Just got spit on, disrespected and hit by a client.

[Brian Kevin]

WELL!

 

They say you can't win them all!

 

Upon starting a massage, the client informed me didn't want a massage...

 

THIS IS AFTER DISCUSSING

• 2 hour session.
  
• Facial
  
• Sugar Scrub
  
• Pedicure/Manicure
  

We struck it off great, but once he realized I was a grower, and NOT a shower-- HE JUST HAD TO FUCKING say something.

 

He pretty much said fuck everything else and blow me.

 

He drove 2 1/2 hours to get here... So I didn't want him pissed off!

 

He said "just suck me off until I cum"

 

I did so and he got up, spit on me called a fat ass, that I'm a waste of life and then proceeded to slap me across the face. MIND YOU HE STILL HASN'T GIVEN ME ANY MONEY.

 

SO he leaves me hotel room (half naked). NO NO NO. I BOUGHT THIS ROOM FOR US. I yelled "STOP THEFT" in the hall way, a housekeeper seen me BUTT ASS NAKED, with spit dripping down my face and a HUGE palm print across my face, the guy stood shell shocked and turned handing me my money (1 hour session, he didn't even have enough on him for 2 hours) So there I am naked and LOCKED OUT SIDE OF MY HOTEL ROOM.

 

Thank god the house keeper let me back in and comforted me.

 

I have NEVER had anything like this happen before, a couple months ago, I had a client slam me into the wall when he was leaving because I refused to go any longer, he started talking about his grandkids and how horny they made him-- I cut the session there.

 

I used to be a very violent person. If this were when I was 19,20,21,22 this would of NEVER happend. I have become to nice and am starting to think that clients are taking advantage of me.

 

I'm sitting here in my hotel room, crying my eyes out -- wishing none of this ever happend. I stood in the shower this morning thinking I shouldn't go.... AND NOW, here I am wishing I had listened to that little voice. I had mentioned that we were in the south, where is the southern hospitality ?

 

I am going to contact Rentmen and forward them this message, this is NOT my fault!!

 

I have no idea where we went wrong, I don't understand. We had wonderful emails and multiple phone calls thru the 22nd, 23rd and ON CHRISTMAS.

 

I am very low right now my fellow forum members, I really need some moral support. My heart, spirit and soul are broken right now..... I am catching myself wanting to look at job postings, wanting to just throw my hands in the air and yell fuck this!

 

I was a LMt for 2 years before I quit and went fulltime into escorting, I NEVER ONCE had an unsatisfied client. I've never once been disrespected. I am one of the kindest people you will ever meet on this planet. My reviewers' and clients whom have seen me with no review from this forum can tell you this, my friends and family can tell you this.

 

I DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS!!!

I know I am cured from being angry, I never even once thought to hit me him. Part of me is upset that I let someone do that to me, but in time, karma returns the favor to everyone.

 

I have loved sharing my positive stories with you guys, my adventures and traveling experiences-- but this, this.... in unacceptable.

 

I will NOT let this break me, or make me quit, HOWEVER, if this shit show keeps up, I'm going to go back to selling sex toys via Amerimark. I cannot pretend that this didn't hurt.

 

I think it hurt me extra deep down inside, because I don't hide behind a name, I use my real identity, he didn't slap Xander he slapped Brian Kevin this is where my problem starts.

 

I'm going to take a bath and go for a really long jog, somewhere quiet and away from everyone. Somewhere I can lay on the ground, stare up at the sky and be one with nature. This may help me out of this place I am. Being hit triggers something in me that makes me cower and feel weak. I go back to my fiance who always hit me, someone I stayed with for 2 years, no matter the abuse-- mental, physical and emotional. The night he stabbed me three times, I drew the line. THOU SHALL NOT PASS! I find myself feeling the same exact way I did when I was in this relationship, and I don't even know this guys first name. WHAT. THE. FUCK.

 

P:S: He keeps texting me asking to come back to apologize and finish the session, he also called me and left me a voicemail I refuse to listen to. THIS WILL NOT, HAPPEN AGAIN. I am not this desperate for money, I'm not broke and fucking poor. I have multiple households I could live in, in multiple cities. I have friends who own their own companies whom have offered me manager positions and I TURN THEM DOWN, WHY DO I TURN THEM DOWN?! BECAUSE I LOVE MY REGULARS, I LOVE NEW CLIENTS, I LOVE EVERYONE! I just wish everyone could leave thier baggage at the door when they enter my room.

