Am I Missing Something?

[Jock123]

Soooo about TWO Weeks ago someone Hit up my Ad. Nothing out of the Ordinary. And made plans with me for Yesterday(This was all through Email). We had a Set Time, I would be Hosting and told Him I would Text an Hour Prior to confirm. Heres how the text when Down:

 

(Me) ---Hey! Its (My Escort Name) I'm just making sure we were still on for 3PM today. Where would You be coming from?

(Him) ---Hi

(Me) ---Where would you be coming from?

20 Minutes Later (Him) ---West

(Me) ---Ok Great! My Address is (Gave Address) We had plans for 3PM but It looks like You may be running late. Whats Your ETA to my Address?

(Him)--- Send Pics

(Me) Sure! Heres the link to my Ad and some Pictures taken two weeks ago(I sent a few through Text)

40 Minutes Later (Him) Cool. Into?

(Me)---(Gives Likes, Dislikes)

52 Minutes Later (Him) I cant afford Your rate. How about I pay you half. Lots of Hot studs are lowering their rate these days so should you. If you dont want to negotiate the rate Ill keep looking. Let me know!

 

 

At this point I stopped texting all together.

Key things here: We made plans WEEKS ago and he's just now asking Likes/Dislikes literally as we're suppose to meet, Pictures etc. And the biggest thing Is the Conversation...Or lack thereof. He failed to give me a Time AFTER taking multiple times to Take his Sweet Ass time Responding back.

 

I dont mind being Reasonable on my rate but the way He came off...I had to pass(And didnt even respond).

 

NOW(The Day after we were to meet) He Texts me saying He's Interested and willing to pay my full rate.

 

I am so confused...Is this a Gameplayer/Troll or is this Normal?? Really I've dealt with Trolls In the past but Maybe I'm just thinking to much Into it?

[mike carey]

Game player I would say, and I would say tell him you want a deposit (if you have a way of taking one). Other than that, it depends how much you need the money and how much risk you want to take. But I'm no expert on these things.

[+ purplekow]

Do not be confused. He is playing some sort of game. Pass here and move on to the next guy. Even if you are in a rough patch financially, ignore this man's overtures. My guess is that if you do not, you will wind up on the sloppy end of the dipshit stick.

[bigvalboy]

We have a term for that in real estate...

 

lookie loo

A term for someone who looks at something with no intention of buying it. Predominantly used for people who go to open houses when they have no intention of buying any real estate.

[+ Truereview]

Hey Jock! Couldn't agree more with the gentlemen above. I'm sitting by the pooL, sipping on potent margaritas, and watching a Sexyseatmate play with my dogs. I'm in a matching mood, so: I'd live to introduce you to @OceanTraveller. Read this thread of his. You two should talk...

Smooch, - TR

[whipped guy]

We have a term for that in real estate...

 

lookie loo

A term for someone who looks at something with no intention of buying it. Predominantly used for people who go to open houses when they have no intention of buying any real estate.

The "client" sounds more like a lookie looser to me!

[+ sync]

While I have no experience in such situations, I'm huge on mutual respect. I agee with Mike and Purplekow. However, if you think it might be worth your while, I suggest you begin your next message to him with a statement to the effect that your initiative is escort services, NOT escort games, and based on your last interaction, a deposit is required.

 

And, to the wording of your thread's title "am I missing something," from the look of your avatar, I would say definitely not.

[+ Truereview]

And, to the wording of your thread's title "am I missing something," from the look of your avatar, I would say definitely not.

I beg to differ....I'm missing a fucking link to his ad!

[Jayhayche]

PnP?

http://i0.wp.com/www.wittybadger.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/davidhasselhoff-drunk-photos-05032009-04.jpg

[marylander1940]

Soooo about TWO Weeks ago someone Hit up my Ad. Nothing out of the Ordinary. And made plans with me for Yesterday(This was all through Email). We had a Set Time, I would be Hosting and told Him I would Text an Hour Prior to confirm. Heres how the text when Down:

 

(Me) ---Hey! Its (My Escort Name) I'm just making sure we were still on for 3PM today. Where would You be coming from?

