Escort Hires that don't respond after hiring

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[caliguy]

Nothing personal OT, but why do SO SO many men think they have a "connection" with escorts just because they have booked an appointment? These escorts aren't your friends even though you may think you are doing THEM a big favor by hiring them. Make the communications short and to the point and make the appointment and then wait till a day or two before for further communication. I know a couple clients that insist on DAILY communication they think they are entitled to just because they made an appointment. Please give the working guys a break, they have other clients to attend to in the meantime and will hopefully devote their complete attention to you when you meet.

What I don't get is booking someone for a wknd/week without spending some time with them first. All the client is asking for is some friendly conversation beforehand. If it was just an hourly there would be no problem. There has to be some kind of "connection" outside of the physical. Over the phone is not nearly enough IMO but better then nothing I guess.

[caliguy]

I also had 2 recent meetings with other guys who's noses were buried in their cell phones for a portion of our time together, including one well-received companion. Based on what I saw and heard, they were not "attending to" other clients. )

That is a huge pet peeve of mine. It's NOT a age related thing either. People need to stop excusing complete assholes and find their balls and walk away. That or just paint a L for Loser on their forehead and sit there waiting..

[Kevin Slater]

Hmm I've thought about it some more and if someone hired me for a weekend thats a whole lot of money that someone is paying me to be with them, so heck yea if you wanted to talk every other day whether it by email,text,phone I would gladly do it

 

I would hope that you would get some sort of a deposit before giving away all that time.

 

Kevin Slater

[MichiganMan]

You know....I actually remember a time long ago when escorts I hired for an overnight a month or so in advance WOULD actually email ME to see if there was anything special the needed to do FOR ME in advance! Wow, what an interesting concept....great service! Now, it seems like we have to almost beg for common courtesies. No wonder I rarely hire anymore......

[Epigonos]

I'm a bit lost. Where I'm difficulty with this thread is that, to begin with, someone/anyone would hires an unknown escort for an extended period of time without first meeting him face to face. I simply can't imagine engaging an escort for an overnight, a weekend, or a week without first having met him for a couple of hours and possibly even sharing a meal. Over the last fourteen years I have hired dozens of escorts and I've never had a bad experience yet I wouldn't want to send an extended period of time with the vast majority of them, we just didn't have that much in common. However lack of communication was never a problem the guys I have hired for longer periods of time simply because we already knew each other.

[down_to_business]

I'm a bit lost. Where I'm difficulty with this thread is that, to begin with, someone/anyone would hire an unknown escort for an extended period of time without first meeting him face to face. I simply can't imagine engaging an escort for an overnight, a weekend, or a week without first having met him for a couple of hours and possibly even sharing a meal. Over the last fourteen years I have hired dozens of escorts and I've never had a bad experience yet I wouldn't want to send an extended period of time with the vast majority of them, we just didn't have that much in common. However lack of communication was never a problem the guys I have hired for longer periods of time simply because we already knew each other.

 

I think the problem is for some of the members, geography is a biotch. LA, NY, Chicago.. no problem... but when you get to places like Muleshoe Texas and Cut Bank Montana.... and you are going to have to fly someone to see you... you can't economically make a 1 hour appointment with someone-- an overnight or a weekend may be the only option you are left with... out of necessity.

[MichiganMan]

I've hire dozens of escorts over the years without having met them first for an overnight without a problem . You see, it was their promptness and demeanor of their email responses that spoke volumes to me. I can't say that my judgement ever failed me....but that's just me. The three word "I'll be around" or "ok" reply guys didn't make the cut....

[Epigonos]

When I first started hiring escorts I was like a kid in a candy store. Even though I live in the greater Los Angeles area I sampled escorts from all over the country. The one thing I never did was fly them to me. I always flew to them and besides getting together with a hot guy I had the many pleasures of visiting a new city. Now had I lived in Podunk, Kansas I might have considered flying an escort to me BUT for that to have happened he would have had to have an incredibly number of outstanding reviews on this site.

