WHEN will rich older guys learn???????

[Tonyko]

From Calvin Klein on down, a straight G4P pornstar BF is NEVER A GOOD IDEA. They are going against their nature and are with you for ONE reason only and are usually full of self-loathing for it and will eventually loath YOU (as will the GF's they all have) then either embarrass you or worse rob or extort you or WORSE kill you to get their hand$$ on the one thing they are with you for. Fool around with them fullfill your fantasy but DON'T make them your partner it NEVER works:eek:.

*the deets of the handwritten "will" have not yet come out, it simply says "convinced" him to make him his heir, but wouldn't be surprised if it was at knifepoint:(

 

http://str8upgayporn.com/mario-romo-murder-david-meza-gay-porn-star/

[big-n-tall]

From Calvin Klein on down, a straight G4P pornstar BF is NEVER A GOOD IDEA. They are going against their nature and are with you for ONE reason only and are usually full of self-loathing for it and will eventually loath YOU (as will the GF's they all have) then either embarrass you or worse rob or extort you or WORSE kill you to get their hand$$ on the one thing they are with you for. Fool around with them fullfill your fantasy but DON'T make them your partner it NEVER works:eek:.

*the deets of the handwritten "will" have not yet come out, it simply says "convinced" him to make him his heir, but wouldn't be surprised if it was at knifepoint:(

 

http://str8upgayporn.com/mario-romo-murder-david-meza-gay-porn-star/

 

I posted about this earlier. Sad occurrence.

[maninsoma]

I don't understand going for gay for pay in general, but for the sake of argument I will write that I don't think it's fair to put all G4P pornstars in the same boat as someone accused of murder. It's also quite possible that someone could be murdered by a "kept boy" who is gay, and while I don't think anyone is going to find true love and devotion from a guy who identifies as straight, I assume that most of the time the straight guys just take what they can get and then move on. It takes a special kind of evil to purposefully kill someone hoping to inherit all of his assets.

[+ Gar1eth]

I don't understand going for gay for pay in general, but for the sake of argument I will write that I don't think it's fair to put all G4P pornstars in the same boat as someone accused of murder. It's also quite possible that someone could be murdered by a "kept boy" who is gay, and while I don't think anyone is going to find true love and devotion from a guy who identifies as straight, I assume that most of the time the straight guys just take what they can get and then move on. It takes a special kind of evil to purposefully kill someone hoping to inherit all of his assets.

 

 

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_Cunanan

 

Gman

[Tonyko]

I don't understand going for gay for pay in general, but for the sake of argument I will write that I don't think it's fair to put all G4P pornstars in the same boat as someone accused of murder. .

I didn't do that (I don't think ) I was addressing the wealthy men who take them on as lovers/partners/etc and the boys who enter INTO those one on one relationships with them. (like the stripper and the NYC Priest of late Yes of course even a GAY boy can do these things to his rich older partner but to me its even MORE delusional on the parts of these older men when they know the boy is in reality Str8 :-)

[marylander1940]

From Calvin Klein on down, a straight G4P pornstar BF is NEVER A GOOD IDEA. They are going against their nature and are with you for ONE reason only and are usually full of self-loathing for it and will eventually loath YOU (as will the GF's they all have) then either embarrass you or worse rob or extort you or WORSE kill you to get their hand$$ on the one thing they are with you for. Fool around with them fullfill your fantasy but DON'T make them your partner it NEVER works:eek:.

*the deets of the handwritten "will" have not yet come out, it simply says "convinced" him to make him his heir, but wouldn't be surprised if it was at knifepoint:(

 

http://str8upgayporn.com/mario-romo-murder-david-meza-gay-porn-star/

 

they can't stop dreaming of a Blue Prince

 

http://www.funfancydress.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/1200x/040ec09b1e35df139433887a97daa66f/S/A/SANC_3547_c.jpg

 

but this is what they get...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timothy_J._Boham

 

http://www.queerty.com/ex-sean-cody-model-jason-andrews-gets-life-sentence-for-2010-murder-20120206

 

All this stories make Jarec Wentworth look like an angel... LOL

 

I just hire escorts, that's all, keep it simple. I can't afford a kept boy/man but they always turn into the hand that fed them for a long time because they "deserve" more...

