guys in wife beaters

[dcman]

So, I am easy enough to please. Clean cut older guy here. I have a powerful attraction to men in wife beaters. Muscles and/or hairy chest a must. Straight--fine, does not matter. d/d free. I just want to worship you for a while, lots of touching and you let me service you to the finish line.

 

Now, how do I get this message out to the right people? Thought you guys might have some suggestions. Seems like there should be a website where we can post "wanted" ads....??

 

Thanks Guys

[caliguy]

Not sure what your asking. Finding a straight or gay guy with muscles/hair chest is fairly easy. If you want them to wear a wife beater then have some on hand or just ask for a picture.

[dcman]

Let me clarify, really, I am looking for a straight guy preferably . Where would I advertise/look ? There are some guys who look especially hot in wife beaters, hence the reference to my fetish.

I am hoping one of you guys might know of someone or where to look...Thanks.

[marylander1940]

So, I am easy enough to please. Clean cut older guy here. I have a powerful attraction to men in wife beaters. Muscles and/or hairy chest a must. Straight--fine, does not matter. d/d free. I just want to worship you for a while, lots of touching and you let me service you to the finish line.

 

Now, how do I get this message out to the right people? Thought you guys might have some suggestions. Seems like there should be a website where we can post "wanted" ads....??

 

Thanks Guys

 

Did you ever ask an escort to come to your place wearing a wife beater? If not, I'm sure you could try Grindr and have a wife beater available for the guy to put it on when he gets to your place.

[+ sync]

Not making any judgements here, but I so hate that term for a sleeveless t-shirt. I don't know how it ever got started or perpetuated.

[jimboivyo]

i too have the same fetish. I just ask the guys I see to wear em when we meet. simple as that

 

I also make sure that the escorts I see can properly fill one out

[bostonman]

Not making any judgements here, but I so hate that term for a sleeveless t-shirt. I don't know how it ever got started or perpetuated.

 

Agreed. I've always called them tank tops.

 

And I like the look of them too. Anything sleeveless that shows off a guy's shoulders and armpits is hot to me. ;-)

[Nvr2Thick]

Not making any judgements here, but I so hate that term for a sleeveless t-shirt. I don't know how it ever got started or perpetuated.

 

In the NYC area it was called a guinea tee; a slur directed at Italians. My Italian father disliked the term, but he understood that immigrant Italians had a reputation for running around in undershirts. He liked to point out that the reason that a lot of Italian guys did that was so that they didn't wear out or dirty up a good shirt. When it was time to meet a woman or take her out they had a relatively clean shirt to wear.

 

Unfortunately that look has been associated with low class slobs -- presumably the types of guys that would beat their wives.

[Bob]

My fetish too. Love those hairy pits.

[+ Truereview]

@dcman, Would seem to me that muscle worship sites would offer straight guys with muscles who wouldn't mind your request. Off hand, I can't remember the muscle worship site others recommend here, but my guess is that you don't need to take out an ad...I believe there is already a market where you can shop. Additionally, I wouldn't be surprised if some of our own forum boys would be willing to volunteer.. I would offer, but all my tank tops are pink with sparkles.

[DonaldTramp]

Place an ad on Craigslist under Casual Encounters.

[MikeyGMin]

Not making any judgements here, but I so hate that term for a sleeveless t-shirt. I don't know how it ever got started or perpetuated.

 

And yet you know EXACTLY what it is. "Tank top" is a very generic term. Wife beaters are white ribbed undershirts. I love them both, but I think most guys that fetishize them are talking about the white undershirts. If I was going to ask a guy to wear one, I would certainly ask him to wear a "wife beater" and not a "white ribbed tank top undershirt."

[+ azdr0710]

perhaps just using the term "wife beater" raises awareness, even subconsciously, and makes people think twice about the underlying meaning.....

 

but I don't want to get all serious here.....we've got the "dualistic thinking" thread for that

[bostonman]

"Tank top" is a very generic term. Wife beaters are white ribbed undershirts. I love them both, but I think most guys that fetishize them are talking about the white undershirts. If I was going to ask a guy to wear one, I would certainly ask him to wear a "wife beater" and not a "white ribbed tank top undershirt."

 

I guess I'm just not "most guys" then. All I'm really interested in, with those kind of shirts, is the sleeveless factor. I could care less about the color or the style of the fabric.

 

Otherwise, I can't think of many reasons why I would ever need to refer specifically to a "wife beater." So I won't.

[caliguy]

I guess I'm just not "most guys" then. All I'm really interested in, with those kind of shirts, is the sleeveless factor. I could care less about the color or the style of the fabric.

 

Otherwise, I can't think of many reasons why I would ever need to refer specifically to a "wife beater." So I won't.

I get it and say it myself sometimes. However, the term should probably be dropped. It is derogatory.

[MikeyGMin]

I guess I'm just not "most guys" then. All I'm really interested in, with those kind of shirts, is the sleeveless factor. I could care less about the color or the style of the fabric.

 

Otherwise, I can't think of many reasons why I would ever need to refer specifically to a "wife beater." So I won't.

 

A pair of jeans and a clean, skintight wife beater. Yes please!

 

I wouldn't say it around a female, but there are all kinds of things that I won't say around women that I will say to a homo. Especially a homo that I plan on doing the nasty with.

[caliguy]

A pair of jeans and a clean, skintight wife beater. Yes please!

 

I wouldn't say it around a female, but there are all kinds of things that I won't say around women that I will say to a homo. Especially a homo that I plan on doing the nasty with.

Ha. You just did. It's not just guys that follow this blog.

[gallahadesquire]

For me, when the White Ribbed Tank Top Undershirt is worn on the right guy with the Right Pecs ... heaven! It's a visual thing.