[OceanTraveller]

I've hire dozens of escorts over the years without having met them first for an overnight without a problem . You see, it was their promptness and demeanor of their email responses that spoke volumes to me. I can't say that my judgement ever failed me....but that's just me. The three word "I'll be around" or "ok" reply guys didn't make the cut....

I have gotten a nice response so all is working out well ! Yes I not only live in an out of the way place but rarely do I see any escorts visiting my state. I have hired many escorts over the years and had good luck most of the time. I know Okie hires and probably does not see them for an hour or so first for the same reason . That is good advice though to see them first for a short period. Since this site went up I try to read the reviews and go from there and it seems to be good. I know that I will have a stellar time with my guy . Thank You all for your responses . This is a great community here and I appreciate you all !

[MikeyGMin]

When I first started hiring escorts I was like a kid in a candy store. Even though I live in the greater Los Angeles area I sampled escorts from all over the country. The one thing I never did was fly them to me. I always flew to them and besides getting together with a hot guy I had the many pleasures of visiting a new city. Now had I lived in Podunk, Kansas I might have considered flying an escort to me BUT for that to have happened he would have had to have an incredibly number of outstanding reviews on this site.

 

I was just about to say the same thing. The one thing I learned from the overnight I had that didn't go well was that it would have been better to fly to him. That way, when it got uncomfortable I could have just sent him home. I still would have been out the fee of course, but it soooooo would have been worth it.

[Guest RexB]

Communication is EVERYTHING. If somebody can't take a minute to respond they obviously don't share that attitude with me and therefore chances are almost nil that they are going to suddenly become enthusiastic in person. I used to try to drag that type that you have to chase down for every little sign of life as far as replying to questions or comments texted or emailed goes and remain in a state of doubt as to whether the meet-up was even going to happen. Screw that, now if the whole thing doesn't go smoothly and where the escort corresponds promptly I take it as a big sign from

above-within-wherever you want to place it, that this meet-up is not what I really want, and my deepest self knows it. And about this so-called valid excuse for just about any shabby, negligent behavior: "I've been busy". I don't know why that is generally considered to be such an innocuous excuse, the one beyond question. Look, if somebody hasn't taken the one minute or possibly even less to acknowledge my message because they're "too busy" all I see there is that there is a list of priorities and I am nowhere near the top of that list. I don't say that as a victim who is looking to have my mournful status reinforced by considering myself as treated unfairly, neglected or unworthy or go into a swoon of having my feelings hurt, but merely to honestly realize that that's what is taking place.

In other words, I'm looking for experiences where I and the escort are moving towards each other, neither one knowing what's going to happen, but both with the spirit that it will be perhaps sexually and emotionally satisfying or educational or uplifting/healing for both on some level. If one party goes dead on the correspondence that would NOT be considered moving towards each other. So despite how much the lust burns, if the escort is stingy with his responses it's telling me I don't need what this experience is bringing. For me it's not particularly uplifting to be ignored or made to wait and wonder interminably for replies, especially time-sensitive ones. Is there anybody who truly likes to be ignored? Alleviating this condition is where the Golden Rule comes in very useful.

[marylander1940]

I have a question to put to the members,

I am hiring an escort for a weekend and this is a month in advance . It is now 2 weeks in advance . I like to develop a rapport and to get to know the person as well as they get to know me ...my likes etc. I have emailed some nice thoughts and desires etc, as well as what I have planned for the weekend. I only received one email that said looking forward to the weekend. I have emailed twice with no follow up that engages me in what I am wanting to happen or with any acknowledgement of my email . I am used to developing a sort of rapport with the person... .and this is not happening here . I am seeing that they are online with both twitter and Rentmen so I know they are not unavailable . Should I cancel and look for someone more amenable ? I feel like I am being ignored and I have put some thought and time into our weekend as I always try to do .

