Just got spit on, disrespected and hit by a client.

[Guest]

The worst part of this session is, he had displaced testicles (they're in his abdomen, and due to him not getting surgery, they have found their way to his belly button) he was embarrassed about this, but i assured him that I did not mind (having cysts removed from my testicles and a cancerous cyst removed from my prostate) I know how painful these things can be. after any type of surgery you run the risk of a displaced testicle (unless they secrure to testicle via a "tube like string" that will act as an anchor. It was crazy how much I could relate to him and how poorly he could treat me. He was in his late 60s too. That's the best fucking part.

 

Bitch, I'm no longer calling you, I called you RIGHT after I got in my room. the one time I REALLY needed you :'(

 

I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope the "Bitch" response was a joke. From a medical standpoint, any testicle which hasn't come down into the scrotum (surgically or by itself) by puberty needs to be removed because it has a high risk of cancer. Cysts, however, do NOT need to be removed and do NOT present a cancer risk (the exception being some types of "complex" cysts--which aren't just cysts). There is no such thing as a cancerous cyst of the prostate. Autopsy studies from men of all ages in the US for those who've died for other reasons show that the risk of having a prostate cancer (not a cyst) equals the man's age, and this is even true in the 20s. The vast majority of these are of no consequence. Whoever operated on your cysts sounds like he was probably a charlatan. I hope you weren't harmed from the procedures.

[Brian Kevin]

I echo all of the others' sympathy. No one deserves to be treated like that.

 

I'm a bit confused by part of your story. Do I understand correctly that YOU paid for a hotel room somewhere for the session? I'd suggest that in the future, if you cannot do incalls then the client needs to rent a hotel room or have you come to his place. And if he is too far away (and, personally, a 2 1/2 hour drive to see an escort for an hour or two seems too far to me), then I'd suggest that he needs to rent a room closer to you if you cannot do in calls. Having such a policy might result in some lost bookings, but it doesn't make sense to me that an escort should rent a hotel room for the night for a (a) new client who (b) may not even show up or © might try to stiff you or underpay you.

 

Thanks, typically I tell the client to book a hotel, but as I was with my parents, I just wanted to get dropped off and picked up later, SO i tried being a nice guy by just booking the room myself. He lives too far away for me to consider traveling to him. I usually travel and stay at a hotel in a downtown area, but since i was on vacation with family for xmass-- things turned out like this. Thanks for the words of wisdom and the tips!!

 

On behalf of all older guys and guys with disabilities, I apologize for this schmuck! I love th e fact that although nearly 50 years separate us, you, classy, sweet, sexy you treat me as an equal. Thank you. Your value is noted and appreciated.

 

I still love my older guys the most!!!!!!!!!!!! Disabilities do not scare me! I was a CNA and MA while in college for my LMT! Love ya!!!! You're value is noted and APPRECIATED as well.

 

Like everyone else, I'm sorry this happened to you. Trust me getting wasted is a temporary fix if this has hurt you deeply. However, you're an adult and I don't know you well enough to tell you what to do.

 

I'm a pretty laid back guy, but there are times that I get pissed off and absolutely no one will be allowed to walk all over me. I understand you had a violent pass, but don't let the fear of it returning be the reason for being timid or allowing something like this to ever happen again. You can be strong and non aggressive. You can be angry without the violence. We have emotions for a reason. Sometimes the negative emotions can be used constructively.

 

I might be getting my point across inartfully (is that even a word? Lol!). Just know you have a lot of support. Big warm hug from a fellow big guy.

 

Hey sexy, what a great response ! I really do, you indeed, inartfully you did explain your point very well and I understand what you're saying ! I promise I'm not over here getting drunk or anything right now, I'm waitiing until New Years Eve to get wasted, so its to celebrate and not to mope!!!! It means so much that you're willing to support me ! I LOVE BIG GUYS TOO

OMG what an asshole.

 

asshole is an understatement babe.

Damn Brian - that's terrible! Just remember that he's the one with the problem - the douche who has to own what he did - and you are the good guy who was treated unjustly. I'd encourage you to go for a run on the beach, or, better, a polar bear swim and clear your mind and straighten-out the thoughts around what happened.

 

A good meal and hot, soaking bath after a cold swim will make you feel great (and allot better than bottle of Crown in the morning).

 

Living well is the best revenge!

 

 

Thanks Keith, you're one of my favorites! I really appreciate everything you have to say! I indeed will be running a long way on the beach !!

[Brian Kevin]

I hope the "Bitch" response was a joke.

 

Yes me and Greg text regularly and have formed a nice relationship with him, sorry I rubbed you the wrong way calling @seaboy4hire a Bitch, I hope I did not offend you friend......