 

http://media.giphy.com/media/tQmOSxv53Xnb2/giphy.gif

 

 

http://theredlist.com/media/database/films/cinema/2010/behind-the-candelabra/003-behind-the-candelabra-theredlist.jpg

Edited December 26, 2015 by marylander1940

[MrMiniver]

I suppose it just boils down to "the dick wants what the dick wants."

[Tonyko]

The "Will" *this article says it was scribbled MONTHS before they killed him (I assumed it was right before and under some threat or force) WTF was this man thinking??? You think he did it to placate knowing it would not be binding?? Either way is THAT not THE reddest of red flags????? According to these new deets re what he told hotel staffers at 1am - going to help a stranded friend - the boy prolly lured him to the spot by calling and saying he'd broken down.

 

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3373803/PICTURED-scribbled-hotel-notepad-leaving-Texas-retiree-s-vast-fortune-gay-porn-star-lover-just-months-girlfriend-murdered-millionaire.html

[Brian Kevin]

This is a truly unfortunate event that saddens me deeply. I am sorry for the loss of a wonderful man, I am sorry that this story even took place, it is sad when anyone dies or is murdered. I hope everyone takes steps to protect them selves and that this can be a very unfortunate learning experience for alot of people. I will pray for all parties involved and I would like to personally vow to NEVER part take in ANY type of events like this.

[caliguy]

From Calvin Klein on down, a straight G4P pornstar BF is NEVER A GOOD IDEA. They are going against their nature and are with you for ONE reason only and are usually full of self-loathing for it and will eventually loath YOU (as will the GF's they all have) then either embarrass you or worse rob or extort you or WORSE kill you to get their hand$$ on the one thing they are with you for. Fool around with them fullfill your fantasy but DON'T make them your partner it NEVER works:eek:.

*the deets of the handwritten "will" have not yet come out, it simply says "convinced" him to make him his heir, but wouldn't be surprised if it was at knifepoint:(

 

http://str8upgayporn.com/mario-romo-murder-david-meza-gay-porn-star/

Reminds me of these two love birds. How is it that anyone could partner with someone that's disgusted by you and probably themselves is beyond me. Clearly there's signs but hey you get to be with that hottie.

 

I don't pray or find sympathy for any of them either. It's just dumb.

Edited December 29, 2015 by caliguy

[marylander1940]

Reminds me of these two love birds. How is it that anyone could partner with someone that's disgusted by you and probably themselves is beyond me. Clearly there's signs but hey you get to be with that hottie.

 

I don't pray or find sympathy for any of them either. It's just dumb.

 

I guess that's called work ethic on gold digging!

 

I know a lot of handsome guys who just don't have the stomach to have sex for money with older men like us, I used to be one of them. I remember seeing old guys at the gym's locker room and be so disgusted by them. Now I'm 75 and I'm glad there are "Gods of mercy" who can do me. LOL

[rvwnsd]

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_Cunanan

 

Gman

Andrew Cunanan certainly possessed a special kind of evil, but his case was a little different than the others mentioned in this thread. Aside from his first victim- a friend in Minneapolis- Cunanan didn't know any of the people he killed.

[Tonyko]

Reminds me of these two love birds. How is it that anyone could partner with someone that's disgusted by you and probably themselves is beyond me. Clearly there's signs but hey you get to be with that hottie.

 

I don't pray or find sympathy for any of them either. It's just dumb.

Showing my ignorance here Who are these two???

PS years ago when I was living in LA a wealthy 75yo guy (with a 34yo live-in BF) was murdered everyone in the industry knew him he owned an old movie house that played classic silent films w live accompanyment was a fun thang to go to lotta huge celebs even went, was gunned down right in the lobby during a screening. The BF had an air-tight alibi, (he was elsewhere with MANY witnessess - HE was the projectionist RUNNING the film at the time Soon as the story broke I said to myself alibi/schmalibi HE did it. (he did, thru a hired gun) Also turned out he was an ex hustler w a record.

