Viagra...No but thank you

[+ purplekow]

I was recently with an escort who said to me: You are still so hard, how much Viagra did you use?

I have used Viagra in the past, as insurance and for piece of mind, but this time, I was not using it.

I said, this is all me and all you and he laughed in response and then gave a dismissive "Fine"

As I was hard and he was there, I tried not to be perturbed by this, but the rest of the session was not a dynamic as the beginning. Escorts, would you question a client about ED medication use? Clients, would you say yes if you had?

I know that Viagra and poppers are a bad combination, so I am assuming that "poppers" are not part of this equation.

[MagicTony]

I would never question... it doesn't matter... it's about having a good time and enjoying the moment. It's about playing and entering the fantasy.

[jawjateck]

Occasionally, my endurance is questioned as to chemical enhancement. It's just me. They smirk and don't believe my answer. I assume the question and doubts help sooth their feelings of _________.

[+ Truereview]

I would never question... it doesn't matter... it's about having a good time and enjoying the moment. It's about playing and entering the fantasy.

Hey Tony! Welcome to the forum! You come endorsed very nicely by one of the dearest guys in the forum. Just had to pause and acknowledge ya...plus flirt w ya a li'l

 

Viagra topic: bad question by escort. Slapping his hand. I've gotten really bad questions before and learning to understand that I can't control the intent, but I sure can manage the impact. Forgiving faux pas was very honorable of you PK. and giving him a chance to recover is good. If he puts his foot in his mouth again, let him know it.

 

PS - I'm honest to a fault, I would totally admit to having taken viagra...if you can't be honest w someone who is eating your ass or devouring your d!ck, who can you be honest with?

[bigvalboy]

I would never question... it doesn't matter... it's about having a good time and enjoying the moment. It's about playing and entering the fantasy.

 

That's exactly my response to the question. In addition, if a client is not hard, but still has a good time, then that's all that matters to me ... having a good time.

 

Cheers, Anton.

 

Thank you gentlemen for that. I'm old, so maintaining an erection is frankly a pain in the ass. Hate Viagra and all of it's siblings, so once in awhile caverject comes to the rescue, but more often than not, I do without. The good escorts understand and don't make a big deal out of it. Yes, Thank you TB, MD, KJ, and everyone else.

[+ quoththeraven]

Escort: "Wow, you're still so hard. I'm impressed. And flattered."

 

Client can admit to chemical enhancement, if true, or say "thank you" if untrue or if he doesn't feel like admitting it. Win-win!

 

(Not an assertion that I'm this poised in real life. I'm not.)

[+ honcho]

Having the question is not so awful, but the implicit lack of trust in the escorts response would make

me never-ever want to rehire.

 

I hope the escort in question reads the forum and understands the seriousness of his gaff.

[Rudynate]

I always rely on the assistance of cialis. Partners don't ask and I don't volunteer. Even though the cialis helps it to happen, my partner is still the catalyst.

[+ glennnn]

[QUOT;)..if you can't be honest w someone who is eating your ass or devouring your d!ck, who can you be honest with?

 

Go figure!!!! This was the essay question on my Ethics final in college in 1965! I included a demonstration section!

[+ glennnn]

Thank you gentlemen for that. I'm old, so maintaining an erection is frankly a pain in the ass. Hate Viagra and all of it's siblings, so once in awhile caverject comes to the rescue, but more often than not, I do without. The good escorts understand and don't make a big deal out of it. Yes, Thank you TB, MD, KJ, and everyone else.

 

I only cum sometimes, but no matter, ........especially if he does. Thanks for your honesty. Keeping it real in this forum is so important.

[+ Truereview]

[QUOT;)..if you can't be honest w someone who is eating your ass or devouring your d!ck, who can you be honest with?

Go figure!!!! This was the essay question on my Ethics final in college in 1965! I included a demonstration section!

Glennnn, multiple choice question for you: Did you demonstrate this with

A. the entire class

B. the professor

C. did you use yourself as the instrument for demonstration?

D. All of the above

 

Since it was 1965...I'm betting on choice "D"

[rocky]

I only cum sometimes, but no matter, ........especially if he does. Thanks for your honesty. Keeping it real in this forum is so important.