 

Back to my shower.

[+ pepa_e_mango]

man what a bummer! forget that guy, bad things happen to good people sometimes, I don't know why that is. go for nice long run, have good cry, watch a funny movie, keep your mind occupied; this too shall pass.

[Brian Kevin]

man what a bummer! forget that guy, bad things happen to good people sometimes, I don't know why that is. go for nice long run, have good cry, watch a funny movie, keep your mind occupied; this too shall pass.

 

Thanks baby, just out the shower, I feel a little better. Time for my run in about 15 mins once I finish stretching.

[gregkidman]

Wow, I am really sorry this happened to you! The key, I think, is your little voice. I think, many escorts will attest, that when they did NOT listen to that little voice, has feared for their lives or at the very least endured the abuse that you just went through. It doesn't matter if the two of you have been texting for days or weeks, that little voice matters more. I hope you have someone to hold you while you cry your eyes out, and then, being clear headed, make an assessment for both short-term and long-term.

[Brian Kevin]

I hope you have someone to hold you while you cry your eyes out, and then, being clear headed, make an assessment for both short-term and long-term.

 

This is why I am going running into the woods. Mother nature will calm me. Maybe since the christmas spirit is still here, I can fall into a relaxation hole and find my grandma. That's really all I want right now.

 

P:S: Greg, thank you so much for the kind words, it means even more having no prior contact with you, just shows, old souls know old souls. :*

[LADoug1]

WELL!

 

They say you can't win them all!

 

Upon starting a massage, the client informed me didn't want a massage...

 

THIS IS AFTER DISCUSSING

 

• 2 hour session.
  
• Facial
  
• Sugar Scrub
  
• Pedicure/Manicure
  

 

We struck it off great, but once he realized I was a grower, and NOT a shower-- HE JUST HAD TO FUCKING say something.

 

He pretty much said fuck everything else and blow me.

 

He drove 2 1/2 hours to get here... SO I didn't want him pissed off!

 

He said "just suck me off until I cum"

 

I did so and he got up, spit on me called a fat ass, that I'm a waste of life and then proceeded to slap me across the face. MIND YOU HE STILL HASN'T GIVEN ME ANY MONEY.

 

SO he leaves me hotel room (half naked). NO NO NO. I BOUGHT THIS ROOM FOR US. I yelled "STOP THEFT" in the hall way, a housekeeper seen me BUTT ASS NAKED, with spit dripping down my face and a HUGE palm print across my face, the guy stood shell shocked and turned handing me my money (1 hour session, he didn't even have enough on him for 2 hours) So there I am naked and LOCKED OUT SIDE OF MY HOTEL ROOM.

 

Thank god the house keeper let me back in and comforted me.

 

I have NEVER had anything like this happen before, a couple months ago, I had a client slam me into the wall when he was leaving because I refused to go any longer, he started talking about his grandkids and how horny they made him-- I cut the session there.

 

I used to be a very violent person. If this were when I was 19,20,21,22 this would of NEVER happend. I have become to nice and am starting to think that clients are taking advantage of me.

 

I'm sitting here in my hotel room, crying my eyes out -- wishing none of this ever happend. I stood in the shower this monring thinking I shouldn't go.... AND NOW, here I am wishing I had listened to that little voice. I had mentioned that we were in the south, where is the southern hospitality ?

 

I am going to contact Rentmen and forward them this message, this is NOT my fault!!

 

I have no idea where we went wrong, I don't understand. We had wonderful emails and multiple phone calls thru the 22nd, 23rd and ON CHRISTMAS.

 

I am very low right now my fellow forum members, I really need some moral support. My heart, spirit and soul are broken right now..... I am catching myself wanting to look at job postings, wanting to just throw my hands in the air and yell fuck this!