Aint saying every boy with a rich Dad/Grandad will kill him lol, BUT taking one into your life as a full time partner is just so delusional and foolish and will almost ALWAYS bite you in the ass via extortion or palimony suits ala Rock Hudson Liberace Merv Griffin etc etc etc and letting one into your FINANCIALS (as this man did) or worse, making them you HEIR is just plain dumb:eek:I have MANY older friends, restauranteurs, Dr's, industry big wigs, who each have a "boy" they see but they keep it real, see him when the mood strikes, hand him a wad of cash, "occasionally" take him on their Holiday etc, it's casually beneficial for both and THAZ it

[caliguy]

Showing my ignorance here Who are these two???

PS years ago when I was living in LA a wealthy 75yo guy (with a 34yo live-in BF) was murdered everyone in the industry knew him he owned an old movie house that played classic silent films w live accompanyment was a fun thang to go to lotta huge celebs even went, was gunned down right in the lobby during a screening. The BF had an air-tight alibi, (he was elsewhere with MANY witnessess - HE was the projectionist RUNNING the film at the time Soon as the story broke I said to myself alibi/schmalibi HE did it. (he did, thru a hired gun) Also turned out he was an ex hustler w a record.

Aint saying every boy with a rich Dad/Grandad will kill him lol, BUT taking one into your life as a full time partner is just so delusional and foolish and will almost ALWAYS bite you in the ass via extortion or palimony suits ala Rock Hudson Liberace Merv Griffin etc etc etc and letting one into your FINANCIALS (as this man did) or worse, making them you HEIR is just plain dumb:eek:I have MANY older friends, restauranteurs, Dr's, industry big wigs, who each have a "boy" they see but they keep it real, see him when the mood strikes, hand him a wad of cash, "occasionally" take him on their Holiday etc, it's casually beneficial for both and THAZ it

Happened a few years ago. Interestingly, the guy castrated him too. That's a special kind of statement.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/model-renato-seabra-accused-killer-castration-slay-journalist-lover-carlos-castro-court-article-1.137697

[caliguy]

I guess that's called work ethic on gold digging!

 

I know a lot of handsome guys who just don't have the stomach to have sex for money with older men like us, I used to be one of them. I remember seeing old guys at the gym's locker room and be so disgusted by them. Now I'm 75 and I'm glad there are "Gods of mercy" who can do me. LOL

I hear you. I would've been disgusted myself in my twenties. However, getting older has brought a different understanding and appreciation for experience too.

 

Twenties it's going to be strictly about he cash unless it's a fetish. After that most men change and acceptance and appreciate men of all ages. Ha. That sounds like BS. Might just be me and wishing gay men were better then they really are. Lol

Edited December 29, 2015 by caliguy

[marylander1940]

I hear you. I would've been disgusted myself in my twenties. However, getting older has brought a different understanding and appreciation for experience too.

 

Twenties it's going to be strictly about he cash unless it's a fetish. After that most men change and acceptance and appreciate men of all ages. Ha. That sounds like BS. Might just be me. Lol

 

I'm 75... 90% of men are younger than me now, LOL

[Tonyko]

Happened a few years ago. Interestingly, the guy castrated him too. That's a special kind of statement.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/model-renato-seabra-accused-killer-castration-slay-journalist-lover-carlos-castro-court-article-1.137697

OMG yes I totally remember this, didn't recognize them but tots remember when it happened here.

[jimboivyo]

it ain't just rich older men

 

guys in general are idiots when it comes to thinking with their dick

[Greg Smart]

This is so true. But don't always blame the young guy when things get ugly.

 

A few years ago I was swept up by an older man in New York who purposely threw massive amounts of money at me in order to "Make my life so expensive that I could never leave him" (his words, roughly). I had no idea what I was getting into. After he got me to fall in love with him and look forward to a future with him in my life, he abruptly cuts off all contact with me - all because of a petty lie that he could have come clean about MONTHS BEFORE and an entirely separate outcome would have occurred for both of us. For me, getting cut off wouldn't have been that big of a problem, but I was stuck with an expensive phone plan, cable and internet plans, health plan, etc... with huge monthly payments I couldn't cancel; plus memberships in New York City that had very steep exit costs that I got stuck with. The total cost of getting out of that lifestyle was staggering, like over $13k. I had to spend 2 years fixing that mess, and repeated attempts asking him for help were met with radio silence. An attorney I contacted said that if I went after him in court I would have to admit under oath that I accepted money in exchange for sex across state lines, which is a felony (I was on the west coast and he is on the east coast). That would've put both of us in jail. Him and I had exchanged a lot of damming emails and when I showed them to my lawyer he just shook his head. The statute of limitations on that hasn't run its corse.