 

Maybe he's busy, but we're talking about a weekend... he should be nicer and reply to you or call you and talk about do's and don'ts...

[Will Do]

Communication is EVERYTHING. If somebody can't take a minute to respond they obviously don't share that attitude with me and therefore chances are almost nil that they are going to suddenly become enthusiastic in person. I used to try to drag that type that you have to chase down for every little sign of life as far as replying to questions or comments texted or emailed goes and remain in a state of doubt as to whether the meet-up was even going to happen. Screw that, now if the whole thing doesn't go smoothly and where the escort corresponds promptly I take it as a big sign from

above-within-wherever you want to place it, that this meet-up is not what I really want, and my deepest self knows it. And about this so-called valid excuse for just about any shabby, negligent behavior: "I've been busy". I don't know why that is generally considered to be such an innocuous excuse, the one beyond question. Look, if somebody hasn't taken the one minute or possibly even less to acknowledge my message because they're "too busy" all I see there is that there is a list of priorities and I am nowhere near the top of that list. I don't say that as a victim who is looking to have my mournful status reinforced by considering myself as treated unfairly, neglected or unworthy or go into a swoon of having my feelings hurt, but merely to honestly realize that that's what is taking place.

In other words, I'm looking for experiences where I and the escort are moving towards each other, neither one knowing what's going to happen, but both with the spirit that it will be perhaps sexually and emotionally satisfying or educational or uplifting/healing for both on some level. If one party goes dead on the correspondence that would NOT be considered moving towards each other. So despite how much the lust burns, if the escort is stingy with his responses it's telling me I don't need what this experience is bringing. For me it's not particularly uplifting to be ignored or made to wait and wonder interminably for replies, especially time-sensitive ones. Is there anybody who truly likes to be ignored? Alleviating this condition is where the Golden Rule comes in very useful.

 

I'm meeting with Tony Callandro later this month, actually later this week.

 

http://rentmen.com/tonycallandro

 

I HAVE TO SAY that he's the most conversant guy I've ever come across.

 

Our exchanges, based not just on my desires and expectations along with his limitations, (he's straight) have been great!

 

He's top notch and gives great email! Looking forward to meeting and spending time with the actual guy!

[Guest RexB]

I'm meeting with Tony Callandro later this month, actually later this week.

 

I HAVE TO SAY that he's the most conversant guy I've ever come across.

 

Our exchanges, based not just on my desires and his limitations, (he's straight) have been great!

 

He's top notch and gives great email! Looking forward to meeting and spending time with the actual guy!

 

Funny, because when I was writing about the guys who are so cheap with replies I was seeing and holding Tony Callandro as the prototype in my mind to contrast them to. He is responsive and can keep a dirty little text conversation going as a booster shot in between sessions when our smutty texts where I suggest things get played out when we get together.

[Will Do]

Funny, because when I was writing about the guys who are so cheap with replies I was seeing and holding Tony Callandro as the prototype in my mind to contrast them to. He is responsive and can keep a dirty little text conversation going as a booster shot in between sessions when our smutty texts where I suggest things get played out when we get together.

 

@RexB - I have to offer up kudos to you that I found out about and contacted http://rentmen.com/tonycallandro

 

Thanks very much!

[Will Do]

Funny, because when I was writing about the guys who are so cheap with replies I was seeing and holding Tony Callandro as the prototype in my mind to contrast them to. He is responsive and can keep a dirty little text conversation going as a booster shot in between sessions when our smutty texts where I suggest things get played out when we get together.

 

Tony could give a symposium on the get-the-client and keep-the-client type of convo. He's damn good!

[+ Keith30309]

*Thread divergence alert*

 

How many escorts send to clients a text/email after meeting.... "I enjoyed meeting you...thanks for your time...hope to see you again.." or just SOMETHING. I'm amazed at how few do and even the number who don't bother to respond to my "thank you" or acknowledge a gift.

