Mindsets

[Kuriousity]

I've been noticing that as far as escorts go, there seems to be two different categories--men who do it full time, and men who do it part time. I was wondering--is there a difference in mindset towards the job between full timers & part timers? Then I wondered for guys who do it part time, is it income supplementation or is it just for kicks? If it is just for kicks, do they tend to go for clients they find sexually attractive or is it a "business is business" view?

[curiousnomore]

Speaking only for myself, I've found that I have more fun with part-time escorts. Most of the time. With rare exceptions, part-time Professional Escorts are more attentive and much less formulaic than full-time escorts.

[+ Truereview]

As a client, it is irrelevant to me. My mindset is set on a top-notch experience, not on their rationale for being in the biz. Btw, should this be posted in the Deli?

[keithhardy]

I have never relied on escorting as my only source of income, I have always had another job. I escort for lots of reasons, sure the money is nice but thats not the only reason I do it. I never really look at attractiveness because I am attracted to all different shapes, sizes, color, etc in men. I also enjoy a variety of different sexual experiences which doing this fills that desire. I work another job because, one I would get bored sitting at home and I don't escort enough to keep me that busy, I am a one a day kinda guy, health benefits and the steady guaranteed income is another reason I work another job. Escorting at times can be hit or miss and the income is not always guaranteed......and as you know the bills are always coming!!!

[Kuriousity]

Based on the work I have done, I look at motivations in people.

 

And if this improperly placed on the board, people with more administrative power than me can exert their power to relocate this to what they feel is a better spot....

[keithhardy]

As a client, it is irrelevant to me. My mindset is set on a top-notch experience, not on their rationale for bring in the biz. Btw, should this be posted in the Deli?

I was wondering the same thinking, I think it should be in ask an escort, with that being said a big long thick sausage should be in the Deli!!

[keithhardy]

Based on the work I have done, I look at motivations in people.

 

And if this improperly placed on the board, people with more administrative power than me can exert their power to relocate this to what they feel is a better spot....

You would probably get more feedback if it was moved, its a good topic!!!

[Kuriousity]

Well, I just tossed the question out...people can pick it up or not.

 

Besides, KH....I can always pick your brain in private

[Mikegaite]

With rare exceptions, part-time Professional Escorts are more attentive and much less formulaic than full-time escorts.

 

"Stereotypes are great because they save time!"

 

-Sarah Silverman

[geminibear]

"Stereotypes are great because they save time!"

 

-Sarah Silverman

That made laugh so hard I just spit out my afternoon Sambuca all over my racing form.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I think the differences I notice are between experienced vs. inexperienced escorts. The difference between those that escort as their primary source of income and those that have other income sources are nil.

[+ nycman]

"Stereotypes are great because they save time!"

 

-Sarah Silverman

 

Please don't ever come to NYC when I'm free. I wouldn't be able to decide which to do first,

fuck you or go out to dinner with you. I mean sure we could do BOTH...but which one FIRST?!?!?!?

[mike carey]

Dan Savage has the answer for you:

[+ purplekow]

Please don't ever come to NYC when I'm free. I wouldn't be able to decide which to do first,

fuck you or go out to dinner with you. I mean sure we could do BOTH...but which one FIRST?!?!?!?

I have found that fucking him during dinner is a real time saver and is a nice break from any lull in the conversation.

[+ purplekow]

I have found that fucking him during dinner is a real time saver and is a nice break from any lull in the conversation.

ALthough, I admit to being a bit jealous when he insisted on calling the tight pantsed waiter over to give him his tip.

[+ Gar1eth]

"Stereotypes are great because they save time!"

 

-Sarah Silverman

Please don't ever come to NYC when I'm free. I wouldn't be able to decide which to do first,

fuck you or go out to dinner with you. I mean sure we could do BOTH...but which one FIRST?!?!?!?

 

I've given this at least 2 or three minutes of thought. And while I realize this may go against the Super Secret Sacred Bear Code to eat 1st whenever possible (please don't tell the Society that you heard about it from me-I'll be in trouble deep!!)

 

PLAYTIME first for multiple reasons-

 

1. You will work up a rightfully deserved appetite from playing.

 

2. Your time with @Mikegaite is most likely limited unless you are having an overnight or a weekend. Better to be a bit hungry if playtime runs over, than not be satisfied completely during playtime if there's an unexpected delay at the restaurant (and of course you are taking Mike somewhere with good food-doesn't have to be extremely pricey.)

 

3. Being bloated and sluggish after eating is not the best way to start playtime.

 

Gman

[geminibear]

And while I realize this may go against the Super Secret Sacred Bear Code to eat 1st whenever possible (please don't tell the Society that you heard about it from me-I'll be in trouble deep!!)

Shocked and appalled is all I can say! Consider yourself warned Gman. We have ways of dealing with the likes of you.

[+ Truereview]

Shocked and appalled is all I can say! Consider yourself warned Gman. We have ways of dealing with the likes of you.

Lord, sounds like Gman will be sleeping with da fishes soon...

 

Gem, please don't call uncle Vito, the bear enforcer!

[geminibear]

Lord, sounds like Gman will be sleeping with da fishes soon...

 

Gem, please don't call uncle Vito, the bear enforcer!

[MikeyGMin]

"Stereotypes are great because they save time!"

 

-Sarah Silverman

 

They really do save a lot of time. So I'll just throw out another, but polar opposite, one here.

 

When I look back at the half dozen or so really, really good escorts that I have had the pleasure of meeting. All but one of them have been full timers. ( I'm including porn work here though. )

[+ Rickee]

Please don't ever come to NYC when I'm free. I wouldn't be able to decide which to do first,

fuck you or go out to dinner with you. I mean sure we could do BOTH...but which one FIRST?!?!?!?

+1.

A brilliant observation.

[+ Gar1eth]

I've given this at least 2 or three minutes of thought. And while I realize this may go against the Super Secret Sacred Bear Code to eat 1st whenever possible (please don't tell the Society that you heard about it from me-I'll be in trouble deep!!)

 

 

 

 

Gman

 

Shocked and appalled is all I can say! Consider yourself warned Gman. We have ways of dealing with the likes of you.

 

Lord, sounds like Gman will be sleeping with da fishes soon...

 

Gem, please don't call uncle Vito, the bear enforcer!

 

I couldn't help myself, @geminibear. I was torn between two lovers. Feeling like a fool. Loving them both was breaking all the rules. Torn between two lovers-wait, I already said that.

 

In any case, gem, no matter how sacred the oath, I could never lie to our fellow Forumites-or to my Dad about my cherry-chopping ways. It would just be wrong.

 

Gman

 

http://candeefick.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/george-washington-cherry-tree-190x300.jpg

 

Gman

[+ quoththeraven]

Dan Savage has the answer for you:

 

An answer I live by, thus cannot plan ahead or make dinner reservations because I'm never sure when we'll be finished saying hello. Have still managed to have some pretty nice (albeit late) dinners.