Kerryslate Posted May 5, 2016 Share Posted May 5, 2016 Something I would like to add not particularly related to the subject but anyhow. I'm not here to take everything that comes my way. I've had great experiences and a lot of repeats. I also had some terrible encounters where people were just either messed up on drugs, they were asshole-ish or people whom have tried to over power me and tell me I wasn't going to leave until something happend. Which neither of the 3 that have tried over powering have been successful. And if someone is a dick, forget it I'll walk right back out the door. Long story short I'm very cautious of how I go about things sometimes I'll get a gut feeling and cancel at the last minute. Being in my shoes I never really know what I'm walking into. There's reviews out there on me for no shows or cancels or what have you. You can read everything you want to online, but you can't say for sure until it's been experienced. I'm not a rushed type of guy when I say an "hour" basically means and hour n a half. I'm not about trying to get in an out as fast as possible. Forget that, I would like for that person to have a good experience has well. Plus I also like trying to establish some sort of something before anything might transpire bigvalboy, alexslaveboy, tennisjock and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerryslate Posted May 5, 2016 Share Posted May 5, 2016 They should make a role play appointment. Scene: make up sex. Hey you never know role play can be fun lol. tennisjock, Will Do, alexslaveboy and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted May 5, 2016 Share Posted May 5, 2016 Hey you never know role play can be fun lol. HELL, YEAH! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted May 5, 2016 Share Posted May 5, 2016 Something I would like to add not particularly related to the subject but anyhow. I'm not here to take everything that comes my way. I've had great experiences and a lot of repeats. I also had some terrible encounters where people were just either messed up on drugs, they were asshole-ish or people whom have tried to over power me and tell me I wasn't going to leave until something happend. Which neither of the 3 that have tried over powering have been successful. And if someone is a dick, forget it I'll walk right back out the door. Long story short I'm very cautious of how I go about things sometimes I'll get a gut feeling and cancel at the last minute. Being in my shoes I never really know what I'm walking into. There's reviews out there on me for no shows or cancels or what have you. You can read everything you want to online, but you can't say for sure until it's been experienced. I'm not a rushed type of guy when I say an "hour" basically means and hour n a half. I'm not about trying to get in an out as fast as possible. Forget that, I would like for that person to have a good experience has well. Plus I also like trying to establish some sort of something before anything might transpire Kerry - kudos for coming on the forum and offering a calm, reasoned explanation of your perspectives on the issues around no-show's! That takes character and demonstrates interest in maintaining your valuable reputation. I totally get your concerns about physical safety - that's the most important thing in this entire equation. You can't risk that for any amount of money and being particularly leery of anyone involved in drugs is wise. I could never walk up to a hotel room door and knock without knowing what's on the other side - I get it. What I think I hear is that there are accurate reviews of you for no-shows (beyond the instance above with the family emergency) and that (sometimes) you cancel at the last minute if you get a (bad) gut feeling. You're absolutely within your rights to do whatever you feel is necessary. The problem is the image of you that creates... I was stood up by a fairly well-known guy in Houston not long ago who I tried to hire despite some discussion here about him being a flake. I added my no-show experience to the chorus of naysayers and I've seen little further questions from potential-clients about him. In this case it turned into a lose-lose for everybody. In the interest of creating something constructive out of all this I wonder if you can't reduce your lose-lose experiences and have more 'wins'. There's several very sharp, experienced companions on the forum who have shared the steps they take to assure their safety, vet their prospective clients and hone their instincts for spotting when something just isn't right. There's a few threads in Ask an Escort about these things. I suspect you'd prefer to not feel the need to cancel and picking up some of these pros' tips might help that. Best wishes and good luck. Will Do, John Krups, bigvalboy and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will Do Posted May 5, 2016 Share Posted May 5, 2016 Kerry - kudos for coming on the forum and offering a calm, reasoned explanation of your perspectives on the issues around no-show's! That takes character and demonstrates interest in maintaining your valuable reputation. I totally get your concerns about physical safety - that's the most important thing in this entire equation. You can't risk that for any amount of money and being particularly leery of anyone involved in drugs is wise. I could never walk up to a hotel room door and knock without knowing what's on the other side - I get it. What I think I hear is that there are accurate reviews of you for no-shows (beyond the instance above with the family emergency) and that (sometimes) you cancel at the last minute if you get a (bad) gut feeling. You're absolutely within your rights to do whatever you feel is necessary. The problem is the image of you that creates... I was stood up by a fairly well-known guy in Houston not long ago who I tried to hire despite some discussion here about him being a flake. I added my no-show experience to the chorus of naysayers and I've seen little further questions from potential-clients about him. In this case it turned into a lose-lose for everybody. In the interest of creating something constructive out of all this I wonder if you can't reduce your lose-lose experiences and have more 'wins'. There's several very sharp, experienced companions on the forum who have shared the steps they take to assure their safety, vet their prospective clients and hone their instincts for spotting when something just isn't right. There's a few threads in Ask an Escort about these things. I suspect you'd prefer to not feel the need to cancel and picking up some of these pros' tips might help that. Best wishes and good luck. Well said @Keith30309! I appreciate your insight and recommendations! Kerry's not in my neck o' the woods though I wish he were! Kerryslate 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will Do Posted May 5, 2016 Share Posted May 5, 2016 Kerry's M4RN ad: http://www.men4rentnow.com/gay/escort/male/massage/los_angeles_/Kerryslate/310415 Great body AND a smile. Who could ask for anything more? bigvalboy, Kerryslate and + azdr0710 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