 

The worst part were the accusations he made against me that I was milking him for his money. That was soul crushing, especially when I continued to tell him to stop throwing excessive money and gifts at me. I didn't know how to loudly I had to express to him that He Won, I'm in love with him! Something in his brain wouldn't allow him to believe it, or maybe he did believe it and was afraid or, in reality, didn't want it all together. Either way, wether he understands it or not, to leave me out in the cold like that was cruel; and to justify it by blaming it all on me was worse. What I was looking for and thought I was getting was an older, intelligent, experienced, self-made man who could be a mentor. He took advantage of that and what i really got was a habitual lying hypochondriac who wanted me as play toy. After my brain and emotions settled down, I realized that you can't reason with a careless person. Sometimes, you just get scammed.

 

Theres no articles about when this happens to the young guy. Its always the young guy scamming the old rich man. I wanted to shout "Outrage," but no one was going to feel bad for me- even with a trail of damming emails. Plus, I'm no slouch- I got my life back together in a hurry- it was just these 2 years fixing the damage he caused that were the worst (and I'm still fixing the collateral damage to an extent). But whenever I read a story about a G4P doing something to an old man, my first reaction will always be 'what did the old man do to him?' Having lived it my view of things skewed.

[bigvalboy]

I'm 75... 90% of men are younger than me now, LOL

 

+1...LOL

 

This how I imagine some of the guys are saying when I walk into the club.

 

 

[BtmBearDad]

don't always blame the young guy

 

I'd agree with that -- except when it comes to the younger guy killing the older guy like in this situation. I think that SeanCody model who got caught up in the Donald Burns mess got railroaded -- why wasn't Burns charged with transporting these guys across state lines and paying them for sex? Oh that's right, he has money and influence. Based on my own observations of "May-December" relationships I've come across, there have been a few where the older fellow with the money was clearly a control freak and viewed the younger guy as the trophy, the possession vs. as a partner. Sad.

[Tonyko]

I'd agree with that -- except when it comes to the younger guy killing the older guy like in this situation. I think that SeanCody model who got caught up in the Donald Burns mess got railroaded -- why wasn't Burns charged with transporting these guys across state lines and paying them for sex? Oh that's right, he has money and influence. Based on my own observations of "May-December" relationships I've come across, there have been a few where the older fellow with the money was clearly a control freak and viewed the younger guy as the trophy, the possession vs. as a partner. Sad.

Here's how "I" look at it re blame going both ways :-0 Yes, the older men are foolish. HOWEVER if you're YOUNG and HOT and you look across the room and simply SEE a man who's NEITHER whom you would NEVER get with, then SOMETHING else you learn about him like his wealth job position etc) makes you CHANGE your mind, whatever misfortune comes to you you ALSO asked for it

[+ José Soplanucas]

This is so true... whenever I read a story about a G4P doing something to an old man, my first reaction will always be 'what did the old man do to him?' Having lived it my view of things skewed.

Thanks for sharing your experience, I always appreciate knowing both sides of a story, as I am naturally empathic and believe that live is usually much more complicated than good vs bad. However murdering is beyond my empathy.

[MikeyGMin]

I agree Greg. Thank you. Life is messy and full of grey areas. Either party can be foolish, manipulative, naive, predatory or anything else. Young guys don't "deserve" to be hurt anymore than the older guys "deserve" to be taken advantage of.

[+ FreshFluff]

Here's how "I" look at it re blame going both ways :-0 Yes, the older men are foolish. HOWEVER if you're YOUNG and HOT and you look across the room and simply SEE a man who's NEITHER whom you would NEVER get with, then SOMETHING else you learn about him like his wealth job position etc) makes you CHANGE your mind, whatever misfortune comes to you you ALSO asked for it

 

Why is attraction based on looks more valid than attraction that based on fame, status, power, or whatever?

 

They're two sides of the same coin. Sic transit gloria mundi.