Nervous first hire decision. Help!!!

[blk4546]

Hello everyone,

 

 

I'm new to the forum and any help could be apprecitaed. I'm hiring for the first time and i'm a little nervous. Trying to decide between Antton Harri, or Andrew Justice for a first time hire. Anyone had any experience with them? Antton Harri seems so passive and boring. Andrew is seemingly more passionate. Your healp would be greatly appreciative

[Kevin Slater]

Trying to decide between Antton Harri, or Andrew Justice for a first time hire... Antton Harri seems so passive and boring. Andrew is seemingly more passionate.

 

Didn't you just answer your own question?

 

Kevin Slater

[blk4546]

Didn't you just answer your own question?

 

Kevin Slater

Hi Kevin,

 

Thanks for the reply. As I have never hired before, this is just my perception of the two people i'm debating between. I could be completely wrong. Thats the reason I was asking in general for those more experienced than me to give me some insight.

[mike carey]

Fair point that you were asking for confirmation of your initial reaction. As a newbie it's reasonable that you would doubt your first impressions. Whether he is better than anyone else you may have considered, my impression from afar is that you should just go for Andrew Justice.

[+ Truereview]

Fair point that you were asking for confirmation of your initial reaction. As a newbie it's reasonable that you would doubt your first impressions. Whether he is better than anyone else you may have considered, my impression from afar is that you should just go for Andrew Justice.

+1 on what Mike said.

 

My 2 cents: if you haven't done so already, do some recognizance on your own - it is good to do your own assessment and research: read the reviews and posts on the review site and the forum. Make your pros and cons list for both gents. This will help you"fish" on your own for the future. On the content of both reviews and posts, remember to look for patterns, do not be swayed by whose opinion is expressed most eloquently or elegantly. That's just a good writer. You want insights, and those don't come out until you see trends/patterns. Then trust your gut instinct: what is it telling you? Sounds like you are already leaning for one guy. Finally, take the leap of faith. If things don't go as expected, take time to reassess what happened, and get back on bc there are some extraordinary gents out there

 

PS- whoever you meet, please help your fellow forum members by submitting a review.

[DaddyCub]

First off, welcome to the forum.

 

Secondly, although I have no experience with Anton, I do have experience with Andrew and although I don't know exactly what you're looking for I believe you can't go wrong with him. My experience with Andrew was amazing. He's an incredibly nice guy.

[mattr]

Although I have never met Anton I do recommend Andrew based on personal experience. Communicate your situation with him and let him know what you are looking for from a meeting. Although you will be nervous, communicate during the meeting as well. I would also suggest a 2 hour appointment if your budget can afford it. This will take some of the time pressure off and allow you to get to know whomever you choose in a more relaxed environment. Ask specifically for the 2 hour rate since not everyone charges 2x the 1 hour rate for 2 hours.

[rvwnsd]

Welcome to the Forum.

 

Not being one to mince words, I agree with Kevin in that you answered your own question. Based on your read of their ads, you think Andrew Justice is the better fit for you. Given that you are hiring the escort, you need to follow your instincts.

 

Having said that, I think there is value in soliciting input when determining who to hire and do not wish to discourage you from doing so. The members of this Forum can provide insights into their experiences with and impressions of various escorts. What they can't do is determine whether a particular escort is right for you. Only you can do that.

 

It sounds like you narrowed the field down to two, but should you choose to cast a wider net in the future, here are a few ideas for soliciting input:

1. Describe what you are looking for in your playdate. For example, do you want a guy to undress you at the door and start going at it or do you want to start things off with a conversation and build up slowly?
   
2. Describe what kind of guy(s) turn you on. If you like skinny young guys (i.e. twinks) or tall, muscled bodybuilders, let us know. We can make recommendations based on your individual tastes.
   
3. Tell us where are you looking to hire. If you are located in Milwaukee, for example, and wish to hire close to home my recommendation of a guy in Los Angeles will not do you much good. However, my recommendation of a guy in Chicago might be beneficial if he is willing to travel to Milwaukee or you are willing to get a hotel room in suburban Chicago.
   

I hope this helps.

[+ glennnn]

As a recent newbie, I especially endorse the two-hour option, more time to relax in to the event and try new things as they come up . Don't be afraid to ask for what you want; he's heard it all before and wants you to be satisfied. Live in the moment and don't worry about anything. I hope you have a truly memorable time!

[+ glennnn]

I might also suggest that you be less negative in your descriptions of escorts that don't meet your current needs. Antton may very well read your "passive and boring" comments as this is a forum for both escorts and clients. I'm sure you didn't mean to put him down, and wouldn't want to hurt his livelihood. Just saying...... Respect is always a good thing.