(Him) ---Hi

(Me) ---Where would you be coming from?

20 Minutes Later (Him) ---West

(Me) ---Ok Great! My Address is (Gave Address) We had plans for 3PM but It looks like You may be running late. Whats Your ETA to my Address?

(Him)--- Send Pics

(Me) Sure! Heres the link to my Ad and some Pictures taken two weeks ago(I sent a few through Text)

40 Minutes Later (Him) Cool. Into?

(Me)---(Gives Likes, Dislikes)

52 Minutes Later (Him) I cant afford Your rate. How about I pay you half. Lots of Hot studs are lowering their rate these days so should you. If you dont want to negotiate the rate Ill keep looking. Let me know!

 

 

At this point I stopped texting all together.

Key things here: We made plans WEEKS ago and he's just now asking Likes/Dislikes literally as we're suppose to meet, Pictures etc. And the biggest thing Is the Conversation...Or lack thereof. He failed to give me a Time AFTER taking multiple times to Take his Sweet Ass time Responding back.

 

I dont mind being Reasonable on my rate but the way He came off...I had to pass(And didnt even respond).

 

NOW(The Day after we were to meet) He Texts me saying He's Interested and willing to pay my full rate.

 

I am so confused...Is this a Gameplayer/Troll or is this Normal?? Really I've dealt with Trolls In the past but Maybe I'm just thinking to much Into it?

 

Nothing beats a couple of minutes talking on the phone to tell a low-life time waster like him from serious clients.

 

He's a teenager in a 50 y/o body, you should feel sorry about him, I'm sure he'd love to be with you but he's nothing but a loser. I feel the pain of so many of yinz going through this once or twice a week, but things always could be worse: no-shows, fake outcalls, and guys who want to renegotiate once you have arrived to their hotel/home.

[alexslaveboy]

Based upon Jock123's avatar I would say that potential client has a screw loose

Who sets up an appointment weeks in advance then okay perhaps gets a bit nervous but if Jock123 accommodates by sending recent pics and answers questions within reason then yes he's a game player or just chickened out then had regrets....Jock123 your body is quite attractive so I'm sure you'll meet some quality clients that will be polite and respectful!

[marylander1940]

Based upon Jock123's avatar I would say that potential client has a screw loose

Who sets up an appointment weeks in advance then okay perhaps gets a bit nervous but if Jock123 accommodates by sending recent pics and answers questions within reason then yes he's a game player or just chickened out then had regrets....Jock123 your body is quite attractive so I'm sure you'll meet some quality clients that will be polite and respectful!

 

It was nothing but a game for the client from the very beginning, he didn't have the money, and he was just jerking off or pushing jock123 into cancelling just to feel good about himself. I'm sure he was playing with a few other guys teasing them at the same time.

[Frequentflier]

Soooo about TWO Weeks ago someone Hit up my Ad. Nothing out of the Ordinary. And made plans with me for Yesterday(This was all through Email). We had a Set Time, I would be Hosting and told Him I would Text an Hour Prior to confirm. Heres how the text when Down:

 

(Me) ---Hey! Its (My Escort Name) I'm just making sure we were still on for 3PM today. Where would You be coming from?

(Him) ---Hi

(Me) ---Where would you be coming from?

20 Minutes Later (Him) ---West

(Me) ---Ok Great! My Address is (Gave Address) We had plans for 3PM but It looks like You may be running late. Whats Your ETA to my Address?

(Him)--- Send Pics

(Me) Sure! Heres the link to my Ad and some Pictures taken two weeks ago(I sent a few through Text)

40 Minutes Later (Him) Cool. Into?

(Me)---(Gives Likes, Dislikes)

52 Minutes Later (Him) I cant afford Your rate. How about I pay you half. Lots of Hot studs are lowering their rate these days so should you. If you dont want to negotiate the rate Ill keep looking. Let me know!

 

 

At this point I stopped texting all together.

Key things here: We made plans WEEKS ago and he's just now asking Likes/Dislikes literally as we're suppose to meet, Pictures etc. And the biggest thing Is the Conversation...Or lack thereof. He failed to give me a Time AFTER taking multiple times to Take his Sweet Ass time Responding back.

