marylander1940 Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 If you can't afford $90 per month, how could you "arrange" for a guy on this site to be happy? @Penn7 you were answering him @Bucky Lol I can give someone more than 90 a month. And have. But paying 90 a month just for some usually pointless emailing seems like a waste of money. Skip 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 An add-in that did automatic image searches would be useful in weeding out fakes. It could highlight images without hits as green and those with hits as red, for example. Penn7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 Your profile pic is spectacular, Ziya Thank you! My cheeks are blushing! Happy to show off what I offer my arrangements haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WilliamM Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 Maybe they have a room to rent and think that qualifies them as powerful sugar daddies. I don't think the sugar daddy relationship involves an X amount of money per session... that sounds more like escorting. If you want someone for 90 per month I'm sure you'll find it in the spa. Will the HE be included? I know escorts who offer deals like every X time one freebie. I am confused. Why are you a bit critical of seeking arrangements Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 (edited) Thank you! My cheeks are blushing! Happy to show off what I offer my arrangements haha I am sure someone will soon take you and keep you all for himself! Our loss! @muscmtl that's the kind of shot I love as profile picture Edited September 23, 2020 by marylander1940 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fedssocr1 Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 definitely there are some athletes. I met one swimmer who was on his school team...but hated it. Since the scholarship mattered though he kept doing it.I also corresponded with a guy for a while who claimed to be a swimmer at a school in MN. I did some checking and it seemed legit. But he just wanted me to send him money for pretty much nothing. Seem to be a lot of frat boys. I think they must all be networking with each other or something. I hopped back on during the back to school sale. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 Maybe next time there’s a sale lol.. I did the one earlier this year but skipped the September one I hopped back on during the back to school sale. I just found a 25% sale and booked one month only. Saying hi to some friends! marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 definitely there are some athletes. I met one swimmer who was on his school team...but hated it. Since the scholarship mattered though he kept doing it.I also corresponded with a guy for a while who claimed to be a swimmer at a school in MN. I did some checking and it seemed legit. But he just wanted me to send him money for pretty much nothing. Seem to be a lot of frat boys. I think they must all be networking with each other or something. I hopped back on during the back to school sale. Yeah there's a whole lot of "money to chat" or even just "help me out" there. Penn7 and MikeBiDude 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fedssocr1 Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 yep. I need a book for this class. I need some money for food. I want to go to the mall, can you send me $75? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penn7 Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 yep. I need a book for this class. I need some money for food. I want to go to the mall, can you send me $75? Yeah when you haven’t even met them? Nahhh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 There will be guys on Seeking and just about everywhere else asking for money before a meet. I have a very polite little patter I tell them about how I never send money before a meet, I don’t pay for pics/videos, etc. There are a lot of new, naive younger guys who think it’s “easy money” and they quickly find out it’s not. Ditto for the “daddies” - seeking isn’t easy, takes patience and work and I and others have mentioned previously. Travelguy368, MscleLovr and guru68 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skip Posted October 4, 2020 Share Posted October 4, 2020 Good News to report. I went to Austin to meet a guy I met on SA. Lived up to everything he said. Delightful weekend. Made a regular arrangement at a reasonable monthly amount. Fights are nonstop and reasonable. I actually prefer a guy out of town. I understand that not everyone would. Anyway, SA does work. I put the outrageously expensive monthly fee on vacation. SA does work, but it is work! Penn7, Studsearcher, Eleven11 and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lchnsf Posted October 4, 2020 Share Posted October 4, 2020 I miss Craigslist personals, for many reasons. Doublelist is occasionally useful but mostly it’s the same small group of guys reading and responding. I miss Craigslist as well. I had more luck in Craigslist than any other platform MscleLovr, + Hoover42, Penn7 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted October 4, 2020 Share Posted October 4, 2020 I guess Craigslist got out for legal concerns? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penn7 Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 I guess Craigslist got out for legal concerns? Yeah, combination of potentially overly broad SESTA/FOSTA laws that were passed, and their own lawyers’ nervousness. Such a shame. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gymowner Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 Craigslist was hookup central! My god the hot hot curious straight muscle I got from there! One is now actually a pro bodybuilder but I dont think he has competed since 2017 or 2018. Huge dude. Like 5'9" 280 off season with abs huge! Ah those were the days!! Penn7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
