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Start slowly. No overnights. I rarely hire escorts. I prefer the less transactional amateurish SA and Instagram guys.

 

start slow if they need the time to get comfy - often within an hour they’re ready - and you’re right if not don’t push

 

never use RentMen anymore

 

SA - Grindr - insta

Much better

For me

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I took an Atlanta SA guy with me on a business trip for 5 days and paid air, expenses, etc., and gave him something in that ballpark for walking-around money since I was in meetings most of the time. I’m far too unpleasant to be around any longer than that.

In Houston I regularly gave guys $100 - $300 for overnights. These were students who had nothing else to do and enjoyed a little taste of luxury.

i still occasionally hear from a few SA guys but haven't met any in a year.

 

name names of your boys, they'll mike take other clients and later move on advertise and selectively take other attractive in shape clients like you Some escorts and amateur guys use it because they don't have the stomach to be hired by just anybody, they're also picky and using SA allows them to screen the clients.

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Mostly fashion models on short stay in my city.

How do you know they’ll do it? How do you approach them? Can we DM you for info on who you’ve had success with? I think I speak to everyone when I say we’d be very grateful for any assistance getting with models!

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start slow if they need the time to get comfy - often within an hour they’re ready - and you’re right if not don’t push

 

never use RentMen anymore

 

SA - Grindr - insta

Much better

For me

How do you rent guys off of Instagram? Are they famous or just regular guys you happen to follow?

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The issue I have with hitting up guys off of ig is that they could get upset and report you for soliciting prostitution. What a mess that could become!

 

I would stick to sites that they are the ones looking for business. Imho

Possibly but you’d have to be speaking very explicitly and clumsily for any sort of thing like that to move forward legally. And most of these guys who are trying to gain clout for their image don’t want a scandal like that or to be dramatic, sure some would jump at the chance to screenshot and make a scene but most wouldn’t want hooking anywhere near their “brand”. I could see it being more precarious but also more likely for success if you have a clear real profile. I’ve used very discreet profiles and when I’ve gotten responses from guys interested they’ve been worried about not having a clear real legit profile for them to verify me. Because if they are very happily open to selling their time to generous gentlemen, they’re hoping you’re visibly an Emirati prince or a Silicon Valley exec or small time Belgian aristocrat or Chinese technocrat. Lol.

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The issue I have with hitting up guys off of ig is that they could get upset and report you for soliciting prostitution. What a mess that could become!

 

I would stick to sites that they are the ones looking for business. Imho

But I agree. Ideally it’s all clear expectations from the get go via a proper site. I admit though it’s exciting when I’ve hinted to guys on Instagram that I’d love to meet them only to have them lead the way for making arrangement$ to do so.

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How do you know they’ll do it? How do you approach them? Can we DM you for info on who you’ve had success with? I think I speak to everyone when I say we’d be very grateful for any assistance getting with models!

I don't know the will do it. Some do it, most don't. I make small talk, invite them for dinner and take it from there. It is not transactional like escorts and requires more time and effort.

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The issue I have with hitting up guys off of ig is that they could get upset and report you for soliciting prostitution. What a mess that could become!

 

I would stick to sites that they are the ones looking for business. Imho

Invite them for dinner. Be nice to them. Have a real profile with the right content to attract them.

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I don’t understand @kko123. From what you have written above, you’re experienced in approaching guys on IG. So why were you asking in posts #1519 and #1520 on how to do this?

 

The topic has been raised before in other threads (re economics of modeling and how to approach handsome guys online). My advice is to be very polite, assure them you will be discreet and generous, invite them for drinks and dinner, and then follow through on your assurances.

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I am flying a guy from Seeking to meet me in Vegas for 4 days. Of course I'm taking care of all travel and expenses while we are in Vegas, but nothing has been discussed in addition to that. He hasn't asked and seems thrilled to be going on an all expense paid trip for his Spring Break. Should I bring it up or just assume that the trip is enough? I do plan on giving him some spending money while we are there. He's a hot D1 college swimmer.

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I am flying a guy from Seeking to meet me in Vegas for 4 days. Of course I'm taking care of all travel and expenses while we are in Vegas, but nothing has been discussed in addition to that. He hasn't asked and seems thrilled to be going on an all expense paid trip for his Spring Break. Should I bring it up or just assume that the trip is enough? I do plan on giving him some spending money while we are there. He's a hot D1 college swimmer.

Please leave us a full detailed review of how it goes with the sexy swimmer ;)

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I am flying a guy from Seeking to meet me in Vegas for 4 days. Of course I'm taking care of all travel and expenses while we are in Vegas, but nothing has been discussed in addition to that. He hasn't asked and seems thrilled to be going on an all expense paid trip for his Spring Break. Should I bring it up or just assume that the trip is enough? I do plan on giving him some spending money while we are there. He's a hot D1 college swimmer.

Treat him well, give him good spending money. If he asks for more treat him like an escort.

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I am flying a guy from Seeking to meet me in Vegas for 4 days. Of course I'm taking care of all travel and expenses while we are in Vegas, but nothing has been discussed in addition to that. He hasn't asked and seems thrilled to be going on an all expense paid trip for his Spring Break. Should I bring it up or just assume that the trip is enough? I do plan on giving him some spending money while we are there. He's a hot D1 college swimmer.

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I am flying a guy from Seeking to meet me in Vegas for 4 days. Of course I'm taking care of all travel and expenses while we are in Vegas, but nothing has been discussed in addition to that. He hasn't asked and seems thrilled to be going on an all expense paid trip for his Spring Break. Should I bring it up or just assume that the trip is enough? I do plan on giving him some spending money while we are there. He's a hot D1 college swimmer.

Have fun! Be Safe! But that is a tough one but presumably if you've arranged to spend multiple days i would think you would've established some sort of general framework regarding mutual expectations at least broadly of how you would handle spending physical time together? Or at least a meeting of the minds of the approach? Hope there doesn't end up being huge uncomfortable gaps in your expectations. (But obviously since you haven't met it would be all subject to your mutual approval once you're together anyway.)

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The issue I have with hitting up guys off of ig is that they could get upset and report you for soliciting prostitution. What a mess that could become!

 

I would stick to sites that they are the ones looking for business. Imho

 

unfortunately some (despite being successful business owners) have plenty of time to wonder about those they think they should hire. Maybe they want someone to escort for them but not for others or at least that's part of their fantasy. Not all guys on RM look like instagram models but some do and they're available and experienced making a living being hired by guys they're not attracted to.

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unfortunately some (despite being successful business owners) have plenty of time to wonder about those they think they should hire. Maybe they want someone to escort for them but not for others or at least that's part of their fantasy. Not all guys on RM look like instagram models but some do and they're available and experienced making a living being hired by guys they're not attracted to.

Seeking is not for hiring.

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