[+ bashful]

Still nervous at this too, but this website provides a great education for that first meeting. I followed the formula others have prescribed for beginners, stick with those well reviewed, but of course, compatible with your likes, and attractive to you. Truereview has great advice.

[+ Gar1eth]

I've been with both of them although it was only once with Anton and multiple times with Andrew-occurring years ago for both.

 

If they are the same as they were back then, they are both great escorts. I'm probably biased from having seen Andrew more times. But while I don't think you can go wrong with either guy, Anton may take just a smidgen more time to warm up with. It may just be the hesitancy of English not being his first language. But don't get me wrong. He is totally fluent in English.

 

You don't say if you are a bottom or a top. While I can't remember the size of Anton's tallywacker. I'm sure he is on the larger side. But I'd have to doubt he is as well endowed as Andrew. But the point I'm trying to make is that while Andrew is incredibly skillful, he is really large. If you aren't used to bottoming, possibly Anton might be better for a beginning bottom. As I've told Andrew before, his is definitely not a training tallywacker.

 

On the other hand if you are a top, you could do fine with either.

 

Anton is a rarity as a European guy because he is cut. Andrew is cut also.

 

Really going by my past experience you should have a great time with either with the one proviso that it's probably been 8 years since I saw Anton. In any case I advise anyone meeting with a new escort to get the escort to send a selfie to make sure you like what they look like currently.

 

Once you get the selfies, I'd go by whichever guy is more attractive to you.

 

I wish you the best of time.

 

Gman

[+ nycman]

Take a deep breath.

 

Do your homework.

 

Go with your gut.

 

Let the dude know it's you FIRST hire.

 

Keep your expectations, hopes, dreams, and desires realistic.

 

The good news is...even if it's a disaster...you can try again with another escort!

[+ Gar1eth]

Take a deep breath.

 

Do your homework.

 

Go with your gut.

 

Let the dude know it's you FIRST hire.

 

Keep your expectations, hopes, dreams, and desires realistic.

 

The good news is...even if it's a disaster...you can try again with another escort!

Great advice. One thing I might add is be sure and tell the escort if it's your 1st time ever to have sex with a man. For me it was my first time to have any sex at all. I hadn't even French kissed before. My 1st guy not only had to mentor me through being a total virgin as regards both sex and hiring, he also had to teach me how to kiss as well. He did a great job at mentoring me through the experience and teaching me to kiss. I'll always be thankful to him.

 

Gman

[Kuriousity]

If you choose Mr Justice, here's a tip...Metamucil for a couple days prior. Thick hogs have a habit of working things loose, and no one likes a surprise....

[big-n-tall]

If you choose Mr Justice, here's a tip...Metamucil for a couple days prior. Thick hogs have a habit of working things loose, and no one likes a surprise....

 

Andrew is a good bottom as well.

[Kuriousity]

Andrew is a good bottom as well.

 

I agree---I've seen his video work. I couldn't tell which position on the baseball diamond the OP played, so I took a wild guess and presumed "bottom"....although the Hariri idea did make me wonder, since AH from what I have seen in video tends to be more in the catcher's box....

[+ José Soplanucas]

Isn't he Sean Xavier's boyfriend?

[+ Gar1eth]

If you choose Mr Justice, here's a tip...Metamucil for a couple days prior. Thick hogs have a habit of working things loose, and no one likes a surprise....

 

Andrew is a good bottom as well.

 

I think the word should be 'great' rather than just 'good'.

 

Isn't he Sean Xavier's boyfriend?

 

Yes, he is-over two years now!! That's like 8 in straight relationship years.

 

Gman

[jawjateck]

Good luck with your first hire, and sifting and using the fine advice you received. Please come back and share the happy ending with us.

[+ dupontversDC]

You can't go wrong hiring Andrew. He's always a GREAT time in my experience.

[Despardo]

Just jump off the deep end and swim. Try not to overthink this decision and just go with the flow. The higher your expectations, the more likely the let down. Try to relax, enjoy the companionship, the fantasy and the sex, but don't expect the encounter to change your life. Have realistic expectations. That way you may occasionally be pleasantly surprised.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Yeah, and remember if the first time does not go well or well enough, it is about keeping trying.

[geminibear]

Sometimes you just have to take a short leap of faith, that's what I did the first time.

 

If at first you don't succeed try try again.

 

Good Luck, Have Fun,

Come Back and Tell Us How It Went.

[Xenon79]

Andrew Justice for sure. Been with him and he's awesome