I agree with Glennn. As you reach more mature ages, OK so some may feel 61 is that mature but

I've been through a series of medical issues; I find more and more that the "erectness" and

culmination of being together I more enjoy my partner be it an escort, street walker,

someone from Adam4Adam, to be the one to explode and me, if I do, I do.

[instudiocity]

Thank you gentlemen for that. I'm old, so maintaining an erection is frankly a pain in the ass. Hate Viagra and all of it's siblings, so once in awhile caverject comes to the rescue, but more often than not, I do without. The good escorts understand and don't make a big deal out of it. Yes, Thank you TB, MD, KJ, and everyone else.

And thanks BVB, I was wondering what to ask the doc for after he trimmed my testosterone injections.

[+ glennnn]

Glennnn, multiple choice question for you: Did you demonstrate this with

A. the entire class

B. the professor

C. did you use yourself as the instrument for demonstration?

D. All of the above

 

Since it was 1965...I'm betting on choice "D"

 

You guessed it!. It was a very small college with a tiny student body and there was only one other senior student, male, in the class, which we both needed for graduation. The prof was butch, the other guy was really helpful and cute and a three-way was the only ethical choice for the demo

-it fit within our personal codes of behavior

-it was fair to all concerned

-no harm resulted to individuals or society

-no coersion was practiced

-All individual needs were met

- it definitely promoted good relations

 

Quid erat demonstratum!

it was ethical and I passed.....in fact we all passed. When i crossed the podium to pick up my diploma, the prof winked at me/

[+ Funguy]

Instudiocity - just remember that Testosterone is for libido (desire) and viagra is for ED so one does not necessarily replace the other.

But why did the doc cut your Test injections? PM if you want.

[marylander1940]

I was recently with an escort who said to me: You are still so hard, how much Viagra did you use?

I have used Viagra in the past, as insurance and for piece of mind, but this time, I was not using it.

I said, this is all me and all you and he laughed in response and then gave a dismissive "Fine"

As I was hard and he was there, I tried not to be perturbed by this, but the rest of the session was not a dynamic as the beginning. Escorts, would you question a client about ED medication use? Clients, would you say yes if you had?

I know that Viagra and poppers are a bad combination, so I am assuming that "poppers" are not part of this equation.

 

Purplekow:

 

How old are you?

 

Are you in shape?

 

 

I'm 75, I've been using Viagra since 1998, and I'm very happy about it. I wish there was a pill to heal diseases like Cancer, Alzheimer,

diabetes, and obesity, but I'm glad scientist came up with a way to deal with a condition caused by age or insecurity called erectile dysfunction.

 

I guess money talks on the medicine field too.

 

Back to the subject, an escort must assume and certainly hope that a client is on Viagra and able to get a hard on in order not to have issues.

 

I recently had an encounter with a very handsome and sexy escort. We had a great time and as he was leaving he asked if I wanted to go out to dinner sometime. He then went on to say that he was gay but in the closet and he likes to socialize with other men who do not set off gaydar and most of his clients do.

I have spoken to several clients who have as a requirement that the escort be "masculine" and not appear to be gay.

Sexual turn-ons aside, is this a common consideration? I do prefer my escorts on the muscularly built side but

I have not hesitated to go out socially with escorts or clients and I have never given the gaydar aspect much consideration.

Comments.

 

Don't you think you're taking escorts reactions in a very personal way. It's a business, and some are good at it, some just hate doing it. Unless you develop a relationship with them similar to friendship I would bee more like Teflon

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/closeted-escorts-and-gaydar.108100/#post-1007377

[+ Truereview]

You guessed it!. It was a very small college with a tiny student body and there was only one other senior student, male, in the class, which we both needed for graduation. The prof was butch, the other guy was really helpful and cute and a three-way was the only ethical choice for the demo

-it fit within our personal codes of behavior

-it was fair to all concerned

-no harm resulted to individuals or society

-no coersion was practiced

-All individual needs were met

- it definitely promoted good relations

 

Quid erat demonstratum!

it was ethical and I passed.....in fact we all passed. When i crossed the podium to pick up my diploma, the prof winked at me/

Luv me some QED! Somehow I think you aced that course!