 

Ultimate in irony: I left a so-so meeting not too long ago, slightly irked because the escort's nose was buried in his cell phone and he really wasn't focused, and sent a "thank you...enjoyed it" type of text and he didn't respond.

[Marlfox]

*Thread divergence alert*

 

How many escorts send to clients a text/email after meeting.... "I enjoyed meeting you...thanks for your time...hope to see you again.." or just SOMETHING. I'm amazed at how few do and even the number who don't bother to respond to my "thank you" or acknowledge a gift.

 

Ultimate in irony: I left a so-so meeting not too long ago, slightly irked because the escort's nose was buried in his cell phone and he really wasn't focused, and sent a "thank you...enjoyed it" type of text and he didn't respond.

 

I agree. I've been tempted to suggest to young guys that I've seen to send thank you texts to clients they wish to see again. My concern is that they might reply that they do.

[alexslaveboy]

I can tell you that Tony C, ThunderstickD, Travis Brick and DaveNYC all sent texts after our sessions either thanking me for being polite and literate or even offering up the let's get together again soon

Which I plan to do with all of these wonderful men!

[Guest RexB]

I can tell you that Tony C, ThunderstickD, Travis Brick and DaveNYC all sent texts after our sessions either thanking me for being polite and literate or even offering up the let's get together again soon

Which I plan to do with all of these wonderful men!

 

ThunderstickD? Who dat? I know of the other 3.

[alexslaveboy]

ThunderstickD? Who dat? I know of the other 3.

 

Hey RexB

 

I am on my phone so I can never paste pictures or links here just doesn't work

 

ThunderstickD is on RentMen.com under New Jersey escorts New Brunswick

He's very muscular and very easy to get along with! Take a peek and let me know what you think

Alex

[Will Do]

I'm meeting with Tony Callandro later this month, actually later this week.

 

http://rentmen.com/tonycallandro

 

I HAVE TO SAY that he's the most conversant guy I've ever come across.

 

Our exchanges, based not just on my desires and expectations along with his limitations, (he's straight) have been great!

 

He's top notch and gives great email! Looking forward to meeting and spending time with the actual guy!

 

 

Just got home from a 3-night trip to NYC accompanied by http://rentmen.com/tonycallandro.

 

The man is amazing! In the hotel , at dinner, at shows, everywhere!

 

Walking through Central Park and on the High Line (and anywhere we went) folks were eyeing him and whispering W O W!

 

Yep, and I'd eye them with my best "bless your heart," I'm with him look!

 

Was proud to be with him! In so many ways!

[jbsjbs99]

Just had the opposite thing happen to me.

 

Kerry Slate at Men4RentNow has nothing but positive reviews, so I didn't hesitate to hire him. We emailed back and forth, and he even sent a current pic. Then he gave me his number so we could continue through text messages. All this time, he was responsive and engaged.

 

So I booked a motel and waited for him, and he never showed. No explanation and no apology. He never contacted me after that, even when I asked what had happened. So I was out money and time from someone who had a good rep.

 

And still have no idea what his game is.

[down_to_business]

Just had the opposite thing happen to me.

 

Kerry Slate at Men4RentNow has nothing but positive reviews, so I didn't hesitate to hire him. We emailed back and forth, and he even sent a current pic. Then he gave me his number so we could continue through text messages. All this time, he was responsive and engaged.

 

So I booked a motel and waited for him, and he never showed. No explanation and no apology. He never contacted me after that, even when I asked what had happened. So I was out money and time from someone who had a good rep.

 

And still have no idea what his game is.

 

It happens way too often. You might here crap like "I'm sure he had a good reason" or "things come up" but you would get crucified if you dared pull the same crap and there is no good excuse to treat you so unprofessionally. If he isn't dead, he can call you or text you and say he is isn't coming.

 

I for one am very sorry this happened to you and sincerely hope the next time you decide to try this little hobby of ours it goes a whole lot better for you.