RyanDean Posted September 15, 2017 Share Posted September 15, 2017 I'm still fascinated that I don't get as much attention on SA as all y'all. Over the last few weeks, I've gotten way more unsolicited messages from RM advertisers than SBs... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted September 15, 2017 Share Posted September 15, 2017 (edited) I was wondering about that. Some of the guys I've met have told me that they've contacted SD's who go radio-silent after the exchange of a few promising messages. Ding! That is SA's business model: tease and then disappear. Just keep paying $79.95/month to find that nugget of gold... Edited September 15, 2017 by Oaktown marylander1940 and + Keith30309 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted September 15, 2017 Share Posted September 15, 2017 It seems like you were fortunate to work out a compatible arrangement. It was not just luck. I tried a lot of candidates, it was a lot of work. + Keith30309, + Tarte Gogo, MikeBiDude and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted September 17, 2017 Share Posted September 17, 2017 (edited) From the Shill Mill at SA, I have figured out another yellow flag that your candidate is a hoax: Sugar Daddy: "Hey, sounds like we are compatible. How about giving me a call! 310-555-1212." Sugar Baby: "I'm at class/work/gym/with friends right now. Perhaps later." Then you never hear back. I why in the world would they be on the SA website if they are at class/work/gym/with friends, in the first place? Edited September 17, 2017 by Oaktown + oldNbusted 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Winko Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 i never liked seeking arrangement. the site is full of scammers. i always get men asking me for my bank information and wanting to pay me but once they find out i dont have a bank account, they ditch me -_- it makes me angry marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted September 21, 2017 Share Posted September 21, 2017 It isnt anger. I have heeded this forums' advice and created a new profile on silver daddies which is very discreet and i am communicating my profession via email as suggested here.The response from other members has been 100% positive. They dont all book but everyone has been NICE. The owner/moderator has thus far not objected. My friends advice was correct but it seems as if we have to fly below the radar. That is fine. I do the same thing on grindr. The latest thing is that some of the really cute twinks on grindr have a fantasy of PAYING a hot daddy to play! Lastly i have to respond to the member who used the phrase and i quote, "bullshit," about our fees being for our time and our time only. I COULD NOT DISAGREE MORE.....nicely of course. Legally that is why the big three sites are ALLOWED to exist and LEGALLY that is why this august forum is allowed to exist. I am not a lawyer but i have fucked over a thousand of them and i have asked many of them for their counsel on this matter over the years so i would not state anything on here that i just pulled out of my cute little ass. www.rentmen.com/mikeyusatop You should try this site too, in chase you haven't already. I'm aware there are some undercover escorts doing it asking for money for: medical expenses, college tuition, fulfilling dreamed trips of a lifetime, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SROSFanboy Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 OK so here's one for the books on SA .... I met this seemingly really nice muscle boy in NYC with whom I had a couple of phone calls, one very extensive, and ongoing texting - we genuinely seemed to hit it off well. The plan was to fly him up for a couple of nights starting yesterday. Yesterday afternoon arrives, and I've set up a hotel room for us because my place is not at the moment conducive to hosting a guest. I bought the air ticket about 3 weeks ago and sent him the confirmation. We texted as recently as the night before he was to travel, and he seemed very enthusiastic about coming up. So I go up to the airport to meet his flight yesterday, and he's a no-show. Just before arrival I had texted him what I'd be wearing, etc. and the text was not delivered, I assumed, because he was in flight and his phone was off. Turns out he never even checked in for the flight. And any subsequent texts were not delivered either. I didn't know whether to feel pissed, or worried that something bad had happened to him. Anyway, not a word from him since the night before he was to depart - no apology, no nothing, and since my texts/iMessages never showed "delivered" I can only assume he blocked me. This whole trip was going to cost me more in meals and his "fee" than I could really afford, but it was too late to back out of the hotel, so I stayed there last night by myself, and the hotel staff was decent enough not to charge me an early departure fee for not staying the 2nd night. Plus the air ticket was non-refundable, and since he no-showed, the e-ticket will probably go into suspend (worthless) status so that's a total loss - and even if it weren't, only HE could use it toward some other trip, but it's still a total loss to me. All told I was only out about $273 because of this, so I'm looking at it now as cutting my losses. Any ideas about what could've happened? I'm not going to lose any sleep over this, but still, it was unsettling, as he seemed to be a really decent and responsible guy. Maybe he got a better offer at the 11th hour for the same dates, but when you've committed to someone to show up, the honorable thing to do is to SHOW UP. Seeing that of all the guys I had spoken to on SA, this was the only one I actually chose to make an arrangement with, it doesn't leave me with a very good feeling about that site. I discontinued my "membership" on the site earlier this month. My motto is that you only get one chance with me, especially when your disrespect costs me $$$. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 That’s why I ALWAYS do a local Starbucks or Peet’s n’greet, only costs me $5 to get stood up Pretty much SA or escorts, advice abounds on these forum recommending NOT starting with an overnight with someone new Sorry:( + Keith30309 and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vato Loco Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 "My motto is that you only get one chance with me, especially when your disrespect costs me $$$." I tried SA for one subscription. Fooled me once, shame on them. Fooled me twice, they won't get the chance. marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 "My motto is that you only get one chance with me, especially when your disrespect costs me $$$." I tried SA for one subscription. Fooled me once, shame on them. Fooled me twice, they won't get the chance. Interesting, @Oaktown and @glutes tried the same subscription Attitude adjustment? Respect? + BenjaminNicholas and BabyBoomer 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Possibilities that come to mind: 1) he had good intentions when he accepted the offer but got cold feet at the prospect of flying somewhere and snipped all the connections to you 2) he saw an easy mark and intended to scam you from the outset. He walked away with the value of the ticket, presumably free and clear with no expenses. 