[+ purplekow]

Purplekow:

 

 

 

Don't you think you're taking escorts reactions in a very personal way. It's a business, and some are good at it, some just hate doing it. Unless you develop a relationship with them similar to friendship I would bee more like Teflon

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/closeted-escorts-and-gaydar.108100/#post-1007377

 

For me , sex with an escort is not an impersonal interaction which should be treated like every other business dealing, coldly, dispassionately and with a kill or be killed mentality. It is a profession and as with other professionals, I expect a high level of expertise and capability and respect.

Of course it was perturbing, not the question so much, which was unnecessary but perhaps intended as a sly comment meant to be a bit sexy, but the dismissive answer. While perturbed, I completed the business end of things but with less satisfaction than if the question had not been asked and the dismissive rejoinder offered. The business was done, the professional aspect was lacking. I will likely hire this escort again, because previous encounters were good, but I will mention to him that this past effort was less than stellar and why.

[+ nycman]

I tend to get very hard, and stay very hard for a long time even after I cum.

I've never tried Viagra, but wouldn't hesitate to if it added to the fun.

 

I've been asked several times by escorts if I was using Viagra. I just smile and

say "nope, this is just the way I'm built". Some act impressed others just laugh

at my little joke and we move on.

 

I'm guessing it was the dis-trustful "fine" that caused the problem. That comment

was unfortunate, but who among us hasn't expressed something in a less than perfect

way in the past?

 

Forgive the kid.

 

....or....

 

Fuck him even harder next time. Then take a Viagra in front of him,

and fuck him some more for a few more hours. Some boys just need

to be taught at lesson....grin

[marylander1940]

For me , sex with an escort is not an impersonal interaction which should be treated like every other business dealing, coldly, dispassionately and with a kill or be killed mentality. It is a profession and as with other professionals, I expect a high level of expertise and capability and respect.

Of course it was perturbing, not the question so much, which was unnecessary but perhaps intended as a sly comment meant to be a bit sexy, but the dismissive answer. While perturbed, I completed the business end of things but with less satisfaction than if the question had not been asked and the dismissive rejoinder offered. The business was done, the professional aspect was lacking. I will likely hire this escort again, because previous encounters were good, but I will mention to him that this past effort was less than stellar and why.

 

Do you think he was disrespectful because of not believing that time a man of your age was hard despite not using Viagra as usual?

 

You were "perturbed" by this? I'm sorry but I never imagined escorts had to watch every word they say, is like walking on egg shells.

[+ purplekow]

Do you think he was disrespectful because of not believing that time a man of your age was hard despite not using Viagra as usual?

 

You were "perturbed" by this? I'm sorry but I never imagined escorts had to watch every word they say, is like walking on egg shells.[/quote)

Clearly you use of hyperbole underlies with weakness of your argument. Your use of the incorrect data, (I never said I usually use Viagra only that I had) furthers your trying to provoke a disagreement with no intent to inform. I was perturbed by his dismissive response, not the question. You should know the difference as I am sure you are dismissed all the time. Merry Christmas.

[marylander1940]

 

one more time (closeted escort not interested to be seen having dinner with you because it will be obvious people will know he's gay, and and an escort, you hired before and will hire again, not believing you're not using Viagra that precise time) you are taking things in a very personal way.

 

I am sorry but sometimes you sound like mocha.

 

I always use viagra, am I less manly than you? If one day I am NOT using Viagra and someone doesn't believe me I wouldn't care because I know I am NOT using it.

One day an escort made it to my place 30 minutes earlier and I asked him to wait just to make sure the viagra pill was working on me.

 

Please read "the Old Man and the sea"

 

I could say Merry Christmas too, but I don't like to get into sarcasm about things like Xmas.