 

I dont mind being Reasonable on my rate but the way He came off...I had to pass(And didnt even respond).

 

NOW(The Day after we were to meet) He Texts me saying He's Interested and willing to pay my full rate.

 

I am so confused...Is this a Gameplayer/Troll or is this Normal?? Really I've dealt with Trolls In the past but Maybe I'm just thinking to much Into it?

 

The lack of respect you were showed is unacceptable and I don't think many people would want to get intimate with someone that like. If you decide to go through with another session I suggest the client has to pay you a deposit and no discounting on the rate.

[marylander1940]

PnP?

http://i0.wp.com/www.wittybadger.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/davidhasselhoff-drunk-photos-05032009-04.jpg

 

 

And this how it ends in just a 4 years.

 

http://i1.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article4888226.ece/ALTERNATES/s1023/The-faces-of-meth.jpg

[Jock123]

Thanks for the Input guys.

 

In the past under these Circumstances...I usually decided not to follow through just based On the "Tone" of the Email or Text.

 

However I followed through with a Guy just not too long ago whom "Seemed" to be Difficult just In his Texts(If that makes sense), I decided to give him a chance, we met, and He was Awesome In person. Its amazing how someone can "seem" In an Email/Text yet In person they are Laid Back/Easy going...all around a great time.

 

I think Clients are becoming more wary of the Gameplayers/Fakes themselves so I can understand if someone seems "Off" before physically meeting.

 

 

That being said I think everyones right....This guy just seems to be Bored...or a Douche.

[caliguy]

Soooo about TWO Weeks ago someone Hit up my Ad. Nothing out of the Ordinary. And made plans with me for Yesterday(This was all through Email). We had a Set Time, I would be Hosting and told Him I would Text an Hour Prior to confirm. Heres how the text when Down:

 

(Me) ---Hey! Its (My Escort Name) I'm just making sure we were still on for 3PM today. Where would You be coming from?

(Him) ---Hi

(Me) ---Where would you be coming from?

20 Minutes Later (Him) ---West

(Me) ---Ok Great! My Address is (Gave Address) We had plans for 3PM but It looks like You may be running late. Whats Your ETA to my Address?

(Him)--- Send Pics

(Me) Sure! Heres the link to my Ad and some Pictures taken two weeks ago(I sent a few through Text)

40 Minutes Later (Him) Cool. Into?

(Me)---(Gives Likes, Dislikes)

52 Minutes Later (Him) I cant afford Your rate. How about I pay you half. Lots of Hot studs are lowering their rate these days so should you. If you dont want to negotiate the rate Ill keep looking. Let me know!

 

 

At this point I stopped texting all together.

Key things here: We made plans WEEKS ago and he's just now asking Likes/Dislikes literally as we're suppose to meet, Pictures etc. And the biggest thing Is the Conversation...Or lack thereof. He failed to give me a Time AFTER taking multiple times to Take his Sweet Ass time Responding back.

 

I dont mind being Reasonable on my rate but the way He came off...I had to pass(And didnt even respond).

 

NOW(The Day after we were to meet) He Texts me saying He's Interested and willing to pay my full rate.

 

I am so confused...Is this a Gameplayer/Troll or is this Normal?? Really I've dealt with Trolls In the past but Maybe I'm just thinking to much Into it?

You should get their phone # right away. Anyone who's actually real has no problem giving it out right away. Emailing is the preferred communication for the trolls.

[Kevin Slater]

You should get their phone # right away. Anyone who's actually real has no problem giving it out right away. Emailing is the preferred communication for the trolls.

 

100% correct.

 

Kevin Slater

[caliguy]

I always feel weary when you give someone your full address

Just create a google link and send it to them then. Most of us just appreciate knowing the round about area you're in ahead of time.

[caliguy]

you still have to give your full address when you are about to meet them though. Thing is you can never be 100 percent sure they are serious in meeting or will show. I think best scenario is give them the address but not the actual apt your in. Tell them you'll meet them downstairs in your lobby, do clients get annoyed at this? Or what about meeting them somewhere near your area like a block from your residence?

