client enjoy themselves. And there is a pm that would speak to how I can play the role, wouldn't you say @Letmeworshipit ?

[ChrisWydeman]

As a client, especially one with specific requests, it would make things so much easier if guys would be a little more specific about their favorite act. Many "tops" don't like just getting head, for example. Niche clients like me who look for true oral tops have been disappointed by guys who will tell you anything to get my money. Guys who state their preference are more apt to get hired by a good match and maybe generate repeat business. Plus, I've made friends with escorts who are open about what turns them on. When they can say how much they love to get blown, I will contact them first before calling those tops, many of whom vastly prefer to fuck ass.

A big reason escorts don't like getting head is that a lot of people give bad blow jobs. Most guys are unaware that they drag there teeth up and down a dick when they suck it, they bite, or don't have proper suction which does not feel good and is not conducive to a good time. Getting a good BJ makes me want to melt into what ever I am sitting on but a bad one makes me want to run out of the room screaming. I am not saying you give a bad bj but there are a lot of people who do regardless of payment. I absolutely love to get my dick sucked and when I do find one of those guys that can suck the chrome off the trailer hitch I am in heaven. A lot of escorts might say they aren't into something because their experiences when they have tried haven't been very positive.

 

I had someone who loved to rim and being that I loved to get rimmed I thought we would both have a great time until he bit my butt hole because "thats just my thing". Experiences like that make me reluctant to advertise that I enjoy rimming because I don't want to get my asshole bitten again

[WolfRamNHard]

A big reason escorts don't like getting head is that a lot of people give bad blow jobs. Most guys are unaware that they drag there teeth up and down a dick when they suck it, they bite, or don't have proper suction which does not feel good and is not conducive to a good time. Getting a good BJ makes me want to melt into what ever I am sitting on but a bad one makes me want to run out of the room screaming. I am not saying you give a bad bj but there are a lot of people who do regardless of payment. I absolutely love to get my dick sucked and when I do find one of those guys that can suck the chrome off the trailer hitch I am in heaven. A lot of escorts might say they aren't into something because their experiences when they have tried haven't been very positive.

 

While reading this, I had a moment of much-needed self-awareness of my limitations and it made me cringe.

[+ glennnn]

I, for one cock sucker, LOVE to be schooled by the guy I'm sucking. Being told what feels good, and given pointers on how to improve my technique is so hot. I kneel to serve and make love to a cock. You want a good BJ? Your encouragement pleases us both

[Bearofdistinction]

A big reason escorts don't like getting head is that a lot of people give bad blow jobs. Most guys are unaware that they drag there teeth up and down a dick when they suck it, they bite, or don't have proper suction which does not feel good and is not conducive to a good time. Getting a good BJ makes me want to melt into what ever I am sitting on but a bad one makes me want to run out of the room screaming. I am not saying you give a bad bj but there are a lot of people who do regardless of payment. I absolutely love to get my dick sucked and when I do find one of those guys that can suck the chrome off the trailer hitch I am in heaven. A lot of escorts might say they aren't into something because their experiences when they have tried haven't been very positive.

 

I had someone who loved to rim and being that I loved to get rimmed I thought we would both have a great time until he bit my butt hole because "thats just my thing". Experiences like that make me reluctant to advertise that I enjoy rimming because I don't want to get my asshole bitten again

 

Ask for what you want most cocksuckers that I have met love to be told what to do. Same with asseaters . . .

[Juan Vancouver]

A big reason escorts don't like getting head is that a lot of people give bad blow jobs. Most guys are unaware that they drag there teeth up and down a dick when they suck it, they bite, or don't have proper suction which does not feel good and is not conducive to a good time

 

Sad but true.

 

I have a very thick cock and 85% of people bite the shit out of my cock. Then they completely disregard everything that I am suggesting as the way I like my cock being sucked, then after the most painful and stressful few minutes they look up and annoyed ask me why I am not cumming.

 

Needless to say I am really protective of my cock. It's my pride and it's one of my tools. I can't risk having it mauled and incapacitated. If someone is not very adept at oral, I will look for something else to do.

 

That is why is someone says that he wants to only suck my cock for hours I will likely pass. If they suck at it, there will be nothing else we can do to pass the time.