 

(not white, but it gives a good example):

[+ nycman]

If true...this is a kind of interesting history of the term "Wife Beater":

 

First, we must address the origins of said “wife beater” shirts. Whether or not you know it, the history of the “wife beater” goes back to the Middle Ages,

where knights who lost their armor in battles often had nothing but the chain-mail undergarment to protect them. Now, those chain mail undershirts,

if you will, were damn strong — even a sword couldn’t get through. Often, when a knight lost their armor and continued to fight successfully, they were

referred to as a waif beater (waif, referring to an abandoned or lost individual). Due to the fact that knights who had been abandoned and continued to

fight with only the “shirt off their back” (albeit chain mail), they were given this noble title — an abandoned fighter, beating their way through battle.

 

During 1700’s Europe, of course, the phrase “waif beater” no longer had much meaning due to the fact that there weren’t really knights running around

fighting battles in chain-mail undershirts. As a result, the phrase was changed to the similarly sounding “wife beater” and used to refer to husbands who

treated their significant others in a less than stellar way.

 

The trend changed in 1947 in Detroit, Michigan — when police arrested a local man (James Hartford, Jr.) for beating his wife to death. Local news stations

aired the arrest and elements of the case for months after — constantly showing a picture of Hartford, Jr. when he was arrested — wearing a dirty tank top

with baked bean stains on it…and constantly referring to him as “the” wife beater.

 

From there, everything snowballed. From then on, men wearing dirty tank-topped undershirts were referred to as people who were “wearing wife-beaters”

and the lexicon stuck from that point forward.

 

And of course...there is only ONE wife beater that really matters....the ICON:

 

http://36.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9twucPxhN1qzqwzso1_500.jpg

[+ sync]

If true...this is a kind of interesting history of the term "Wife Beater":

 

First, we must address the origins of said “wife beater” shirts. Whether or not you know it, the history of the “wife beater” goes back to the Middle Ages,

where knights who lost their armor in battles often had nothing but the chain-mail undergarment to protect them. Now, those chain mail undershirts,

if you will, were damn strong — even a sword couldn’t get through. Often, when a knight lost their armor and continued to fight successfully, they were

referred to as a waif beater (waif, referring to an abandoned or lost individual). Due to the fact that knights who had been abandoned and continued to

fight with only the “shirt off their back” (albeit chain mail), they were given this noble title — an abandoned fighter, beating their way through battle.

 

During 1700’s Europe, of course, the phrase “waif beater” no longer had much meaning due to the fact that there weren’t really knights running around

fighting battles in chain-mail undershirts. As a result, the phrase was changed to the similarly sounding “wife beater” and used to refer to husbands who

treated their significant others in a less than stellar way.

 

The trend changed in 1947 in Detroit, Michigan — when police arrested a local man (James Hartford, Jr.) for beating his wife to death. Local news stations

aired the arrest and elements of the case for months after — constantly showing a picture of Hartford, Jr. when he was arrested — wearing a dirty tank top

with baked bean stains on it…and constantly referring to him as “the” wife beater.

 

From there, everything snowballed. From then on, men wearing dirty tank-topped undershirts were referred to as people who were “wearing wife-beaters”

and the lexicon stuck from that point forward.

 

And of course...there is only ONE wife beater that really matters....the ICON:

 

Thanks, nycman. The transitioning origin of the term is very interesting.

[+ quoththeraven]

Ha. You just did. It's not just guys that follow this blog.

 

And we're less delicate than is popularly presumed.

[dcman]

For me, when the White Ribbed Tank Top Undershirt is worn on the right guy with the Right Pecs ... heaven! It's a visual thing.

 

(not white, but it gives a good example):

Okey dokey, this guy would be just fine....the shirt pops that chest and those arms and I can only imagine how delicious the pits are.....

[dcman]

If true...this is a kind of interesting history of the term "Wife Beater":

 

First, we must address the origins of said “wife beater” shirts. Whether or not you know it, the history of the “wife beater” goes back to the Middle Ages,

where knights who lost their armor in battles often had nothing but the chain-mail undergarment to protect them. Now, those chain mail undershirts,

if you will, were damn strong — even a sword couldn’t get through. Often, when a knight lost their armor and continued to fight successfully, they were

referred to as a waif beater (waif, referring to an abandoned or lost individual). Due to the fact that knights who had been abandoned and continued to

fight with only the “shirt off their back” (albeit chain mail), they were given this noble title — an abandoned fighter, beating their way through battle.

 

During 1700’s Europe, of course, the phrase “waif beater” no longer had much meaning due to the fact that there weren’t really knights running around

fighting battles in chain-mail undershirts. As a result, the phrase was changed to the similarly sounding “wife beater” and used to refer to husbands who

treated their significant others in a less than stellar way.

 

The trend changed in 1947 in Detroit, Michigan — when police arrested a local man (James Hartford, Jr.) for beating his wife to death. Local news stations

aired the arrest and elements of the case for months after — constantly showing a picture of Hartford, Jr. when he was arrested — wearing a dirty tank top

with baked bean stains on it…and constantly referring to him as “the” wife beater.

 

From there, everything snowballed. From then on, men wearing dirty tank-topped undershirts were referred to as people who were “wearing wife-beaters”

and the lexicon stuck from that point forward.

 

And of course...there is only ONE wife beater that really matters....the ICON:

 

http://36.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9twucPxhN1qzqwzso1_500.jpg

Yep, these are the wife beaters I am talking about..... cheap and white and ribbed....yum !!!

[ANDY WILSON]

Have wifebeater shirt fetish and picking natural wedgies. Would like to meet same in Toronto, Canada.

[BaronArtz]

Are you in NYC? A great many guys wear them at the various gyms I frequent.

 

Jeans, no underwear, a tank top. Perfection.