Customer Service

[Kuriousity]

I was curious, so I thought I'd ask.....for the gentlemen here who hire hourly temps (so to speak), which type give a better overall customer service--men who identify as "Straight" or men who identify as "Gay"?

[humboldt]

This might not be a very popular answer, but in my experience – based upon my own personal interests and needs – I haven’t found the orientation variable to be all that important to the outcome.

 

As a client, rather, I need to be attracted to an escort, I need to be able to communicate openly about my preferences and desires, and I need somebody who is willing to indulge me in those regards. Based upon my experiences, any number of straight, gay, and bi escorts have been able to do just that, regardless of their sexual orientation.

 

One caveat is that I have never sought the “boyfriend experience” when I hire. I can imagine scenarios where straight escorts might not be as able (or willing?) to provide that kind of service, but I think in most cases open communication could clarify that prior to hiring.

[Kuriousity]

This might not be a very popular answer, but in my experience – based upon my own personal interests and needs – I haven’t found the orientation variable to be all that important to the outcome.

 

As a client, rather, I need to be attracted to an escort, I need to be able to communicate openly about my preferences and desires, and I need somebody who is willing to indulge me in those regards. Based upon my experiences, any number of straight, gay, and bi escorts have been able to do just that, regardless of their sexual orientation.

 

One caveat is that I have never sought the “boyfriend experience” when I hire. I can imagine scenarios where straight escorts might not be as able (or willing?) to provide that kind of service, but I think in most cases open communication could clarify that prior to hiring.

 

 

Oh who cares if it's a popular answer--it's an answer. I tossed out a question, and you gave me a response, so I got what I wanted

[+ Charlie]

I assume it depends on what kind of service one is looking for. I doubt that most straight escorts can give a really satisfactory "boyfriend" experience (the hardest thing for most straight men to do convincingly is kiss) . On the other hand, if all one wants to do is suck a cock, it probably doesn't make much difference whether the owner is straight or gay, as long as it stays hard. I never bothered to inquire whether an escort was straight or gay, because I figured they would just say whatever it was they thought I wanted to hear.

[+ nycman]

As someone that likes to pound ass....I prefer gay escorts.

 

Straight men just aren't that good at taking a cock up their ass....well, just not as hard.....well, most of the time.

 

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[big-n-tall]

It really depends on the person (and what they're comfortable with), not necessarily their orientation. I've met a few who identify as straight or straightish who have been amazing kissers and great in the sack. I've met gay or bi men who aren't great kissers and just ok or terrible in bed. Just like anything, some people are good at what they do and some aren't.

 

One of the guys who is more on the straight side is an absolutely amazing kisser. He doesn't bottom much, but has for me. I do have to take it easy and play with his ass a lot before penetration, but once I get going he loves it. I mean I've seen his eyes roll many times and I have made him cum without him touching himself almost every time.

 

He often complains his girl hates giving him head, so he goes nuts when I do it. He did/said one of the hottest things to me was while I was orally pleasing him. He was so turned on during the act, he grabbed my face looking into my eyes longingly and said, "let me taste my dick." He then pulled me to his face and gave me one of the deepest most passionate kisses he has ever given me. This from a guy with a girlfriend and a kid, who identifies more straight than gay/bi. And I'm fine with that.

[Kuriousity]

It really depends on the person (and what they're comfortable with), not necessarily their orientation. I've met a few who identify as straight or straightish who have been amazing kissers and great in the sack. I've met gay or bi men who aren't great kissers and just ok or terrible in bed. Just like anything, some people are good at what they do and some aren't.

 

One of the guys who is more on the straight side is an absolutely amazing kisser. He doesn't bottom much, but has for me. I do have to take it easy and play with his ass a lot before penetration, but once I get going he loves it. I mean I've seen his eyes roll many times and I have made him cum without him touching himself almost every time.

 

He often complains his girl hates giving him head, so he goes nuts when I do it. He did/said one of the hottest things to me was while I was orally pleasing him. He was so turned on during the act, he grabbed my face looking into my eyes longingly and said, "let me taste my dick." He then pulled me to his face and gave me one of the deepest most passionate kisses he has ever given me. This from a guy with a girlfriend and a kid, who identifies more straight than gay/bi. And I'm fine with that.

 

Hmm...interesting...

[+ José Soplanucas]

There are as many answers to that question as possible combinations of straight, gay, and client.

[MikeyGMin]

My personal experience has not been good. I've hired two guys who identified as straight. Neither of them was any fun. I could feel their unease and it made me feel predatory. That was many years ago and I have stuck with gay or bi guys ever since.

 

I feel like I'm pretty empathetic and can put myself in someone else's place. I can envision myself having sex with older guys who I wasn't particularly attracted to for financial gain. I simply can't do that with females, so I can't get comfortable with a straight guy doing it.

 

That's just me.

[Todd99]

My own experience has been mixed. I've hired two escorts who identify as straight. Neither will kiss and both charge a premium for the "straight" experience. I don't know why, but most straight guys seem to draw the line at kissing. I'm a bi vers/bottom and both excel at topping me. Makes sense. One of them is a real freak and into anything else. The other is pretty boring. He loves fucking, but that's it. If not for the fact that he is very well endowed and has a great body, I probably wouldn't hire him. I sometimes book for a weekend and do enjoy going out on the town with both of them.

 

I recently hired an escort for the first time in a long time who identifies as gay. I must say that the sex was far better. First of all, he was a passionate kisser. It was much more intimate and intense. I will definitely be seeing this escort again....and no straight premium.

 

So, in the end while I think you can make some generalizations, every escort is his own person. I wouldn't book solely on how he characterizes his preference.