Seeking arrangements success!

[+ goosh69]

My overwhelming experience is that the guys with whom I engage in a conversation are really quite insistent that we meet for lunch/dinner/drinks. I’ve met guys even after telling them over and over that the logistics of time & distance won’t work simply to placate them. Even after repeatedly explaining in detail why things will not work out I hear “we can figure something out - let’s meet and talk”, “I’d really just like to meet you to say hello”, “we can make it work for a simple lunch date”, etc. I’ve had to block a couple of guys who just wouldn’t let up on it.

 

I think there are a few reasons for this with some guys: they are new to the process and just want to meet SOMEONE they perceive as safe, they REALLY need money, they don’t understand how insurmountable some logistical challenges are, they haven’t thought thru all that an engagement means - they have a “Pretty Woman” perspective , etc.

 

WRONG. They want to meet because so many guys are fake and catfishes. They want to meet to not waste there time “getting to know” someone who is fake. I NEVER waste time getting to know someone. We either meet in person in short order or not. So many guys use fake or outdated pictures, its pathetic.

[pubic_assistance]

Yeah, I think the not wanting to be thought of (or consider themselves) a prostitute has a lot to do with it. But if you're going to advertise yourself as a sugar baby I think you have to understand what that means to the vast majority of daddies. I'd be happy to do things for a guy, but he's got to be willing to do some things for me too.

In my experience on S.A. that statement is very much true. Very few of these young men, want to consider themselves a prostitute, although they do want the sort of care-taking and financial support they ( sometimes very recently) were getting from their parents. Keep in mind many of these young 20-somethings are in a big transition in life, and suddenly their pampering helicopter parents aren't around to pamper any more. So, an older companion sounds like a good idea, but being a prostitute still holds a stigma of seediness....so it's a fine line. My suggestion, is that patience is the virtue that gets you to home plate here. Expecting a hot fuck after the first date, probably isn't practical for many of the newbies on the site, and many of the guys who do genuinely seek an ongoing relationship with a mature companion. "ASK MY PRICE" was designed for the sugar daddy who is more of an immediate gratification kind of guy...but you DO need to be VERY clear about the nature of the date, as again...these are often young college students, who are NOT escorts, just dabbling and trying to make a few extra bucks, or a shopping trip to get that pricey gear, they've been eyeing but mom&dad said "no".

[pubic_assistance]

Anyone (else) having trouble logging into SA today?

I contacted S.A....their response was to say they were sorry...they "deleted my account due to suspicious activity" !

Well nice.

A year's worth of contact information and conversations down the drain.

This is why I don't trust that whole "store your data in the cloud" nonsense.

[+ freecahill1965]

Oh I’d disagree...I can tell you many, many of my peers are parents who look at their children’s phones constantly, checking text messages, SnapChat convos, Insta accounts, etc. the high school counselors encourage it.

 

I personally don’t agree with that kind of tactic but I KNOW it’s prevalent.

You are dam right. I pay for a program that even records their calls as well. I do it for safety reasons. I usually do not listen unless I have a reason to. I get every call, picture, chat etc.

[+ Keith30309]

I contacted S.A....their response was to say they were sorry...they "deleted my account due to suspicious activity" !

Well nice.

A year's worth of contact information and conversations down the drain.

This is why I don't trust that whole "store your data in the cloud" nonsense.

Had you paid anything as a SD? Did they offer any further info on the alleged activity ?

[pubic_assistance]

Had you paid anything as a SD? Did they offer any further info on the alleged activity ?

No ..did not describe this "suspicious activity"....probably a lame excuse for screwing up my account.

[+ glutes]

No more 30 day memberships:

 

You will be billed $89.95 USD today

 

You will be billed $89.95 USD every 30 days.Your subscription will automatically renew on 08/xx/2018.

 

(Note : We do not offer refunds)

[+ José Soplanucas]

I was considering a third season researching that boys pool.

 

Adios SA.

[pubic_assistance]

No more 30 day memberships:

 

You will be billed $89.95 USD today

 

You will be billed $89.95 USD every 30 days.Your subscription will automatically renew on 08/xx/2018.

 

(Note : We do not offer refunds)

SOMETHING is up with that site. My account has been inaccessible for two weeks now, with very little communication from the administrators, although I've paid for a three month subscription. *beware* smells suspicious

[MikeBiDude]

No more 30 day memberships:

 

You will be billed $89.95 USD today

 

You will be billed $89.95 USD every 30 days.Your subscription will automatically renew on 08/xx/2018.

 

(Note : We do not offer refunds)

I wonder if that’s just for the 30day option? I renewed recently but at 90day option, my usual renewal. There were no automatic renewal warnings.

[pubic_assistance]

I wonder if that’s just for the 30day option? I renewed recently but at 90day option, my usual renewal. There were no automatic renewal warnings.

*BEWARE*. My account was deleted two weeks ago for no apparent reason, and they simply said *sorry*.

No mention of crediting me, or refunding me for all the data I've now lost building a network of contacts for the last 15 months.