 

I was a LMt for 2 years before I quit and went fulltime into escorting, I NEVER ONCE had an unsatisfied client. I've never once been disrespected. I am one of the kindest people you will ever meet on this planet. My reviewers' and clients whom have seen me with no review from this forum can tell you this, my friends and family can tell you this.

 

I DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS!!!

I know I am cured from being angry, I never even once thought to hit me him. Part of me is upset that I let someone do that to me, but in time, karma returns the favor to everyone.

 

I have loved sharing my positive stories with you guys, my adventures and traveling experiences-- but this, this.... in unacceptable.

 

I will NOT let this break me, or make me quit, HOWEVER, if this shit show keeps up, I'm going to go back to selling sex toys via Amerimark. I cannot pretend that this didn't hurt.

 

I think it hurt me extra deep down inside, because I don't hide behind a name, I use my real identity, he didn't slap Xander he slapped Brian Kevin Sheridan this is where my problem starts.

 

I'm going to take a bath and go for a really long jog, somewhere quiet and away from everyone. Somewhere I can lay on the ground, stare up at the sky and be one with nature. This may help me out of this place I am. Being hit triggers something in me that makes me cower and feel weak. I go back to my fiance who always hit me, someone I stayed with for 2 years, no matter the abuse-- mental, physical and emotional. The night he stabbed me three times, I drew the line. THOU SHALL NOT PASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I find myself feeling the same exact way I did when I was in this relationship, and I don't even know this guys first name. WHAT. THE. FUCK.

 

P:S: He keeps texting me asking to come back to apologize and finish the session, he also called me and left me a voicemail I refuse to listen to. THIS WILL NOT, HAPPEN AGAIN. I am not this desperate for money, I'm not broke and fucking poor. I have multiple households I could live in, in multiple cities. I have friends who own their own companies whom have offered me manager positions and I TURN THEM DOWN, WHY DO I TURN THEM DOWN?! BECAUSE I LOVE MY REGULARS, I LOVE NEW CLIENTS, I LOVE EVERYONE!!!! I just wish everyone could leave thier baggage at the door when they enter my room.

 

Back to my shower.

I'm thinking of you and send support and strength.

[Donpat]

You are so right when you say you don't deserve to be treated that way. Nobody does ever. And I'm so sorry you have had to deal with such unpleasantness. I have picked up on your kind, caring, and considerate nature. Focus on that. By the way, your post has done nothing but make you more desirable in my mind. Your photos, your description, your ad narrative, your posts - it all adds up to my thinking, "Man alive, I have to find a way to meet this guy!" Truthfully, you seem to hit every button I have. Be strong, and remember - this too shall pass. I'll look forward to getting to know you better.

[mike carey]

Brian, do not go back to him, he may have made a mistake but it is one that is so big that you can't paper over it. No matter how much you had agreed in e-mails and chat, what he did face-to-face cancels all that out. I wish I could hug you now (but that would entail you trusting someone else).

[mattr]

Your client was clearly a conflicted person who had a bout of self-loathing when the reality of what happened in the room sank in and he took it out on you. I am not saying this to in any way excuse him for assaulting you but just so that you know this was about him, not you.

[seaboy4hire]

Always listen to the lil voice in your head. ALWAYS! Intuition is real and it's what keeps many of alive and going. If you know any working guys traveling where your at or local guys in the area let them know about this scum. He could do far worse to someone else. Fuck keeping his identity under wraps. Expose his ass! Also if it doesn't get you in trouble maybe file a police report just in case he decides to come back.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[tyro]

BriBri, I WUV you!!!!!!!!

And so do many of us here.

We are sending you positive energy and spare angels. (I keep a legion on retainer and they have received the memo.)

Healing to you, sweet man.

T

[Brian Kevin]

Always listen to the lil voice in your head. ALWAYS! Intuition is real and it's what keeps many of alive and going. If you know any working guys traveling where your at or local guys in the area let them know about this scum. He could do far worse to someone else. Fuck keeping his identity under wraps. Expose his ass! Also if it doesn't get you in trouble maybe file a police report just in case he decides to come back.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

Bitch, I'm no longer calling you, I called you RIGHT after I got in my room. the one time I REALLY needed you :'(

 

You are so right when you say you don't deserve to be treated that way. Nobody does ever. And I'm so sorry you have had to deal with such unpleasantness. I have picked up on your kind, caring, and considerate nature. Focus on that. By the way, your post has done nothing but make you more desirable in my mind. Your photos, your description, your ad narrative, your posts - it all adds up to my thinking, "Man alive, I have to find a way to meet this guy!" Truthfully, you seem to hit every button I have. Be strong, and remember - this too shall pass. I'll look forward to getting to know you better.

