Do's and Dont for a Client...and Escort

[Jock123]

To a Client: 1. Dont Overthink things....Just Have Fun

2. Every Escort is Different. A Bad Experience with one shouldnt affect Your mood towards Others.

3. Just because You're paying him...he Isnt Your Bitch(Unless hes Into that kind of thing). In other words Respect Boundaries.

4. TRY to Keep Your Emails short and sweet. If You send me a 3 Page Email of Likes/Dislikes...You're Overthinking things...and Its a Turn off.

 

 

To an Escort: 1. Maintain Professionalism

2.It is YOUR Job to Break the Ice/Set the mood. Be "Present"

3. Invest and Save. Dont be one of those many Statistics where Escorts "Retire" without a Dollar to their name after many Years of Work and nothing to show for it.

4. Keep it Classy.

[+ bashful]

To a Client: 1. Dont Overthink things....Just Have Fun

2. Every Escort is Different. A Bad Experience with one shouldnt affect Your mood towards Others.

3. Just because You're paying him...he Isnt Your Bitch(Unless hes Into that kind of thing). In other words Respect Boundaries.

4. TRY to Keep Your Emails short and sweet. If You send me a 3 Page Email of Likes/Dislikes...You're Overthinking things...and Its a Turn off.

 

 

To an Escort: 1. Maintain Professionalism

2.It is YOUR Job to Break the Ice/Set the mood. Be "Present"

3. Invest and Save. Dont be one of those many Statistics where Escorts "Retire" without a Dollar to their name after many Years of Work and nothing to show for it.

4. Keep it Classy.

 

As a client:

 

1. I did overthink my first few hires. Not going to elaborate.

2. With my little experience, I can say I'm somewhat more relaxed, and enjoy myself more. Haven't had a "bad" experience yet. Had a couple that weren't as good as I wished. My test is whether I feel better after the meeting than I did before meeting.

3. Being disrespectful is not in my nature.

4. Want to give him enough information to know who he will be meeting, and there will be no surprises.

 

Regarding Escorts:

 

1. I think being present is the most important.

2. Investing and saving is good advice for all.

3. Classy will tip the scales in your favor every time.

[jjkrkwood]

 

Regarding Escorts

 

1. I think being present is the most important.

2. Investing and saving is good advice for all.

3. Classy will tip the scales in your favor every time.

 

 

Well this one is open for interpretation.... The Kardashians consider themselves Klassy.....And THERE you have it !

[LADoug1]

TRY to Keep Your Emails short and sweet. If You send me a 3 Page Email of Likes/Dislikes...You're Overthinking things...and Its a Turn off.

 

+1. I made this mistake. After setting up an appointment with a VERY in-demand escort I sent a longish email. He canceled on me and at the very last minute. I suspect my email played a factor in this.

[mike carey]

I think my set-up e-mail was three or four short paragraphs. I had noted he would be out of town up to a certain date, so that was a constraint, I asked about a three hour appointment or an overnight if he thought that was advisable given the 'try out first' advice I had seen here. I told him about my travel plans and how that might affect scheduling. He came back suggesting one or two dates for an overnight, and we chose one of those. That may seem like too much back and forth for some escorts (and clients) but it worked. I'll bear the other comments in mind next time I'm setting something up (noting that I was one of those who said to tell him when you want to meet, don't ask him about his life that week!).

[+ Truereview]

I believe "keep it classy" should apply to both parties. I can't control my partner's behavior, but I sure can make him feel welcome, valued, and respected while creating a sexy yet classy vibe. From the moment he walks into my room to the moment we kiss goodbye, I aim for him to walk away thinking: wow! I can't wait for this guy to hire me again. That's the aim of my client brand.

[beachboy]

You're so right. I treat an escort with friendliness & respect, am upfront with what I'm looking for & do my best to make it a fun experience for both. I'd love him to hope I book him again not just for the financial reward & so far so good!

[+ Keith30309]

I believe "keep it classy" should apply to both parties. I can't control my partner's behavior, but I sure can make him feel welcome, valued, and respected while creating a sexy yet classy vibe. From the moment he walks into my room to the moment we kiss goodbye, I aim for him to walk away thinking: wow! I can't wait for this guy to hire me again. That's the aim of my client brand.

 

You're so right. I treat an escort with friendliness & respect, am upfront with what I'm looking for & do my best to make it a fun experience for both. I'd love him to hope I book him again not just for the financial reward & so far so good!