josh282282 Posted May 5, 2016 Share Posted May 5, 2016 Ok, now that all the above is cleared up, here's THE REAL question for Kerry Slate: is he truly VERSATILE like the last review stated? I mean, THAT'S the real news here. I thot he was a top only. But versatile is a WHOLE OTHER PARTY!!! Kerry Slate: feel FREE to chime in here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerryslate Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Kerry - kudos for coming on the forum and offering a calm, reasoned explanation of your perspectives on the issues around no-show's! That takes character and demonstrates interest in maintaining your valuable reputation. I totally get your concerns about physical safety - that's the most important thing in this entire equation. You can't risk that for any amount of money and being particularly leery of anyone involved in drugs is wise. I could never walk up to a hotel room door and knock without knowing what's on the other side - I get it. What I think I hear is that there are accurate reviews of you for no-shows (beyond the instance above with the family emergency) and that (sometimes) you cancel at the last minute if you get a (bad) gut feeling. You're absolutely within your rights to do whatever you feel is necessary. The problem is the image of you that creates... I was stood up by a fairly well-known guy in Houston not long ago who I tried to hire despite some discussion here about him being a flake. I added my no-show experience to the chorus of naysayers and I've seen little further questions from potential-clients about him. In this case it turned into a lose-lose for everybody. In the interest of creating something constructive out of all this I wonder if you can't reduce your lose-lose experiences and have more 'wins'. There's several very sharp, experienced companions on the forum who have shared the steps they take to assure their safety, vet their prospective clients and hone their instincts for spotting when something just isn't right. There's a few threads in Ask an Escort about these things. I suspect you'd prefer to not feel the need to cancel and picking up some of these pros' tips might help that. Best wishes and good luck. Very well written excellent advice if I may add. What you think you heard some of its correct some of its not there's been a few guys that have reviewed me and called me a no show, simply because it didn't work out for me. For one of the reasons I stated above. A few times it was because they were on drugs and a few times something was just off with that person Ok, now that all the above is cleared up, here's THE REAL question for Kerry Slate: is he truly VERSATILE like the last review stated? I mean, THAT'S the real news here. I thot he was a top only. But versatile is a WHOLE OTHER PARTY!!! Kerry Slate: feel FREE to chime in here. eh.... Things can happen good connection great personality not every time but willing to take it into consideration Will Do and tennisjock 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbsjbs99 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 (edited) Well I can understand your frustration. For that I am sorry. Out of the courtesy of a regular of mine sent me the link and let me know of your frustration. Is it true I didn't show and call or anything ? Unfortunatley it is. I am willing to admit my wrongs or no show. You might hold it against me until the end of time but that's obviously entirely up to you. I did see your email , honestly I forgot to reply. Should I have given you a reply yea absolutely so you have my apologies for that. However there was an immediate death in my family and was a little preoccupied. If I were to be given a second chance I'm sure things would go according to plan. Although the likelihood of you accepting my apology does not play out in my favor, that's ok. I would however like to try and atleast reimburse you for the room that you spent money on. My gut tells me you probably wouldn't provide me with any opportunity to do so, thought I would make the effort though. I'm just not that type of person. I am pretty personable with people and I would be angry if I was in your shoes as well. In life shit happens mine just happend to be the day that we scheduled something. It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. Nothing I can do about it now. Just wanted to let you know what had happened. Sorry for the frustration. First, Kerry, my condolences on your loss. Second, I'm happily surprised that you apologized publicly and in a private email to me. It shows that your rep for being a class act is well-deserved, and reflects more of who you are than the unannounced no-show, which was a big puzzle to me and everyone else here. I wholeheartedly accept your apology and offer. Let's continue our talk via email. And thanks to everyone here who offered support and balanced views on all sides. My apologies for hijacking this thread with my previous incident. Hopefully, I'll have good things to add here about Kerry but that may take a few weeks or so, given my schedule. And, as latbear4blk suggested, it may involve some roleplay to soothe ruffled feathers *** Please check out followup on message 50. Edited October 21, 2016 by jbsjbs99 tennisjock, PDR, + José Soplanucas and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbsjbs99 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 They should make a role play appointment. Scene: make up sex. Perhaps, punishment might be a more appropriate scene + José Soplanucas, tennisjock, borgerback and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bulldogattack Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 They should make a role play appointment. Scene: make up sex. You just made my day. + José Soplanucas and tennisjock 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