3) he's a flake who doesn't know what he's going from one moment to the next and something shiny caught his attention. 4) something happened and he was willing but unable to get on the plane. SROSFanboy, marylander1940 and GTMike 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arbimuscle Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Personally, I think the SA website is a scam. I tried 1month, and said later. On a second personal note, most of the guys, are not worth financial support. Bunch of skinny, messed up looking freaks. Vato Loco 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SROSFanboy Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Possibilities that come to mind: 1) he had good intentions when he accepted the offer but got cold feet at the prospect of flying somewhere and snipped all the connections to you 2) he saw an easy mark and intended to scam you from the outset. He walked away with the value of the ticket, presumably free and clear with no expenses. 3) he's a flake who doesn't know what he's going from one moment to the next and something shiny caught his attention. 4) something happened and he was willing but unable to get on the plane. I think the most likely of these is either #1 or #3 ... I don't think #4 happened because he would've been in touch if that were the case. And as for #2, I don't think he had any interest in the value of a ticket as low cost as what I got him (plus there would be a penalty to use it anyway). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 I think I've been stood up 3 times by SA guys... Two said they were stuck in traffic. Both sent me photos at the 15-minute-late mark showing, indeed, allot of traffic, and imploring that I wait. They were probably telling the truth but I wasn't inclined to hang around and find out. The third guy was a flat-out no-show. A few others have gotten flaky in days leading up to a scheduled meet and cancelled or gone silent. I think it's a combination of youthful nerves, unstable living circumstances and sheer irresponsibility & flakiness. + José Soplanucas and MikeBiDude 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Personally, I think the SA website is a scam. I tried 1month, and said later. On a second personal note, most of the guys, are not worth financial support. Bunch of skinny, messed up looking freaks. marylander1940, + PapaTony and bigvalboy 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 I think it's a combination of youthful nerves This...and as we’ve discussed before the reality of an arrangement and what it is and what it isn’t starts to strike Home... SROSFanboy and + Keith30309 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 i never liked seeking arrangement. the site is full of scammers. i always get men asking me for my bank information and wanting to pay me but once they find out i dont have a bank account, they ditch me -_- it makes me angry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 This...and as we’ve discussed before the reality of an arrangement and what it is and what it isn’t starts to strike Home... I'm continually amazed at some of the things I hear from SA guys. I got a message earlier today from a guy who said he's in my area a couple of times a week to see his psychiatrist. Another told me that his PTSD was much better now. A 19-year old told me he had to have a flexible schedule in case his parole officer wanted to see him on short notice. Another 20-y/o straight guy, who I've platonically met 4 or 5 times, is from a wealthy family (I've seen his car and made some discreet inquiries) but is so desperate for some parental affirmation that he is interested in a physical relationship. It's really allot more complicated than "scammers". I've met allot of SA guys and the only commonality is that they are all looking for something and it's not necessarily financial. The world can be a scary, lonely and mean place and whether you're 18 or 28 it can make you do some wacky, erratic stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ PapaTony Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Wow, reading some of these awful reports makes me think I’m the luckiest guy in the world. As I’ve written before I have 2 very sweet young men from SA I see on a regular basis and the relationships are simply wonderful. And I was lucky enough to meet both during my first month of subscription. I renewed one time for a second month but not again. I do believe you naysayers failed to set your site preferences correctly. . MikeBiDude and + José Soplanucas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 I do believe you naysayers failed to set your site preferences correctly This helps so much... bigvalboy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 All-in-all it's been a net positive for me - the good continues to outweigh the bad, even as I deal with a flaky day-care teacher this afternoon (seriously). It's never boring... I get to feel like I add some value to people who need it... I have made 3 very close, intimate ongoing relationships... and I've gotten to see lots of facets of humanity I otherwise never would have. Funny, sad, touching, cynical and sometimes sexy. If the bad ever begins to outweigh the good I know that I can turn it off like a spigot. MikeBiDude and bigvalboy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arbimuscle Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Wow, reading some of these awful reports makes me think I’m the luckiest guy in the world. As I’ve written before I have 2 very sweet young men from SA I see on a regular basis and the relationships are simply wonderful. And I was lucky enough to meet both during my first month of subscription. I renewed one time for a second month but not again. I do believe you naysayers failed to set your site preferences correctly. . As I have said before, I also think the success u have, has alot to do with what geographical area u are in. It is all in the eye of the beholder. Just like the old mounds and Almond Joy commercial," sometimes you feel like a nut sometimes you don't." Such a profound commercial. Has a lot of meaning! Lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LookingAround Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 If he blocked you it would still show as delivered. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raven Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 @SROSFanboy he still online at SA? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SROSFanboy Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 If he blocked you it would still show as delivered. Then I'm confused - none of the 3 iMessages I showed delivered, and they're still not - so what DOES that mean? Plus, he had a 2nd (non-Apple) phone and I texted that one as well, with no response. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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