 

 

Thank you so much, this made my heart spunk up a bit, i also finally laughed, I was in the shower twerking and fell-- my hand landed in the (clean) toilet ! I hope we do meet one day very soon babe

 

Brian, do not go back to him, he may have made a mistake but it is one that is so big that you can't paper over it. No matter how much you had agreed in e-mails and chat, what he did face-to-face cancels all that out. I wish I could hug you now (but that would entail you trusting someone else).

 

I would hug all of you I love ya Mike (wait for it..........)

BriBri, I WUV you!!!!!!!!

And so do many of us here.

We are sending you positive energy and spare angels. (I keep a legion on retainer and they have received the memo.)

Healing to you, sweet man.

T

 

 

I love ya too T! Lets get Melt-- IF (I will because I miss @Steve yabsley ) I go back (We all know I will)

 

 

 

P:S: I worried this post would turn-alot of you guys off-- But I figured it would be best to share this event with you guys, helps to get others aspects. Once he cracked the small dick joke, I was DONE I should of asked him to leave right then and there-- but me being the welcome mat I am.

 

If he didn't cum (holding my head down on his dick so I had to taste his fucking cum, once i realized why he was pushing my head down I jerked my whole body off the bed, I am fat, yes but I have just as many if not more muscles than most guys,they're just being kept warm under layers of melt[look my jokes are back too!!]) then I wouldn't of even wanted a fucking dollar. BUT SINCE HE JUST HAD TO CUM, I just HAD TO COLLECT MY FEE if wasn't interested in ME, I would of happliy let him leave with out saying anything else. He was kissing my body, dick, tits and feet, SO I DONT THINK THIS WAS THE CASE.

[+ glennnn]

Ditto,ditto, ditto! What everyone else wrote! I have come to know and love you through our interaction on the forum and through reading and observing you here. I watch for you on here the way a close friend watches for his buddy to come strolling around the corner. I, and all of us, would be poorer without your wit and heart. The world can be a dark place, but I promise you will feel better later.

[jawjateck]

So sorry to read about your experience. The guy's a scumbag, and you're right about karma; one day, he will pull that shit with the wrong person, but it will be too late when he realizes what a dumbass he is.

 

I hope you take the time you need to process what happened. Take a vacation. Time for you, although given your disposition displayed here, I fully expect you to rise from bed tomorrow with a resolute sense of what's next and what's right for you. Well wishes and have a good run today.

[jackjackjack]

Brian, Don't answer his calls, don't answer his texts, totally ignore him. . And don't let ass holes like him screw with your mind. Don't trust him, no matter what he says. Brian, dear boy, you are strong, you'll be just fine. Hugs

[Brian Kevin]

Ditto,ditto, ditto! What everyone else wrote! I have come to know and love you through our interaction on the forum and through reading and observing you here. I watch for you on here the way a close friend watches for his buddy to come strolling around the corner. I, and all of us, would be poorer without your wit and heart. The world can be a dark place, but I promise you will feel better later.

 

 

Thanks Glenn! I can't wait for Palm Springs, that's one thing keeping my level headed, I may skip the DC event as it may cause un-needed stress on my life right now. I was doing soooo good being drama and stress free, now this just hit me like a bag of rocks!

 

So sorry to read about your experience. The guy's a scumbag, and you're right about karma; one day, he will pull that shit with the wrong person, but it will be too late when he realizes what a dumbass he is.

 

I hope you take the time you need to process what happened. Take a vacation. Time for you, although given your disposition displayed here, I fully expect you to rise from bed tomorrow with a resolute sense of what's next and what's right for you. Well wishes and have a good run today.