Of coarse it's case by case but if y0u a bad feeling then wait till they arrive and give the final part of the address. That way you can give final instructions when they arrive. No one should have a problem with that.

[caliguy]

Soooo about TWO Weeks ago someone Hit up my Ad. Nothing out of the Ordinary. And made plans with me for Yesterday(This was all through Email). We had a Set Time, I would be Hosting and told Him I would Text an Hour Prior to confirm. Heres how the text when Down:

 

(Me) ---Hey! Its (My Escort Name) I'm just making sure we were still on for 3PM today. Where would You be coming from?

(Him) ---Hi

(Me) ---Where would you be coming from?

20 Minutes Later (Him) ---West

(Me) ---Ok Great! My Address is (Gave Address) We had plans for 3PM but It looks like You may be running late. Whats Your ETA to my Address?

(Him)--- Send Pics

(Me) Sure! Heres the link to my Ad and some Pictures taken two weeks ago(I sent a few through Text)

40 Minutes Later (Him) Cool. Into?

(Me)---(Gives Likes, Dislikes)

52 Minutes Later (Him) I cant afford Your rate. How about I pay you half. Lots of Hot studs are lowering their rate these days so should you. If you dont want to negotiate the rate Ill keep looking. Let me know!

 

 

At this point I stopped texting all together.

Key things here: We made plans WEEKS ago and he's just now asking Likes/Dislikes literally as we're suppose to meet, Pictures etc. And the biggest thing Is the Conversation...Or lack thereof. He failed to give me a Time AFTER taking multiple times to Take his Sweet Ass time Responding back.

 

I dont mind being Reasonable on my rate but the way He came off...I had to pass(And didnt even respond).

 

NOW(The Day after we were to meet) He Texts me saying He's Interested and willing to pay my full rate.

 

I am so confused...Is this a Gameplayer/Troll or is this Normal?? Really I've dealt with Trolls In the past but Maybe I'm just thinking to much Into it?

Now it's time to fuck with them back. There's the typical ways of dealing with it.

http://blacklistedjohn.com/

http://badboyreport.kr/

 

This is another way if you have their phone number. People share their experience with phone numbers so that way anytime he tries calling anyone else he'll be busted and he won't even know it. Saved me from some real clowns. Download this app. http://www.whitepages.com/caller-id

[caliguy]

I've still been flaked/stood up by guys who have given me their number, but far less than a client who email I just have to communicate. I think the most fool proof is having their phone number+ a face picture of them. I don't think I've never had a no-show from someone who gave me both of those. How do you feel @caliguy about asking clients for face pictures, is it a deal breaker?

 

and back to the email vs phone thing, some clients say they are married so they can't give their number, is that a valid excuse or should one just move on definitely when someone just wants to communicate by email.

Yeah, phone numbers aren't a given. However, if they won't give it out it sure is a red flag. Then it's time for lots of scrutiny.

 

This has been brought up before and the face thing is a definite no go. Besides anyone can send a fake pic.

[Epigonos]

Well, I've been called many thing in my life but this is the first time I've been called a troll. I ALWAYS start my communication with an escort by email. In the initial email I explain what I'm looking for and also describe myself and then ask him to respond if he is interested. If I get a positive response I email him my telephone numbers and suggest he call me at his convenience. If that approach makes me a troll SO BE IT!!!!!

[jjkrkwood]

What's so surprising here ? There are clients that are flakes as well as escorts that are flakes. This goes with the territory as we read countless stories of similar occurences right here on this site. Chalk it up and move on.

[down_to_business]

I never gave out my number (did everything by emails, all successful encounters) until a wise California escort taught me all about google voice. Been using that for this hobby ever since without problem although one or two escorts have stated an issue with the whole google thing. I also use google voice for all my texting needs for this hobby too. Great program!

[down_to_business]

What's so surprising here ? There are clients that are flakes as well as escorts that are flakes. This goes with the territory as we read countless stories of similar occurences right here on this site. Chalk it up and move on.

 

But escorts time is valuable and yours don't mean shit. Jeez jj... haven't you learned anything yet