[MikeBiDude]

*BEWARE*. My account was deleted two weeks ago for no apparent reason, and they simply said *sorry*.

No mention of crediting me, or refunding me for all the data I've now lost building a network of contacts for the last 15 months.

Wow that’s the first I’ve ever heard of this. Maybe you were “reported” on by a spurned sugar baby.

[pubic_assistance]

Wow that’s the first I’ve ever heard of this. Maybe you were “reported” on by a spurned sugar baby.

Impossible...nothing improper to report. Seems they just screwed up and deleted my account for no particular reason. Making some claims it was "for security purposes"...which doesn't make a lot of sense. My account didn't appear to be hacked.

[newtotheworld]

So I've been researching this site. I even filled out a profile and am just waiting for it to be approved. Do you have to pay the 80 dollars to talk to anyone? Does the free membership only allow you to look? I'm new to it and not sure what it's all about.

[MikeBiDude]

So I've been researching this site. I even filled out a profile and am just waiting for it to be approved. Do you have to pay the 80 dollars to talk to anyone? Does the free membership only allow you to look? I'm new to it and not sure what it's all about.

You can look, review profiles, etc. but you can’t open messages or reply

[+ Keith30309]

So I've been researching this site. I even filled out a profile and am just waiting for it to be approved. Do you have to pay the 80 dollars to talk to anyone? Does the free membership only allow you to look? I'm new to it and not sure what it's all about.

You can look but not touch.

[+ goosh69]

So I've been researching this site. I even filled out a profile and am just waiting for it to be approved. Do you have to pay the 80 dollars to talk to anyone? Does the free membership only allow you to look? I'm new to it and not sure what it's all about.

If your a sugar daddy or want to be, $80 is not a lot.

[pubic_assistance]

I would proceed cautiously with Seeking.

They apparently deleted my account for no particular reason with a year's worth of contact information now gone.

They offered me a free month's membership to say "sorry". Hardly worth the annoyance of losing a years worth of networking data.

[+ goosh69]

Yet some on here can only afford a free room for their sugar boy in exchange for sex...

 

In DeMoines, Milwaukee, San Francisco or Manhattan. Seems like some might be worth more than others.

[fedssocr1]

I find this whole scene fascinating. I just downloaded the Gdaddy app. As is always the case, the guys who seem most attractive live nowhere near me (and I live in a pretty big metro area). Lots of lonely boys out there. And way too many guys with hoops through their noses. I suspect that most of these guys can't possibly think they're ever actually going to find a daddy...if they did they would post much better photos at least. My other favorite is the 18 year olds who want a 22 year old daddy

Edited July 25, 2018 by fedssocr1

[+ goosh69]

“

Seeking

• Active lifestyle
  
• Flexible Schedule
  
• Rent Assistance
  
• Travel with You
  
• Tuition & School Support
  
• Vacations
  

 

 

Looking for a humble yet confident [platonic at first] companion to live with and travel the world. Let’s Go! ”

 

All this and PLATONIC.

[gallahadesquire]

“

Seeking

• Active lifestyle
  
• Flexible Schedule
  
• Rent Assistance
  
• Travel with You
  
• Tuition & School Support
  
• Vacations
  

 

 

Looking for a humble yet confident [platonic at first] companion to live with and travel the world. Let’s Go! ”

 

All this and PLATONIC.

 

Clueless

[tradehunter]

priceless!!!

[MikeBiDude]

“

Seeking

• Active lifestyle
  
• Flexible Schedule
  
• Rent Assistance
  
• Travel with You
  
• Tuition & School Support
  
• Vacations
  

 

 

Looking for a humble yet confident [platonic at first] companion to live with and travel the world. Let’s Go! ”

 

All this and PLATONIC.

I don’t know how valid my thinking is here...but I’ve talked to a couple female “sugar babies” and quite a few males who got onto SA as a result of having a female friend who was already on the app.

 

It seems from those conversations that there are quite a few male sugar daddy arrangements with female sugar babies that are more social than sexual? So when a male/guy says “platonic” or “no sex” it’s almost always because he has a female friend or acquaintance that has told him that’s how they do it.

 

Just an observation...I’m happy to discuss.

 

P.S. this is separate from the term “no sex” which to the guys sometimes mean “no intercourse/penetration” but NOT platonic, some mutually intimate physical fun can be had but “no sex”

[+ goosh69]

I don’t know how valid my thinking is here...but I’ve talked to a couple female “sugar babies” and quite a few males who got onto SA as a result of having a female friend who was already on the app.

 

It seems from those conversations that there are quite a few male sugar daddy arrangements with female sugar babies that are more social than sexual? So when a male/guy says “platonic” or “no sex” it’s almost always because he has a female friend or acquaintance that has told him that’s how they do it.

 

Just an observation...I’m happy to discuss.

 

P.S. this is separate from the term “no sex” which to the guys sometimes mean “no intercourse/penetration” but NOT platonic, some mutually intimate physical fun can be had but “no sex”

 

I’ve also heard some women claim this. I think half of them are lying about it being purely platonic, but no doubt it happens. But even when it does, it ends for the women after the guys get too many blue balls.