 

The MOST fucked up part this is my vacation!!!!!!!!!!!!! I planned to spend Christmas here with my mom and dad and new years in Daytona Beach with my sorority sister/room mate form college !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is just more ammo for me to get fucking WASTED on the beach, meanwhile he will be in Grenesboro. NC doing the same shit every day. He will NEVER be DaddyReview material. FUCKING EVER!

[mike carey]

Brian, I understand wanting to get wasted, and at times that is what I would do, but that is not necessary. Don't see getting wasted as the answer.

[Brian Kevin]

Brian, Don't answer his calls, don't answer his texts, totally ignore him. . And don't let ass holes like him screw with your mind. Don't trust him, no matter what he says.

 

I have added him to my blocked list, I also blocked all Private and "blocked" calls from my cell phone. So he has no way of contacting me, unless he tries his home phone I don't think he would be that dumb though, as many cell apps will charge you $$$$ for addresses, but this may be a good way to scare the SHIT out of him if he doesn't stop! each time he calls my phone blocking noise is a man and women laughing, its annoying buts its fucking hallrious to know he got sent to my voicemail on the first ring and having the personal satisfaction of hearing the voices laugh are making me smirk.

 

I am also going to make a donation to the ASPCA for the price of the hour he booked, I'm going to make a 175$ donation to them, to get HIS money out of my pocket.

 

The worst part of this session is, he had displaced testicles (they're in his abdomen, and due to him not getting surgery, they have found their way to his belly button) he was embarssed about this, but i assured him that I did not mind (having cysts removed from my testicles and a cancerous cyst removed from my prostate) I know how painful these things can be. after any type of surgery you run the risk of a displaced testicle (unless they secrure to testicle via a "tube like string" that will act as an anchor. It was crazy how much I could relate to him and how poorly he could treat me. He was in his late 60s too. Thats the best fucking part.

[Brian Kevin]

Brian, I understand wanting to get wasted, and at times that is what I would do, but that is not necessary. Don't see getting wasted as the answer.

 

No getting wasted now, getting wasted on the 31st on the beach with a bomb fire near Daytona Beach, I'm buying a half gallon of Crown Royal for myself. LOL

[tyro]

A BONfire, maybe...but no bomb fires, boo.

T

[maninsoma]

I echo all of the others' sympathy. No one deserves to be treated like that.

 

I'm a bit confused by part of your story. Do I understand correctly that YOU paid for a hotel room somewhere for the session? I'd suggest that in the future, if you cannot do incalls then the client needs to rent a hotel room or have you come to his place. And if he is too far away (and, personally, a 2 1/2 hour drive to see an escort for an hour or two seems too far to me), then I'd suggest that he needs to rent a room closer to you if you cannot do in calls. Having such a policy might result in some lost bookings, but it doesn't make sense to me that an escort should rent a hotel room for the night for a (a) new client who (b) may not even show up or © might try to stiff you or underpay you.

[+ glennnn]

On behalf of all older guys and guys with disabilities, I apologize for this schmuck! I love th e fact that although nearly 50 years separate us, you, classy, sweet, sexy you treat me as an equal. Thank you. Your value is noted and appreciated.

[big-n-tall]

Like everyone else, I'm sorry this happened to you. Trust me getting wasted is a temporary fix if this has hurt you deeply. However, you're an adult and I don't know you well enough to tell you what to do.

 

I'm a pretty laid back guy, but there are times that I get pissed off and absolutely no one will be allowed to walk all over me. I understand you had a violent pass, but don't let the fear of it returning be the reason for being timid or allowing something like this to ever happen again. You can be strong and non aggressive. You can be angry without the violence. We have emotions for a reason. Sometimes the negative emotions can be used constructively.

 

I might be getting my point across inartfully (is that even a word? Lol!). Just know you have a lot of support. Big warm hug from a fellow big guy.

[Zman]

OMG what an asshole.

[+ Keith30309]

Damn Brian - that's terrible! Just remember that he's the one with the problem - the douche who has to own what he did - and you are the good guy who was treated unjustly. I'd encourage you to go for a run on the beach, or, better, a polar bear swim and clear your mind and straighten-out the thoughts around what happened.

 

A good meal and hot, soaking bath after a cold swim will make you feel great (and allot better than bottle of Crown in the morning).

 

Living well is the best revenge!