 

The vast majority of these are of no consequence. Whoever operated on your cysts sounds like he was probably a charlatan. I hope you weren't harmed from the procedures.

 

I had 2 fallow up surgeries and the second set of stitches (there are stitches on the inside and out-part of the scrotum, the outside stitches are the ones that ripped. They loaded me up on morphine and 3o M.G. percs [90 of them]) The urologist is not longer practicing in MA any longer..... I still can't jump from high heights due to that complications. Running is A-OK now

[seaboy4hire]

Yes me and Greg text regularly and have formed a nice relationship with him, sorry I rubbed you the wrong way calling @seaboy4hire a Bitch, I hope I did not offend you friend......

 

 

 

I had 2 fallow up surgeries and the second set of stitches (there are stitches on the inside and out-part of the scrotum, the outside stitches are the ones that ripped. They loaded me up on morphine and 3o M.G. percs [90 of them]) The urologist is not longer practicing in MA any longer..... I still can't jump from high heights due to that complications. Running is A-OK now

 

I can be a bitch at times and no offence taken lol. I'll just make you treat me to Melts or some other Cleveland yummy spot to make it up to me.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Guest]

The urologist is not longer practicing in MA any longer..... I still can't jump from high heights due to that complications. Running is A-OK now

 

Gaack. If he still has a license to practice medicine, you may want to file a complaint with the state medical board. Depending on how long ago this was, you might even have a malpractice case (which, if this hasn't exceeded the statute of limitations, you could pursue even if he no longer has a license; most doctors carry "tail" coverage after they stop practicing). There is no reason to remove cysts. Cysts are not dangerous, but removing them can be.

[Brian Kevin]

Gaack. If he still has a license to practice medicine, you may want to file a complaint with the state medical board. Depending on how long ago this was, you might even have a malpractice case (which, if this hasn't exceeded the statute of limitations, you could pursue even if he no longer has a license; most doctors carry "tail" coverage after they stop practicing). There is no reason to remove cysts. Cysts are not dangerous, but removing them can be.

 

The biggest concern was that they were mutating they found high levels in blood work but didn't know about the prostate until after the first testicle surgery. It's just a messy situation I am glad is over.

[+ WilliamM]

Brian, you are getting an enormous amount of support, and it's not just because you are very attractive. Many people here like you, myself included, because you are sincere and come across as a very nice guy.

 

I understand it does not help right now. At least you know that people here care about you a lot

[down_to_business]

If you don't mind support from one of the most hated members on the forums who dared to comment on the emperor's new clothes... sending it your way.

 

[RadioRob]

I echo the thoughts others have expressed so far.

• It's bullshit that you were treated this way. NO ONE deserves to be treated like that.
  
• I'm very glad you're SAFE. It could possibly have turned out much worse if he was that screwed up in the head to pull a trick like that.
  

With that being said, I'll add a thought of my own. You made reference to him calling you fat and even referred to yourself in that way. I'm sorry, but I disagree there. I know we have not met, but from what I can see from your pictures you are certainly not fat. Yes, you're not a tiny little twink, but by no means are you the exact opposite. You are who you are and the fact you don't fit into some specific little mold is awesome.

 

At the end of the day, you have people who find you desirable both in terms of looks and personality that they choose to not only spend time with you, but PAY YOU for your time. Please don't let one fucked up nut job get to you. He ruined the time you had together, but he should not be entitled to anything more. Do what you want to do because you enjoy it and it's going to bring YOU happiness. If that bottle of Crown makes you happy, so be it... just don't let it be a tool to "help you forget". That can lead to other self destructive activities and regret the next day.

 

Keep your head held up high because you have a lot more going for you than he does.

 

Happy holidays.

[bigvalboy]

Lots of great advice...not much that I can add except to say that perhaps one of the best things you can do is go take a good look at yourself in the mirror. Give that man starring back at you a little wink, hold your head up, look back at yourself for a second and say "fuckem, he'll get his" and head out the door. Focus on all the good that are in your life right now, like your family and friends and the support from the forum. You're only a victim if you allow yourself to be one. Sending you positive energy from somewhere below the Mason-Dixon Line...

[BabyBoomer]

• You made reference to him calling you fat and even referred to yourself in that way. I'm sorry, but I disagree there. I know we have not met, but from what I can see from your pictures you are certainly not fat

• 
  

+1. You're not fat.

 

~ Boomer ~

 

 

[Floyd_Taylor]

Brian -- you don't know me and slowly I'm learning the players here. I'm "new" here. Not really but I've been gone a long time. And like you, I'm using my real name and picture -- no hiding behind a screen name. So you can take my comments as you will. But I've been around the hiring game for quite a few years. And it's disgusting what happened to you. You handled yourself about as well as could be expected. I've gotten that call from a relatively new escort when a client took advantage of them, when the client walked out of the room without paying saying they never would after a multiple hour hire. So I've heard the tears you shed before and I know you handled this ugly situation about as well as you could have. I know hearing "you done good" isn't much comfort, but it really is something.