former lurker Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 Lol I can give someone more than 90 a month. And have. But paying 90 a month just for some usually pointless emailing seems like a waste of money. I'm confused. The $90 is not going to the guy seeking the arrangement, but to the site, right? So the goal would be to use the site to find a guy, make the arrangement, then stop using the site. But the arrangement would likely be for orders of magnitude more than the cost of using the site. If you're anticipating covering some guy's rent and living expenses, why is the monthly fee to find that guy an issue? Skip, + goosh69 and MikeBiDude 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 You make a fair point @former lurker but I guess many people may not have much in the way of excess income (or uninvested capital) to spend on this hobby. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ FrankR Posted October 12, 2020 Share Posted October 12, 2020 Fine, I admit it - it’s my guilty pleasure to read the profiles and look at the photos. ? I can usually get a good chuckle out of some of the more extravagant expectations. (And some days it is a little sad to see the truly desperate - a good remind of how lucky I really am.) It is quite interesting to shift locations and see how the expectations realign. ??♂️ I do use the filter function on the site so messages from outside my city never end up in my inbox. MikeBiDude, guru68 and LivingnLA 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Steve yabsley Posted October 12, 2020 Share Posted October 12, 2020 @FrankR - that is absolutely the best use of SA! Applause ? and thank you for the expectation alignment. Steve Fine, I admit it - it’s my guilty pleasure to read the profiles and look at the photos. ? I can usually get a good chuckle out of some of the more extravagant expectations. (And some days it is a little sad to see the truly desperate - a good remind of how lucky I really am.) It is quite interesting to shift locations and see how the expectations realign. ??♂️ + glutes 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidAndy Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 I tried meeting guys who have profiles on SA after finding them on Grindr. Not sure if I met/chatted with enough guys, but here is an impression I formed. There are two ends of the spectrum. On one side, we have educated guys, driven, willing to work hard, articulate. These are guys I want to meet. Unfortunately, they don't usually want to see me. On the other side, we have junkies, flakes, guys who cannot hold a job for more than two weeks. Meeting them when happens is pretty problematic. And overall this is not the type of arrangement I want to step into. There are some in the middle that you can aim for. But not many. + glutes and Penn7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brettnyc Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 SA seems to attract a lot of deluded young guys looking to get rich quick - marylander1940, Skip, + Hoover42 and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 On one side, we have educated guys, driven, willing to work hard, articulate. These are guys I want to meet.…On the other side, we have junkies, flakes, guys who cannot hold a job for more than two weeks. SA is a dating pool. And Yes @MidAndy it has are all types of guys. You just have to be persistent and focus on the good guys. I see no point whatsoever in dating the junkies and flakes. It strikes me that the adverse comments on SA are similar to views expressed by guys visiting Brazil. Posters comment on how they see attractive guys on the beach but couldn’t meet any of them, or on how they didn’t find anyone attractive in the sauna the evening they visited. Others comment on how the sauna working guys are money-oriented or jaded. Yet a man only has to meet one attractive guy and have a good date to change his view. This is as true of a sauna in Brazil as it is of SA. No-one here has suggested it’s an instant way to get a date with a good guy. You have to be persistent and do the work in filtering out the flakes. IMO it’s much better than spending lots of time on Grindr or the equivalent, and having lots of bad dates to rule guys out. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 Fine, I admit it - it’s my guilty pleasure to read the profiles and look at the photos. ? I can usually get a good chuckle out of some of the more extravagant expectations. (And some days it is a little sad to see the truly desperate - a good remind of how lucky I really am.) It is quite interesting to shift locations and see how the expectations realign. ??♂️ I do use the filter function on the site so messages from outside my city never end up in my inbox. My favorite search filters are "straight" and "allowance". It's always amusing to see how many guys think they are going to get regularly paid for an email or chat. + Steve yabsley, MikeBiDude, Skip and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penn7 Posted October 24, 2020 Share Posted October 24, 2020 Just got an email from SA offering 25% off. Did anyone else get that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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