 

Once every blue moon, though, I find someone who transports me to another world where there is absolutely nothing but a warm, moist, loving mouth and my cock... in absolute rapture for hours. For me it is such an elusive pleasure that I have a hard time understanding most men who would do anything for a blowjob.

 

It is nice to have a thick cock, but it don't come free.

[Marlfox]

I've had an escort suggest that I apply more suction and I appreciated the advice. I've also been with an escort who sucked like a jelly fish. I was tempted to give him advice, but was reluctant to as he was the pro. Do escorts appreciate getting advice on technique from clients?

[Becket]

As one with a small mouth who struggles to perform adequately, I know I must overcome my shortcomings with enthusiasm. In one particular instance I was so "enthusiastic" that the foreskin of an uncut gentleman got caught in the small space between my two front teeth. Let's just say the screaming that followed was not conducive to further oral activity for either one of us.

[+ Eric Hassan]

I've had an escort suggest that I apply more suction and I appreciated the advice. I've also been with an escort who sucked like a jelly fish. I was tempted to give him advice, but was reluctant to as he was the pro. Do escorts appreciate getting advice on technique from clients?

 

Yes.

[mattr]

I really appreciate feedback on my sexual technique from an escort and tips on how to improve it. I have gotten very little so far but I am not naive enough to believe this means that there is no room for improvement. I have asked but perhaps I need to be more emphatic since the escort may be unwilling to make suggestions as some clients might be hurt or insulted. Escorts?

[Rudynate]

I've had an escort suggest that I apply more suction and I appreciated the advice. I've also been with an escort who sucked like a jelly fish. I was tempted to give him advice, but was reluctant to as he was the pro. Do escorts appreciate getting advice on technique from clients?

 

Look at it is asking for what you want rather than giving advice on technique. It is likely to be better received when it comes from that place.

[ChrisWydeman]

I've had an escort suggest that I apply more suction and I appreciated the advice. I've also been with an escort who sucked like a jelly fish. I was tempted to give him advice, but was reluctant to as he was the pro. Do escorts appreciate getting advice on technique from clients?

There are some positions that are hard to maintain suction because your trying not to have a cock bang up against your teeth but yes ask for what you like

[Juan Vancouver]

As one with a small mouth who struggles to perform adequately, I know I must overcome my shortcomings with enthusiasm. In one particular instance I was so "enthusiastic" that the foreskin of an uncut gentleman got caught in the small space between my two front teeth. Let's just say the screaming that followed was not conducive to further oral activity for either one of us.

 

I would like to suggest that instead of trying to overcome your small mouth with enthusiasm, you should try to do it with caution.

 

The enthused owner of a small, frantic mouth is the single most terrifying thing I have ever encountered.

 

Exercise at home with bananas, open up, relax, consciously allow your mouth to get bigger... or choose smaller dicks to suck.

 

And if you really can't successfully open up your mouth to accommodate a large cock, then just play on the outside and focus on other activities. There is so much stuff one can do with a big dick that doesn't involve permanent damage. =)

[+ Keith30309]

The enthused owner of a small, frantic mouth is the single most terrifying thing I have ever encountered.

 

EEP !

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[Juan Vancouver]

Yes Keith... that reminds me of a session I had recently.

 

Really nice guy.

[TruthBTold]

No one tends to like the same thing, beyond the cock being in the mouth. Most times I like a guy sexily telling me what he likes. It's not that the technique I am using is improper (unless it is hurtful), it is just that it is not the one he likes. So I change it as far as physically possible to the one he suggests. And I put the new one in my sex Rolodex of things to use on some other guy. People sometimes love new things.

[mike carey]

Yes Keith... that reminds me of a session I had recently.

 

Really nice guy.

I'm really glad you wrote the second line, a nice guy would (or should) be able to take it in his stride if an escort suggests that they try something else. 'We can try this again when you've had your teeth replaced with dentures', may not be the ideal way to convey the message though! I would be mortified if I reminded anyone of the picture Keith posted, but even more so if he didn't say anything at the time and it came out later.

[LADoug1]

I, for one cock sucker, LOVE to be schooled by the guy I'm sucking. Being told what feels good, and given pointers on how to improve my technique is so hot. I kneel to serve and make love to a cock. You want a good BJ? Your encouragement pleases us both

Communication is always key. And I love verbal sex.