Please Help...

[Jock123]

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[Kuriousity]

My .02...back away slowly from this one. This person either has never rented before OR they are trying to get you to say something legally bad. You just excuse yourself from the conversation by saying things have come up in your day job, and you're not available for the foreseeable future. If it's a cop (which I suspect, to be brutally honest), they will move on to a more clueless guy....

[Kuriousity]

My .02...back away slowly from this one. This person either has never rented before OR they are trying to get you to say something legally bad. You just excuse yourself from the conversation by saying things have come up in your day job, and you're not available for the foreseeable future. If it's a cop (which I suspect, to be brutally honest), they will move on to a more clueless guy....

 

 

Side note---when it comes to sex workers, "Entrapment" doesn't mean shit....

[big-n-tall]

The only time I've asked a working guy what he was into was after we met and I've known them for a bit.

[Guest]

I don't ask nor do I want to by asked what I want. The escort's website should list his preferences. If it doesn't, I move on. Of course, most recorded stings want the escort or client to say yes to a specific question such as "Will you suck me off for $X?". I'm not sure that asking a person what he's into constitutes an agreement to exchange a particular sexual favor for a given sum. Maybe the lawyers can chime in. But the ad should just say "Preferences: Top, Bottom, or Versatile," etc. and then nothing needs to be said on the phone because the discussion is moot. Of course, if you're dealing with a known escort or client (ie an escort reviewed here) then your risk is minimal.

[Brian Kevin]

I'm into fitting this whole cheesecake in my mouth.

[+ Keith30309]

I'm into fitting this whole cheesecake in my mouth.

 

Welcome back! (and wipe your chin)((don't you wish you had a dollar for every time you'd heard that))

[BtmBearDad]

my gut is telling me the same thing

 

Go with your gut, mate!

[+ Keith30309]

Soooo For the First time In my Escorting Career a Client has asked ME "What are You Into". Yes...I know...Things cant be "Assumed". Afterall every Escort operates Diffrently and You can have completely different Experiences from Escort to Escort. However USUALLY when a Client contacts me and has Specific Interests they'll mention it First...Especially if its a Dealbreaker.

 

Maybe I'm odd, but I frequently ask "what do you like?", though it's always face-to-face and after some getting-to-know-you conversation. It's part of the philosophy that both people should enjoy themselves.

[mattr]

I don't really think it is that odd of a question. I like to know what an escort really enjoys since a candid response to that question will better help me determine if we are a fit. I understand the hesitancy on the part of an escort to respond because perhaps it could be construed as an oral contract to perform the activities discussed, so politely refusing to discuss it on the phone or via email is not a deal breaker for me. But, enquiring minds do want to know.

[Kuriousity]

Maybe I am wrong--since I am not a renter--but last time I looked, escorts adjust to your interests.....you do not adjust to theirs.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Maybe I am wrong--since I am not a renter--but last time I looked, escorts adjust to your interests.....you do not adjust to theirs.

 

Not necessarily. For example, if client X likes opera and basketball, but escort Y only like opera, then X might suggest the time spent together is at the opera.

[Kuriousity]

Not necessarily. For example, if client X likes opera and basketball, but escort Y only like opera, then X might suggest the time spent together is at the opera.

 

OK....if you are paying a minimum of 200 per hour for professional meat or ass, why are you wasting time at the opera?

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

OK....if you are paying a minimum of 200 per hour for professional meat or ass, why are you wasting time at the opera?

 

Change opera to oral and basketball to watersports and the answer is the same.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I'm with Keith. What really turns me on is to be in control, feeling like I driving my partner to extasis. Therefore, beyond being oral and a control freak, I am very flexible. Asking to an escort what he is into, what things he likes to be done to his body, what situations foster his hornyness, is always part of the conversation, after I explored his body and tried to find by myself.

[MikeyGMin]

Yep. And my gut is telling me the same thing. Awesome.

 

Seriously I found It weird...no one has ever asked ME to make a "List of what You're Into".

 

That's because the relevant information for a hiring decision is what you're NOT into. What are your limits as far as kissing, topping, bottoming, oral, etc. Once that information is known the client can make a decision about whether it is a good match or not. It's much easier, and more normal, for the client to explain what they are looking for.

 

I'm with some of the other guys with regards to trying to discover what an escort likes once I get him alone. But that's just to make it as good for him as possible. I don't kid myself that I am rocking his world. He's working, and as long as I'm not pushing his limits, he probably doesn't give a shit what we're doing.

[Kuriousity]

That's because the relevant information for a hiring decision is what you're NOT into. What are your limits as far as kissing, topping, bottoming, oral, etc. Once that information is known the client can make a decision about whether it is a good match or not. It's much easier, and more normal, for the client to explain what they are looking for.

 

I'm with some of the other guys with regards to trying to discover what an escort likes once I get him alone. But that's just to make it as good for him as possible. I don't kid myself that I am rocking his world. He's working, and as long as I'm not pushing his limits, he probably doesn't give a shit what we're doing.

 

 

And that is a face to face chat...not over email

[MikeyGMin]

And that is a face to face chat...not over email

 

For me it is usually a face to ass chat... But it is definitely not over email!

[Kuriousity]

You slut

[+ José Soplanucas]

Yeah, I would have that conversation only after meeting, and only after exploring his body. However, I do not find hard to believe that a client, specially one with no much or not at all experience hiring, could ask that question in a first phone conversation. Not every client and escort has been educated by this forum.

[MikeyGMin]

You slut

 

Just keeping it real. It's a documented fact that a good "tongue lashing" loosens both the hips and the lips. I will footnote the reference at a later date.

[+ purplekow]

First i want to speak up for clients. When it comes to the escort having an enjoyable time, we may not be the partners an escort would ask to dance, it doesn't mean we can't show him some take home moves on the dance floor. After all many of us have been dancing since before many of the escorts were born and we have learned a thing or 69 during that time. So I do like to know what the escort likes, as I like most things and one thing I really enjoy is having my partner enjoy himself.

I agree, that an e-mail is not when I ask that question, but if this client is a new to the scene, he may not be familiar with the ins and outs of this. Simply asking why he wants to know and explaining that it is more usual for the client to state preferences, is probably all that is needed. While I understand the need for caution, there does not seem to be enough in what is being said to assume that his is a policeman.

[LADoug1]

Side note---when it comes to sex workers, "Entrapment" doesn't mean shit....

Why?

[LADoug1]

After a brief text exchange where nothing was said about what either of us was into the escort called me and wanted to know all about what I wanted was into etc. He said he wanted to know if we were compatible. I felt like I was being grilled. Isn't the escort putting himself at risk since the conversation implies what he is into and what he will do for the money?

[jawjateck]

I'm with PK. If that is the only fox pass in his communications, then simply tell him your interests are vast, but you want to hear about him. Ask him to describe his fantasy date. If he has given you other reasons to be guarded, cut him off.

 

Don't assume LE. Some clients are just clueless on how to do this thang......a casual glance around here proves that.