 

But two things for you to think about. One, don't skip the DC luncheon because it may the one place you most need to be right about now. Surrounded by people who understand. Other escorts in the business and clients who have been there. Think about that.

 

And two, and more importantly. In an event like that, try to get hold of Daddy (and no I'm not THAT daddy I'm A daddy). Send him a message. I've seen that man jump tall buildings in a single bound for his guys when they are in trouble. From former partners extorting them to situations similar to this. Reach out to him now to find out how to get hold of him quickly if you need to in case of a real emergency.

 

Good luck. Hang in there, cause obviously a lot of people care about you here.

[+ friendofsheila]

I'm sorry you got hurt, Brian.

 

It's a shame someone took this out on you, someone who was giving him what he asked for, and more.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I am very sorry for the bad experience. What a crazy motherfucker. Save it in your bag of learned lessons and remember not to take it personally. I am surprised that with your years in the craft you did not have similar experiences before. I guess luck is over. Be careful and if something like this happens again, do tot get so emotional. Quickly move on and enjoy the good things of life.

[+ WmClarke]

Sorry this happened to you, Brian. Stay strong!

[+ Truereview]

BK, I read this very briefly. Got my own drama going on, but nothing like this. Giving you. A kiss, a hug, and a reminder that you are LOVED by us

[Guy Fawkes]

I just wanted to point out the verbal picture here:

 

A 6'6", Bare Ass Naked, Blond Hair, Blue eyed, Red faced Viking shouting "Stop Thief" in a hallway then having to be let back into his room.

 

As much as you have all my condolences, that's something I would've paid money to see. Well done, my child, very well done.

[MikeyGMin]

Brian, like everyone else, I'm horrified that this happened to you and send you love and support.

 

The part that struck me hardest was the physical violence and the fact that you felt threatened and unsafe. There are always going to be disrespectful assholes but your physical safety absolutely has to come first. I hope some of the escorts here will send you PM's with thoughts and strategies on that topic. I'm not suggesting you carry a weapon and make a bad situation worse, but your safety has to come first. There has to be an extra precaution you can take to be ready to protect yourself.

[seaboy4hire]

Brian -- you don't know me and slowly I'm learning the players here. I'm "new" here. Not really but I've been gone a long time. And like you, I'm using my real name and picture -- no hiding behind a screen name. So you can take my comments as you will. But I've been around the hiring game for quite a few years. And it's disgusting what happened to you. You handled yourself about as well as could be expected. I've gotten that call from a relatively new escort when a client took advantage of them, when the client walked out of the room without paying saying they never would after a multiple hour hire. So I've heard the tears you shed before and I know you handled this ugly situation about as well as you could have. I know hearing "you done good" isn't much comfort, but it really is something.

 

But two things for you to think about. One, don't skip the DC luncheon because it may the one place you most need to be right about now. Surrounded by people who understand. Other escorts in the business and clients who have been there. Think about that.

 

And two, and more importantly. In an event like that, try to get hold of Daddy (and no I'm not THAT daddy I'm A daddy). Send him a message. I've seen that man jump tall buildings in a single bound for his guys when they are in trouble. From former partners extorting them to situations similar to this. Reach out to him now to find out how to get hold of him quickly if you need to in case of a real emergency.

 

Good luck. Hang in there, cause obviously a lot of people care about you here.

 

I second what Floyd says about having Daddy's contact info. I've hung out with him a couple times and he is a wealth of info and he does genuinely care about us, both client and escorts. He'll be blunt with you and anyone else but it's because he cares and wants to see us all be safe and be the best we can be. So next time your in Vegas get a hold of him and chat him up in person in the flesh. It'll be time well spent.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Brian Kevin]

I second what Floyd says about having Daddy's contact info. I've hung out with him a couple times and he is a wealth of info and he does genuinely care about us, both client and escorts. He'll be blunt with you and anyone else but it's because he cares and wants to see us all be safe and be the best we can be. So next time your in Vegas get a hold of him and chat him up in person in the flesh. It'll be time well spent.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

11:11 make a wish.

 

I'm 100% after a long chat with a couple people. I'm stable on my size 13 feet.

 

Thanks everyone for everything. looking back I wanna offer 3 things.

 

1. Love yourself.

 

2. stand up for yourself.

 

3. Let this thread die and be a lesson on self respect. Having been doing this since i was 19 never once has some shit like this happened. I'm well prepared for the next fuck up.

 

In closing of this thread. I decided to donate the money to help dogs like him everywhere. I'd like to thank the ASPCA for accepting my donation of 175$.

 

The end.