josh282282 Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Things can happen good connection great personality I'M IN LOVE!! (gets on bended knee) Kerry, will you MARRY ME? I'm rich. I live in a huge house. You will want for NOTHING. I promise. PS. I'll email you the pre-nup. Aaron James, tennisjock and Kerryslate 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frequentflier Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 I'M IN LOVE!! (gets on bended knee) Kerry, will you MARRY ME? I'm rich. I live in a huge house. You will want for NOTHING. I promise. PS. I'll email you the pre-nup. Don't sign the pre-nup Kerry without a seven figure minimum payout no matter what causes the break up Its where he winds up keeping the "riches and huge house" when your first grey hair shows up or you can't "love on command" or his riches and huge house catch the eye of an insatiable younger man that chases josh282282. It may be your first time offered millions by an older man Kerry but I suspect 1 percenters like Josh are adept at the chase and closing the deal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cee Jay Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 After seeing Kerryslate's photos.... I'm trying to imagine the poor soul that would try and overpower him into staying...ijs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klifhangar Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Hmmm... it looks like he's in my city right now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frequentflier Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 eh.... Things can happen good connection great personality not every time but willing to take it into consideration. If Kerry became versatile he'd never be able to keep up with all the business coming his way. PDR and tennisjock 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tennisjock Posted May 7, 2016 Author Share Posted May 7, 2016 I highly agree frequent flyer. If he is vers he will be highly sought out and quite busy. Would be very interesting to experience that pleasure PDR 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klifhangar Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 Well, while y'all don't know me that well, I hope I can put any hesitations to rest. I "hung out" with Kerry this evening and honestly... I'm not one to rave about anyone but.. good god above. What a great guy in every way. Better looking than his pics, if that's possible, gentle, kind, intelligent, charming, incredibly giving and assuring and strong and hot and tasty and handsome. Most of all, Kerry is incredibly likeable. I was afraid I would miss out on... because I just loved talking to him. God, that body and that face. Ah man... if you have a chance to hang out with the guy. Do it. Better yet, don't so I can keep him to myself. Kerryslate, tennisjock, PDR and 7 others 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerryslate Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 After seeing Kerryslate's photos.... I'm trying to imagine the poor soul that would try and overpower him into staying...ijs I don't know why that stuff happens it's unfortunate but it happens sometimes. I'm still here if that tells you anything of the outcome ☺️ + azdr0710, klifhangar, tennisjock and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 hey Kerry.....hope you hang around here in the forum....good to have a decent guy like you here to offer comments.....don't let the grumps around here scare you off.....stay healthy, have fun, and don't take it too seriously..... PDR, Will Do and Kerryslate 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
borgerback Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 Did I really just 'like' the punishment suggestion? Naughty me. tennisjock 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klifhangar Posted May 8, 2016 Share Posted May 8, 2016 I don't know why that stuff happens it's unfortunate but it happens sometimes. I'm still here if that tells you anything of the outcome ☺️ Well you can count me as glad for that. Last night and tonight. Kerryslate and Will Do 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Krups Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 Kerry - kudos for coming on the forum and offering a calm, reasoned explanation of your perspectives on the issues around no-show's! That takes character and demonstrates interest in maintaining your valuable reputation. I totally get your concerns about physical safety - that's the most important thing in this entire equation. You can't risk that for any amount of money and being particularly leery of anyone involved in drugs is wise. I could never walk up to a hotel room door and knock without knowing what's on the other side - I get it. What I think I hear is that there are accurate reviews of you for no-shows (beyond the instance above with the family emergency) and that (sometimes) you cancel at the last minute if you get a (bad) gut feeling. You're absolutely within your rights to do whatever you feel is necessary. The problem is the image of you that creates... I was stood up by a fairly well-known guy in Houston not long ago who I tried to hire despite some discussion here about him being a flake. I added my no-show experience to the chorus of naysayers and I've seen little further questions from potential-clients about him. In this case it turned into a lose-lose for everybody. In the interest of creating something constructive out of all this I wonder if you can't reduce your lose-lose experiences and have more 'wins'. There's several very sharp, experienced companions on the forum who have shared the steps they take to assure their safety, vet their prospective clients and hone their instincts for spotting when something just isn't right. There's a few threads in Ask an Escort about these things. I suspect you'd prefer to not feel the need to cancel and picking up some of these pros' tips might help that. Best wishes and good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Krups Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 Keith30309 I agree 100%. I know Kerry fairly well and you have some great things to say for his benefit. PDR, Kerryslate and tennisjock 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbsjbs99 Posted October 21, 2016 Share Posted October 21, 2016 Followup to my message #8 and #16: Kerry and I finally got together yesterday. He offered me extra time to atone for his no-show and we went way over that agreement. We talked a lot and connected on multiple levels. which elevated our encounter beyond the ordinary. He more than made up for the previous problem and deserves his litany of praises. I hope to add to the chorus of positive reviews at Daddy's soon. Kerryslate, tennisjock, BabyBoomer and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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