 

Well said, gentlemen. I'm aware that I set a tone and create an impression with my first contact, as TR says, and try to treat my companion with the same respect and care with which I would like to be treated.

[beachboy]

As a client I don't understand anyone not treating an escort with respect. He's a human being with feelings. For me the best time is when you're both relaxed & enjoying each others company. I choose a guy I'm attracted to & I'm not shy in telling him what that is cos genuine compliments enhance the mood & help create a connection that leads to the best sex!

[Jock123]

I'd love him to hope I book him again not just for the financial reward & so far so good!

 

 

Great point. I always say Everyone pays the same but Its nice when we meet someone who at least attempts to be considerate. For me personally I remember EVERYONE. Good, Bad and InDifferent. And If You were to hit me up again about getting together my first thought Is asking myself how our night went. Id say 99% of my experiences have been good. Its just funny how that small number of people who were a little "Off" stick out the most. Ive never left a session asking myself If I could have done more to make the experience enjoyable. I would hope the same goes for most clients.

[big-n-tall]

As a client I don't understand anyone not treating an escort with respect. He's a human being with feelings. For me the best time is when you're both relaxed & enjoying each others company. I choose a guy I'm attracted to & I'm not shy in telling him what that is cos genuine compliments enhance the mood & help create a connection that leads to the best sex!

 

Agreed. But sadly, clients sometime treat escorts as a commodity/property. I'm sure for some it plays into a fantasy about control. Or maybe they're just a bunch of smelly dicks.

 

I've said it once and I'll say it a thousand times more... treat escorts (and clients) as humans... be respectful... and you just don't know how many wonderful things can come from it.

 

Now Jock, where's that rentmen ad?

[Moondance]

From the moment he walks into my room to the moment we kiss goodbye, I aim for him to walk away thinking: wow! I can't wait for this guy to hire me again. That's the aim of my client brand.

Ahhh, the client brand. TR, you are a sophisticate of the first order. I love this way of thinking.

[LADoug1]

As a client I don't understand anyone not treating an escort with respect. He's a human being with feelings. For me the best time is when you're both relaxed & enjoying each others company. I choose a guy I'm attracted to & I'm not shy in telling him what that is cos genuine compliments enhance the mood & help create a connection that leads to the best sex!

 

I'm afraid there are disturbed people out there who project their self-hatred onto others. They detest their desires and pass judgement on escorts. They book sessions and treat escorts like dirt. I'm sad this happens sometimes and more often than we may know. I pity these horrible clients their misery but what's important is that we protect and express appreciation for the escorts. My support and love always goes out to the working guys.

[MikeyGMin]

I'm afraid there are disturbed people out there who project their self-hatred onto others. They detest their desires and pass judgement on escorts. They book sessions and treat escorts like dirt. I'm sad this happens sometimes and more often than we may know. I pity these horrible clients their misery but what's important is that we protect and express appreciation for the escorts. My support and love always goes out to the working guys.

 

I'm sure it happens. Guys resenting "having to pay for it" rather than being happy that they are at a point in their life where they can afford a great luxury. In the history of the world, gentlemen of age and/or means have always paid for beautiful young men and women in one way or the other.

 

Some escorts might have to tolerate it, but the one that I know best would probably only put up with it for about two minutes -- if that. He has a very healthy sense of self-respect and his value as an escort and a human being. Treat this man like dirt and you are most likely going to end up with that dirt in your eyes!

[mattr]

It makes me really sad that there are escorts that feel they have to put up with disrespectful clients. I know how I feel when I have to put up with assholes at work and I can only imagine how bad it must be if you feel trapped in a situation where your only option is to put up with being treated like shit for a few hundred dollars.

[Jock123]

They book sessions and treat escorts like dirt. I'm sad this happens sometimes and more often than we may know. I pity these horrible clients their misery but what's important is that we protect and express appreciation for the escorts

 

 

The good thing about all of this Is that it is RARE. For Every Shitty Client/Troll their are Hundred of Quality guys whom really go out of their way to Make the session Enjoyable. In ANY Business It is Inevitable that You come across someone who Had a Bad Day eventually and takes it out on You. Thats where the saying "Kill them with Kindness" comes into play heavily here. Because They'll be the ones looking like the Asshole. Dont get me wrong tho there are Shitty Escorts out there also. Even some who are Well Reviewed whom You may have an experience with them that makes You go "What Just Happened" after they leave. It makes no sense to me as Id much rather have Regulars(Which makes it more Enjoyable/Intimate on both ends) than meeting a bunch of random people.

[Jock123]

It makes me really sad that there are escorts that feel they have to put up with disrespectful clients. I know how I feel when I have to put up with assholes at work and I can only imagine how bad it must be if you feel trapped in a situation where your only option is to put up with being treated like shit for a few hundred dollars.

 

 

When I first started I'll never forget the time where I REALLY needed the money...So much so I hadnt had Food all day because I was THAT Broke. That evening I had one of the worst Experiences of my life...Guy was a complete Douchebag. I honestly think some Clients can sense If You are Desperate and Unfortunately some take Advantage of this. I Swallowed my Pride and put a Happy Face on Regardless of how Horrible this client was.....Because I had to.

 

 

I told myself after that night Never again. Never again would I be so Desperate that I would allow myself to be Subjected to such treatment.

[mattr]

When I first started I'll never forget the time where I REALLY needed the money...So much so I hadnt had Food all day because I was THAT Broke. That evening I had one of the worst Experiences of my life...Guy was a complete Douchebag. I honestly think some Clients can sense If You are Desperate and Unfortunately some take Advantage of this. I Swallowed my Pride and put a Happy Face on Regardless of how Horrible this client was.....Because I had to.

 

 

I told myself after that night Never again. Never again would I be so Desperate that I would allow myself to be Subjected to such treatment.

 

If I sensed desperation, I would want to hold him in my arms and take him out for a meal. Glad you rebounded from such a low point in your life!

[jjkrkwood]

It makes me really sad that there are escorts that feel they have to put up with disrespectful clients. I know how I feel when I have to put up with assholes at work and I can only imagine how bad it must be if you feel trapped in a situation where your only option is to put up with being treated like shit for a few hundred dollars.

 

mattr, most of the worlds working population probably feel trapped in their jobs having to put up with shit for a couple hundred dollars. But that's the way of Life, unless you are independently wealthy enough to keep walking away from situations that make you unhappy or uncomfortable. You need to eat, have a room over your head and pay the Bills. Dealing with adversity should make you a stronger person, and give you compassion for others in similar situations. There is never any reason to treat anyone disrespectfully, but there are many situations in which "you give what you get"....

[+ azdr0710]

.Guy was a complete Douchebag.

 

hey Jock....I know other specifics have already been mentioned in this thread, but do you mind recounting what this guy did in particular that was douche-y?.....just to make sure I never tread in his footsteps....did you get paid?.....sorry you had to face that guy.....thanks

[Guest countryboywny]

I believe "keep it classy" should apply to both parties. I aim for him to walk away thinking: wow! I can't wait for this guy to hire me again. That's the aim of my client brand.

 

++++++++++++++++++1 Absolutely TR! When the escort is truly excited to see you, it makes all the difference. :)

[Guest countryboywny]

If I sensed desperation, I would want to hold him in my arms and take him out for a meal. Glad you rebounded from such a low point in your life!

 

Good on you mattr! There's a huge benefit in helping someone who needs it and quite the human thing to do!

[jjkrkwood]

++++++++++++++++++1 Absolutely TR! When the escort is truly excited to see you, it makes all the difference. :)

 

 

 

Oh, I wholeheartedly agree, that's why I always Greet my escorts like this.....

 

 

http://www.ringsidenews.com/wp-content/uploads/ngg_featured/Revealing-Photos-of-Lana-Covered-In-100-Dollar-Bills-1.jpg

[+ Truereview]

Oh, I wholeheartedly agree, that's why I always Greet my escorts like this.....

 

 

http://www.ringsidenews.com/wp-content/uploads/ngg_featured/Revealing-Photos-of-Lana-Covered-In-100-Dollar-Bills-1.jpg

There you go again with your subliminal shit...you want another pearl necklace, bad boy, don't ya?

[+ Funguy]

It's about respect, plain and simple!

 

I have never cancelled an appointment (and i've been known to schedule even a few months down the line.) I've never even been 5 minutes late and I always give the guys a 10 minute warning as I am parking or whatever. It has always been appreciated and these are guys who I have repeats with and I can always get an appointment whenever I call. I am greeted with a genuine smile because it's there the entire time, along with laughter and enjoyment. We sometimes go out to lunch afterward and often the escort won't let me pay because he's enjoying the encounter as much as I do.

 

Treat them the way you want them to treat you and it's Magic Time!